₦airaland Forum

Diza46:
you re a good consultant what you said is 100%a true and reality

Kajaard:
Lol

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

Choilila:
yeah I said no Man [bf] can said he contributed money to buy erase to the underwear I'm putting on.

And we are not talking about relatives, we are talking about relationships [a visa to fornication ]

Lovelydaisies:
It's as if women can't have choices on this forum. See some men running up and down trying to correct and insult women on 'their' own choices. Na wa o!

See how some of the men here insult and debase women here but complain that the Muslims have an oath defending their threads. If there was mutual respect between people, would there be any reason to set up and take oaths before entering a thread?

Even the thread for females has been infiltrated by men and there are no oaths to take. If there were, the silly males would still follow women to criticize them, behaving like evil spirits without rest.

Women bashing is the order of the day but it doesn't make your lives any better, only worse. And those who like the devastating and unholy comments by men against women, hmm, you are all part of the same big problem. Una well done o!

Whenever you (want to) badmouth females, put the ones in your lives in mind or imagine yourself as a lady. Constructive criticism is allowed but please, be civil. Respect is reciprocal. Enough said.

drimzsmoke:
All these nairaland "alpha male" or "redpillers" always make me laugh...How many of you can actually hold it down with the so called independent woman you all shout on this forum
Anyways,today is your lucky day,I'm feeling generous,anyone of you who feel you can date a female doctor should mail me,I'll give you 3 numbers and you will pick any 1 from the numbers...they are not that pretty but they are okay and smart,they are everything you claim you want in a woman except beauty,it's a 100k bet,just date any 1 of them for 3months and the money is yours


PS: I swear by my mother,the 3 ladies are below 26years and they are "virgins"!!!

BabaIbo:
I know your type, keep giving yourself false hope of men finding you and dismissing them.

Meanwhile, you are the one hoping, praying and wishing for one to find you as your comment(check attached picture) here shows.

If at all anything with rod inbetween his legs finds you, they are all boys and not men.

From your first comment under this post, the one that describes the type of man you WANT(check attached picture or quite below), it is obvious and glaring that you WANT a man.

Let's assume men have been finding you like you claimed, you wouldn't be here wanting another because you probably must have been found by one out of the many MEN finding you, or maybe it is a case of not worth keeping after they must have found you due to character. "This angle makes sense too.

This saying should make sense to you, "men may find you but your character will make them stay."

joyousever:
I've always known you as a relationship enthusiast on this forum. And who gave you the right to write this unsolicited advice cum epistle to me? I only made a comment based on your thread and here you are yearning dust! Since you're so "good" at relationship concerns, why are you still single at over 40 and still counting? Who are you to say such thrash to me in the name of response to a simple contribution I made to your thread? And who told you I'm single or "he was happy he was let go" according to your assumptions??Tokunbo, respect yourself and talk less, being too talkative isn't healthy for a man of your age! [ quote author=Toks2008 post=113061202]


Maybe you need to come down from your high horse.

Perhaps if you are calm and respectful,every conversation will end with mutual understanding.

I'm not saying you are at fault but I have observed keenly that many ladies can't keep a man because they are arrogant and disrespectful.

A man does not need your love. What we need is respect but this seems sooo difficult for many ladies in this generation and that is why many of them will remain single for a very long time and even the ones who are married will most likely lose their marriages.

Respecting your man is non negotiable... It doesnt mean you will be a zombie to him but even when you disagree with him, you do it with respect... Even if he cheats on you, express your anger with respect.

No matter what, never ever disrespect your man else you will certainly lose him and in your mind you will think you dissed him whereas he is thanking GOD he is free from you.

Okonandmary:
Fiest question.

Op are you rich?

Are you saying that it was because bill gates and dangote honoured their parents that is why they are rich?

How about those who honoured their parents and are poor?

Lastly, what is the life expectancy of male and female in Nigeria?

