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Dirkcoyt:
The girl has 3 monikers all for you alone! Damn!
She just explained what this topic entails, she's crushing on someone who doesn't see her valuable, she spent time online tirelessly to scout this person but act tough to feel she isn't cheap. Mehn that self denial a case of delusional grandeur!
I saw her chat with a guy on this thread a earlier,evident enough.

Honestly i really dont know what to make out of it.

I have learned to ignore tho.

firstEVA:
beauty and brains

A very rare virtue.

daretodiffer:
Who asked for your life history?

Toks2008 is you and you are Toks2008 shikena

Like seriously?

Gosh!

missyadorable:
Why even waste a second with someone who treats me like poo? Huh?

The very minute I feel that way,i lock such person outta my life! When we ain't even married,whats my loss? Why do I have to lie am going out with a friend? Mtcheeew

If you truly love someone, you will agree with me.

Its just a litmus test and if it does not change anything,simply walk away.

Agubushmenyo:
Then you make the project snappy... I will be keeping Tabs on it.
All the same, cool post. Just read it now

Thanks bro.
It is well.

Agubushmenyo:
Does op know that we are experiencing an economic downturn in this country??... Instead of Bringing business Ideas, you are busy posting about "LOVE TRIANGLE". And you will wake up next morning and shout...

Buhari is a dullard...

All the same, keep up with your Love Bullshi.t

My broda i feel you.

Im presently working on a project to empower Nigerian youths financially.

Just that this is a passion that eases off stress for me so just bear with my passion biko.

How i wish i can stop creating romance threads but its like a football lover trying to stop watching matches.

Lalasticlala i guess this is educative enough.

Many readers of my thread fails to understand that though i have written these stuffs long ago..i just realized that i had to crave the indulgence of the mods to consider if it is front page worthy.

ThePeacemaker:
Just two wives


WHEN I'M PLANNING ON BREKING KING SOLOMON'S RECORD

Na die you dey.

Sunglow:
Abeg were the post?

You just did the most reasonable thing..Asking them to prove their m and b stories.

I will advice you in your best interest to distant yourself from these ladies of dirty personailities.

I am neither married nor divorced and i have told them to apply decently so i can consider them for sidechicks cos these crop of ladies are too morally bankrupt to bear my name...if you dont believe me then check thei history of their posts and you will be amazed to discover how dirty their personality is.

My threads are my opinion which i have the right to and only a deeply mentally unstable person will reign curses on another because the person expressed a pertsonal opinion and i will advice you once again to dstant yourself from such people.

Have a great weekend.

rottennaija:
He didn't have to be a prophet. He knew that the crude price was falling lower and lower. He also knew that nigerians where shortsighted, with short memory and would quickly forget what they have lost or where they could have been if they had not stolen everything stole able.

He also knew that nigerians are like the Israelite that forgot the pains and hardship they passed through in Egypt and wanted to go back there just because of the hardship of crossing wilderness to the promise land and by so doing, they quickly forget what gain whatever they have gotten by being freed from slavery

Spot on.

[quote author=mi.ssingrib post=42978437]I tell u...sometimes I do think am I really human becos rltship things do tire me..getting better at it now sha..[/quote]God will help.

tosyne2much:
The funniest thing be say, e fit come be say dem like you

That must be a very weird green light.

The type we used way back in pry school wey be sey na fight una go use become close lol...

cherrymum:
U are so right! Even Jesus asked his disciples "what do people say of me". If Jesus can want to know how people see him then how much more Toks. 95% of people on his threads keep telling him about his attitude yet he thinks he is one agbalagba that is too big to be corrected. Instead of sitting down to say for people to keep saying this then there's something he's doing wrong, he will be carrying his 40yrs on his head. Well a fool at 40 they say is a fool forever!

You see why you will keep getting it wrong...

You are only imagining things dear..only a fool will close his hears to reproach but how do you explain when you get on a thread you are not compeled to visit and the next thing is to start reigning curses..does that sound sane to you.

If that is your definition of contributing to intelectual topics then GOD forbid i take part in such.

I am an educated and mentally serene human..open to criticsms whether constructive or destructive but i will never ever consider any poster who chose to reign curses as mentally stable let alone consider the contents of his or her post.

We must learn to communicate like sane humans.

EggovinMma:
This our nigeria men sef
Sometimes I wonder how big their EGO can get.Them think say na only them sabi cheat
I wonder what goes to their head when they cheat and come home afterwards, with the rate at which fine fine small boys with ambition full yafu for everywhere? ?? And to think they now prefer to stay away from leeches, hence, moving upwards to older ladies.

