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E don dey change mouth.

Otondo. If you serve Jona under APC you are working for APC. Period

Roseey0:
If he follows this advise. He will have like 12wives before 70yrs. If you don't discipline yourself to be with 1 woman, you will never stop

If he likes let him marry 1000.

LadyTara:
Exactly why men should set their priorities and know things they cant live without even after marriage and seek out a partner that won't make them compromise on it.

If bj is what will make marriage easy for you by all means seek out a lady good at it and don't go and bring someone's daughter who doesn't want that to come and change because of you.
Na there wahala dey.

Some men can go years without sex ,when it's there it's there when it's not they take it like that and don't get furstrated about it. While some will seem like they want to die if they don't fvck for a week ,such people have no business being in a long distance relationship or with a woman with low libido.

I don talk my own. All man and woman to his or her own.

I know ladies who say they will have issues in their marriages if their husbands don't go down on them.

Sex is vital in marriage.

AfroKnight:
I would be surprised if you are surprised by your obsession with her. You two were in a sexual relationship for 2 years. It would be difficult to withdraw.

Keep trying to ignore the urge to call. You’ll get over her in time.

It takes just once bro. Not even 2years.

I tell these married ladies to up their games in the bedroom. Sex is important.

For instance, I don't know how I will ever cope with a wife who can't give me crazy head and let's say I'm married to a lady who says she can't give head n I now have a sexual encounter with a lady who gives me a mind blowing BJ...

Nothing will separate me from the latter.

Ladies please and please, try to make your husbands happy in the bedroom and verseversa.

I can't stress this too much

NLElder:
Get her pregnant? We are not visiting each other again. I have let her be It's just my obsessing about her left and which is what I need help about.

Guy forgettit... You will never get over her except you make your wife do what she does sexually.

NLElder polygamy is not a sin. You should have married her if she doesn't mind.

I dont understand the problem you put yourself.

I dont understand this sidechic thing at all. WHY Should lady be a side chic to a married man? Why not just marry him and stop sexual immorality.

Guy you are in deep trouble cos you may never get over her.

oladipupo2234:
Nigerians and the "i better pass my neighbour mentality" Must you come online to flaunt your success all the time? I understand how joyous you feel at the moment but trust me, you dont need this publicity

Be grateful to your maker and celebrate your wins with your family and well wishers only. I pray those bad spirits will not turn your joy to something else.

Meanwhile welcome to Uk, and all the best

Guy nah you go check yourself.

Going to UK is just an experience whilst some see it as an achievement.

What if he makes a YouTube video and cashes out with it.

Guy biko negodu there.

9jaHustler:
Woke up 4:45am this morning and everywhere was bright like 9am

That is summer for you.

And it stays clear till 9p.m.

9jaHustler:
Stay tuned......

Our luggage at Manchester Airport.

Thank God for journey mercies

Make sure you visit London proper and visit fun spots. No place in UK like London.

Hayzed0601:
With all due respect, Toks2008 is one of the most matured person I've ever come across in Nairaland.Man has experience in multiple facets of life.I always learn one or two things from his post.Respect.

Eseun.

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

Guy relax.

She will come back. Don't do anything like using army or anything like that... Just chill, relax yourself and act like nothing happened.

Send her messages from time to time asking after her n the baby.

If you are truly the father of that child, she will get over her present situation and come back to you.

She might be going through a mental health condition called Postpartum psychiatric disorder.(Irrational behavior after childbirth sometimes during) many ladies go tru this. But provided she hasn't benn acting rebellious prior to getting pregnant.

This is the time you should support and care for her by not heating up the situation.

Only Peter Obi can move mountains for PDP but now that he has left PDP, I pray somebody like osinbajo wins APC primaries and then it will be R.I.P for PDP.

But if APC foolishly presents a man like Tinubu, then APC is dead.

Tinubu can never win any general election in Nigeria.

If APC delegates are only interested in primaries then let them bring someone like Tinubu but if they are interested in winning the general election then somebody like Osinbajo can make that happen for APC.

It is simple common sense.

With Obi gone from PDP, I will say R.I.P to PDP.

But the hope of PDP will be rekindled if Tinubu emerges as the APC flagbearer. �

Any candidate from PDP will win Tinubu in the general election.

VenumX:
I attended a private school. They didn't flog but were very strict with us. Any wrong move and you are out of the school.

The bolded can only happen in a school where the teachers have no authority at all and have no say. Some schools are just all about the money so anything the parents' say goes.

By the way, are you toks2008?

Noooo Wan ni fi elomi se mi o.

