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Alexdroh:
Am a sinner forgive me oh lord...an make me nt to miss HEAVEN, amen. Am a sinner forgive me oh lord...an make me nt to miss HEAVEN, amen.

Your name has just been written in the book of life...Dont ever give up your salvation...

This world is vanity and nobody knows when he or she will leave but lets be prepared every minute of our lives.

Congrats bro.

I think we all need dancing lessons from King David. When is the last time you stepped out in courage and danced in church so well that you became the center of focus?

Trust me, you can make GOD happy just by dancing so well in worship.

[size=13pt]Today's sermon...The greatest lover of all time.[/size]


Do you know that as you pass through life many people will tell you they love you?

Men use these words when they want to express some form of feelings towards their ladies and ladies likewise use same words to show affection but the truth is that the love of these people are so short-lived and unreal and a little tilt in the emotional balance will reveal the truth.

Will your man stil tell you "i love you" even if you offend him again and again or will that lady still profess love for you if you shatter her heart?
Which lover can serve the time for you?

But there is a man who loved us all so dearly that he went through unimaginable sufferings to save us all from eternal destruction.

His skin was ripped apart and one eye blinded by whip of thorns and shattered glass.Crown of thorns forced down his skull. Brutally crucified naked and formless on the cross. All these christ endured to save you and i from sin and death.

The only thing he is asking for is to allow him be your lover,your only true lover,friend and all and trust me this is one friend and lover that will never leave you nor forsake you. He will never break your heart or make you cry no matter how terrible you act towards him and the only friend you are guaranteed to spend your eternity with.

HE IS REACHING OUT TO YOU TO ACCEPT HIS PROPOSAL THIS MOMENT? Please do and you will never regret it.

Thank you Jehovah for the gift of life and i pray that no one who reads this will lose his or her soul to the devil in Jesus name...AMEN

Happy sunday friends.

vivaciousvivi:
Thank you dear. I appreciate.
Thank you Toks2008. U have Bn a good friend through all this.
Thanks missbronze, Halexito, ddshow, melsan, Udysweet and blessedbeads. I appreciate your kind words.
Wish I could type much more but....u understand.
Have a blessed Sunday all.

It is well in Jesus name...AMEN

Lol..i may hook up with a lady online but i will never do online dating...its one thing to meet a lady online and another to date online...

missbronze:
viviaciousvivi, I really understand what you are going tru now. No amount of sorry will lessen the pains of such loss.



I experienced it two months ago, and the pain is still in my heart.


But, like everyone said to me, time heals all wound. And, I know time will also heal yours.



Take hrt sweet, be strong.



And, may her soul rest in peace.

Pele dear..

Me sef dey the same boat but na my papa kick bucket 4years ago,

It is with a heavy heart that i bring to you all the passing on to glory of the mum of viviaciousvivi who is one of us here.

MAY HER GENTLE SOUL REST IN THE BOSSOM OF GOD...

Take heart dear and we all pray that God grants you and every member of the family the fortitude to bear her exit from this earth.

AMEN

safarigirl:
I didn't men they don't cheat, I already replied the other confused fellow that what I meant is that cheating is not rampant in Igbo land compared to others

I advice you speak for yourself.

And for me i dont mind spending 1m on the list alone provided the girl is a virgin....the origin of bride price is hinged on chastity of the bride but these days,the greedy elders in the eastern part foolishly use this as a means of extorting men who still see their daughters worthy even when these same girls have been terribly scrwed by Emeka,paul,dare,their boss,their...

iranu abacha

Dont het me wrong,a guy can spend millions to marry any lady he loves even if she was a LovePeddler but no man must be compeled to pay crazy money to marry.

