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ElectroLyte:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/tribuneonlineng.com/fuji-music-legend-wasiu-ajani-tekoye-dies-at-52/amp/

The legend in the title will. Make many people think you are referring to Kwam 1 cos many people don't know his full name.

Though I don't know this guy but I pray that God grants him eternal rest.

I wonder why many ladies are getting this twisted and derailing the thread. Nobody is promoting cheating.

The subject matter is about revenge cheating.

ken711 I guess you did not see this thread when it graced front page. Please read and comprehend.
https://www.nairaland.com/5775090/guys-please-stop-giving-money

ibkayee:
What exactly does a ‘natural ability to forgive’ her man mean? Are you saying we are biologically predisposed to forgiving a man for cheating than a man?

Women do not naturally feel any less hurt or naturally forgive any ‘easier’ than a man would. They do it because they’ve been raised to accept it, that’s all.

Lol Toks why are you always trying to convince women to accept trash behaviour? You are the type to specifically look for a partner with low self-esteem

You know how emotionally/psychologically traumatic it can be to get cheated on, but you want to use one lazy myth to justify why women can handle what you can’t.

Anywho, it’s not like Nigerian women don’t cheat, na today? They just don’t shamelessly act like it’s their birthright and are more coded

May ‘refurbished’ virgins, ‘under-reported’ body counts and uncertain paternities continue to fall on all of you

Can you do yourself a well as people reading this a great honor by discussing the subject matter? I no longer have strength for unwarranted deviation.

The subject matter is revenge cheating so please stay on that lane or just read comments. Thanks

Even a 6 Months old innocent child!

Grandamante:
0f course, she is not revenging to win rather to hurt him as deeply as he hurt her.

See Reasoning! Smh!

Grandamante:
Nope. A lady enjoying another prik is not demeaning neither does it reduce her self worth. Infact, one study like that concluded that revenge sex for a woman tends to be very exhilarating and wildly passionate. Angry emotions rather than happy emotions tend to bring out the animal instincts in a woman.


Since it affects men critically when their women cheat on them, then cheating on ur man becomes the best form of revenge. Ur man go suffer am past. He wants to call truce, u call truce. He wants to separate, u separate. He is not doing u a favor by dating or marrying u. What annoys me is crying like a baby abandoned in a ditch when he wants to separate. U want to do tough stuff, u ve got to toughen up.

One guy above said he would laugh and smoke over it with the said assistant boyfriend. LIES. Encourage one of ur friends to f@ck ur girlfriend or wife and we shall believe.

A man with whom a woman wants to have revenge sex with should thank his stars, she would f@ck with unrivaled passion, gusto and out of the world ability. U see, when women do things out of the ordinary, they tend to make it worth it. So, there will be no back on bed like a log of wood. Enjoy.

Ofcourze I agree but does it make it a win situation for her?

Starz825:
So u didn't get the message...
In summary, women don't win the revenge+cheating game...u can never win....na woman go suffer am....

LOL! You really have time responding to that trojan troll.

After watching a movie about a lady who got pregnant by a guy she slept with on a revenge cheating mission, I felt it will be nice to drop this quick one. I have heard many times when ladies say words like ''If he cheats on me I will cheat on him too'' and I honestly can't judge any lady who wants to tow this path.

Nevertheless, I want every lady to understand this...Men are not wired the way ladies are and Men can't take half the shit of what they throw at the ladies. As awkward as this may sound, a lady has the genetic or natural ability to forgive her man if he cheats on her but a Man will rarely forgive a lady that cheats on him cos that is just how he is genetically wired...it is a mystery.

This thread is not encouraging any man to cheat but rather focusses on the retaliative cheating act by a lady IF her man eventually cheats on her...So as a lady, before you embark on your tit for tat quest, it is very sacrosanct to understand that you can never win the game, ladies always lose at the end because the relationship is already vulnerable and a retaliation affair might complicate things so severely that it sabotages any chance the relationship has to recover.

Revenge cheating will even make a lady more miserable afterward cos she will lose her self-worth and the funny twist is that she will give the guy a reason to justify his actions and he will gladly move on with another lady whilst the lady can't possibly go back to her revenge cheating mate. If a lady can't cope with a cheating guy, she can simply walk away from him rather than indulge in the lame, unreasonable, and image tarnishing act of revenge cheating.


