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Mstick:
Oga by March 23 I will be 10 years lovingly married.

Your wife left your misogynist asssss because she could no longer stand being unhappy.

Now tell me between you and I who's ignorant and can't keep a relationship?

The fact that you think your threads makes sense just proves the saying that a fool is wise in his own eyes. You've a failed marriage behind you instead of you to work on yourself and try to be better you come online putting out useless threads.

Oh and you said only foolish ladies worry about a man's fidelity, so the Bible that condemned adultery is a foolish book right?

Audio marriage.

By the way, I don't usually respond to unintelligent ladies like you but if you want me to open a book On you I bet you will cry in your solitude.

Any small thing you refer to a lady who is still very much with me that she left me blablabla but just a little digging has revealed that you are a product of a broken home and you have ranted so much on nairaland that you now sound like a broken record.

I'm the wrong guy to pick on cos my IQ is way beyond your league.

Were you not the one that typed this attached post?

I guess you have a chronic mental illness else you won't have issues with this thread cos i see no difference between the advice you gave in the attached and this thread?

All your 100plus posts on nairaland is suggestive that you are damaged psycologically so I will advise you once more to stay off my mentions. Go and vehement your bitterness somewhere else.

Mstick:
The crazy thing is he thinks he makes so much sense, no wonder his wife left. Who wants to spend the rest of their life with a man that thinks a woman being happy isn't important.

When I read talks about my wife leaving I don't just laugh at your ignorance but I tend to understand better why people like you can not hold a relationship.

When you are so dumb and brain dead, you tend to leave the subject matter and start attacking the person...it is a clear sign of a low IQ.

If not that nairaland has no section to separate mature people from teenagers I don't think you will even qualify to view this thread that is way ahead of your mental comprehension.

CHoccolaTE:
Why not advice your fellow men to stop cheating and show love to their wives instead of forcing women to accept crap and maltreatment.

Start creating topics to encourage men to behave themselves. Women did not come to this world to chop men's bullshit.

This is where you got it wrong and will forever get it wrong if you refuse to wise up.

ONLY FOOLISH LADIES WORRY THEIR HEADS ABOUT A MAN'S FIDELITY...can I write it in another language you understand?

If you don't see my threads as an advise for reasonable lady to follow and be happy then be ready to cry a river when or if you find yourself in the situation.

Asking me to preach about fidelity is not only childish but lame..with all the sermon men have been hearing why are they still cheating?

This write up is as realistic as day and night only for the wise but it is your choice to continue to live in delusion.

Believe what you want if that will make you sleep well.

CHoccolaTE:
The guy is now so bold, declaring that women don't need love or faithfulness from their husbands but must continue submitting to same husband and raise God loving children.

I no come know which religion him dey follow that allows men to cheat and not show love to wives but wives must submit to them.

On the contrary, because people like you can not submit to a man, it is utterly baseless to even think you can sustain a marriage so just go ahead,have a child and face your front.

Marriage is not for people like you.

truthsayer009:
Hmm oga Toks well done oh. Today epistle na big wa!

E no follow at all, this your Post na Sadist playbook. Women who would live their life in perpetual sadness LMAO.

"Even if he is the philandering type you can simply switch him in your mind from a husband figure to a booty call" --- O boy, you go Wicked gaan oh. Ahn Ahn.

Satan dey learn work for your side

I think Satan should be more scared of men who are so mean that all they do is mess up the lives of ladies.

My write up will make sense to any reasonable woman who understands that there is nothing any lady can do to right the menance of Randy men.

They come online to bark like dogs but they still go back to face the harsh reality...some of them are now so clueless that they have accepted that most guys are Randy but if you must cheat then you must be rich.

My guy abeg I no fit shout. My threads are in support of ladies but cos I write realistic stuff, the ladies with indomie brains won't catch the drift but the wise ones wiĺl understand.

CHoccolaTE:
Lol you already know his way of requesting front page, very irritating thing.
Lal@sticlala hope this makes sense?
Lal@sticlala am I communicating?

Evil human human being trying desperately hard to frustrate women's lives because his former wife left him.
And the lal@sticlala gan does not waste time to carry his evil agenda to front page for all the sociopaths and sadists to cheer him on.

You no do your FBI work well.

Yes she left but that was not the end of the story...go back to where you got the info from to finish the story.

