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While there are several reasons why a lady will be single above 30,i have come to realize that most ladies who are unmarried above 30 have terrible attitide...quote me anywhere.

And In most cases,many guys who are single above 30 are in that position cos they find it hard to find a good lady due to the same reason mentioned above...BAD ATTITUDE.

I know a country where ladies prefer a rich dwarf to a tall broke guy.

Who height epp?

Akanapiaigwe:


Buhari the illiterate terrorist knows that his time in aso rock is drawing close

he's now forming Democrat after saraki and ekweremmadu gangbanged him mercilessly

useless gworo chewing terrorist
shameless nonentity kunu sipping monkey vagabond gworo chewing bastard burukutu sipping gorilla

Thunder scatter Buhari Insha'Allah amin
Thunder scatter Buhari Insha'Allah amin
Thunder scatter aisha masha Allah amin

ngeneukwenu right now

E-warriors doing what they do best...wail and rant online. 2019 is just around the corner.

Clowns in power

cnonyechi:
In as much as what u said is true but really women need to pay attention sexually to der husbands. My husband tells me all d time dat a wife dat can't satisfy her husband sexually is preparing for doom and funny enough I believe him. We wives need to up our game if not na vacancy be dat ooo

See lets put jokes aside..any lady who can really deal with her husband in the bedroom has him 80%...quote me anywhere.

In all my years,if I close my eyes and think of the ladies I have ever come across...guess the ones that come to mind....those who really delt with me in a way I can not explain here but the sexually boring ones hardly come to mind...infact there is one particular lady i know i can never forget cos she really delt with me...but for my strong will i would have been her sex slave and that is what some weak men go through today,they have become so submissive to these sluts to the point of no return.

Me I know sey I spoil so any lady who wants to have me to herself must be ready to do crazy things otherwise sorry is her second name.

i recommend this thread for our women who wants to really keep their husband bound to them sexually...

https://www.nairaland.com/3372650/how-satisfy-spouse-mind-blowing#49703630

GistMeMore:
http://pmexpressng.com/why-married-men-preferred-us-wives-sex-workers/

Rubbish...only insane men visit brothels...there is no excuse.

lawrykings:
but your love and happiness is not guaranteed going into a relationship with the person that likes you

Neither is it guaranteed by going into a relationship with who does not like you...

I guess it is a harsh reality we have to deal with...We just have to hope to desire someone that will have a level of desire for us too and you just have to keep up trying to find such.

Amberon11:
Toks2008

It's surprising that you know this. So next time when creating one of your other numerous threads on "top 10 ways ladies can keep their men", do know that a man that doesn't want to be kept can never be kept.

I don't create such threads...i'm more into realistic contents.

Lalasticlala what is your take?

[quote author=pansophist post=69602362][/quote]Lol! You no well.

pansophist:
Of course, and the reason is simple.

Women wants security, protection and a provider. In the olden days, the warriors, strong hunters etc gets the best girls. It was a right of passage for men at those times. Right now, things have changed. A rich man will easily buy all of the above, and given the hypergamous nature of the female, such men are attractive in her eyes regardless of how he looks. To be able to fulfill a woman infinite material desires is something most men can’t meet hence, it’s difficult to ignore a rich unattractive man. There is no such thing as an unattractive rich man.

Furthermore, the reason why you’re attracted to women with curves is because attraction for men is based on youthfulness and fertility. A curvaceous woman are biological clue for fertility and youthful woman gives clue that she can conceive healthy children. That’s also a reason why people consider a woman above 30 a cargo.

So there you are, you’re obviously expressing your evolutionary hardwiring

Bobo yii ma se iwe...see analysis Lol! You try...

Dandsome:
Hmm with the above list, you'll realize the summary of what the op stated is DON'T EAT OR DRINK ANYTHING ON AN EMPTY STOMACH.

Everybody now na doctor and nutritionist

I just weak my brother...yet in another article they say fruits on empty stomach is very beneficial.

pansophist:
True. Additionally to the aforementioned, it is necessary to spotlight that our preferences to good looking partners have an evolutionary basis. Imagine a world where the ugliest, shortest, poorest get the girls. It simply means that such genes will be passed down the next generation and the human race will just get weaker and withers away.

Beautiful parents produce beautiful children. A billionaire is more likely to be produce from Dangote’s testicles than from a shoe cobbler. Humans tend to ignore our harsh biological predisposition but it’s what it is. Survival of the fittest baby

Nevertheless a lady whose preference is wealth will rather be with an ugly fat short guy with enough money to give her than be with a super drop dead gorgeous broke guy...nah still preference...

For me I find it weired that I don't care if a lady is pretty or not...just have that curve I want and im all yours even if your face is very ugly...that is a preference so you can imagine how a very pretty lady with pako body will feel if I reject her...

pansophist:
Actually, to impress a lady, you should be taller than her, handsome, nicely built, less than 12% body fat, well-trimmed and the best version you can achieve with your looks. It also helps if you are above her in social status

Ever heard of the ''halo effect''? I will tell you a secret. People (specifically women), do not say you are nice because you truly are, but because they like you and needs to project a good personality on you. Attracting a partner is something doable. Evolutionary biology has predefined guidelines on what is deemed attractive, try to learn, understand and achieve it. Being confident, nice shoes, positive are all complimentary but ultimately, the guy that embodies what I describe above get the girls. Go be handsome

This is exactly the point im driving at...do you know that some ladies will still find a guy with the aforementioned qualities unattractive?...but if such a guy is rejected he may start acting cocky because to him,he has all it takes to make any lady fall so why da fvk should any lady reject him......


