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This is a fun thread and I want to throw this open for people to comment.

There is a common phrase many ladies are fond of using to express their support for a guy at a point in time in his life and whilst many use the phrase "I was there for him", I think the right phrase should be "I was there with him"

I know some struggling guys who share the little food and money they have with a lady whilst the lady gladly receives without any material or monetary input and I also know some guys that their ladies share her money and food with them without becoming any liability to these guys.

Let's have your opinion based on these two cases...when can we say a lady was there for her man or with her man?, are these two phrases the Same?

iranu

lobatan.

If she gets a sperm from a donor or sperm bank then she might as well name the child after her pet but not when i am the biological father.

Ephesians 5:23
For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.

So sad. To think he did that repeatedly...

Thank GOD it is on camera..she must sue their ass.

See the number of police men forcing an arrest... What a crazy continent.

Hmmmm!

I know that partisanship is the norm when it comes to supporting your own party but I will rather keep mum as a fellow party member rather than publicly support a fellow party member who is a non performer for a second term.

Don't be too quick to judge...there just might be another Angle to the story.

I knew this was D.O.A(Dead on arrival) from the word go.

The day I expressed my opinion about this, the nairaland wailers almost nailed me whilst pouring emotions and sentiments all over s media...smh!

Don't get it wrong..im not saying Fatoyinbo is guilty or innocent...the fact remains that sentiments and emotions can not win any case in court

oluwasegun007:
That face is not sellable, he better has raw talent...

Just wait and see the transformation to come.

Hmmmm! The only logical thing to do as human is to prepare yourself for eternity cos the next minute is not guaranteed

That is about N14M.

Let me come and be going.

pwettyme:
I actually did and it worked out for me at that time.

Which guy go say NO to a fine babe.


Oya come woo me make you see whether I go prove sturbborn.

Jewessgratitude:
You see you? I laughed now, you see green light begin ask me my tribe���
I'll take off now ���hahaha...

Okaaay... i'm igbo.

Nah small small person dey dance enter stage before the gbedu enta body....


Make una carry on jare..nothing do una

Elder0001:
1year later I think this topic deserve to be on front page

@lalasticlala Dominique toks2008 mynd44

It is because ladies have misplaced their priorities in a marriage.

https://www.nairaland.com/5492915/present-day-woman-misplaced-priority-marriage

victorian:
Wow!


Na WA o


And he's about to marry the third one

Hmmmmm

He chose polygamy. Single Women sef too much..make the guy help reduce the number abeg.

victorian:
She's pretty
She has sexy lips.

Let him keep changing and marrying different beauties of women upandan.

What's my own

He is still married to the second lady Vicky.

iammo:






married 3 times...?! shows his personalty defect




..

Dem don come...Honourable Judge.

Did you read anywhere that he is not still married to the second lady?

I guess he chose polygamy and it's his business.

cococandy:
You’re denying me

You are a Titan. I no get your power.

franchasng:
Guys always take advantage of this situation....when a lady woo a guy, that relationship if it ever leads to one, always end in regrets for the lady because the guy will only accept her for fvcking sake not for anything serious.


It can only work well and end well if the girl is very beautiful and financially independent more than the guy.....if not, the guy will only fvck her free and dump her later



Do you know how many guys I approached and wooed only for them to turn me to their sex mate fvcking me everyday for free and making me thing I found love, not knowing they only wanted to deflate my big bombom for free, pls ladies don't woo any guy!!

You must have missed that part where I wrote that a lady must comport herself well even if she did the wooing.

That a lady woos a guy does not mean she will allow him have her at will or act mindless.

kunleweb:
Obviously we don't. But to sustain the demands of the relationship to sail smoothly and earn unwavering respect. To preserve the family from fluctuations you need enough money my brother, not just money, trust me,loving is sweeter with money. Or you think the cake Chioma ate recently doesn't taste sweeter in her mouth than the average lass?

I don't want to believe you are so ignorant of so many facts.

Ladies say they hate jobless guys but they will spend their rich guy's money on a jobless guy just for a sex rump.

