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dingbang:
One man's treasure is another man's garbage

Such is life.

LordKO:
Look for your small-minded mates elsewhere. I will neither dialogue nor join issue with someone that doesn't understand what "ethical philosophies" mean, because assuming that you understand it, you wouldn't have made an unintelligent statement like "There are marriages that lasted barely six months after the couples, who are affluent, had dated for close to a decade.. Neither the longetivity of friendship nor the powerfullness of the bond keeps any marriage." LOL.

Also, I wonder where you got this from "From your arguement, marriages majorly crash when the physical attraction dwindles or riches goes into the thin air but that is exceedingly erroneous." certainly not from me, since my submission is pro marriage majorly built on immaterial attributes plus fancy.

My guy quit all this Grammer and face reality.

I'm a man who have seen much In this life and all this your Grammer can not bring sanity into the crazy world of romance.
Yes we have very rare cases of unconditional love. .maybe 1 in 100 or even 1000.

What I wrote is very factual and until you have been married for at least 5 years you will continue to blow Grammer and not see the facts.

The truth is that 99% of marriages are hinged on subliminal selfish interests which totally corroborated my write up.

omegaRealtoz:
Dear OP. Your write up is so wrong. Because it works for you does not mean it works for another. God that Instituted love is all wise so my dear even if you go into a relationship with these rules as time goes on one of you will still start developing feelings so whats d point. These are keys to loneliness.

My point exactly...let the feelings be secondary.

MichaelTLoni:
Arrant NONSENSE...Use the bible as your final arbiter before you lead people astray.im outta here.

Lol! I'm more spiritual than you can ever possibly imagine. All these people writing sermon here have no dotty clue of what a love affair is but only fantasizing. ...if you like preach from now till eternity. ..marriages will continue to crash and lovers will turn to haters so why fool ourselves.

GOD is the only one who can give true love and every human love is 200% business deal..quote me in heaven.

No one gets married to another without a strong reason and when you love with a reason then it becomes selfish and unreliable cos take away that thing and the love fades.

So please continue to daydream about what is right and write a novel on it
..the fact remains that there is no true love out there.

As far as I'm concerned,I will marry a lady that pleases me and I expect her to be with me if only I have what she desires and of course with time,the bond (not love) we form will probably keep us together till death.

Even if it never comes,we still remain together if the terms and conditions are continually adhered to withoit that crazy dumb emotional tupsy turvy facade called love and if it ever developes,it will be a mutually benefitting one.

ObamaOsama:
the op is right. if we all keep that in ur mind it will help us,


later the real love will come

Jupxter:
I like the ideas expressed in this thread, though it may seem difficult to accept, but many of the stuffs here seems legit.

Nice pic, by the way

Ose padi mi.

lalasticlala:
That's a wrong picture used by many bloggers. The guy is JIDE TOKAN, That's his wedding pic, see http://stylesit..com/2014/03/jide-bisola-tokan-wedding-ceremony.html

Wow! some bloggers and mediocrity be like nairaland and lalasticlala lol!

How you dey? i no too get time dey create threads nowadays as you no even send my threads again...make i take this break enjoy my vacation.

Nice work you re doing here..#thebestnairalandmodyet

I still wonder why many ladies with very big booty think they are admired by all men...well..count me out.#teammoderateandcurvy

deenee:
The guy is a drug addict that has been relapsing despite several rehab and intervention exercises


He was sent home from the UK when his drug addiction became a threat to the wife and kids and was kept under close watch and key.

There have been several attempts to rehab him but all failed and I guess Tinubu practically gave up. More reason why we never really heard about him.I alsogathered that the deceased is always around Lagos Island anytime he is not under watch where he has access to drugs. I suspect he must have gone on a drug binge which resulted in this sad event.


Drug addiction is a bad thing and I don't even pray for my enemy to have it. There Isa popular Naija pastor whose two kids (boy and girl) are chronic dug addicts. Gist is the pastor has tried everything possible even spirtual to no avail. Kids are currently in a rehab centre somewhere in Europe and have been there for four plus years with little signs of recovery but we are made to believe that they are "based" abroad.

RIP to the Deceased!

How sure are you about this story?

lalasticlala i think this is he picture.

Tamarapetty:
actually thought that was his mum

savagery...

When the slay queens are busy slaying and getting used and dumped by highest bidders, the not too fine ladies are busy settling down with sweet cute responsible guys.

I wonder why they did not put his pics..so for some of you who might be wondering what he looked like..here is his pics.

