₦airaland Forum

Abdul05:
.fear of -Buhari really haunted Nigerians.he is an honourable man,who has no need to obtain money from anybody else.

I voted him in because of his zero tolerance for corruption but my fear is that when he leaves things may return to business as usual.

What a country.

SGANIVA:
I will marry any girl that first approach me if she's good.some year s back in aba, one fine lady just woo me for a relationship,I just take her out, buy some good stuffs for her and politely tell her , how I would love to marry her but is very unfortunate that my people don't marry an outsider .she was actually older than me.I admire such girls very well

Nice one.

theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there.
A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

Guys are freaking tired of this flimsy green light cos at the end the lady will still be forming hard so what is the essence?

But let me ask...what is all the noise about gender equality when most ladies can't decisively go out of their ways to woo a man they genuinely desire?...this is why the world is not taking this Gender equality issue serious.

J111333:
Bro, accept my get well soon wishes in advance because I'm sure that slay queens in this forum will roast you soon.

I'm so used to their wailings.

virgoquin:
cue from what Biko

Tell me if it is your sister you will wish for her to be chasing a man for two whole fucking years but the man is not responding instead his attention is on other women.

If it is you sef tell me you can chase a lady for two years without any positive result and you won't get tired

Unfortunately I'm not reasoning the case from your perspective.

It's really not worth chasing a guy for 2years but I guess it's not the type of chase you are thinking of.

dave4rella:


MY fiancee asked me out for good two years

While I was toying with her feelings with other girls
She kept pushing, before I realized she's the one for me.
I wonder what gave her the strength
I promise never to cheat or take her for granted
God bless you my gift.
I will always love and cherish you with everything in me

Awww! I'm so impressed.

Naija babes should take a cue from this.

lyndaway:
It only takes a mature man to treat a woman right that walks up to him to express her feelings to him in this generation if you try it with a foolish guy I pity the girl

Very true so the best bet is to try it with mature guys.

angelEmade:
i did it twice....the first guy bleeped up...the second one is bae. but he travelled and we lost contact

Wow! Are you a Nigerian?

luvyaself95:
I did that oh i Approach her as i was about to talk to her she just walk out on me i was so surprised and she made me swear that moment i will never toast Any girl that give me green light or whatever so after that day we do see each other like 2 to 3 times in the week but i always do as if i don't know her and have never talk to her before.

she still stare at me like before on the Monday or Tuesday as i was fetching water i notice someone was looking at my side then I turn to look turn out to be her, this morning i was talking with a pharmacist outside her shop while we were joking and laughing saw a face gazing at me like about 3 shops before the pharmacist shop i continue staring at the person until the person turn out to be her again immediately i talk in my mind is this girl mad or something can she stop staring at me.
abi bank dey give her money for it night.

naija girls are Problems.

This is beyond my understanding.

You will hear a lady tell her friends how she so much desires a certain guy that is not even aware she exists and she will practically turn down any other guy yet she will hardly let the guy she desires know she wants him.

I don't understand walahi.

luvyaself95:
There is this girl in my area that always stare at me whenever i pass her side or walk pass each other on the road.
but i have swear i will never woo a girl that give me green light if you can't do the needful don't expect me to do it.

Learn out of experience.

I would have asked you to make the move but it will shock you that as soon as you do that, she will start the old fashioned act of playing hard to get.

Apus:
Very apt.

Most Nigerian women are hypocrites. They play the equality card only when it suites them. By d time they loose us all to their foreign counterpart na dt time their eyes go clear. The day I was wooed by an intelligent beautiful lady wey Baba God finish work for her body for foreign land, I just dey use Naija babes take form.

I honestly feel for our ladies.
You like a guy yet all you do is wish he woos you.

angelEmade:
lol if u love a man...walk up tohim and tellhim...no big deal

Can You? , and have you ever done it?

Do you know that it is practically difficult for a lady to be with a man she has no desire for?...and whilst it is easy for men to manage a lady they don't really have feelings for, it will be very difficult for a lady to do same but unfortunately in most cases when a lady sees a guy she strongly desires, all she does is wait and hope the guy woos her...an unfortunate situation I must say.

A lady who has no feelings for a guy will find it hard to be under the same roof with such let alone allowing the guy to touch her in anyway thereby making the guy go through serious heartache and emotional pains...yet if the same lady sees a guy she really desires, she is compelled to just wait and hope or maybe show signs that may not be understood by the guy.