In my opinion, only a lady with a slutty tendency embarks on a revenge cheating mission because nobody can make you do what you are not capable of doing.

Hope this makes sense.

manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

Its never too late bro. Its all about priorities.
Thank your God that you are a man.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I thought you're married? �

My response was just in line with the topic regardless of my marital status.

Must be sexually pleasing to my eyes.

Must be sexually decent

Must be respectful.

MizJaY this is a phase in your marriage. Relax and be prayerful. It will pass and you will have a reason to thank GOD you never gave up.


Your husband is still the spiritual and loving type, just passing through some form of pressure. Respond less to him and pray more for him and your family.

It is well with your marriage.

PrecioussB:
Why is it that older men love to pursue Young girls?

Especially old African men. It is disgusting how they are interested in girls that are old enough to be their daughter.

I have had a lot of old and successful guys ask me out but I always say no thanks.

It is scary, these perverts need to find women their own age. Has this happen to anyone?

Can i ask you a question? what age do you consider as old for you? i mean the maximum age you can be with.

PrecioussB:
Why is it that older men love to pursue Young girls?

Especially old African men. It is disgusting how they are interested in girls that are old enough to be their daughter.

I have had a lot of old and successful guys ask me out but I always say no thanks.

It is scary, these perverts need to find women their own age. Has this happen to anyone?

You can never understand because you are a lady. Even Solomon in all his wisdom never understood,

Proverbs 30:18-19
18 “There are three things that are too amazing for me,
four that I do not understand:
19 the way of an eagle in the sky,
the way of a snake on a rock,
the way of a ship on the high seas,
and the way of a man with a young woman.

And BTW, as long as the girl is 18, she is an adult and you cant call any man a pervert cos he wants to be with a lady of 18years or older so your stance is very flawed.

Yoruba men hardly abandon their children. He will come around. Just relax.

contumely2:
You are not meant to chase ladies, you attract them, initiate a valuable conversation in a cute way every other thing falls into place.

You get what you want by bringing VALUE in exchange of her time invested, friendship & relationship sets in effortlessly but distinctively defined.

Work on yourself first; Build capacity, build strong but admirable character, be comfortable in your skin, carve a niche for yourself and you won't have troubles getting ladies attention, take my word for it.

"When you chase the cat it will run away, but when you have what the cat want it comes to you" and that is the power of ATTRACTION.

Finally, learn to take them out to fun places, ladies love the sight and smell of a serene environment, and spend a little bit of cash to make them have fun, some guys are just too stingy when it comes to that.

Do that without attaching or expecting anything in return for the little cash spent. Some guys get it wrong, once they make a little financial commitment the next thing their mind tells them is to try to sleep with her.
Chill, everything will take shape once you are calm, friendly and expect almost nothing back, that's how it works.



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Liamm:
Why would a sane human being ponder running away from the United States? If a cure is discovered tomorrow, US will get it first before others. Nigeria will first play politics

There's hope in the United States. There's no hope over here

These are stranded people who traveled to US with plans of coming back but got stuck cos of corona virus. You guys keep mixing it up thinking they are people who left naija for greener pastures

Not everyone is interested in travelling to US with the intention of staying back.

Damiilola:
100k is okay

Yeah very true as long as there is job security and a great prospect.

Fejous:
We should remember that some Nigerians travelled to various countries around the globe for business or other purposes before the outbreak of coro. They never intended to stay back in those countries because they have business and/or family ties in Nigeria that require attention. The returnees are not those who are habitual residents, but Nigerians who travelled and intended to return home, but were stranded abroad. Not every Nigerian wants to live abroad and no one hustling in America �� will like to come back.

You too get sense.

haryorbarmie83:
Jesus Christ, why would someone willingly coming back to Nigeria from Yankee, I will rather die there.

On a second thought I think some may want to come back due to the hostile environment created by Trump.

For instance, he has suspended all immigration process meaning no one can come here to marry you and even if you are there already you can't marry anyone to remain. You will just be stuck there forever except Trump is defeated in his second term bid.

But something tells me that most of these returnees already have papers but just ran to naija for now.

waleadex:
I just hope it's not a case of 'from frypan to fire' for them though...

You guys keep getting it wrong.

These guys are already legal residents of America just willing to come home for now to escape possible infection.

Pluse992:
Advise Me Please. Should I Confess?

