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PureGoldh:
His village people have finally struck

Inside dx country wey work no dey na e person wey get better bank work quit am just to become an adviser

Well... I wish him all the Best.. Since he is happy with the new work.. May God bless his hustle.

If you need Original Pure Honey.. Call or whatsapp me on the number attached to my signature below 0_8_1016_66_771 or check out my profile

Have you ever heard of the word "Fulfillment"?

Wealth is not about how much you have in your bank but it is about finding happiness in what you do..

Some are doing missionary work right now and they will not give it up for anything.

Nastybrave2016:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiWzaBdy8l8

Sky B

Sky B's 'Pray For Me' album At one point, blew and became a households name in Nigeria

Zule Zoo became famous after the release of “Kerewa” which went on to become one of the biggest songs in Nigeria between2005 and 2006.

Lord of Ajasa

Ajasa back than was a trending Yoruba hip hop star who raps in Yoruba dialect Ajasa emerged into the lime light with the track titled “Ma yi lo.

Lord of Ajasa was reported to be criticality ill and needed funds to undergo operation on 15 June 2019.

Azadus

Azadus was A Zealous and Determined musician he was born in the early 70’s inharite his music talent from his mum he is the master in his kind of music started his music career in the 90’s he has worked lot of famous artist like sound sultan, lord of ajasa, w4, 2face, x-project and a host of others He is no were to be fund in Nigeria music industry today

Big Lo

Big Lo, real name Lotanna Udezue was popular on Nigeria's music scene in the early 2000s with his rap style. He scored a hit with rapper. 2shotz on ‘Delicious(remix)in 2004. The former rapper, accordingto his family, in 2018 was undergoing emergency medical treatment in California and needs at least $50,000 (over N18m)to cover for his expenses. This health condition has turned his life upside down. As a result, he has lost his job, his house, his car and his medicalinsurance. He is in urgently needs our help

Marvelous Benjy

He started out with Kennis Music. The record label that once projected and promoted Nigerian musicains like 2face Idibia, Sound Sultan, Lagbaja, OJB, Azadus, and so on.
The Ajegunle-based artiste who became a household name after the release of his popular song, Suo, while still with Kennis Music since he left Kennis music seems to have jumped from frying pan to fire. Since the singer left the record label in a controversial manner, he has struggled to remain in the limelight But since his disengagement from the record label

Baba Fryo

Baba Fryo is a Nigerian Ghetto singer from Ajegunle He is known for releasing street songs like Dem go dey pose in the late 90s .He sang with a popular Nigerian music style known as Galala.

Blackface

Blackface is a Nigerian songwriter, dancehall, and reggae singer. Blackface was a founding member of the Nigerian band Plantashun Boyz that he formed in 2000 with Tuface (alsknown as 2face Idibia)

Stereo Man

Sunday Ekwe popularly known as Original Stereo Man once set stages in Nigeria and some part of Africa on fire. His hit songs “E dey pain me and sample Ekwe”, get massive airplay in Nigeria. Stereo Man, is no longer relevant in Nigeria music industry

Who told you they are broke? That they no longer trend in the music industry does not mean they are broke.

Use your brain OP

merit1988:
yes I hv kids... thanks so much

Please for the sake of your kids just remain in your marriage as long as he is not abusing you physically.

Magnoliaa:
Really? Permission means something is not a sin? Wow. So, please, tell why God wants to judge sinners for their wrongdoings and rejection of Christ then. After all, they are expressing their free will. God gave all the liberty to do whatever they please and choose whom to serve. Why will God not be letting everything all go then?

Romans 1:28 means God approve the bad acts of people right? All the times God was ALLOWING the Israelites go astray, to turn to other gods, and then entrapping by causing other nations to conquer and rule them - none of their actions were sin?

Can't believe you just argued the fact that PERMISSION IS NOT A SIN!

Are you for real? There are somethings you don't argue about.

TonyeBarcanista:
October 30, 2019

Press Statement

PDP Expresses Shock Over S/Court Verdict.

The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) expresses shock at the judgment of the Supreme Court on the Presidential election petition filed by the party and its Presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar.

Indeed, what we witnessed today was not what majority of Nigerians, who participated and observed the Presidential election expected; and this includes even members of the APC.

The PDP notes that it indeed made a solid case, with undisputable evidence, showing that Atiku Abubakar won the Presidential election and as such is surprised that the justices of the Supreme Court held otherwise; however, that is the highest court of the land.

Notwithstanding, the distinction of our case remains for Nigerians, including generations yet unborn, to appreciate.

The PDP expresses gratitude to millions of Nigerians across board for voting Atiku Abubakar in the election as well as for their unflinching support for our party during the election and throughout the duration of court proceedings.

Nevertheless, our party, indeed the nation, awaits the justices of the Supreme Court to release their reasons behind their verdict.