I had always maintained the notion that ladies should be with a man who loves them even if they don't have any desire for the man but this is simply because most ladies usually wait for the man to make the first move even when they are drooling for him and it makes no sense for a lady to be selective when all she does is wait to be selected even by a guy she so much desires.

So i begin to wonder why ladies had to go through the pains of just wishing a guy they desire walks up to them when they can simply walk up to the guy and tell him straight up?...in my opinion, this does not reduce the worth of the lady but it is how a lady comports herself in an affair that determines her worth. If a lady expresses her desire for a guy and he turns her down, the lady should just walk away with her head up high...it changes nothing about her self worth but real men will even respect her for that...but the shocker is that in most cases, men Don't turn down ladies who decisively woo them.

Ladies must understand that we live in the 21st century where gender equality is the order of the day and what is the essence of gender equality when ladies can't express their desire to a man just as a man would?
Enough of the silly hard to get act or showing subtle signs that you want a guy...IF YOU WANT HIM, WALK UP TO HIM AND TELL HIM.

It will shock many ladies to know that there are many responsible marriage ready guys out there who are just fed up with the wooing game and will practically fall for any lady who genuinely shows interest in them and this is the secret few ladies presumed to be "bad girls" are using to get sweet responsible guys.

As long as ladies allow and themselves to be curtailed by the tradition of men making the first move,they may have no choice but to learn how to cope with the ones that come there way.

My candid opinion.

What do you think?

Beremx:
He's cute

Yeah...if I be lady nah me go woo am first.

Guest007:
Dignity is levels for you now... Like I said, I dey your back... I underestimated you, I believe you're not the enemy. I finally buy... More ink to your printer

You know why I have stopped bothering myself with ladies who rant about a guy cheating? It is because they are the greatest set of hypocrites to ever grace this planet...expecially Many Naija babes.

A typical naija girl will not mind to be a side dish to rich guy but only the broke guys are meant to be monogamous.

Powersurge:
from 2011 upward, if anyone tell you that he was coersed to join a cult I UNIBEN, it's a bloody lie.

No one coerses anyone except you have the mind to join. Joining is easy but leaving is the problem.

What will he tell GOD? but thank goodness sey man no be GOD.

I hope he made peace with GOD before giving up the ghost.

I remember in 1994 when I was introduced to cultism in my year one...the guy so much sugar coated the thing that I almost joined.

SultanOfAbia:
Jesus was not crucified, He escaped via the help of Pontus Pilate who Jesus healed his son of epilepsy
At night Jesus escaped prison via the help of a roman guard sent by Pontus pilate .
Pontus adviced Jesus to change his name and go to far country where he lived a secret life with Mary Magdalene and had 5 kids with her.

The Roman Empire during Constantine's reign called all bishops to council Nicaea to re write the story of Jesus to make it look more interesting.
So they added the story of crucifixion, ressurection to make it look epic and removed any trace of the later low key life of Jesus and his relationship with Mary Magdalene and their 5 kids..
Also women were among the disciples of Jesus
The Bishops removed all the names of female disciples and made it look like it was just 12 men
Mary and Joseph had normal sex and Jesus was born. Again This Bishops were given almighty privilege to re write history by Roman empire. So the immaculate conception was added to make it look grander. Jesus was a healer well known for travelling to Egypt,India to further his knowledge of healing from the gurus before he came back to Jerusalem an advanced healer but his tricks soon got him into public eye and the Pharisees

The only luck you have is that Jesus is so loving and forgiving and his followers don't fight for him.

Try this with muhamed and see if you don't have your head on a plate.

Magnoliaa:


What just happened here?? ?? Are you trying to spin this on me now?

Who said, '' ?

And I said: God ALLOWING something doesn't mean that thing is right. It can be a sin, and yes, God can permit it. Remember we are/were talking about divorce. And whether it is right or not. And you quoted a verse from Matthew, where Jesus said Moses allowed people to divorce. Jesus said it wasn't so from the beginning. And neither was it God's intention.

I repeated the same thing.

God allowed it.

Doesn't mean it's good.

You should be giving yourself that piece of advice your wrote last — don't argue everything.

Omoyi jo ma yo ile aye mi lenu.

Believe what you want dearie. It's a free world.

Wey lalasticlala sef? thread wey don gather 8 pages without entering front page surely deserves more contributions.

Amanda4life:
Onye ala

No mind many ladies claiming levels on this thread...many of them are actually dating married men who they rely on for financial succour.

Even Linda ikeji and Toke wey dey form alpha females calm down laslas.

victorian:
The day I did video call with Toks, I almost propose to him

His frosh looks Na die! 9

Obodo Oyibo land good o!

