Romance › Re: The never ending crazy love triangle and How To avoid It. by Toks2008(op): 4:51pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
BumBae: But op sometimes that love triangle is because shes waiting for one to step up ... ( they never do ) But the girl might be interested but one thing that the guys does F sh!t up so she goes to another n leave that one daggling but most guys dont gerrit 
No b triangle nah who go step up n be a MAN lol
Just my opinion sha
Thats why if i don tell person how i dey feel n dey take me play .. Deuces no need to over think Seconded. Craving lalasticlala indulgence. |
Food › Re: Checkout A Male Student's Fried Spaghetti by Toks2008(m): 4:49pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
phintohlar: 33yr old kid broda?? Oh my God how old are u den?? Anyways there's absolutely nofin wrong if he washed my cloths now,wat are are husband & wife 4 lol dont mind me, im used to calling him my kid broda...And yes if the washing machine is faulty,i could help my wife take her cloths to the cleaners and help her do her undies as well as cook for her only if she is ill or heavily pregnant and tired. |
Food › Re: Checkout A Male Student's Fried Spaghetti by Toks2008(m): 1:42pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
phintohlar: b4 nbko wetin remain,we sef like better thing now like husband material.. Wink lol... I have a 33yr old kid brother..a perfect husband material...he can cook,clean the house,even wash your cloths for you sef....iranu. |
Food › Re: Checkout A Male Student's Fried Spaghetti by Toks2008(m): 9:58am On Feb 16, 2016 |
RoyalBlak007: [color=#FF0000]Ur a husband material[/color] That moment when a lady says "you are a husband material"
Start getting ready to be the wife. |
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Unveiled As Face Of Stanbic IBTC by Toks2008(m): 11:47pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Everything comes from the Lord: success and failure, poverty and wealth, life and death. |
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Lands Endorsement Deal With Payporte(photos) by Toks2008(m): 11:42pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Segadem: hmmm, Ecclesiastes 9 v 11 says " [b]New Living Translation "I have observed something else under the sun. The fastest runner doesn't always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn't always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don't always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time".
Baba God plant me the right place at the right time. WOW |
Romance › Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Toks2008(op): 11:31pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Toks2008(op): 11:30pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Sharoniah: I usually do the calling, my boo is so deaf and dumb and blind in our relationship, broke up with him already, before he becomes paralyze  |
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Orisaguana's Interview With Punch by Toks2008(m): 11:24am On Feb 15, 2016 |
AdaNri1: it does mate But I just don't have respect for men who are either thieves, not ambitious or downright lazy and dumb. Not saying jumoke's husband is. Just saying that 70% of poor blokes are in that category. I married my husband when he was in a face me I face you and I didn't think twice about it, because he fell into none of the categories I mentioned. I love your spirit. I hate lazy guys or dreamers. Do something no matter what and i mean something legitimate...any lady who cant be with you because u are poor has no business with you when you are rich or financially ok. |
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Orisaguana's Interview With Punch by Toks2008(m): 11:11am On Feb 15, 2016 |
AdaNri1: This her husband sha. Luckiest man in his clan. You send your wife out to sell bread because you can't provide for your family and she lands a modelling job. Probably stretching his hands out every time she returns from work. What a lucky bloke.
Just bear in mind that modelling is a short term job that goes as looks fade, so invest her money wisely. She will not be going out on the street hawking again o. The story of Jumoke is a clarion call for ladies... Marrry someone you love and not for what he has because the blessings of God in your life will surely come irrespective of whether you marry a rich or poor man. I dont know if this makes sense but the truth is that There is a plan for everyone of us regardless. |
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Orisaguana's Valentine Photoshoot by Toks2008(m): 9:46am On Feb 15, 2016 |
tchidi: O Lord, please give her the wisdom to handle this new found fame! Amen. Sophistication is teh bane of the modern woman. I hope when she becomes sophisticated in the real sense,that she will not see her hubby as second class. Ironically,our modern ladies who have a Bsc sees an OND holder as lower in level howbeit a super model to one osun brought up...may GOD give her the humility. How i wish they can educate both the hubby and wife together...that way,there will be a balance in their outlook. |
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Orisaguana's Valentine Photoshoot by Toks2008(m): 9:42am On Feb 15, 2016 |
ladyF: Beautiful pishures. The best they can do for her is get her an English tutor to homeschool her alongside, it's not just about photoshoot, packaging is important.