Believe me, those kids can do anything to impress a lady, you can be sure to enjoy hours of smooth licking , something most housewives long to experience from their pot bellied husbands.
That's why I trust most Abuja married women, THEY KNOW HOW TO CATCH THEM YOUNG!

Seriously, Nigerian married men trust their wives. I love that!

cherrymum shey you see the type of ladies wey dey attack me?

See wettin she dey write? abeg tell me why they wont attack ? Tosyne2much come see one of those wey dey attack me,daretodiffer,ngokafor and so on make una kon see your partner in crime...Abuja husbands abeg kon see o..chai

Thank GOD say eating snails is my best act in the room so no small boy can beat me in the game..i no dey fear.

Sunnypar:
Well, ladies love lies no doubt. We lie to get to bed, we lie to manipulate them, we lie to make them do what would not ordinarily do.
Ladies love sweet things and lies are sweet.
Errmmm concerning those ladies bashing you, their past is their past but without the past we can move to the future, most of them are having nervous breakdown mere seeing your name, but bros were you divorced?

My brother i tire o.

Concerning your question...i really dont know where these monitoring spirits got that married and divorce story from.

I once said i was technically married cos engagement and intro was done and for some reasons we went our different ways and even as i write,the lady in question is staging a come back so im neither married nor divorced and im only explaining this cos a guy asked...i have decided to let these clueless monitoring spirits continue to write wat they want.

my insight on relationship matter is my opinion and pls help me ask these pepper sellers why the attack? Did i abuse the women folk? i only write from my perspective and if you feel you have a different view why not state it reasonably?

Bro just try and observe the cliche of ladies that attack me and you will be shocked that about all of them have dirty personalities so just ignore them abeg..

have a blessed evening.

tosyne2much:
I surprise as I just dey see bashing from left, right and centre.. Be like say these ladies don already mean u oooo

Thank God sey i no come nairaland kon find babe.

If they find it difficult to discuss reasonably then let them keep mum rather than the show of shame they put up.

They love lies but unfortunately i cant compromise facts.

The strangest twist to it is that they say i bash ladies but these threads are still there as reference point and no matter how hard i try to comprehend,i find it hard to see any form of bashing in these writeups.

However,i have observed that there is a specific group of ladies who indulge in these attacks from thread to thread and after checking their nland history,i discovered that most if not all of them have dirty personalities. This is why i no longer take them serious.

cherrymum:
Tokunbo for u not to be on google u are a NOBODY! Crush on u?! Taaaaaaaaaah tufiakwa! u this uncircumsised gentile! I will keep cursing u till d day u start to respect the female gender, until then, u can't do shit!!! No be only isp, na s.o.p.

I sense you are a single mum and i understand the stress you dey go tru.


Abeg no vex even wen i know sey na you first curse me..ema binu ma.

Please have a nice day.

Tequilah:
Oga, stop calling me sis because everyone can see that you are the one preaching a sermon, and NOT me! Free your mind from those preconceived ideas and face reality, before you start writing your fake stories. The reality that every spouse of cheating men/women can identify with, is that infidelity kills a marriage. Period! Until you can open your mind to accept and understand this basic truth, your comments will never make sense to those with rational minds.

You are right sha..the same reality of smokers dying young yet ciggeretes sell like no tomorrow.

Please you can also help the ministry by creating threads to preach the sermon of fidelity.

Whatever rocks your boat abeg..have a great day.

tosyne2much:
Haaaaaa !!! Please take it easy and let it slide

Tosy dont you think its time i have a nairaland date?

I guess their attacks are indirect way of wooing me lol.

How you dey my broda?

cherrymum:
Toks2008, I've checked d internet o for CEO Diamond field ltd. Tokunbo ur name no dey for there o. Abi na 'sand fill" u wan type. Yeye lawma like u. The diamond field ltd i saw can never employ u as gateman not security i, boy difference dey.

This is what is on google o "Jean-Raymond Boulle - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Jean-Raymond Boulle is the founder of Diamond Fields Resources".

Ok, ur english name na Jean-Raymond Boulle abi.
Agbaya oniro oshi....

looooooolll..OH MY walahi i don laygh piss for body..chai..na so you carry my matter for head? oluwa o

Tequilah:
Which one do I prefer?? None. Both are untenable, unpalatable options. And for you to present these kind of options, show that you do NOT even understand the basic qualities that underpin the institution of marriage. If you have a daughter who is married or old enough to be someone's wife, then present these options to her and wait for her reply.