That's when I know Nigeria itself is hell fireeeee!!!!!


Imagine if I'm based abroad? I would have turned into an angel within few weeks!

Sighs

Toks! U look frosh!!!!

E be like dey the mods on nairaland get serious issues. Abeg what is the big deal in catching fun.

Can you believe that they deleted my post? Which rule I break? Smh!

victorian:
The day I did video call with Toks, I almost propose to him

His frosh looks Na die!

Obodo Oyibo land good o!

That's when I know Nigeria itself is hell fireeeee!!!!!


Imagine if I'm based abroad? I would have turned into an angel within few weeks!

Sighs

Toks! U look frosh!!!!

Barbie doll. You wey look like doll baby.

victorian:
The day I did video call with Toks, I almost propose to him

His frosh looks Na die!

Obodo Oyibo land good o!

That's when I know Nigeria itself is hell fireeeee!!!!!


Imagine if I'm based abroad? I would have turned into an angel within few weeks!

Sighs

Toks! U look frosh!!!!

Barbie doll.

Seunpaul01:
I agree.

Well, I saw her post. She was having a private tutor. And her recent video of rehearsing an essay presentation.

Nevertheless, the message we can deduce from her actions or intentions is that she shows readiness and eagerness to be her better self. And this supports the point I raised. Won't you agree?

I totally agree with you and also fully agree with Marley too.

Look at the Bbnaija for instance, see how Nigerian youths are celebrating a lady with a cosmetic big ass and we can see her having series of endorsement whereas ladies and even guys with Masters degree are languishing in joblessness so let's face it..the guy is very very correct especially in Nigeria where we have many youths with misplaced priorities.

Seunpaul01:
Those of you saying naira Marley is right are part of the problems of this backward nation.

Fine, we agree a point can always be generated from any talk. The way the musician present the message is of a very bad influence.

Instead of making a point that will condemn the unpleasant notion of working towards a better backside or body. Supporting people to build a better future for themselves, building their minds and brains. Present message that will make those that do not support our best minds realize their misdeeds.

Did he know that Kim Kardashian got her Bsc and Masters. I'm not sure of the major. What message does that portrays.

Naira Marley is just taking advantage of the lawlessness in Nigeria. He is a pike and parasite to a better home and environment.

Why you come spoil everything with Kim matta?

Infact you just justified N marley point.

Kim got her fame as a result of het round ass through a leaked porn video.

festacman:
Without educational qualifications no lady would be employed in the bank no matter the size of her bum. If a lady has a big bum and no qualifications, she will be shortchanged badly and ends up as a mere intimacy gadget. With education a lady offers much more than her vital statistics.

I'm not doubting your point but just relate Nmarley opinion to what I wrote and you will catch his message.

How many masters degree holder has an advantage over a more beautiful and round ass OND holder in an organisation headed my Randy men?

So he has a point.

festacman:
One of the low points of freedom of speech is that it entitles people to say any rubbish as opinion. No matter how childish it sounds, it is Naira Marley's fu*king opinion arising from his twisted mindset and there is little anybody can do about it other than to counter with superior argument.

It is all about perspective.

I understand where Nmarley is coming from and I also understand where Dolapo is coming from.

I have heard of ladies going for marketting jobs in banks and all they asked them to do was "turn around" and ladies with rounder ass got the jobs regardless of their qualification hierarchy.

Righteousness89:
It's Really Terrible! I watched it this Morning...
The Universe has changed!

Everyone needs to Live Ready...

Anything could Occur at Anytime and Anywhere...

Live Prepared For Eternity...

Accept JESUS CHRIST...there is no other way

You can't say it better. Christ is the only succour I have cos anybody can die at Any time through any means.

We can only pray and have faith that we live long.

htweet:
I'm lost...OK, I know that was easy to understand but could this be true?!

It is clearly written HOAX

So it is fake

praizblog:
Popular Nairaland super moderator Lalasticlala shares some cute adorable photos of his daughter, Favour, as she clocks a Year old, Praizenews report.

He wrote:


https://www.instagram.com/p/B4RbHU0Hnbb/?igshid=1jtqz94du3tp2

Nairalanders let's celebrate this cute daughter of our super mod. Happy birthday to Favour.

Source ; http://www.praizenews.com/nairaland-super-mod-lalasticlala-celebrates-his-daughter-1st-year-birthday/

She will live the fullness of her years in Jesus name.

Amen!

Btw lalasticlala is not a super mod but a Mega mod.

derrydinny:
Proper definition of evening newspaper

You don craze finish.. Chai!