emmanuelbrown26: Sorry sir, I totally disagree with u sir. Few things are changing and I believe in few years to come, many eyes would be opened enough for men to see d reality of it. A woman can't decide a situation of marriage for me. Still d same weapon women hv being using against men. But I can't succumb to such a weapon bcs such a weapon is too small for my liking.
abimic: You are right with the bolded, I understand your point and I totally agree, if anyone wants peace, bring peace, if you want a caring man, be a caring woman, if you want a godfearing man, be godfearing and if you want love, bring love. So you are right, that is my school of thought too, do not expect gold when you are bronze. Life is stressful already, relationship should not come and compound it, whereas It should offer some form of solace.
It is a woman that decides the outcome of any marriage.
emmanuelbrown26: Which naija women, baba no dey deceive yourself jare. Na until u jam u go no how far. Forget about naija women for now, we know dem and dey know us that treats dem they way it should be
There is one Naija lady I helped of recent and if I use her as a case study I will detest all Nigerian ladies.
She is the worst Nigerian lady I have ever come across and to think she is looking for husband o.
I just told her bluntly that she is not ready for marriage and I also know another Naija lady that anytime I remember her I just envy her husband cos she is an embodiment of brain and beauty with great entrepreneurial acumen.
So Nigerian ladies are good and bad. You only need to be fortunate to meet the good one.
emmanuelbrown26: Baba, it pains me a lot that en always see it late. No naija woman deserves good man, they all deserves d bad and rugged ones. So sorry that u were good guy and that was while your wife decided to pay u back in coins. When I see many married men boosting about their 2ives.i just laugh. I hv dealt with married women a lot and I can tell u that 99.9% of them are just out their to Bleep any dick that comes their way
AdaAwka1: Funny enough most women in western worlds take America for instance, marry cos of wealth. Their aim is always the man's money and many of these women are lazy, they dont work or want to work but they want to enjoy life. I beg naija women are the best biko
Choilila: Who told you those that travelled overseas changed to positively? . You can say "some ".
One Jude, if he's around the Woman can't step out nor thinking about going to her fashion school. She owned it +she is also a businesswoman . My mama purity stays indoors 24H still the so-called Man return to overseas before she can step out.
Stargurl20: @Choilila, don't mind them jare. Infact, the way some NL men comment here speaks a lot about their level in all ramifications. At times I laugh at their comments wondering how much they have gan that they will be ranting that women are eating their money. A true rich and successful man with care less about it. Na those with peanuts get bad mouth, pride on top nothing.
Make woman just dey independent be Koko. And do not say because u are independent and so u wouldn't be respectful or submissive to your man but at the say time do not take trash from them. Naija men are good at dishing out trash
I think you got it wrong.
I personally care less how much my wife makes but the feeling that she is making her money is fulfilling but it is absurd for a lady to just exist by leveraging on what she gets from men.
bigpicture001: You guyz should know this and. Know peace..
A rich guy can never love a. Woman in Africa because sh works and makes moneey... They will rather go for a more. Beautiful lady... And never a working lady over beauty...
But struggling middle class men will makke do with a working focus woman because he can't get a a beautiful one.. since. The. Beautiful ladies wants only the rich guyz..
So don't be deceived, a man's first choice oqf wife in Africa and world over is a beautiful woman and not a working focused Woman
The average guyz need such women so they can combine and climb the economic ladder...
So are you saying beauty is synonymous to laziness?
Framed: I thought you said you have been successfully married for 21 years. Why are you praying for an industrious, submissive, financially independent woman again? Was baby124 right about you been a divorcee?
Unfortunately not many people understand creative writing.
Choilila: Don't mind them. All men on this forum thought all women are lik their sisters and mom.
I can boast in anywhere I don't own anything bought by a Man [bf ].Starting from the pens ,ruler, eraser and pencils I used from nursery to higher institution not to mention pants or other stuffs.
Sweetplum: Nativity be ti bawo? You said bad guys get the best ladies. I know you are a bad guy wannabe. Your level no reach. God ll save all innocent ladies from your clutches.
Sweetplum: I ll remain here Mr Tokunbo. And to men like you trying to carry fish that you can't afford. You can't get a good woman if you aren't a good man.
NeckingNgulping: I'm 100% sure you didn't get the question well.. Maybe, you didn't carefully read it before going on to display your sexual perversions..
I had to tweak the title to accommodate their likes too. Sounds better.
Acidbath: You want a financially independent woman that doesn't know her rights and behaves like a foot mat not voicing out the responsibilities you should partake as a man? Cause I know that's what you mean by entitlement mentality.
Mold her yourself.
Go and check the meaning of entitlement mentality then come back to modify your post. I will also assist you in modifying the one I just quoted.
Sweetplum: Did I rant? Everybody help o. Come n see o. Did I rant? Toks2008, I blv that name's Tokunbo. Tell me your qualities. I may fancy you, good boy.
Yes you wrote (Form of expression) about it over and over (for long) and impassionately too.