I dont know why the guy use the username. wahala

Samken2:
How can I start Bitcoin pool mining and what are the necessary steps.
And can I mine and sell my 0.0056 Bitcoin through exchange platform like binance

You can Google that. I have no idea

1880eig:
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Why the cancelations?

America is the most dangerous country to live in the whole world and I will explain.

In many countries dim unsafe, they know who they are running from and even in Nigeria we know BH, IPOB, ungun known men, kidnappers, ritualists...

But a country where you are not sure if the person sitting next to you won't use you to practice shooting game is indeed extremely dangerous.

They should do something fast

Islandlady:
Seriously! Sex is what most men think about everyday of their life! Men think about sex all day long even the so called redpillars

Most times, I'd have different male friends I wish to remain good friends with but all they will be thinking about is how to have sex with me, too bad

Men pls think about something else apart from sex!!! T for thanks

SMH!

Sex is so overrated.

There are more valuable things in life far better than sex.

Infact I enjoy a good sea food with fruit wine and a delicious plate of eba and fresh fish soup more than sex.

Okonandmary:
All na story.

So na parental blessings go extend the life expectancy of Nigerians.

So it was idahosa that blessed dangote that is why he is successful not dangote background and hardwork.

Continue writing anyhow

There are lot of people in Nigeria who have parental blessings but are poor as a church rat.


The secret of success is simple, anything you find your hand to do, do it with all your might, work hard, be innovative, buy influence and you will never be poor

If I knew you have a closed mind I wouldn't have bothered responding to you.

If you are open minded and objective you won't respond the way you just did cos I articulated everything clearly.

Believe whatever you want guy. Cheers

All of us go kuku die one by one.

We can't escape it.

RIP sir

Joeyzinho:
The wedding Night e go baaad o! Knacking three women at the same time and having the energy to make the 3 of them climax. Walahi this man will drink 12 bottles of cubana bitters mixed with monkey tail.


Chai! Nwookma, you are the luckiest man alive! Take care of your preeq ..

See, the fantasy of many men (Me inclusive is to sleep with many ladies at once maybe 2 or 3) but one is constrained cos it will be a sinful act.

,But when you have the chance to do it sinlessly Omo nah to enjoy yourself o.

I envy this guy and all the three are super hot

DonroxyII:
Unfortunately, I didn't read your posts so be rest assured I didn't know what it contained neither did I feel what you felt


@ Toks2008 Your Left Nyansh

As you Wan use me catch star nah.

I did not attack her but I gave a general opinion and I even made it clear to her that I'm not judging her as the faulty party.

But i dont know why many ladies don't calm down but always quick to pour emotions into everything.

shadrach77:
It wasn't a lady oh. Ayinla bought a motorcycle for Baiyewu and wanted to retrieve it back from him after they had a quarrel. Baiyewu didn't want to hand back the motorcycle and this led to a scuffle

You did not follow the story.

Baiyewu left the band because Ayinla snatched his girlfriend.

The motorcycle thing was an after thought

micheal5772:
This is how I believed Ayinla Omowura died.

Yesterday I was playing one of his song on my phone (Omo Araye) around somewhere in Osun State.

I was actually in the midst of elders while the song was playing from my phone., While we were entertaining ourselves with the track the elders started talking about what they knew about him, his relation with Ayinde Barrister, the year that track was released, how they use to dance along while it's playing and a lot of memories they could remember.

As the youngest among them, I was very curious and I asked them politely ''Pls How did Ayinla Omowura really died? Who or what killed him? ''' and an old woman among the elders answered and said.

Ayinla Omowura was murdered in a Beer Parlour, that he was killed by a man after hitting him on the head with a bottle of beer , another elderly Man also added that Ayinla Omowura used to wear a ring on one finger on his right hand and that the ring mustn't get to touch blood that after he was hit by the bottle of beer he placed his hand on the spot where he was bleeding and he was wearing the ring on that very day.

So this is how I'm convinced that he died.

This is the true account cos I'm sure the movie producers must have done their homework regarding the true story.

Funny enough i was just searching for the root cause of the rift between him. N his manager online when Google pointed me to this thread.

FEAR WOMEN O. It was actually a lady that caused the rift between him n his manager that culminated to his death.

BizLifeE:
I was only a child when Ayinla Omowura died. He was one of the most popular Apala musician of the 1970s.

Now fast-forward to many years later, we have been hearing various stories of how he died. There’s no official reason for his death. Official documents simply said he died.

Whereas mouth-to-mouth reports reveal that Omowura was trying to retrieve a motorcycle he bought for one of the band members, called Fatai Bayewu, following differences between them. The singer trailed Bayewu to a beer parlour in Ago-Oba area of Abeokuta, to retrieve the motorcycle. A fight ensued between them, and in the process, Baiyewu was alleged to have smashed a thick glass cup on Omowura’s head, who slumped and died thereafter.