Thank GOD for Jesus else I know wettin I for don take ladies eyes see even when I no get shishi.

truthsayer009:
is that not COCOCANDY? I didn't know you two were dating oh! Wawu

Coco wettin? You wan make I die before my time!

kunleweb:
Didn't say you're poor though you just confirmed you can do more with more. Make more is what I suggested like you implied here explicitly.

And as i wrote, you don't really need money to be with a woman even in Nigeria. This is a topic for another day.

kunleweb:
Then get loaded to get their unwavering commitment bro. You can't change the rules, but can only apply thyself intelligently. Make money and your in-laws will respect you relentlessly

You are a comedian, did i tell you im poor? even when i had no money i had too many to deal with. You really don't need money to get a lady and you can very rich and still end up a loser with ladies.

wany:
A guy over 40yrs still been childish in speech,no wonder your marriage crashed.men your age are busy with meaningful stuffs cause at this age over 40 retirement is near,but here you are gallivanting with your suppose children mates .idleness is really sickening.

lol! it is the fact that im used to wailers like you that is making me respond to you and not that you are worthy of my attention. You have no idea how extremely busy i am but you can never be too busy to do what you love.

I know you are young enough to be my daughter but when you get to that age of 40 or more, you will see the joy it brings when you interact with babies of your age.

Enjoy your day.

kunleweb:
Haba boss even you too make this kind of comment

It is a statement of fact bro.

In fact but for the fact that i love Christ why should i involve myself in a marriage that is just too overhyped considering the NEPA attitude of most ladies? if a man is loaded he can get as many ladies as he wants, young or old and of diverse exterior dimensions...however, that is not an option for me cos it is a path to disaster.

FROGMAN101:
Seun needs to make a male a mod of Nairaland romance section to create a balance.

I see many biases in romance contents that make the front page.

Can bet a pound none of Ubunja’s post has ever made front page?

Anyways it’s your site. You can do what you want.

I guess he has a general mod for all sections but one certain Dominique banned me at a time on one of my threads for a reason involving not just me but she left out the other person that attacked me and i just laughed silently and wonder how a moderator can be so carried away by emotions.

See Raw Talent.

chigoizie7:
And some will come and tell you, what if he turn you down?


Must everyone you like also like you?

The same way a guy will approach a girl and she turns him down is the same way a guy can turn a lady down too.



But I really know why some girls are scared too. I know that some do have enough liver to ask a guy out. But most times, when they meet the unserious ones, the ones who are still fucklicants. Those type of guys will never say no, even when they do not genuinely like the girl, but because they knew that such scenario comes with a free pusssy to bang, they just accept it, and be treating the girl anyhow. Which is not good.



Girls, let me tell you something, if you like a guy, get close to him, become friends with him first, know the type of guy he is, know if he is truly the type of guy you want apart from the physical appearance and all that, know his level of reasoning, then you can ask him out.


Me, chigozie , I do not believe in love at first sight, I can not be loving you when I have not gotten to know you better. You could be beautiful on the outside with enough curves and all that, but what about your personality? I no go chop your beauty nah. At this stage in my life, I value peace of mind very well, so I cannot use my hand and buy trouble for myself all in the name of beauty and nice curves.


If I approach you and start telling that I love you immediately without getting to know who you are, just know that I am only interested in fuccccking you, that’s all.


So, girls, in as much as the op is right, I also understand your fears too. But you all need to stop that playing hard to get.

You make perfect sense bro especially the embolden. Getting close to a guy is part of wooing.

I really hope lalasticlala beams this so we can have more input.

may320:
Good to know.
Think this thread deserve fp so the 'goanmarry' crew will know you've upgraded.

I have never been on a downgrade. Marriage is overhyped.

may320:
@Op is that why you're still single? Waiting for a lady to woo you?
No vex o, its because I've read quite some comments in some of your topics saying you should go and marry ni.

Lol!.. don't mind those monitoring spirits jare.

I'm not single..infact I am with the most beautiful lady in the world.

Let me show you and nairaland goanmarry crew a little glimpse of her.

I don't know if lalasticlala will find this front page worthy.

He is.

No one should judge him cos GOD is
The only bonafide judge of every human.

LZAA:
Maybe cuz ur posts look like that of a simp

Me I be alpha male to the core and people on and offline know this.

What you see is what you get.