Signed:

Kola Ologbondiyan
National Publicity Secretary

When will these jokers embrace reality?

They should head to the lawn tennis court.

frankyskyboi:
I started a relationship with a lady in March this year and it's been going on well though she works in Lagos while I'm in the eastern part of the country.

When we were at the introductory part of the relationship, I asked about her family and she told me they are separated. I asked what's the reason for the separation and she said its due to irreconcilable differences and they separated when she was a toddler that it's her dad that raised her up tho she keeps contact occasionally with her mum.

She stays with her aunts in Lagos. I asked if she asked both parents to know why and she said she only asked her dad and he said he doesn't want her mum to be working class and she insisted to be One that he wants her to be a stay at home wife. I asked if she heard from her mum and she said no. She also said her aunts said same thing her dad said.

The reason really didn't go down well with me as it's too flimsy and I've told her to ask her mum and she keeps procrastinating or giving one excuse or the other. It beats my imagination how a grown up adult can't know with conviction why her parents separated or I guess the truth is being hidden.

I'm bringing this up here because my brother married from a separated home and it was war before my parents gave consent. If she can't give me concrete reason why the parents broke up which I'll present before my parents, I really don't know how the relationship can move forward because we detest divorce in our family.

Please I need your advice if I should continue or quit.

You are not ready for a relationship.

merit1988:
thanks a lot

I just saw my mention and I did a quick reading .

So how has it been of late? In marriage it is about your determination to stay in it and not really about feelings.

Don't worry, a time will come when you will love him So much. Do you have kids yet?

bukatyne:
If the girls really to show their waist beads, they could wear Jean trousers and crop top or tie their top. They want to show us their bumbums and we have seen them.

Many ladies are just looking for any slight opportunity to go naked.

Guest007:
I love these beads... I'm so jumping on their tradition, it's so sexy

You must have nice waist line and curves else it will be an eye sore.

When I sit to write some insightful threads, ladies In their fantasy age will wail tirelessly and even Lalasticlala sometimes get a little bit drawn back.

As far as I am concerned...there is nothing bad in having a child without actually getting married. Not everyone will be married.

As i adviced in this thread...if you are a lady who thinks menopause is knocking or you have no interest in marriage, just get a good sperm donor (you don't have to sleep together), get pregnant and fulfil every woman's dream of raising a generation.

I no fit shout.

https://www.nairaland.com/5492915/present-day-woman-misplaced-priority-marriage

Misplaced priority.

Magnoliaa:
sir, Jesus said Moses - not Him or his Papa. Permission doesn't make doing something the best God's will or desire. Because so many things were recorded in the Bible. So many things. Rape, incest. God gave people over. So, where are the verses on GOD DIRECTLY allowing divorce or polygamy.



So, right... Jesus said divorce should happen when infidelity set in. This is clear.

My questions to you:
1.Do you believe that verse and think couples should follow it?
2.Do you think that verse bounds only a woman to be faithful to her husband?



3. As a Christian, what do you think of:

Proverbs 5:15-23?
Hebrews 13:4?
1 Corinthians 7:1-4; 13:4-7?
1 Timothy 3:2-4?
Malachi 2:14-16?
1 Peter 3:7?

But Permission means it is not a sin. That is good enough.

Regarding your other questions, these threads of mine have answers to them.

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/does-god-permit-polygamy
https://www.nairaland.com/3384570/does-god-permit-woman-divorce

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I don't even know what to say.

ImaIma1:
You echoed my thoughts. How does he know if the women were happy? And would it be unjust for women to crave happiness and satisfaction in present times?

He is only thinking about how is benefits the men at the expense of the women.

Madam Amazon biko answer my questions above.

NNEWIsuper:
Why don't you all allow him to land, why all these fights and misgivings.its uncalled for

modified

he has finally dropped it and I must sincerely apologise to the two ladies I quoted above, seems you all already know what he was capable of writing and I apologise.His write-up is meant for the dustbins, it lacks substance and misleading. I won't even comment on the topic as it will be out of place for me to consider it a merit

And how wrong is this thread? How many ladies have you slept with all your life and how certain are you that you will remain faithful to your wife as long as you live?

Oh let me guess...you also expect me to preach to men about how to remain faithful to their wives...

Bro please commot for road make people pass..your apologies belittles you as a man except you are a female, Be a man and face reality.

ImaIma1:
The op's mindset is disturbing and unbelievable. He's promoting disunity, and freedom for men to live however they choose while the woman takes it all. Then why marry?

Everytime,...women of old, olden days women, our mothers. Did he think such women were happy?Besides a good number of "our mothers" married out of love and not this loveless and pathetic union he keeps mentioning here.

A woman should be all about her kids and allow the man live his life the way he wants. Really? Can she also sleep around?

This op's write up is just myopic and bourne out of selfishness.