R.I.P bro

Neroski:
Thanks Toks. It's also my birthday today as well. Happy new month to u too

Wow! happy born day sis.

shinarlaura:
To these beautiful friends;

Lalas247
Sexybbstar
BiafranBushBoy
QueenSekxy
Makydebbie
Thepussyhunter
Mrdickhead
Martin0
Lefulefu
SuperSuave
Blackhawk03
Gypsey
Young03
Greenbullet
BluntBoy
Toks2008
IamRaizo
Slayer2
Pu7pl3
Tahra
Jaksmillioniar

May this new month be filled with love, happiness, Good will and all kind of success

Oh thanks my lady.

generationz:
but seriously toks you are always complaining of loneliness ,don't go and attract karashika in disguise as an angel of light
them plenty for hia

Who dey complain of loneliness? I'm good cos many people with partners are even more lonely than those who don't have.

I welcome you all to the month of November.

I pray that GOD'S mercies abide with us and his abundant blessings be ours in Jesus name....AMEN.

Happy new month.

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generationz:
hug pillow na lol

Chai! e rI aye mi lode.

12 year old! Suicide! Crazy

shinarlaura:
Na lie joor
I am doing great. What abt u?

Feeeling lonely...

shinarlaura:
Lol.. u re funny

I lie?
How are u doing? my sweetheart wey I may never be with.

shinarlaura:
Lol... your last statement is so funny

Yes o..serious headache.
At least if my woman no fine nobody go too drag am.
Look at you for instance..you no even get time for me cos guys too line up lol!

queenfav:
Thank you Bros.. Myself at 20 wanted the tall, dark, slay king kinda guy.. Now all I want is peace.I advice my younger friends to by all means date them TDH slay kings o and experience their drama.. So when you are of marriageable age and wiser, you would know what you really want in a man. My eye see pepper.. You will be wasting your youthful years on a man because he looks good in selfies, when what should really matter is your happiness and peace of mind. Finally, I choose peace biko. I am marrying a man that doesn't even care if i have millions, he still spoils me. He looks at me like i am art. He prays for me. He supports my dreams and even wants me attain greater heights. He can't stand to see me disturbed or worried without offering solutions and advices.I just thank God for him! I am more than happy and contented. There are guys you only date and hang out with (it's when you decide to turn them to husband you will know you can't rear a fish on dry land). There are guys you marry, ie if a lady really wants marital bliss o. It takes God, years of heartbreak and maturity to know the difference!

Impressive i must say.

I think most times,maturity comes with experience and age. I wish you well.

queenfav:
Aunty, for women who has seen a lot in the hands of eye candy guys.. After a while, you realize that how he treats you matters most. Shebi u saw oshiomole's wife? And u see how he looks? Have u read anything about their marriage having issues. That he is beating her, or she borrowed him the money he used to paid her bride price or that he impregnated someone else?Finally, peace is what matters o. Most of d cute and hot guys that appeals to a lot of women feels they are God's gift to women and therefore misbehave. Buchi Emecheta said in her book - The joys of motherhood that, "a man is never ugly". The day i reflected on that, was the day i made a life changing decision to never date any man based on his looks.I choose peace of mind, happiness, laughter over having an eye candy that would make my life hell.This isn't by any means conclusive, just a pattern i have observed personally.

You are blessed sis...this is why I write the epistles I put on naira land.

To a lady it's about a man that tends to your emotional needs,a man that truly desires you and not the one you desire
..if you want a man who does not want you,you are doomed but if you be with a man who truly wants you regardless of his looks,you are fulfilled romantically.


Most cute guys are too unstable...even me sef no dey look for hot babe again cos most of them are headaches. ..

tosyne2much:
Evening egbon Tokunbo

Bawoni? you no know sey sometimes you need to hype yourself cos the world is designed to bring you down...gone are the days when you allow people blow your trumpet...these days if you no blow am...you are on your own..after all,nah your trumpet so blow am well.

[quote author=tosyne2much post=61922683][/quote]You no well walahi..

Beemaz:
Please shut up. Don't carry your inferiority complex into this thread. If you think money is all girls are interested in, then you must be a fool. I have noticed that it's only broke guys who have nothing else going on for them that jump from thread to thread making these kind of statements.

It's obvious money is the only thing that can get you a woman. Shame on you, you pathetic thing. If you don't have anything useful to say then don't say anything.

Dude you are the miopic one here. In Nigeria,a rich man is a handsome mam and this has nothing to do with complex.

A Nigerian lady will date a handsome guy but will rarely be committed to you.

So in naija all the pics above is nada if you don't have ego.

I'm super cute and I have no complex but let's say it as it is.

Toks2008:
Wish I could do away with this crazy passion for freelance writing.Let me call mynd44 to see this and decide.

Who are the mods of nairaland asides lalastic...lala?

Her life,her choice and the consequence is hers....NEXT!

No comment.

tosyne2much:
Toks2008, God of unfaithful men

I'm a faithful guy biko. ..no spoil my name.

MaritzaNL:
To enjoy a marriage, its better to settle for a lover.

Love is very important.

Issokey. Continue searching for a lover.

Nice bustline. ..African skin rocks...