Same goes for a lady...have you ever heard a supposedly hot lady rant about rejection before?...you will hear words like..."what again is he looking for,..im hot..i have front and back...im pretty but it is that stupid shapeless lady he is running after...bla bla bla"

But as I wrote,it's all about preference.

kimbraa:
SHM, modify your comment again. Just maybe one will get to me.

Lol! Actually I'm in a jolly mood so I chose to respond to you cos I don't waste time responding such comments so don't start feeling too important.

Go to bed dearie.you will get the likes you want tomorrow.

purem:
Someone just crushed the OP's self esteem and instead of him to share the story and laugh it off and get some advice, he decided to advise us

You still have some growing up to do...im a creative free lance writer and 99% of what I write has no correlation with my persona or life experience...

Apparently every movie writer writes about their lives...odensin.

purem:
Kuku tell us, u cannot perform Wella in bed.....

So that is all there is to life abi...omode n se e.

kimbraa:
Please, is there any man/woman above 18 who doesn't know what op just said already? If yes, then you need some growing up to do.

Oversabi...I T K...olodo

purem:
It's would've make sense only if you tell us what really happened

I think someone just rejected you simply because you're ugly

Or maybe becauseyou have a short diick

Actually it's the other way round.. And they usually get so pissed with me...

DonPiiko:
Toks2008 please I will borrow your first and second paragraph for twitter.

You are free.

There is nothing as painful and as embarrassing as rejection especially from someone you strongly desire...some find it difficult to cope with rejection and they tend to see themselves as inferior to whoever rejects them....some will start asking themselves questions like "was it my behaviour?,or what i said..could it be because I'm not fluent or the way I dress...but it has nothing to do with all these....that person may still reject you even at your best.

But as painful as it may appear I believe this is perfectly normal and should not be a reason for anyone to feel bad or insecure in anyway.

The truth of the matter is that everyone out there has a preference and this does not mean you are less better than who they want.

Some ladies can't stand a short guy,And some don't mind at all...some ladies love dark guys and some can do anything to be with a fair complexioned guy...some ladies only date men with very wide age gap while some can't date any guy beyond their age group.ladies just love crazy things about guys like beards,bow leg,pink lips,six pack,stammering,shyness,financial stability and so on and if you don't fit in there is absolutely nothing you can do than to try your luck somewhere else rather than making it a do or die thing.

As a lady,You are beautiful in your own unique way but that guy you so much desire might not even bother his head about you just because you are not what he wants...

Some guys love booty while some love tits...some love them big while some can die for a petite lady...some don't mind single mums while some guys can't date such....and the list goes on...

The epitome of this write up is to let you know that no matter how you look,no matter your condition or situation,you are not just going to be what some people want and at the same time,you are exactly what some people out there are praying and hoping for and the fact that you are rejected by someone does not mean thousands out there don't want someone like you.

It's all about preference....

Hope this makes sense.

I can't remember when I picked up my phone to call my dad for all the years he spent on earth but that does not reduce my love for him. In most cases guys tend to call their mum more often.

cococandy:
Right back at you

Lol! That was not an abuse...

cococandy:
Virginity means nothing unless you’re keeping it for someone who’s keeping theirs for you.

Soro niyen

2buffagain:
This comment is an unfortunate exhibition of:
- Your poor reading skills,
- Your inability to logically comprehend things as a woman.
- Your lack of wisdom making it impossible for you to assess a situation and extract the TRUE cause of a thing, rather than just the resultant effect.

Clearly she was verbally corrected.
In fact, it was this correction that caused her to throw away the eggs, wasting his resources because, I mean, "How dare you tell me to use less of something ?!!!". If you were a guest at someone's house and you were asked to reduce use of something, do you find it a totally acceptable and appropriate response to kukuma throw the whole thing away because you were corrected?

Apply wisdom when you read a story, and stop reasoning like the shiit in your anus is somehow intercepting your brains logical deduction processes.

It is HER ATTITUDE that caused the slap.
The eggs have nothing to do with it. It would have even been better that she ate the eggs than throwing them away to act like an untrained brat.

Exactly my point...i have not read the story yet i knew the slap was not really about the number of eggs and with good explanation there wouldnt be any issue.

ImaIma1:
If you are talking about the health aspect, i agree. Four eggs for me is a lot. I will even feel guilty eating it that is if i can even finish it.

The guy should have allowed her fry the eggs and eaten and later talk to her about it in a more sane way instead of making him seem stingy and petty.

Communication is really a mystery

The Embolden shows you have proper training..that is my point....breaking 1..2..3...4eggs to fry for yourself does not make sense at all. Have a great day.

lol...so true

Saff:
If 4 eggs is a luxury to you, I don’t know what to say other than it’s pitiful.

Why is everyone looking at it from the angle of money? does it sound right health wise and even logically? even if the eggs were so small she could still make do with 2 or maybe 3 tops.

Lets stop relating this with money abeg.

EmmaFitBody:
Dietary cholesterol in eggs (of any quantity) is totally safe for individuals that don't have a combination of diabetes and hypertension.

There has been updated research on the issue. I posted the links previously.

You can see how you are fooling yourself upandan on an interactive forum..i thought you said its entirely safe..I will advise you to read more and stop misleading people here.

EmmaFitBody:
Dummy still quoting outdated info. Eating eggs has no effect on bad cholesterol for healthy individuals. Check this research link and science article:

https://academic.oup.com/ajcn/article/103/3/895/4569580

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/02/160211083044.htm

Continue to fool yourself. Too much cholesterol is bad.Period.