It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again  There is a different kind of look that shows on the face of an educated person. If you look closely at those pics, you will see some form of facial complex...abi na only me dey see am? I believe after she is well tutored,she will have that total look of an A class model. |
Romance › Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Toks2008(op): 11:41pm On Feb 14, 2016 |
Vikky014: y not even if na crocodile tears she go tell u Story... Lalasticlala i think this is good enough for more people to discuss about. |
Romance › Re: Please, Urgent Advice Needed by Toks2008(m): 11:31pm On Feb 14, 2016 |
missingrib: u sabi sing o I sing and dance very very well lol |
Romance › Re: Please, Urgent Advice Needed by Toks2008(m): 10:42pm On Feb 14, 2016 |
Johnsnow24: Please forgive my writing, as I am very angry right now. I secured a job (civil service) immediately I completed my NYSC, same year, a girl I've been toasting since wen I was doing my house job finally agreed to date me. I was posted to a rural hospital (General hospital). The relationship was near perfect I must confess, she's ok financially because her parents get small cash sha, drives her own car and she was just 23 then. she visits me almost every weekend, buys me so many nice things and I do buy her expensive stuffs too. 5 months into the relationship, she started talking about marriage, of which I told her I wasn't ready then because I had not been paid, I wasn't receiving pay yet. I assured her that once I start receiving salary, we'll commence the introduction and stuffs, she diligently obliged. 3 weeks later, on a Friday morning, while I was still on rounds, I received a call from my female friend whom I used to have an understanding with (s*x) that my supposed gf just did her introduction a day ago (thursday), I almost ran mad but I still kept my cool, after the rounds I called her up and asked her to see me that weekend (sat or sun), surprisingly, she refused then I told her that if she doesn't she doesn't show up, I'll do the visiting, after work that Friday, I headed straight to town, that evening, we went out and returned very late, had some rounds of hot sex, then I asked if there was anything she wanted to tell me, NO was her answer, I still maintained then I woke her up at exactly 3 a.m and asked her same Question, she still said NO. I left her house the following day. Following week (monday) she called me, that she wants to tell me something and that i should promise her not to get mad. well I promised sha, then I asked her if it was about the introduction that she should go on with the marriage plans. I told her that I would be happy if she's happy. That was where my problem started, this girl would give me over 250 missed calls, she keeps saying she's sorry and that I was her parents who lured her into doing it. Exactly 7 months, I was paid in arrears, the traditional marriage and wedding took place same month, I didn't attend anyone, I moved on wit my life peacefully. 3 months after the wedding she started disturbing my life again, that she wants us to meet (hotel), that she wants me to bang her, I told her to forget it, that she's married now and we can't do such any more, still she won't let me have peace. 6 months later she got pregnant and from wat told, she's been having serious problems wit the husband and her mother-in-law, and her dad had already told her to pack her things and come back to their family house a month later she called me, only for her to tell me that they are officially divorced and that she's ready to be a single mom, I told her to stop calling me, let it not be as though I was the one who caused it, and I needed time to prepare for my primaries. Some months later, she called that she's put to bed (girl), I was happy for her sha. 7 months later, she started her wahala again, telling me how she missed having s*x wit me, I had to change my Line cos of her. Now she's now telling everybody including my relations that I still sleep wit her, I've called and warned her seriously, still she won't stop. Please I am confused and I want to start my residency program, I don't need this distraction. I am thinking of getting her arrested Call me mr roma romantic Oya show them show them show them Show them show them Make all of them know That my baby so romantic Oya baby make we show them show them Show them show them show them Make all of them know That my baby so romantic oh Abeg bone am..she is a confused lady. |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 12:10pm On Feb 14, 2016 |
myfantasies: I go love wen d love come ok i don come..lol |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 11:53pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
myfantasies: Dem don over hype dis val of a thing to d extent to fall in love no hungry person again  lol! Abeg love o |
Celebrities › Re: Female Fan Of Flavour Reacts To His Presence On Stage by Toks2008(m): 11:48pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
Small time dem go dey accuse flavour of making baby mamas.
Mtsheew! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Peller: 'TB Joshua, Oyakhilome Use Charms To Perform Miracles' by Toks2008(m): 4:29pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Peller: 'TB Joshua, Oyakhilome Use Charms To Perform Miracles' by Toks2008(m): 4:26pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
Elijahrona2: Jealousy. Any man able to perform such works and help the poor, my dear is a man of God. Can you count people that tb Joshua had helped?
Even if he has acquired demonic powers, he's using them for a good course. It's better than these Nigerian politicians sworn in with either bible or Quran and end up been worst than the demons themselves Exactly my point..TB joshua is a giver and i love givers like kilode...so whether he is a magician or not..he dey help people and that is what counts. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Peller: 'TB Joshua, Oyakhilome Use Charms To Perform Miracles' by Toks2008(m): 4:19pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
I have concluded in my mind a long time ago that TB joshua is a socerer and that is because of wat i know about him many years ago before he was rebranded.
In 1994 i was living in a house where the founding members of Joshua church lives and they told me many things but not to destroy his image but to attest to how powerful he is like seing him in their dreams,working wonders through pictures and posters as well as flowers and that was when i concluded that he is a socerer but ironically i just love the guy because of his philanthropy...
As for Pastor chris..he is one of the greatest teachers of the word i have ever come across but as per miracles..nah..i see those miracles as stage managed.
