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Sacluxpaint:
You some marriage counselor or something?

Eke40seven:
A good piece you have there.

The reactions of many Nairalanders to topics has a way of 'dumbing' down other readers. You can hardly have an intellectual discourse. No analysis, no intelligent inputs, just a bunch of jobless kids fighting to display their emptiness first.

On to this matter, you are right on point. Kitchen skills, total control of your bedroom and fill your house with complete happiness. Make the man willing to be no where else but home, that's the real super woman!
And of course, the woman must make a good choice of a man. It takes two to tango!

rose54321:
Well said, though i am a strong proponent of coursthip.

Methinks there are certain things you cannot know in a few months, it's a normal human tendency to "form", we all do it.
On the first few dates we are conscious of what we do, say, and how we act. So rather marry the "formed up" version of someone why not take the time and break that formality.

OkoYiboz:
The OP is like an agbero in this area. He's an unmarried bachelor n his 40s[s] who has never married.

His advice hasn't helped him in life, don't be a guinea pig.
Take marriage advice from him at your peril. [/s]

ItsQuinn:
Sorry I can't date or have a courtship less than a year. Kolewerk! Mine is 4 years at least before tieing the knot.

stagger:
You are obviously not married. I did a long courtship and I can tell you that my wife and I have achieved great things together with more to come. Marriage is a great institution if you make the right choices.

Young03:
But toks u don c things oo
ur getting older oo
y not pick one of these nl girls n mak them ur baby mama

tosyne2much:
I swear this write-up sweet die

Oga Toks2008, what about me who lacks the skills of other room nko?

Alesandese:
You are right. But partners shouldn't rush either. I believe it's better to be late than being late. Individuals should do what is best for them

mctowel01:
Toks2008 Are you married?

Mortiple:
So ...

I get it ... your body (that he licked) inspired the tongue he spoke?

But where are the photos, bank statements, etc you promised to tender as evidence?

Not until you provide a convincing evidence, I will not believe you.

Alesandese:
To each his opinion. I don't believe in cohabiting....its like seeing all you need to see before marriage. The enthusiasm won't be there no more, nothing will be new, moreover what's the point of rushing into something you will be stuck in till God knows when? .

Alesandese:
Now I know you are pained . Ranting like a broken record...typing shiit outta his trash filled brain. Go ask your mother why you were born a wimp! You son of a cursed generation


Your imagination baffles me tho... Is that your life history up there . Sorry I am not the reason you were born into such miserable family! featherbrain monkey

Guestlander:
Another round of meaningless obfuscation. How difficult is it to ask the lady and the pastor to provide their passports and all these nonsense can be laid to rest.
Is it by coincidence that a "cheap prostitute" and a pastor are traveling to the same country and staying in the same hotels at the same time?
Nigerian are weird if you tell them your governor is a thief they will reply by saying the governors of Adamawa and Gombe are also thieves just to obfuscate the main issue.

TinaAnita:
A couple living next to my house had a serious argument today. The husband was so mad at the wife for sending a message to their landlord, I don't know the content of the message but I heard the man fuming and scolding the woman and the woman in question was giving it back to him back to back. Some women will never learn, how can any sane woman test the patience of a man who is already raging like fire? What if that man picks up an object and use it on her? Thank God no blood was spilled all thanks to those who intervened.

TINALETC3:
Just pray u marry a gud man while u 2 b a gud wife, 4get Al dis blah blah blah wey u dey yan, d highest u cn do is divorce.

NotOfThis:
I was looking forward to this topic as well but the rate at which people derail good threads in this section is something else.

Viewing:
Sigh... Marriage. A necessary evil.

If I were faced with the options in real time, I'd rather the philandering husband. No time for charms from the second wife.

Just wondering though, Toks2008. What type of husband do you plan to be?

alignacademy:
Kudos to Don Baba Jay!

By the way, how much do you really need to START a business?

If we bear in mind that starting is a PHASE, it can help take off the pressure of trying to get big immediately.

For instance, what if this lady had focussed first on providing mobile catering services to nearby offices and organizations?

That could have gotten her a customer base which will provide the cashflow that will fund further expansion...and she for no lack oil.

Or what do you think?

dollyjoy:
All I see is a dark empty store and bags of pure water. Is that all she achieved with 250k

neoapocalypse:
Stop giving excuses for your unfaithfulness

NgoziOkoli:
another useless fool creates another useless thread

Bomich:
Am proud to be a celestial,i have a wrong perception about the church before but i have seen the difference now,HALLELUJAH,It is a church with unique and incomparable format of worship.

cutestcuty84:
Hmm to some extent you are right sir but the church I attend only give those outsiders that come in mofty money,most times 2k or so....I'm always sad whenever I see a particular twin at church,they lost their dad to accident and the church has refused to help these kids..They could not take waec last year cos of money,this is really common in celestial.I lived in a celestial church for four years,slept on bare floor coupled with mosquito,no one was willing to take me in...i thought celestial church is about love

cutestcuty84:
Sir,it seems you'v been in celestial church for long,can I ask a question maybe you can enlighten me and I will stop feeling bad.Why is it that celestians this days find it hard to help widows and the needy from their church rather they prefer to give alms to outsiders that come to church for help.
I was born in celestial 20years ago and I wasn't blind to the contributions of my dad towards the growth of my church before his death...After his death,they only paid us a visit once and that was it,despite that we didn't change church.
I went through hell while at school ams thank God I graduated well and great.Two weeks ago,I wrote to my church about help concerning my final clearance,certificate and convocation fee which is not up to 30k and I told them how much I have been able to raise as a struggling little girl.Mind you,I wrote to them first in january but didn't get any reply.Yet,they will put down tray on Sunday to collect money for the needy,who are they giving the money to exactly??.
i'm not pained as I believe there is always a way out of every tunnel but it is a case of the god that can't save me should leave me the way I am.Most times,I just feel like leaving the church.
Can u explain what I am not getting to me?.Or financial assistance is a taboo in celestial?
cc celeboi
anuoluwapo23
Freeezzz

DirewolfofStark:
If indeed he was truly a Christian (which I actually doubt) then the fact that he was a polygamist already made him unsuited for playing any sort of ministerial role. How could a man with 34 wives stand on a pulpit before a congregation and honestly expect to command respect? It is obvious that from the life he led he lacked the discipline to control his sexual libido. This is one of the big problems causing scandals in the Church today. Some men who are slaves to what is in between their legs have taken it upon themselves to be called Men of God, and it is discrediting Christianity.

Ranchhoddas:
Interesting and enlightening I must say. What are your biblical justifications for your white garment and going without shoes even on the road?