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sanpipita:
Lol this op is probably a teen, there's no manual to get married, just find someone you feel its compatible, sex is secondary to any relationship that leads to marriage

This is not a manual but a simple advise i will gladly give my daughter or any young lady i know.It is what it is..an advise.

Originalsly:
Bro...what kind of advice is this? Most guys will be ready to sleep with a lady that falls in love with him...... the prospect of marriage will not be on his mind period.....what will be on his mind is should he make it a one night stand...or should he stick around for some more. Your advice is to devalue a lady.
@ topic..... one year is too short a time to know a lady well enough to even suggest marriage. People who jump into such are always in divorce court shortly after.

I perfectly understand. We guys are weak when it comes to sex and even me that gave the advise wont mind sleeping with a lady that allows me on a first date but this is not about us guys but it is about the ladies wising up.

It will be hard for any guy to have marriage plans for a lady who gives him unhindered sex on demand.

The advise does not devalue any lady rather it encourages them to have value for themselves and prevent men from disvaluing them by using them as sex gadget in the name of dating,making them have series of abortions,use them as technical house wives and at the end in most cases,dump them for another victim. And lastly,except you are a boy who is confused about what he wants,a year is even too much to know if that lady is the type you can marry.

jaymex:
Baba wan shaparly run one babe down , Ole somebody, if u are dating this guy on this platform, or this guy is asking u out. Don't give it to him just stop there

loi! You wish.. i am even amazed that i have never dated any lady on nairaland since over 10years that i joined.

funmisticqueen2:
awesome post

Thanks sis but I don't think lalasticlala thinks it is.

One thing I know and I will keep reiterating...if indeed Jubril is who we have in Aso rock today then Saraki and atiku would have sold their soul ten times over to the devil to reveal the hoax.

SolutionMee:


So sad that one of them was recently defeated in the last concluded VP debate. That's even after doing an errand boy for an ugly dictator. A colonial master with a dark vision.

BTW... A short man with a gray hair, is that one still a human? Osibanjo's only undoing in life is trying to defend the undefendable failed leader "Buhari" in politics.

I weep for him.

I know you want likes...

Eberechi24:
Very much on point. Many guys will not be in relationship if sex is not into play

I keep friends now. Friendship over relationship.

Gbam!

Boyooosa:
And some mumunis will still be following this mumu mumully...smh.

Have you noticed that igbo illiterates are his followers? You will hardly find one well educated igbo supporting this mumu

This guy is just disgracing the Igbo tribe.

Bushy beards...he should trim

Jahwinaboy:
Ok. I personally don't like him but he appears a bit better than PMB. It's not as if he will sell everytin in 9ja. At least lets c if he can restructure Nigeria a bit. If he had been under APC,I believe some people will be hailing him

So you prefer him to restructure and loot the treasury...isokay..best of luck.

Jahwinaboy:
I believe Atiku is remorseful. Besides within 4years we can change him. TSA have automatically reduced looting and political parties are now divided along APC & PDP. Next level is dangerous o

I repeat..i will rather vote for a man of integrity with slow progress than vote a confirmed corrupt man like Atiku. His first line of action is to recoup all the funds spent on his bid for the presidency over the years...he was corrupt as a custom officer, corrupt as a VP. So I believe leopards never change their spots.

Never again shall we make that mistake of voting corrupt people in.

I will vote Obi any year he vies for presidency.

Jahwinaboy:
If u don't draw inspiration or model ur economy with China in view, u might be making mistakes. China is a perfect example in 1. Stable economy(even with their population),2. Socialist system 3. Regional and global player 4. Security 5. Inventions/technology etc. Obi as a practical economist is far better than Osibanjo lawyer and there are things time factor will not allow him to say. He is tried and tested in Anambra unlike Osibanjo that is just coming into governance. If the Economic policy of Osibanjo and Buhari is working, why is 9ja poverty ridden? Note, Obi has been in APGA not PDP. Argue wisely.