Yes miracles still happen and any believer in christ can move mountains with faith..but when you start to commercialize miracles by interviewing the potential beneficiaries before and after they recieve miracles..i call that a nonsensical bragadocio abracadabra.
If Anita should open up on why she really wants a divorce,we all will be amazed that it goes beyond what we already know but nvertheless,i still listen to pastor chris teachings cos he is worth hearing. |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 1:44pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 12:05pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
ChappyChase: Well, I don dey lash olosho before feb 14, so I no dey plan to increase my temple of lashing all in the name of one yeye val day! that oloso word tho....women don suffer. |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 12:03pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
qhutetomsel: exactly!
Its ideal for couples.
But the purpose of val's day has been abused.
Some even see that day as a day to satisfy their sexûal pleasure. Odiegwu |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 11:33am On Feb 13, 2016 |
qhutetomsel: Valentine is overrated...  I dont even celebrate it but it is not a bad idea for couples to go out if they want to. To me,everyday is lovers day. |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 11:23am On Feb 13, 2016 |
ronald4lif: I don't have to tell my daughter this and I won't tell her not to have sex either based on religious teachings.
I'd however, tutor her on sex education and the risk involve in sex, stds and pregnancy etc. It's up to her to have sex if she want to and nothing wrong with that provided she's an adult. I totally agree...its all about the choice we make. |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 11:17am On Feb 13, 2016 |
SexyCeline: God bless the 0p..nairaland guys will soo hate this. Ladies, pls lets not fall prey to them anymore.. #team_true_luv_over_sex Amen sis. If lalasticlala is still a mod i guess this is enlightening enough so that innocent ladies can guard against the other side of vals day. |
Romance › Re: February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 7:41am On Feb 13, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Sex isn't only for the married, anyone can have and enjoy sex. It's only considered an illicit act to the sectarians and scriptural adherents.
But then, not everyone is religious so they can't be binded nor constrain by doctrinal dogmas. And to such people, sex isn't illicit. Just saying. I agree totally with you. But close your eyes and imagine you telling your daughter this. |
Romance › February 14th.Lovers Day or Devil's day? by Toks2008(op): 11:57pm On Feb 12, 2016*. Modified: 11:28am On Feb 13, 2016 |
February 14th as they call it is vals day or lovers day but in my opinion,it is indeed a day many teenagers and naive ladies will sign their death warrant.
Yes i know some people will come for my head for writing this but as i always state,this is my opinion.
Valentines day is celebrated worldwide and while i believe it is ok for married couples,i believe it is a grand design by the devil to lure the unmarried into sinful acts because febuary 14th is the day the world records the highest rate of illicit sexual acts and infact,many teenage girls offer their innocence as gift to their boyfriends on vals day.
Condoms or no condoms,In most cases,the reckless sexual acts result in unwanted pregnancies and ultimately death of many ladies in the months to follow as they try to abort the unwanted pregnancy.
Conclusively i will say that when this day can be said to be lovers day for the married couple,it is indeed dooms day for the careless unmarried couple.
If you are an unmarried lady reading this please go out and catch your fun with your bae and enjoy your self but be wise....you don't have to offer sex as vals gift.
My humble personal submission.
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Romance › Re: Friday Night Palava!! Guys, Get In Here Nowwww by Toks2008(m): 9:06pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
HateU2: So, all of you will be like 'she don come' abi . Na u sabi that o eyin amebo . My question goes out to guys tonight.
I always wonder, how do you guys have sex with someone you don't have feelings for . I mean won't you guys kiss before the whole scenario . Some of you even visits asewo's joint (check them out in the sexuality section). How do you do that Do you guys just go straight to the point and mr 3rd leg will raise it's ugly head abi  How is that even possible 
Personally, I need to have feelings for a guy before kissing him not to talk of 'that thing' ewwwwwww. You gats to be neat mehn...
So, wildflame, stfuareugod, smellymouth, mcfranklin, toks2008, tosynetoomuch, seun, Lalasticlala, ggrin, greatness and co. Oya come and answer me ooo Ma bi mi ni jamb question. I dont do commercial sex workers and i try as much as i can not to do casuals. If i dont see u as a lady i can marry,i will try nver to get down with u...its about principle. |
Romance › Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Toks2008(op): 11:41pm On Feb 11, 2016*. Modified: 11:44pm On Feb 14, 2016 |
cruzita: me wey no dey look person face how I wan take pacify person. LOL! Coming from a lady..very funny. Wait o, is lalasticlala still a mod on nland? Anyways the truth is that romance section is the center core of nairaland and most nairaland visitors are more interested in romance issues and this is why the romance section has the biggest viewers so more romance topics should make frontpage in order to keep the site interesting. |
Romance › Re: When you are in a deaf and dumb relationship. by Toks2008(op): 11:27pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
Sunnypar: Yes, communication. Toks28, are you married? NO |