Made4naijalove: A Nigerian lady has attracted attention on social media after being seen in a viral video getting a tattoo of her boyfriend's name on her face.
The lady who reportedly did this to prove her love to her boyfriend, had "Anjola my love" written on her face by the tattoo artist.
And it is not a crime for a married man to have a mistress or mistresses so long as he can take care of them and also take good care of his wife and kids.
Despite the feminism laws in the western world, married rich white men still keep mistresses, nobody can stop reggae because reggae is life
Personally i will never have a side chic, never cos it is clear adultery and i have my salvation to protect. If i want to be with another lady, i pay her bride price and marry her...it makes no sense keeping a side chic. If i want 5 more i will do the same.
One thing a man must pray to always have is good money, If GOD blesses you with wealth you can marry a thousand wives and nothing will happen.
Innocent ladies were deceived by irresponsible family men and you turn around to blame the victim? What can a married man give to a lady that a single guy can't give??
There's serious rot in the society. I'm scared for this generation..
Did you just say what can a married man give that a single guy cant give?..Dapada
There is a way a married man takes care of a lady that will make the lady stay glued for life. Most of these single guys are still learners. Ooin
Nooil: Nope, they are not cowards. They are poor or stingy. They want to be eating the girl like a single man does without any financial implications that comes with married men dating. Such men are disgusting.
I agree with you jare. Some of them are even learners, they dont know how to get a concubine after marriage.
If i need any other lady to be with i will just find one young lady and solve her family problem...Fiam, dem don package am for me...case closed.
OBelz: Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha
During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)
He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.
Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.
He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.
This is how some ladies will just deprive themselves of marital bliss.
Is there anything wrong with being a concubine to a guy that really knows how to make you feel like a queen?
Oya go marry that single guy and hope he treats you well as if it is a taboo to marry a man that is already married.
A man that has already screwd you back and front in many positions with reckless abandon ...Shiooor
OBelz: Hmmm 2years back, when I went to look for a job oo so he called me and said he will pick me cos he like me and want to have a relationship with me, I now ask him what type of relationship do u really want to have with me ,marry me or side chick cos it obvious that his married, the man said , I'm not marry ooo, am single, if you have a good character that will be determined if I will marry you and be the lucky one I said okay but let have a deal I said any day I know you have wife and children I will kill them all. Omo see the man ooo he started calling me names ashawooo am not doing again, so you are a devil , so you can kill am not doing again, he even said he will go and report me in police station hahahahahhaha
During my undergraduate days Yeah and my God he was handsome, dark , fresh , Rich and Romantic asf... I mean he was 48 and doesn't look a day like it. ( I only found out after we broke up)
He was always sending his driver's to bring me lunch and snacks at work during break time. My folks Adores him. We even created an Instagram page for ourselves to document our daily lives and memorable events. And he was a big spender, he Pampered me lot. I miss that life�.
Sha how did I find out, he told me to block someone on face book and Instagram without giving me a reason. Oh well, I had actually blocked the person but then out of curiosity I decided to check her out only to find out she was his wife , she is a Medical Doctor based in Canada and with three kids . I was so heart broken. Me that I was already seeing mysef as madam of the house.
He has a beautiful house in Magodo and the cook and gateman could not even tell me that my egungun was entering express even when I was nice to them.
This is how some ladies will just deprive themselves of marital bliss.
Is there anything wrong in being a concubine to a guy that really knows how to make you feel like a queen?
Oya go marry that single guy and hope he treats you well.
Babe wey go dey with you go still dey with you even if you tell her the truth cos in the real sense, let nobody fool you, many single ladies love dating married men and many won't even mind being a permanent concubine as long as you can take care of them...
Only guys who are cowards will lie about the marital status cos they want to be with a lady.
Freshestboy1: My dear I have watched a movie with this your story and what the above advice is the best suggestion ever and this is exactly what they did in the movie and she got her man back,don't fight with him but tell him you can't be a baby mama and go back to your home and continue with your life,there are several married people still happy in their home,just go back to your life,don't call him or visit him,let him miss your importance in your life,besides there are other men also waiting for you.
See that guy wants marriage but he is not just ready for commitment.
The question is "how many men are committed in the real sense"?
Ladies love lies. Many guys are married but living a single man's life.
Confusedgirl869: Hello everyone. This account is created for this .
This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.
We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.
I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.
So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.
Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.
Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.
I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.
I need your opinions please.
Then get married to him and accept your babymamaship.
See the guy is just being sincere. People get married for many reasons so marry him with the conditions and be at peace.
I know my advise always sound North on this forum but I always advise from years of experience and the wisdom GOD gives me.
He is indirectly asking for open marriage so give him that if you love him and make yours a closed marriage and allow him the open type then condition your mind to allow him his total freedom.
Who knows, he just might change his mind after some years and even if he doesn't you can always cope since you say you can't leave him.
johnrix: Married men in the house, which do you see keeps your marriage - love for your wife or Respect for her?
On one hand, one lady who is all nice and sweet, puts all her emotions into the rship, but her attitude, intellect needs some work. You are ready to help build her, educate her but you fear you might not respect that much. Her dream is a loving husband.
On the other hand, another lady, is not the loving/romantic type type, a little cold, but she is responsible and smart. You respect her a lot, but it looks, you will both have to grow the love. She'll have the tendency, say any disrespect, I'm packing my bags instead of working things out. Her primary focus is to be respected in her marriage.
Lastly, what do you ladies want? I hear some women say love, some say respect, some say both. It varies based on those who believe strongly in love vs those who don't want disrespect from their husbands. But one thing is sure, most women deep down want one over the other.
Forgiveness and Tolerance are the two most vital factors
generationz: Stop believing lies. You are too old for that.