Once love, respect, fidelity, integrity, honesty and loyalty are absent, there is no marriage. Infidelity KILLS a marriage. It does not enhance it. Learn this lesson before it is too late.

See sis you need to face reality and stop your paper sermon of what or how marriage should be.

This is why some people see my write ups as very controversial because i dont write about the way things should be but i focus on factual reality.

Preach from now till tomorrow,it does not change the fact that 7 or even 8 out of every 10 guys cheat on their ladies and the fact that a man has not been caught does not mean he is not doing it.

Saying you believe you can get a faithful man is like saying you can pick a diamond from the floor..it is one chance out of every 8 guys you meet so this is why rather than waste my time preaching chastity,i would rather prepare my daughter for the obvious.

Yeah i remember that happened to me and i just called a panel beater and the guy did one magic by getting the bonnet opened and from the fuss section in the engine,he opened the central lock system.

I was like O M G

Tequilah:
Married ladies have made their responses, yet you have chosen to dismiss their rejoinders simply because it does not fit into your preconceptions or your mindset.

When infidelity occurs, it destroys several basic things - trust, respect, integrity and loyalty. Every single philanderer's toolkit is rooted in falsehood and deceit. He continually lies to his spouse about where he is going, what he is doing and how he spends his time whenever he is with another woman. Such lies and deceit breed resentment, distrust and cynicism in the heart and mind of the non-cheating or faithful partner, towards his/her adulterous spouse. It can eventually turn into hatred.

When this happens, the fabric that holds the marriage itself together unravels, irrespective of the fact that kids may or may not exist, within such a marriage. So what exactly is the married woman supposed to hold on to, in trying to preserve the marriage? The unfaithful husband's deceit? Sheesh!

Please note this.

I love writing on romance and when i do,i dont write from what i believe is morally just and that is why you will hardly read any form of sentimental notes from me.

Its one thing to imagine and clamour for what you think is right and another to face the harsh reality.

The funny part is that most ladies who commented on this thread never chose any option or even gave a new one and this is the strange twist to it.

Ok let me ask you one question giving the fact that 8 out of every 10 men cheat on their ladies regardless so which will you prefer?

A hubby who has only you as a wife and keeps several side chics or a man who chooses to mary more wives and remained faithful to them but will never keep a mistress.

Please ubderstand that these are just the two types of men available.

Tequilah:
No, it does NOT make any sense!!! You are NOT even offering sound advice to make the man stop sleeping around, instead you are saying they should warn him to use protection...are you going to be there to supervise him when he wants to sleep with another woman, to make sure he uses the protection? What makes you think he will remember your warning??

Abeg, let me laugh very well in my native language, first. It is people like you that mislead others, (especially ladies) with your ill-conceived words of faulty and fallacious so-called 'wisdom.' Go to the General Hospitals and find out how many women were infected by their randy husbands, with various sexually transmitted diseases.

Continue to advise women to stick to their philandering husbands...until the day the man comes home to infect them with STD, or even worse, HIV/AIDS!!

I really dont understand why ladies expecially are getting this twisted..

What advice do you expect from me? Guys will be guys and all the sermon they hear are enough to make them change if they want to.

This write up is not advisory but factual..i have created a thread about 5ways guys can prevent philandering but this is a factual thread to put the options down and just like most ladies have done,you did not focus on the subject matter but you chose to be sentimental..

The question is..Wettin you go do IF...lets leave the issue of advice for now.

niyi123:
I like originality, even right from childhood till now I don't like anything second-hand.

I can never marry non- virgin, it is my long term resolution.

Eyaah..but what if you eventually meets a virgin and after you made her a woman she now goes out to sleep with another guy..what would you do?

niyi123:
So one mugu has married a lady you termed ''Intimacy gadget/sex slave'', very disgusting, that is why I can never marry non- virgin. Imaging someone seeing my wife and telling his friends that was my 'used and dumped girl', God forbid.

lol..this got me lauging so hard.

O boy better close your eyes and pick one...
No matter how crazy a man can be over a lady,that same lady is probably a intimacy gadget for another man.

cherrymum:
Toks, seriously you need a real life job. so that by the time u get home at night u will be too tired to remember to bash women. I know ur type. In real life na woman go dey feed u, u can never challenge any woman in reality so u come to a faceless forum and spew trash!

That msg up there should be for u. u just a problem when others don't agree with what u are saying.