Another sources say that Omowura was always loaded with charms, especially as a means of spiritual self-defense. He had a ring on one of his fingers, which must not be used to beat anyone; or else the person would die. When he was quarrelling with that Fatai Bayewumi, his erstwhile band manager, Bayewumi challenged him verbally. Omowura was greatly offended and he beat his own chest in an act of annoyance, saying: “Iyen emi naa?” (meaning “You dare me?). He had forgotten that there was a ring on one of his own fingers that must not be used to beat/hit anyone. He fell down and his tongue protruded. He died.

Which account is true? The first one or the second one? The accounts were given by old people who were Ayinla Omowura’s contemporaries. Which one should we believe?

How did Ayinla Omowura really die?


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I just watched his story on Netflix.

It was the first account that led to his death.

Brushstrokes20:
.... If it's about beauty, the wife is far prettier!

No be about beauty o.

If a lady of average physical looks or even below average handle you well for bed, walahi you go forget your supposed beautiful wife.

This is one aspect many ladies don't know, it's not about forming "im your legal wife" or "you can't cheat on me" "look at the thing(referring to the mistress) you cheated on me with, she is even beneath me"... She is beneath you in physical beauty but far above in what matters to the man.

Some ladies don't even know how to make their husbands go crazy in bed yet dem go dey form wife material.

If you can't make your husband go mad in the bedroom then you just might send him to a woman who will and once he finds that lady, there is no turning back and you will have no other choice but to share him.

As a wife, sit your husband down and ask him to tell you his sexual fetish or oral fantasy and make it a reality... Trust me, you don win 80%, he is going no where and even if he cheats on you, he must run back to you.

And this is verse versa

Bluezy13:
10 days is not enough for a wife to be overtaken.
Either the man had always wanted to leave the marriage or the wife is not telling the whole story.

The man probably ran off cos in their culture you can't have two women unless you hide do am or you divorce one.

If nah for Naija the man go just make the Ukrainian a co-wife. The more the merrier

DonroxyII:
You prolly have better Sense of Reasoning than that Op

You are the Matured One for real!

He wasn't in the Situationship neither did he knew the Guy but see how he Judged everything like he was talking to his daughter:

That's how they use their Madness to make you go mad:

Who created a thread for specs and only to go about judging everyone rudely as if you are primal facie to the situation ...

Na you still come carry first lastlast with your Decorum and manner of ending the conversation: The guy you dished is better than Him and I also like the manner you dished him too:

Mad ones wey dey Form Sabi !

If you are a guy then you are a colosal waste of specie cos it is believed that men reason logically and not emotionally.

Stop being stupid and go back to read what I posted then come back here to apologize for your stupidity.

And if you are a lady please don't bother. Just stick to your comment.

BTW it is dissed not dished and it is prima facie not primal

Arindin fe fi mi gba star.

Have a great week ahead

Acidbath:
He doesn't believe what he is preaching.

Dont mind them.

They say one thing and do another.

pinkPUSSY:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/05/2023-presidency-lawan-refutes-reports-of-withdrawal-says-hell-emerge-apc-candidate/

If the north retains power, Nigeria unity will be jettisoned.

DonroxyII:
Junkie, leave me alone. No use me Dispels stress abeg.

I say me will say thank you for a Job a woman should Ordinary do because if she no do am nko? You said No ! To Your Tent o'Isreal.

Na fun I dey find no be stress.

If Marriage is a business contract then I helped you termed kids to be the products of the business contracts.

Or, if the kids are Responsibilities, there is no problem if a cashier brings you the bank statement and you still utter thanks to him/her.

It's just courtesy and compliments to make the other party feel appreciated. Don't give me stress.

Junkie

Diza46:
I will choose to be with the one who love me than to be with the one that I love who doesn't love me

But unfortunately many ladies don't marry the man that loves them but they would rather go for the one they love.

Have you ever heard a lady say "I know John loves me but I don't have feelings for him"?

This is the reality of many ladies. Every lady has phronesis(a special type of intelligence) that makes them know if a guy truly wants them but they usually ignore that intelligence and usually follow their feelings.

So whilst you may conclude to marry the one that loves you, if you have the option of picking between a fat short unattractive man that loves you so genuinely and a tall drop dead gorgeous guy who just want to woo you to catch fun, you may most likely go for the latter.

This is why heartbreaks and sad love stories will never end.

If every woman goes for a man who truly loves her and not just the one she has feelings for, they will experience less heartbreaks.