Tantafo.

Guest007:
I swear op has some personal issues with happiness

I wish you would respect yourself and go and find your age mate so you don't have to try so hard to brainwash lil girls into taking what their aunties left behind...

Please who exactly has issues with happiness if not people like you who tie their happiness to a man's fidelity or love towards them.

The wise will catch the message whilst dreamers like you may learn the hard way.

Many of us wouldn't have been born if our mothers tied their happiness to the actions of their husbands but indomie kids are so deluded exhibiting mumuisim in the name of lovey dovey.

PrimadonnaO:
I won’t say what I’m inclined to say. But may the Lore give you wisdom.

Must your life revolve around a man loving or staying faithful to you? Are there not better things to life than all these madness about a man loving or staying faithful to a lady?

May GOD GIVE YOU FORESIGHT.

jesusjnr:
Not saying it truly happened, but that such had happened before on several occasions in the Bible as this instance:

Acts 12:4-11 (KJV)

4 And when he had apprehended him, he put him in prison, and delivered him to four quaternions of soldiers to keep him; intending after Easter to bring him forth to the people.
5 Peter therefore was kept in prison: but prayer was made without ceasing of the church unto God for him.
6 And when Herod would have brought him forth, the same night Peter was sleeping between two soldiers, bound with two chains: and the keepers before the door kept the prison.
7 And, behold, the angel of the Lord came upon him, and a light shined in the prison: and he smote Peter on the side, and raised him up, saying, Arise up quickly. And his chains fell off from his hands.
8 And the angel said unto him, Gird thyself, and bind on thy sandals. And so he did. And he saith unto him, Cast thy garment about thee, and follow me.
9 And he went out, and followed him; and wist not that it was true which was done by the angel; but thought he saw a vision.
10 When they were past the first and the second ward, they came unto the iron gate that leadeth unto the city; which opened to them of his own accord: and they went out, and passed on through one street; and forthwith the angel departed from him.
11 And when Peter was come to himself, he said, Now I know of a surety, that the Lord hath sent his angel, and hath delivered me out of the hand of Herod, and from all the expectation of the people of the Jews.

So if God had done it then, He could still do it today, for God is the same yesterday, today, and forever, and with Him nothing shall be impossible.

God bless.

Philips 8:39 would have been a better place to quote.


39 When they came up out of the water, the Spirit of the Lord snatched Philip away. The eunuch never saw him again but went on his way rejoicing. 40 Meanwhile, Philip found himself farther north at the town of Azotus. He preached the Good News there and in every town along the way until he came to Caesarea.

sarrki:
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NEWS
Allow Nnamdi Kanu come home to bury his mother, Imo monarchs tell FG
Published

Sunday Nwakanma – Umuahia

Monarchs in Orlu, Imo State, on Thursday, appealed to the Federal Government to allow the leader of proscribed Indigenous People of Biafra, Nnamdi Kanu to return to Nigeria for the burial his mother, Sally, without molestation.

This appeal came at Amakwo Event Centre in Orsu Local Government Area of Imo State.

The royal fathers led by HRM Eze Gideon Ejike said, “Kanu is not a terrorist. Terrorists kill but we are yet to see any bloodshed by Kanu. He is our hero and should be allowed to bury his mother before the beginning of next year. He deserves the honour and right as the first son to bury his mother.”


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The monarchs also called on the United Nations to prevail on the FG to allow Kanu to bury his dead mother without molestation.

The traditional ruler of Orsu ancient kingdom in Ideato North LGA said Kanu had brought hope to the oppressed people of South East and South-South Nigeria, hence their decision to bestow on him a chieftaincy title


https://punchng.com/allow-nnamdi-kanu-come-home-to-bury-his-mother-imo-monarchs-tell-fg/

Kwanu the kwaward. A true freedom fighter should be fearless.

liberalchick:
You’re not answering my question. The adoption process is neither cheap nor straightforward. Some husbands refuse to raise an adopted child. We both know that in Nigeria, there are childless marriages. So I will ask again, what happens to the wife in a childless marriage?

See me see trouble o. If she is so poor that she can't afford the options mentioned abeg wettin make I do?

Let her accept her fate biko and stop disturbing me.

pocohantas:
I no talk am?

Trouble maker...you tried so much to justify your erroneous conclusion that you had to crop out a phrase yet you still couldn't.