Just blend water melon with the seeds,garlic,walnut and pineaple and put it in the fridge as fruit juice...thats all

Check google to see the health benefits of

garlic
water melon
water melon seeds
walnut
pineaple


But instead na sugar we go dey drink about..with garlic, no woman should worry about cancer except the cancer that comes as a result of stealing money that belongs to others..

fourfunmi:
Hmmmm.....
I read a lot of posts, Plenty intelligent people on this thread speaking their minds.
I believe this thread was created for us to rub minds, discuss issues, etcheterem etcheterem...and if anyone catches your fancy, get to know him/her.
Its true we are single and very ready to mingle; but I'm sure we want to mingle with who we feel we have a connection with...
A lot of people are dissapointed because they think this is a date-party.
@MYMINDER , you have spoken well and I get you.... I can also see that you have posted a couple of topics for discourse which is a good thing so as to encourage participation and avoid boredom/idle-talks. A lot of people are watching from the sidelines and they await that special/interesting push to draw them in.
I have a lot to say but I really do get you...and you have done well.

About your topic: I doubt the possiblity of a lasting relationship with someone I can't relate with intellectually....there should be balance...I won't compromise on that bcz it'll simply drive me crazy! We should have something to talk about, infact an enjoyable conversation is part of romantic bliss!

@Toks2008 , you and your Ghostmode peeps...lolz...many still love to hide under the anonymity of this forum which I doubt is possible bcz I've had a die-hard st**ker trace me from my moniker to my email, whatapp, instagram, facebook, even office mail...I was so scared! Then I started taking extra precautionary methods.

Honestly i cant reconcile it..maybe by virtue of being a politician i see no reason why i had to hide my identity cos to me this is not a faceless forum...i have never duped anyone in my 4 decades of existence neither do i have one secret to hide infarct my life is an open book and even if you ask me to give you the number of my ex(es) to know me from their perspective, you will be impressed.

So in like manner i believe this should hold true for anyone who has a clean record and when you strat hiding your identity,i fear you so much and i distant myself from such and this is the honest truth.

Check my comments here and you will see that i hardly respond to comments from ladies or guys i have never seen because to me..they do not exist and this is why i will never send a pm to anyone i have not seen his or her profile pics.

Sparkles003:
toks lets be real when this thread was created it primary purpose was for hookup anyway which every way anyone see the term hookup cos the key word is "single"
why do you think some just drop numbers and bbpins.

I was on this thread the very few minutes it was created and we must understand the fact that even if there is a secondary aim of hooking up,the primary purpose as postulated by the creator was for us to meet and talk just as the title suggested then maybe hooking up can come up and i believe this is healthy enough so yes hooking up is sacrosanct considereing the fact that singles are involved but we must never forget that the primary purpose is to interact(talk) and this is why we come hard on anyone who comes in here to just dropo numbers or make funny request...

fourfunmi:
God bless you for this comment @ddshow

The day I joined this forum, I said my hi and hello then gbam! I had mails I was worried that why are these people try to reach me in private when the topic says let's meet here...I felt somehow and was tempted to run away.
These people don't know me yet, infact, I haven't had any conversation...nada!
I didn't accept it...I went back and started reading the thread from the first page to know what is acceptable.
After a few liners, I saw a couple of requests from monikers that I knew were from this thread and I gladly accepted.

@Toks2008, we aint hard o! Biko why are we here? Lolz... Just that some guys are not trying.
Let those guys try having an open conversation first before trying to 'corner' the babe.

At least i can relate with the fact that you are real even if your profile pics is not really you...this is my point,we can't form a closer friendship with someone we don't even have a clue of how he or she looks and i see this thread like an ofline community where you can't start approaching every one for a personal friendship without first seeing the person so trust me, if you join this thread and we can't even view you then its apparent that you are not ready to interact be it on the surface or closer level.

Do you know that some guys will never parley on a deeper level with fair ladies while some will say if you are not fair they can't even be your close friend. A lady once told me she does not relate with a guy that has a certain look and stuffs like that..yes right here we can relate and discuss even if you are a ghost but then we must also understand that it is baseless to just yap and yap without creating a close friendship with at least one person of the opposite sex and i still maintain that without first seeing the way you look,it will be hard to get the attention of anyone and this is not about desperation but a normal thing to do.