I recently packed into my apartment somewhere in Ogun, and my neighbor's goats have been sleeping at the back of my apartment near my window and they have been urinating and passing out faeces making my room inhabitable.

So the other day, I poured some hot water on one of the goats. I discovered that the woman is into traditional medicine. She has been making some incantations since yesterday concerning the goat. And I am scared that she will hurt me.

Should I confess or be brave? What should I do?

Better go n confess and compensate her by giving her money or buy her another goat since goats are very cheap there.

No jokes o make your destiny no change overnight.

FeliciaOja:
Hi guys, I know the title sound weird but
I don't know if it is normal to have this type of feeling. I'm 21 but I often fantasize about dating multiple guys.
I can't be in a relationship with just 1 guy
I love the feeling of multiple guys all playing Different roles in my life.

I'm scared this might ruin any future marriage, I just can't live with 1 guy the rest of my life.
Is this normal?
How Should I explain this to my mom?

You need help fast.

Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

Must you endorse it? Dey your dey biko.

buklarbest:
Wow! What exactly brings them back to this failed country? If I ever had the opportunity, corona virus isn't a reason to rush back to this country that has no plan whatsoever for its citizens. All the best to them all.

They are UK legal residents so they can always go back.

Amotolongbo:
They left the frying pan to fire.

UK isn’t safe, Nigeria is worse (we have been seeing the manifestation).

I believe these people have got the intention of coming to Nigeria before, COVID19 or not.

So you believe that some people were repatriated.

Maybe those who are already settled but wants to come home to excape infection.

WukedP:
You’ve spoken like your father the devil, always coming out as if he meant well but at the end he will surely show himself, so they should just wake up one morning and start going to isolation centers without Government approval shey? even Jesus Christ didn’t go to where he’s not invited and that’s the more reason he couldn’t perform any miracle in his home town, I haven’t seen any country blasting Pastors like Nigerian especially their own, so your comment here is trash, People have been mistaken Sam Adeyemi and this man as Pastors and I don’t blame them, they are doing the works of their father the devil just like you without even knowing, your type was the thief on the cross with Jesus, I mean the one that asked him to save himself

Did you just say Government approval?

How pathetic. Already calling me a devil. I guess it indeed struck a cord in you. I won't be surprised if you are one of the so called miracle workers.

Let me even flow with you for a sec, even if they don't visit these centers, how many healing records of covid can we attribute to the prayers of any of these pastors that usually hold miracle services?

I'm not addressing all pastors in the body of christ who are following their calling in the five fold ministry but the ones who commercialise miracles on TV.

As a believer, I strongly believe in the healing power of Christ Jesus but then we need to ask ourselves some deep questions at this crucial time.

We have seen many healing programs organized by some churches,... Miracle hour, Atmosphere for miracles, The healing hour, Anointing oil for miracles service just to mention a few. So I begin to wonder why these Pastors have not dimmed it fit to storm hospitals to pray for coronavirus patients.

I believe in the miraculous power of JESUS but any Pastor who can not go to hospitals at this point in time to pray for coronavirus patients with healing results should not bother about organizing any healing service or program once this Pandemic is over.

If your faith is not strong enough to visit hospitals to pray for coronavirus patients then you have no business gathering people for Healing programs. This baseless Chalaniganicious act by some "Men of GOD" must Stop.

GOD CAN NOT BE MOCKED .

GamalNasser:
One Kobojunkie and his fellow CNN puppets will not like this ,... Chloroquine and Artemisinin have consistently delivered a 99% cure rate and just yesterday an study showed chloroquine could even act as a very reliable prophylaxy by preventing infections in the first place especially for those at the Frontline but yet Satanic agents with an agenda and dull people are waiting for a hurry put together RNA vaccine that will not go through proper trial and is expected to kill 15% of it's users ....is this world not mad so?

I even watched some clips of a 2003 movie THE DEAD ZONE S2 EP14 where a guy talked about Corona virus and that indeed Chloroquine inhibits it's spread in the human body.

The problem with Nigerians is drug abuse.

They will abuse the drug to the extent that the virus will have a tolerance to it and mutate into a chloroquine resistant strain which means chloroquine will no longer work against the virus.

Kobojunkie:
How exactly do they abuse the system? If a woman no longer loves her husband because the reason she married him to begin with is no longer there, what is wrong with that?

Marriage is not about feelings. If our parents run out cos of the reason you just stated many of us won't be in existence.