This "women" of old he keeps magnifying were not all that he describes.

Besides if anyone expects the present situations and outcomes to be the same as in the 60s, that person needs to wake up and move with the times or die in the past.

Aunty Aristotle so with all your rantings..

Can you stop even your own husband from cheating on you? And of he cheats and you have kids with him wettin you go do?

It is convenient to always come online to form Amazon.

kluivertngong:
Sorry To Burst Your Bubbles. Not All Men Are The Same. There Are A Few Good Ones Out There In The World. Just Make Sure That, Men Should Know That They Can Change And Be Faithful.

Of course they are few good faithful guys


My threads are for ladies who end up with the bad unfaithful guys who are more in number and ironically the ladies prefer them to good guys like you.

kluivertngong:
If I Get You Right, Then Keep It Real With Men. Tell Them That Cheating On Your Wife, Is A Choice And Not A Must. Tell Them That, They Can Change And Be Better Human Beings. Afterall, Change Is A Constant Thing. Tell Them How It Hurts To See Your Spouse Cheat. Most Men Are Really Inconsiderate, They Feel It Is Okay For Them To Cheat On Their Wives, While Their Wives Should Just Overlook It And Not React, Because They Are Furnitures Abi? When The Woman Cheats, All Hell Will Break Loose. IT IS NOT FAIR. Do You Want To Know Why Jesus Christ Was And Is Considered The Best Husband To The Church?

Shebi you know you can always create a thread about this and quote lalasticlala to consider it for the frontpage.

For me, i chose to prepare the ladies for the wickedness of many men who do not have respect for their marital vow and i don't think all the sermons in the world will stop men from being with another woman.

Rapmoney:
I am a man but this thread is highly flawed!!! In fact, it's filled with illogical points. What's the essence of the marriage if the woman shouldn't care about the character of the to-be husband? Sincerely, there is no sense in this write-up.

Bro i respect your opinion especially the mature manner you put it but do you juxtapose a man's character with his choice to be with another lady?

On the contrary, this thread is not about ladies who are fortunate to be with a faithful guy or guys who are smart enough to hide their sexcapades but it is for ladies who find themselves with a philandering hubby. Would you suggest that women run out of their marriages cos their hubbies cheat on them?

Ladies writing unrealistic epistles here about how a man should remain faithful are not only unrealistic but they are living in delusion.

kluivertngong:
Of Course, Toks, For Once, Call A Spade, A Spade. Haba, Na Wa For You Ooo. You Can Pretend For Africa.

I don't know you but your post is suggestive that you know me beyond nairaland but i am not pretending to be bad but i keep it real with my write-ups.

That i don't sleep around or that i am sexually upright will never stop me from writing realistic stuff. If many ladies bashing me know me outside nairaland they will be shocked to their marrow that i am not who they think i am if they judge my life by what i write...but as i wrote, i don'r write about my life or on what i think should be but i write based on the reality around us and one if such realities is preparing the womenfolk to embrace reality and stop chasing shadows.

No woman no matter how sweet-looking she is can make a man remain sexually faithful to her except the man just wants to and any lady expecting her husband to be faithful to her should have a rethink. The misplaced priority of many ladies in marriage today has brought about damaged generations with kids coming from broken homes. A failed society is a ripple effect of failed families. Ladies must get their ass right and focus on what really matters.

kluivertngong:
Listen, Pussy. Age Is Only A Number And Maturity Is Only A Claim To Age. Being Mature Is Not About Age, But It's A Thing Of The Mind: What One Does, What He Says And How He Reacts And Treats Other People Determines If He's Mature Or Not. I Think You Should Be Tell Yourself That, Not Me. Yes, Granted. I Might Look Small. But, Hey, Baby Boy. What I Carry Up Here In My Head, All Your Family And Yourself Put Together, Are Still To Get To Know About It. Don't Push Me. Just Grow Up And Be A Real Man. Make Your Wife Happy, Give Your Kids The Respect They Deserve, Be A Responsible Man For Once In Your Life, Zip Your Trouser Up And Keep It Shut. Handle Your Family Problems Like A Man And Prove Your Worth.

So in all.your self acclaim wisdom, once a man sleeps with another lady or marries another lady then he is automatically irresponsible...

genq:
Serious mental illness caused by daddy issues. They'll gather themselves and be ranting like mad dogs all over people's threads. Lonely hags!

I honestly don't know what they expect me to start writing...

That a woman should leave her marriage because a man cheats on her?
All these relationship experts that preach such are not only evil but clueless and foolish.

Rather than waste my time writing futile sermons on why men must be faithful to their wives I chose to write about how women can be the best they can regardless and they have issues with that...is that not lame?