The weirdest part to it is that even on watsup some ladies still remain anonymous and i wonder who is after them and i even get scared of anyone who is scared of uploading his or her pics on social media cos most times,these people have something sinister about their personality..trust me on this.

MYMINDER:
The over emphasis on hooking up on this thread is not allowing the aim of the thread to he achieved for those interested.

Secondly, not everyone that is single and above 30 wants to only talk about dating and courtship or be at the center of one. It's like saying a wife is only meant for sex and nothing else. There are lot of other discussions that could have been in play beyond looking for a blind date if the thread was not so narrow in scope.

Love finds you; you don't find it. So I read.

My Mind

I really dont know where you are getting these ideas from..This thread was never created primarily for hook up but to discus mature issues hence the title "lets talk"

So i guess its because one silly mod moved it to meet up or hook up zone hence your perception.

missbronze:
Are you kidding me?

some ladies do that on this our very own thread?


why you no report them to me?

BTW, good even sir, hope you day went well.

Yeah they do that and on several occasions some guys have chatted with me on watsup and complained about this.

I am good sis, how you dey?

IndianaJay:
Op..............I have a question.

Why marry a philanderer when there are many men out there who will love, respect you and not be promiscuous?

I've always said....promiscuous people have no business being married, you can't intentionally tie someone's destiny to yours when you know you have no respect and will break your marriage vows in a flash.

I'm not even talking about the men who try to resist the temptation here, i'm talking about the men/women who readily go in search of temptation while their spouses are home playing dutiful hubby/wife.

Women should stop marrying these philanderers, there's no happiness or light t the end of that tunnel.

It's how bitter resentful old women are created.

If you read the first point,i mentioned emphatically that a saint can turn to a demon and except there is a tag that is placed on every man's head to know which one will not turn a philanderer after marrying you,maybe your assertion of ladies not marrying a philanderer.

Any unmarried lady will never understand no matter how hard she tries to until she is married and faced with that hard fact that most men cheat on their wives and it is only the man who gets caught that takes the heat.

I tell ladies point blank,if you divorce your hubby cos he cheats on you,then you are not only dumb but clueless because there is no guaranty that the next ten men you come accross after that won't do worse,if you also chjeat on your man to get back at him then you are the queen of fools cos you are doing yourself more harm than good BUT IF YOU DIVORCE A GUY THAT CHEATS WITH IMPUNITY,I SUPPORT YOU...Because it is bad enough for a man to cheat on his wife but totally insane for him to do it to her face...

This is one fact many ladies will never come to terms with until they are faced with the harsh reality...LET THAT GUY BE,your marital or overall happines must never be dependent on a man's fidelity towards you...there is more to life than watching your hubby,or crying over the fact that he is seing other ladies...

Polygamy is not a sin so why kill yourself because your hubby decides to be with another lady when he can actually marry another lady.

For the guys, adultery is a sin and if you indulge in it then start preparing to spend your eternal life in hell but if you must indulge in this hell bound act,please respect that woman by going very far to mo sa fun e to avenue.

MYMINDER:
My 3 cents. No one is taking the bull by the horn. There is no leader and everybody is in hiding...

If any of you are serious, go on Skype video call and see yourselves. If you don't like what you hear and or see, then you take off. One Skype call is worth it. If it's good you stick around and if not, on to the next one. This childish stuff of how was your day and all the itsy bitsy stuff is stomach churning. You all know what you want so cut out the bs.

My mind as always. Good luck to all of you.

So you think i will go through the stress of getting a skype id of someone i dont even have a clue whether human,ghost or robot?

E no work dat way ogbeni..even in offline interaction,before a man or woman goes ahead to give or collect contact details for any reason at al..they will at least see each other

fleeky:
Hey, tnxx bluepearls

Ladies and ghost mode...oh my Ghost

nutty16:
Ok. Nice nice to meet you @melsan. Where are d guys now.

Guys yapa here but im not interested in meeting people in ghost mode...Aye le..who knows if you are a robot?