Cos you called it a lie.
How many 8year olds can paint such? That was a divinely inspired paintaing after the girl saw Jesus but believe what you want sis. Good morning and have a nice day.
IgboSomalia: The reason why you are unmarried at your age is because you lack sense. Women must see through your stupidity and dump your dumb ass.
All these trolls with their unmarried talks...Please don't die on top of another man's problem but if you are a beautiful lady you can dm me...i can make do with you as a concubine and don't worry, i will take care of you so well. Arindin.
abdullahi45: In as much as I agreed with part of your comment, I can't help but say the way you glorify cheating and infidelity in male folks is repugnant. What happens if the woman does the same? Are the same set of principles applicable to her?
Did you just say glorify? Do you glorify a lion by agreeing that it roars? If you are a lady you will soon understand and if you are a guy you will soon grow up to realize this.
A man who will cheat will cheat, it is not about glorifying anything but it is what it is so ladies should cope with that or should not bother getting married. Argue with your keyboard
thatchick: Until she gets infected with an incurable sexual disease like Herpes or Genital warts, then she will begin to bother
This is the most laughable excuse i hear from ladies.
So what is the guaranty that she wont get the std somewhere else? except she will never make love with any other man in her life without a condom then that excuse will hold water.
Heathrow44: Haha!!! Shut up!! See ur yeye mouth, " she knws her place in davido's life" u re deluded t some extent, do u knw that Sophie is the one person that has the legal backing t deal w davido if she wanted, she has a child and chioma also does but she(Imade) is d Ist child and that girl na d No 1. Forget dat ifeanyi, he would take off after wat imade got, Sophie is one person that has been indispensable in davido's life and not chioma
Lol! Why will she bother when she knows her place in David's life.
Only fooosh married women cry a river over a cheating hubby.
Men will be men and there are better things in life for a lady to achieve rather than bothering her head over a man that can't control his dck.
Chioma nothing do you abeg. Leave all those ladies ranting online... If they have the chance they will gladly be another baby mama cos women are their own worst enemies.
YorubaKinging: Blacks are the only one that take offence because someone says they are black
Foolish low self esteemed sets of people
Come back home and leave the city of whites
How lame,
Have you ever asked yourself who the real Americans are? Trump who is just a second generation of a German immigrant be claiming American when the blacks that have their lineage dating back to hundreds of years are regarded as immigrants.
The real Native Americans are the red Indians, every other person is just an immigrant
Tatashi: I dated a guy and didnt ask for a dime and guess what? He never also raised a finger to give' not even recharge cards.it didnt take long till the love died a natural death.Guys,u see that woman who doesnt ask for a pin from you...
That should be the one you should buy the world for .but if u think becos she doesnt ask then you feel u can fold ur arms and ignore her thinking she's cheap? I pity u.them go collect her from your hand.
Very very true. I support this.
But I just prefer my lady to ask me for huge sum to start a business than asking me regularly for money to do things.
Greenbullet: I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.
Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.
I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.
Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.
PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
Orí e ti gba ile... Meanining your head Don nack ground.
Richardonald: 5 guys eeh!!! some ladies life don finish. different prick per every Sunday, after they will say no husband to marry them, when they have f..ck their future husband away.
You never see anything.
What my eyes have seen can not be unseen.
And do you know the most painful twist? it is this same set of damaged girls that will threaten fire and brimstone if a man cheats on them...in most cases, they will want flambuoyant wedding ceremony and the worst part is that their bride price will be among the highest you can ever imagine expecially those who come from the east.
OritaIbadan: I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.
Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.
After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.
I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?
Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it
Her personal life is not your business.
As long as she is doing the job well please let her be..Abi your eye dey her body before? Talk true w go understand...lol
BTW, This is why i laugh hard at any guy killing himself over any lady. If you know what some ladies have or are still doing with their lives you will never want to put any lady at home as a wife but it is what it is, we just have to be with them at least to raise a family.
Who gives a fuckkk Untalented moda fuckker with frog voice Using too much voice enhancer in the studio How people manage to listen to his crap songs baffles me Only Burna boy and 2face got a little talent
Davido can never make my play list
My play list will remain like this till the end of time: The weekend Imagine dragons Sia Burna boy 2face Katty pery Passenger Bruno Mars Avicii Twenty one pilot The Chainsmokers Dig the kid Cold play Khalid WizKid ( balogun the big boy anyday anytime twice on Wednesday) Maroon 5 Calum scot John legend Selena Gomez Post malone Ellie Goulding Christiana aquilera A great big world Rita ora Clean bandit Dua lipa Martin garixx Major Lazer The night Edsheeran Taylor swift One direction Lewis capaldi Sam smith Ariana Grande Kehlani Billie eilish Camilo Cabello And some head bangers like future, migo, quavo, big Sean, Nas, tyga, french Montana, whizkhalifa, lil Uzi vert, Eminem, jcole, Kendrick Lamar, young thug, 21 savage, Travis Scott, Gucci mane, kid cud, g easy and Bros drake
Relax bro, nobody dances to lyrics or voice these days, we ll dance to the beats and whoever has the beats has the charts.
I pity those that were really raped and i mean Raped in the real sense of raping. But for the ladies who are confused as to what rape really means, i will advice them to go do appropriate findings of what it means to be raped before coming out to play the victim card.
Simply put; Rape is a forceful act of sexual intercouse or as a result of threat with a weapon or physical attack.
I can claim that i was raped too but HELL NO, cos i consented(Not succumbed). You don't consent to sex and latter come out to claim rape.
For the clueless ones who will be quick to read stupid meanings to my post please argue with your key board and don't bother quoting me.