So what is wrong with what you maliciously cropped out?

IAMBlesssed:
What an advice...

To those that will heed this advise, remember you re on your own if you finally lands in a loveless marriage. When ur story reaches Nairaland front-page seeking for advice, you will only get sympathy and insults. .
Ladies be careful, marriage is deeper than all these stories. In my opinion it's better to be single and be happy and productive with ur life than being with the wrong partner. Bad marriage is destructive, it drains you. People be wise..

Chai! Is it that you are just troublesome or clueless or maybe unintelligent cos what you wrote is just a paraphrased version of what my thread is all about.

I think some ladies only have brains for rancour.

liberalchick:
These options are not available to all infertile couples and it is expensive. So what happens to the wife in a childless marriage?

Adoption is the cheapest option. There are orphans every where.

liberalchick:
So what happens to an infertile wife?

There are options like getting an egg donor for her husband or she can adopt any orphan

PrimadonnaO:
A woman doesn’t deserve happiness, yeah?

Her purpose in this life is to go into a loveless marriage, with a philandering man... and at the same time be ready to raise her children all by herself.

How beautiful!

Here we go again... if your kids cant give you the 100% happiness then you need to have a rethink.

bukatyne:
If our mothers' way was perfect and they had well brought up kids, wouldn't their daughters (us) be perfect?

Abi you have forgotten that the terrible daughters of today were brought up by the perfect mothers of yesterday.

Despite overwhelming evidence, we are all in denial that the mothers hailed as been content with their lives must have secretly abhorred it to collectively raise the daughters of today.

Off topic.

pocohantas:
Toks I get your time today. Drop that your blockbuster o. I want you to prove me right.

E be like sey you go write am for me cos you don derail the thread already even before it exists.

What you fail to realize is that no matter how you claim to be tired of reading about my romance threads.. you cant rule out the fact that my approach makes every thread of mine worth reading cos I don't write what people expect to read.

pocohantas:
There is nothing new he would write!

I am sure he is brainstorming to prove me wrong now. Make una advise unasef small na.

Next thing na to dey tag lalasticlala

"Lalasticlàla, I am sure you will find this enlightening"

"Lalasticlàla, don't sleep on this"

"I would still not want Lalasticlalà to miss this"

We have these manuals already ooo

Wettin I do you this Babe? Are you In love with Me? Let me know and I will gladly make you a legitimate concubine.

Doñt worry I will take care of you.

A lady posted this on her whatsapp status and I quite agree with her...infact any lady with her mindset is totally liberated.

Geminita1:
Copy and paste loading

Hahahaha, this cracked me up. I understand your position judging from the fact that not many people are gifted in freelance writing. I don't do copy and paste. It flows from my head effortlessly.

You can google this title and you will be amazed only nairaland will come up as your search result talking about this very thread.

In the days of our mothers when marriage had great value and respect, women don't wait to fall in love before they marry any man but they marry first and grow to love, respect and appreciate the man with full submission and only one thing was most vital to them....RAISING THEIR CHILDREN and ironically, they rarely depend on the man to help them achieve this and the only basic thing they needed the men for was satisfying their sexual needs even when the men were perceived to be overly demanding for conjugation and polygamous.

Fast forward to the present-day... Women want to be sure the guy matches their fantasy and that they have feelings for the man before they even date him, marriage to them is all about feelings and sparks. They want a man that will remain faithful to them, a man that can take care of them financially and in most cases, it ends in heartbreak with a resultant negative effect on the children that ought to be their main priority.

Whilst there are few ladies who are fortunate to be with very responsible husbands in all ramifications, we can't rule out the fact that most ladies are enmeshed in a marital union with irresponsible men and this thread is for the latter group.

To understand my message better I would like every lady reading this to answer this question by picking an option.
If you are married with kids and your husband sleeps with another lady or behaves offensively asides domestic violence which is life-threatening what will you do?

A. Leave your marriage, stay single and celibate for the rest of your life and also expose the kids to the consequence of a broken home?
B. Leave your marriage and expose yourself to randy men to be used as an intimacy gadget in the name of finding ''a faithful or a good man''.
c. Remain in your marriage and focus on improving your life and that of your child(ren) and also creating balanced parenthood for your kids whilst switching your mind off from the madness of your husband?

WHAT IS MY POINT?