BCISLTD:
Wetin happen..u dey fear to ask her out ni...

i agree but it seems some ladies still come on this thread with their childish,egocentric and unwarranted shakara because i have recieved messages from guys that some ladies are rejecting PMs and i just wonder...if this is an interactive thing why turn down friendship invitations...

Some never puts up their pics for even a minute and in my opinion,if i cant see you,i dont believe you are real..at least put a pics for us to see even if na fake just put and decieve urself.

Too much forming for some 30plus ladies who think they are too hot to relate on this thread...smh..i wonder if any lady still sees prospects in forming this days....if you are a guy or lady and you are 30plus come in and lets relate...if any guy woos you here patapata you no go gree.

A lady who can not cook the desired meal of her hubby excellently has failed maritally.

kambili999:
i'm just here to see the men in nairaland who can actually do this

I can do it
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LadyJul:
Why is it that most handsome guys like begging money from girls? Every time they'll begging money and expecting girls to give them money because of their looks....Most of them don't even know how to treat a lady right....They treat ladies like rag and believe they can get any lady because of their looks.....To hell with their handsome face....I'll choose a not too handsome guy anyday, anytime.....

Oh you are still a student...wat do u expect wen u are mostly surrounded by teenage guys and adolescents....."walks out of thread"

LadyJul:
Why is it that most handsome guys like begging money from girls? Every time they'll begging money and expecting girls to give them money because of their looks....Most of them don't even know how to treat a lady right....They treat ladies like rag and believe they can get any lady because of their looks.....To hell with their handsome face....I'll choose a not too handsome guy anyday, anytime.....

You have been meeting boys...when i was still cute,i have never begged any lady for money and no matter how rich you may be,i care less about your kobo.

Pray that you meet real cute men and not boys...

Islie:
http://pulse.ng/gist/morning-teaser-my-husband-cannot-satisfy-me-sexually-id4377602.html

now lalasticlala please tell me if this does not make sense as a fpage content compared to the lame ones about a lympho girlfrend or the one of a lady cheating on a boyfriend yet still wants her as well as the one of a single guy making love to a pretty married lady that is not even remorseful but just scared of getting caught.

If i clamp down on you for bringing morally decadent topics to nairaland fpage please dont think for once that i dont like nairaland or you but since 2007 when i joined nairaland,i have always desired for its growth and relevance hence the need to point out the areas i feel its lacking behind.

Asides from crime topiics that has to do with romance,please do not just bring any romance topic that promotes sexual recklessness to fpage.i hope im making sense...

Now to the matter on ground i believe the woman should sit the man down and tell him sternly that she wants sexual satisfaction and as a matter of priority,he must do something about his situation else she might be tempted to leave the marriage...trust me,except the hubby does not truly want her,he will do something ASAP.

darmys:
[size=14pt]Nice of him his pockets shall never run dry[/size]

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glossymyss2:
must all d talk in naira land b about Linda ikeji nd her new apartment sef

So you are yet to know that nairaland is now an extention of likeji blog?

95% of linda ikeji contents are repeated on nland...so appaling.

onosprince:
Show me an apc member who doesn't lie and I will show you a pregnant virgin.

I am a card carryng member of APC since the days of PDP and you will never hear a lie from me.

ddshow:
When you want everything, you end up getting nothing...that's my present dilemma. Aside that I'm fine and thanks for the blandish....I rarely get to hear such.

I'm thinking we should have a soirée sometime next month in Lagos.

dd e be like say your grammer and terminologies no get mate...abeg wettin be blandish,soiree kwpa?

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Nice one...keep it up

ddshow:
Morning Fam....its Fridayyy! The murk tells me Christmas is close.










I hope life has been easy on each and everyone of us. You guys have made the thread so engaging, so interesting reading through.

dd bawoni, se awon omoge yen comply? i trsut you, fine man no pimples,do have a splendid weekend ahead

depressedsoul:
Good morning. the details have been sent to the line you provided. i sent it with another line. i hope you get it

Ok im online at the moment, will check it when i go offline. Hows your day going? Take care.