It will amaze you that many ladies forming Amazons online are actually side dish of one married man who is not even taking good care of them.

kluivertngong:
You Tried, But You Got It All Wrong. Yes, The Bible Call Them Weaker Vessels, For A Purpose. Have You Ever Bothered To Find Out The Real Reason Why The Bible Calls Them That? How Do You Know That A Man Is A Real Man? A Man Is A Real Man, When He Behaves Like One. He Is Faithful To One Woman, He Considers Other Human Beings Feelings, He Makes His Wife And Kid(s) His Priority. Not Jumping From One Bitch To The Other, Just Because He Wears Trousers And Has Something That Dangles In Between His Legs. There Is More To Being A Real Man, Boy.

Ok I have heard you.

Now let me ask...

If you find yourself married to a man that cheats on you and you have kids for him already please what will you do?

A. Leave him and stay single for the rest of your life leaving your kids with a broken home?

B. Leave him.and start trying your luck with different men with no guaranty of meeting a faithful one?

C. Stay in the marriage and Focus on your life and that of your children whilst ignoring him with his philandering.

All my threads are actually in support of the women...to prepare and protect them from predators in the name of bad men but because many ladies lack the mental maturity to grasp the message or many are just too young to understand, they think I am against them.

We live in a very wicked,selfish and uncaring world of men and any lady who tries to fight this fact will certainly end up a loser.

PHOTSEE:
DON'T YOU SEE THESE AS PROBLEM ALREADY, WITH LITTLE OR NO SOLUTION, WHAT IF THE LADY FAILS, WHAT HAPPENS TO THE CHILDREN?

The situation is not always a bad one cos many fathers are responsible which was why i stressed the need to choose a man wisely to be a fatherly figure.

My write up only points out the misplaced priority of the present-day woman when it comes to marriage. Do you know that some women won't mind jeopardizing the happiness of their children because their husbands cheat? is that not madness? so that is what this piece is trying to address...The priority of any lady is her chidren hence must do all she can to make sure they become better. That a man plays around does not mean he can't be responsible for his children.

CHoccolaTE:
Funny thing is that he claims to be a Christian and bases his woman hating sermons on bible verses but at the same time he thinks it's impossible for men to stop cheating thats why he won't advice them to stop. So the God that declared adultery a sin did not make men capable of obeying his instructions to stay faithful?

By the way don't believe his lies about his wife being with him, they are still separated, he is tired of getting heat from nairaland females for his divorce so he has started lying.

So it really pains you to know that my woman is still very much with me women are indeed their own worst enemies so two people no fit separate come back together? so sorry to disappoint you. Its not about bragging, its very difficult for any lady to leave Alpha males like me.


on your other point, i can see that you just choose to be very ignorant. Divorce, as well as Polygamy, were never in GOD's original plan but at a point GOD permitted the two
Mathew 19:8
'Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning"
....then he went further to give grounds for divorce. so all your cry cry of a man cheating is dumb and a waste of time cos a man can either choose to be with just one woman or as many as he likes so YES i am a bonafide believer in christ but i am not the type who will tell you what you want to hear.

My threads will always be here as long as Seun keeps nairaland going and most of you who usually wail on my threads will come back to read it and you will appreciate me better..for now, I will cope with your delusion.

kluivertngong:
Mr. Poster. It Would Have Been Better If You Had Pointed Out The Misconceptions Most Men Have As Being Male. Have You Ever Heard Of The Golden Rule? When We Stand And Say For Better And For Worse, It Is Not The "Worse" From Our Spouses We Are Talking About, But Anything That Will Come To Deter The Marriage, Not Tolerating The Bullshit And Maltreatment Of Our Partner. But, Because Birds Of A Feather Flock Together, You Have Blindly Refused To Accept This For Your Selfish And Egoistic Purpose. To Say, I Am Disappointed, Is An Understatement.

What is this one saying?

PHOTSEE:
YOU WRITE UP SHOULD HAVE MADE THE SINGLE MOTHERS,MARRIED LADIES AND DEVOICED MOTHERS FEEL GREAT, IF PUT IN AN ACCEPTABLE VIEWS BUT AS ALSO SUCCESS TO HIT SOME NERVES OF MEN AS A WEAKER VESSELS.

I am not the type who seeks validation from anyone especially the womenfolk when it comes to keeping it real.

If they can't stand my view let them. counter it intelligently but because many of them are brain dead, you will rather see them attacking the OP cos they have a ridiculously low IQ.

genq:
This quite amusing! Especially as its coming from a well known man-hating, bitter, post-wall, fat, black, shapeless misandrist!

Toks2008, before you feel any type of way about the lenghty TRASH this thing has just spewed, - simply click on her profile and see all the evidence proving that CHoccolaTE is a sad, lonely case that should be felt sorry for!

Guy not that I don't know them. Just one check at the history of their posts on nairaland and you will realize their situation.

They are all frustrated lonely ladies looking for where to pour their garbage.

I usually gnore them but today I choose to have their time.