Enough of this never-ending menace of single motherhood as a result of misplaced priority in their marriages. Your main priority as a woman in this one life you have is not to love a man or worry your head over a man being faithful to you or his actions or inactions. Your number one duty is to be the best you can be, bring forth and raise a GOD loving generation and stop running out of your marriage with the illusion that there is a better man out there.

The truth is.. There is nothing out there. Every man out there has a demon he is battling with so stay in your marriage and make it work.

Enough of these horrific stories of ladies killing their husbands because they have eyes for other women. It just doesnt make any sense and leaving your marriage is no guarantee that the bext man won't do worse.

Your basic and paramount role in life is to raise a generation so focus more on that and stop chasing a facade in the name of feelings and love from a man that could promise you the world today and leave you dejected the next day.

My candid opinion.

iRyan:
Gosh, humans are such egocentric creature. What makes you think you have nothing to lose? Is your religion the only religion on the planet. Your religion is just one out of thousands of other religions. You have everything to lose as you would not believing in Jesus because either way the probability of haven picked the true religion out of thousands is slim. You and an atheist have about the same chances of haven picked the wrong faith.
You religious folks should just cut it with the whole religious supremacy bs already its nothing but divisive and becoming redundant.

Save all your rhetorical bugaboo.

After we die, one of us will finally know the truth.

TheCalculator:
Gowon never declared war but police action, Pls research on it well

The root cause may not be unconnected with the first coup in Nigeria staged by mostly military guys from the East but as I wrote, wars are avoidable.

Spot on.

Hero my Ass...i don't care about any lame excuse Gowon may give for justifying his actions. And I also blame Ojukwu too.

Wars are avoidable.

Olalan:
That's not completely true as we have majority of the guys still chasing after boobs and ass. Cause that's what can explain the reckless cheating by men both single and married in this generation

They chase after them but rarely marry them but only use them.as intimacy gadget.

Supnaija:
Point taken. But one reason I don't believe in heaven or hell and more in reincarnation is because most of our parents are reincarnated.
And if truly heaven and hell existed and the only ticket is through Jesus. All our fore-fathers are in hell, which to me does not sound fair because they did not hear anything about Jesus till the white men came to tell their descendants.

There was a criterium GOD used to Judge before Christ came...and that was simply their faith,belief and submission to him.

Romans 4:3
"Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness."

Supnaija:
Then there should be clear messages that state what actually happens after we pass away not these bull shit religions tell us plus there should not have been a negative emotion attached to us so we feel so much loss when someone dies.

From the stories in the holy books and people who have had a near death experience, it is believed that there are two places called heaven and hell.

I also understand from the holy books that if I accept Jesus as my saviour, I have a better chance of going to heaven...

I don't know if this is true or false but one thing I know is that it costs me absolutely nothing to accept Jesus as my saviour so I did just that in 1987.

If I die today through any means at all and I find out I made the right choice, I have everything to gain and nothing to lose but if I find out after I die that accepting Jesus was not necessary then I have nothing to lose.

Think about this.

Chummynoni:
imagine life. this life is truly vanity. rip

More like a mystery.

Tina26:
Life is a scam. God is using us to play grand theft auto. May he be judged

If I say I don't understand your position I will only be a fool...

Nevertheless it is important for us to understand that death to us humans can be a misery and a mystery but to GOD it is home coming cos this earth is just a temporary abode for us.

People must die in one way or the other to create space for people to come in and the balance of life and death of humans must be maintained cos this earth has a finite space that can only accommodate a specified population of humans.

GOD is more concerned about our infinite indestructible souls which is the real us and not our destructible human bodies.

People must die in different ways and no one can specifically predict how he or she will die...but the most important thing is where our souls go to.

It is well and I pray we all live long in Jesus name.

Such a sad tale.

rentAcock:
That rolls Royce was funded with money that should've paid house rent, paid school fees or paid medical bills. That Rolls Royce is funded with money that should've been invested in landed properties or a small business, instead it was gambled away.

The government should ban all forms of gambling and betting because in the long run the masses lose and the house always wins. Many people have committed suicide for this man to enjoy such opulence.

It's a matter of choice bro. He no force anyone.

coolcharm:
Where are the pastor bashers?

U guys should come and bash o or forever remain silent!

In most cases, behind every good will there is always a self interest.