Diza46:
I have a question what can someone do when his husband that she truly love,sacrifice everything for to an extend that the sacrifice has eating her up,then the husband now later go after another woman not only just go after another woman but bring her wife that really love him down for the other lady and then when her wife try to comfort the other lady to let go of his husband the other lady talk laugh her disregard her as if she is nothing,because the husband she is trying to fight over has already give her the opportunity not to give a Bleep about his wife whenever she try to comfort her so painful �what did you think that the wife of the man should do

vivaciousvivi:
Toks you and I sabi each other from tey tey.
I am not one of these small girls you can address in such a manner please.
I do not lack in the comprehension department.
So you can let the matter rest and move on

joyousever:
I hate and wish never to meet a man who makes every conversation an argument. Tufiakwa! Just like the one I just met and dished!

KIDfurniture:
Before signing any relationship with Nigerian woman. Plz request for her last six month bank statement , health history & place of work . I can’t date a broke woman sha.

sylve11:
I tire.

That woman is a Cho Cho Cho professor.

Talks carelessly like a loose toad.

Divay22:
Thread meant for females but guys have taken over it
I feel ladies are more restrain than guys.

vivaciousvivi:
You just spoke about yourself thereby individualizing the narrative. If so, why now go on the defensive in your next statement by generalising women?

You really think from your POV that all women exist to leverage what she can get from a man. That's laughable and a myopic way of thinking.

kokomilala:
See, let me give you straight from the heart. Most of these ladies, who had gone on rodeo rides of endless man-changing, like clothes, don't- not even in the least- deserve a godly man or the type they say they want.

These women think they can fool God. In their 20s, when they're nubile, at least, some, fresh, they set unattainable standards for their suitors: I want a rich, at times, very rich, dark , handsome ,God-fearing man etc. Now, the moment you do this, I believe God steps aside. He feels, okay you can have your way. Because you're too wise in your own eyes. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with aspiring to have good things, but when it becomes de rigeur, then there's a problem.

When their flowers are beginning to wither towards the approach of their sunset, in their thirties, they become wiser, and vanities seldom matter to them. However, I've seen many who didn't learn any lesson from their experience.

luvyaself95:
Where can i download the movie you posted it poster.

Sweetplum:
you don come again?

TimeArena:
God won't even allow a man who is shorter than me to approach me.

TimeArena:
I'm short

TimeArena:
A man whose Visions and life purposes will align with mine.

Someone who will help me to be a better version of myself and definitely a kind person.

Looks doesn't really matter but he should sha be tall

Someone who will always tell people about his wife and what she does. My supposed hubby doing a Word of Mouth advert for me is important :Dj

Above all, someone who loves the Lord.


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saints2:
May 30th is around the corner... I will remind you to get you a drink...

E shock una... Are you aware the president has refused to sign the new amended act which means only 3 delegates per LG can vote? Which means 744*3... Only 2400 delegates will determine who becomes the president.

E go shock una

Sleekfingers:
Everybody just dey land anyhow, make dem no go land for crocodile mouth o

Osinbajo land, peter obi land, wike land, tinubu land, ameachi land, Atiku land

saints2:
The coming president... Haters can argue with their keypad...

Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!

Adedayorr:
Any attempt by Buhari to impose a Northerner on the South after 8 years in office will be resisted.

Buhari should hand over power to the South the way Goodluck Jonathan handed over power to Buhari, otherwise Nigeria will become history.

We all know the evil agenda of Buhari to help the North retain power by all means.

Should war happen in Nigeria after or before elections, everybody should hold Buhari responsible.

What is happening in Ukraine will be a child's play compare to what will happen in nigeria........

Parachoko:
Osun is one of the state that Bola Ahmed Tinubu will get 100% of the votes in the primary.

I've said it before, and am still going to say it again

Bola Ahmed Tinubu will get majority of the votes while Osinbanjo, Amechi, Bello and the rest will share the rest of the votes among themselves.

On Bola Ahmed Tinubu Mandate I Stand Gidigba

TheWolfen:
Isn't that the same thing that happens between pastor Chris oyakhilomen and Anita his ex wife