If Obi is vieing for presidency I will vote for him but under Atiku, NEVER

I agree with him

Obi won nothing. He was just ranting a wishful thoughts while Osinbajo presented realistic facts. Nigeria is not China or indonesia but a country with perculiar system that needs a perculiar module of success.

Osinbanjo gave realistic successful steps THAT HAVE BEEN TAKEN talking from experience and not wishful thoughts.

The most painful thing is that many people who are here supporting Obi may not even have watched the debate or are only bias and not realistic.

Look at the debate on free trade zone agreement for instance and look at how Obi goofed because he talked from ignorance whilst Osinbanjo gave a vivid point why the agreement is yet to be signed.

Akanni2424:
It's saddened that people supporting Obi have had preconceived notion to be biased.Obi was just highlighting bogus point without further explanations.Osibanjo was able to state his points and further explain in detail how all those points can be achieved.

Obi's supporters need to go and watch the debate again and leave the realm of their naive ideology

Many people who clicked like for Obi did not watch the debate.

yjgm:
The man with the blunt truth. I so much adore you Mr President. That's my C in C. PMB till 2023

He is annoyingly sincere just like me but the world hates truth.

kunleweb:
Toks he made the first.move,he sustained the relationship. He's a boy thats scared of closure. If he lives.long,qhen he's 60 you'll hear his regret story. No be today. May he find what he's looking for

Before nko? Who will make the first move?

The point is ladies in most cases fall for bad guys and they know they are bad but will still shook head just to cry latter of avoidable heartbreak.

kandi006:
And to think that somany people have judged and condemned this lady without knowing the real story, I can relate to her story though.

It baffles me to see how some people can be so mean and selfish. They walk into your life, claim to have somuch love for you at the beginning with somany promises, lead you ON for as long as they want only to wake up one day with somuch hate for you like they never felt a thing for you.

The question is:
how do you lead a girl ON for somany years?
Why plan a future with someone you know very well from the start that you will never end up with?
Why make promises you don't intend to keep?

How do you just wake up one morning after somany years to realise that you can't continue, what changed after the years? Why didn't you see those obstacles in the first 6months of the relationship?

I know there are still good men out there with morals and concience but for those That still play games with a woman's heart, be careful because what goes around always comes around eventually.

Aunt Linda, I must commend your courage and strength. I pray you find a good and genuine man who will love you unconditionally and be a great dad to Jayce.

In most cases you ladies are your own problems.

Most ladies have penchant for falling for bad guys and they usually know from the onset but that nature of loving the wrong guy won't let them be.

Fire cracker love.

Biglittlelois:
And she had to tell us she just had her bath, show us her stretchmark on social media, Op then decided with his warped brain to make this NEWS worthy and a mistake of a MOD decided to move it to front page, smh!!!

Lalasticlala won't move this to front page...maybe another mod did.

Sweet natural lady. Stretch mark is not a sin.

nazablossom:
That "cutting okra " got me. Why do people cut their vegetables in market sef

Only few African men can do this,nobody should fight their husbands after reading this o

I can do far beyond this so no biggy.

I love boobs no doubt but not this type.

TimiRume:
Maybe she found out she has a deadly sti like hiv, hepatitis b. Who knows, hope she survives.

All the best princess shyngle

FYI HIV is no longer life threatening.

If i make love to a lady and she does not cum or squirt then i have done nothing. If i could cum,she deserves to climax too.
BTW i watched the video and i think people misconstrued him.

I had to carefully watch the clips and i don't see any big deal in what the counselor said. That is his ministry and true to his words, your sexual life can impact positively or negatively on your spiritual life and I can relate to that.

Peterdreddblog:
Who is the most handsome man in the world? Many people are extremely crazy and enthusiastic of the glamorous world. There are many of the fashionable man and women who have taken attention of most people around the world.

Here is a compiling list of 8 most handsome men in the world

8. Denzel Washington

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Denzel Washington was born on 28th December 1954, in United States. He is an American actor and filmmaker. Denzel is one of the handsome American actors.