Toks, get a life. Get something doing. Go and be busy. Do something meaningful with ur time. stop bashing women. We don't need men like u.

If i see u face to face I will spit 'thick kelebe' on ur face. BOY! U DISGUST ME! U claim to be 40yrs old but conductors under ojuelegba bridge reason better than u on every level. Toks, give up on ur failed mission and get a life.

Apparently you are mentally disturbed and i can bet anything on it that you are also emotionally and psycologically unstable judging from your comments.

If you are same emough,you will observe that 95% of my threads are created in the evening time as you can see on the time stamp meaning i do them mostly when im free from the daily hustles and i also write to relieve stress since i enjoy it.But then even if i write them at 9a.m in the morning i believe it only shows that i have control over my life and im not a zombie some where subjugated by a fellow human ..a life you are definitely living right now.

I would have allowed your rantings to pass judging from your condition but because you mentioned that J O B part is why i wnt to drop this line.

First i pray that GOD delivers you from the slavery mindset that have engulfed you.

Olatokunbo is the CEO of Diamond Field ltd,a company i eztablished probably when you were still in pry school judging from ur childish utterances and it is people like you whose husbands nver ammount to anything big in life because you are so myopic and mentally shallow to believe that everyone you see online who has time to express his or her passion is jobless.

In your mentally redundant world...one must be busy all through n nver have time to do anything else,how dumb and hopeless you must be.

Sis you are sick..give me your contact and i will provide a psycologist for you.

For the records...i am not an employee but an employer,a job giver and i give peoples life meaning by empowering them finacially since i was just 26 which was 14yrs ago.

Note of warning..next time you want to exhibit your low life pepper seller nature pls go very very far away from me.Your spitting and kelebe talks is suggestive that you are probably a classless crass lowlife slut.

Tell your husband if at all you are married that the world is no longer ruled by the busy people or by those you picture as having a real life Job but it belongs to the smart ones.

I just overlook the foolishness and myopic mentality of some people..you are indeed pathetic.

Dont bother quoting me cos i wont reply...i only did just this one time to educate u on how to be more ensync with the present world.

Freelance writing is my passion and i will always have time for it.

Ashunu

Okijajuju1:
The same thing I would want her to do to me if she catches me cheating.. FORGIVE and Carry on.

The bottomline is that there should always be a second chance if the lady is caught..in the case of the guy too i believe ladies easily forgive and forget so yes it is expected of her to forgive you.

stardragon:
that can't be possible, living in the same roof with a woman and not be eating her food.

she must ve her way to entice you, and if she eventually succeed u'ar in for trouble.

E be like sey you never jam some guys...

bukatyne:
Can't a woman also adopt this method?

Ofcourse she can and that was why i wrote in the first part of this write up that the lady should start seing the guy as a sex partner and no longer a hubby.

Let me send a vivid message to many posters who have problems with their grey matter.

It is never mandatory to comment on a thread you hate and anytime you see such,you can simply ignore rather than make comments that portray you as a low life and mentally unstable person.

Freelance writing is a passion i have and i do not believe any sane human will resort to cursing another because an opinion is made.

I am not in any way pained when i see people who should be sane act so insane when they curse and attack the person or personal life of a writer but i rather feel strong pity for them because that is a bad sign of mental and psychological instability and studies have shown that not everyone who makes comment on an online social medial platform is human in the real sense and those who could be human but are fond of cursing are probably mentally unbalance.

Henceforth,i will never respond to any comment that has any form of vulgarity,hateful word but only comments who has intellectual substance.

If you are not intelligent enough to argue your points based ON THE SUBJECT MATTER please you can just be a spectator rather than exhibit an insane attitude os cursing and attacking the writer....

As i always say,...the best way to know the level of IQ of an individual is to obsereve how he or she reacts to the opinion of others.

Let me send a vivid message to many posters who have problems with their grey matter.

It is never mandatory to comment on a thread you hate and anytime you see such,you can simply ignore rather than make comments that portray you as a low life and mentally unstable person.

Freelance writing is a passion i have and i do not believe any sane human will resort to cursing another because an opinion is made.

I am not in any way pained when i see people who should be sane act so insane when they curse and attack the person or personal life of a writer but i rather feel strong pity for them because that is a bad sign of mental and psycological instability and studies have shown that not everyone who makes comment on an online social medial platform is human in the real sense and those who could be human are probably writing from a psychiatry ward.

Henceforth,i will never respond to any comment that has any form of vulgarity,hateful word but only comments who has intellectual substance.