He may be big in age, however ageing seems to make him more handsome. He has very good height and looks very handsome.

7. Noah Mills

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Noah Mills was born on 26th April 1983, in Canada. He is well known model and actor from Canada. He has done few films till now.

He is very good looking person with a good height of about six ft. His hazel color eyes and brownie hair makes his look more handsome.

6. Robert Pattinson

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Robert Pattinson was born on 13th May 1986, in United Kingdom. He is both model and actor. Pattinson has also composed some of the music.
He is having very beautiful look and he is a mesmerizing man, who had attracted many of the women.


5. David Beckham

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David Beckham was born 2 May 1975) is an English retired professional footballer and current President of Inter Miami CF. He played for Manchester United, Preston North End, Real Madrid, Milan, LA Galaxy, Paris Saint-Germain and the England national team, for which he held the appearance record for an outfield player until 2016.

4. Tom Cruise

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Tom Cruise was born on 3rd July 1962, in United States. He is a very famous American actor and producer. Tom Cruise is the most handsome guy in the world. For him the age does not matter.

His charming look and dashing personality simply makes women crazy. He is very good looking and handsome guy.

3. Christiano Ronaldo

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One of the most expensive football players in the world, Cristiano Ronaldo was born on 5th February 1985, in Portugal. He is the most handsome soccer player in the world. He really looks very charming, many of the girls went crazy for this handsome guy.

His well-built body makes his personality very good. He has become a fashionable icon around the world, which has given him a celebrity like status.


2. Hrithik Roshan

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Hrithik was born on 10th January 1974, in India. He is very famous and celebrated actor in the Indian movies. This actor deserves to be in top ten lists as he is very good looking, heighten and very charming. There were many girls who had become crazy for this handsome guy.


1. Brad Pitt

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Brad Pitt was born on 18th December 1963, in United States. He is very well known celebrity and actor who has given lots of hit movies with his outstanding acting. He is relatively aged, however he still looks very handsome. He is has a very good body and style which can easily attract a women.

How well do you agree??

Source ==>

https://www.dredds.info/2018/12/top-8-most-handsome-men-in-world-2018.html?m=1

List not complete without me

Darkseid:
Them just dey use this guy head to make money and once his head stops producing oil, dem go dump am one side. I dey sure say this guy never touch up to 50k since that time.

Don jazzy ought to make him blow with the song "spell Buhari"

princfred:
So who gains if Atiku uncovers Jubril now? And can't the one who gains right away do a GEJ on Atiku? Who are at risk of being GEJed in the elections if Jubril is uncovered now?
Well, enjoy your self imposed ignorance. Everything is moving as planned anyway. As rat chase you out of your village. Surely that rat that chased a CoC from his deserved abode must be smarter than you or do you presume they achieved such fit by being dumber than you? Political enemies my left ball. :

Judt know - "Good" intentions from the onset but how it ends and the cruelty.......

At this point in time Atiku will be at vantage point if the so-called Jubril is uncovered because we all will lose faith in APC.. Common sense.

Abeg let me not waste my time any longer responding to vague and unfounded tales by moonlight.

I will still continue to wait with the hope of getting a vivid evidence.but till then...

PointZerom:
Just like the hand ball of Maradona, the referee and his assistants didn't see it and it became a goal, if they had seen it wouldn't have bn a goal.

If Atkiku and Saraki are beaten in this game of Jubril, it won't be a yardstick to disagree with the reality.

How come Buhari became shorter and unable to speak his native language Fulfude immediately he came back from London hospital?


What type of rat will chase a whole president away from Aso rock if not that they want to work on the security doors to enable Jubril's finger print....?


What did Aisha mean by this: "The man in Aso rock is not in control of governance, two men are the ones ruling Nigeria not my husband "


I am waiting for your reply.

And you are so gullible to see all these as vivid evidence!

Let me make it clear once again...im not holding brief that who we presently have in Aso rock is Buhari but nevertheless I am not yet convinced that he is not Buhari.

All these vague evidence not strong enough.