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 Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 5:56pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
halexito:You have a passion for poetry so explore it |
| Politics › Re: Dasuki: GEJ Ordered Me To Share N10Billion To PDP Delegates - Saharareporters by Toks2008(m): 5:47pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Saturn213:As a card carrying member of the APC since the days of PDP,i had always gone against the candidature of PMB but after serious soliloquy i just concluded that it is better to have a 73 year old man who was known for zero tolerance to corruption rather than vote a supposed pHD holder who can not even take care of his household.... We really appreciate the person of Jonathan but he has messed himself up big time and no matter how PMB tried to avoid bringing him in, i guess his imminent imprisonment can not be escaped by him....Soo sad 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: 8 Ways Guys Frustrate The Life Of Ladies With Small Bosom & Butt by Toks2008(m): 5:11pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
stupidity:Your user ID is really interesting especially when it corroborates with what you wrote...no insults intended..just wondering |
| Romance › Re: 8 Ways Guys Frustrate The Life Of Ladies With Small Bosom & Butt by Toks2008(m): 5:07pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
Please what exactly makes up a small bossom or big butts? A lady with a full cup size of 34c to 36b is perfectly ok and many ladies do not understand the difference between curvy butts and big butts... A lady can have a beautiful curvy butt yet no conspicuous booty while some bootilicious ladies can have real ugly ass..it all depends on the way you look at it. Any bust line above 36d to me is abacha but a smaller,firmer and full bustline will stand the test of time. |
| Romance › Re: This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Toks2008(op): 10:56pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Flashh:lol! by now you should know that 99.99% of what i write are from me so im my own source. Its all about creative writing. 29 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › This Is One Of The Strongest Reasons Why many Relationships fail. by Toks2008(op): 10:41pm On Dec 03, 2015*. Modified: 7:24pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
COMMUNICATION IS THE BUILDING BLOCK OF ANY LASTING RELATIONSHIP Communication is a simple word yet very vital in the lives of every living thing. A school of taught defined communication as an exchange and flow of information and ideas from one person to another; it involves a sender transmitting an idea, information, or feeling to a receiver. In maintaining a healthy relationship between a man and a woman, effective communication is very vital. Many relationships fail today because there is a break down of effective communication. Effective communication occurs only if the receiver understands the exact information or idea that the sender intended to transmit but anything short of this will usuallylead to disaster In the relationship. Many courtships and marriages have broken down today because each party assumes the other person to be a mind reader or expects the other party to understand issues in a magical manner. Have you wondered why some divorcées usually use words like "irreconcilable difference". But the truth of the matter is that it was lack of effective communication that led to the break up. In any serious affair or marriage, two different people must merge to understand each other and this can only be done by having a no holds bar communication with each other on every aspect from the craziest issue to the most important. Many people tend to condole behavioral patterns they are not happy with and by so doing building up resentment over the years just to explode when the other partner least expects it and by then it may be too late for both parties to repair the damage. No matter what the case may be, don’t hold back your feelings and learn to communicate with the other party in a very serious manner and not with mediocrity hence you just might be taking for granted. It may be the way you want to be touched or the way you want your egg fried. It may be just anything that may sound stupid or unimportant but please discuss this and you will be happy at the outcome. Nothing is too sacred to discuss... -If you want mouth action from your spouse,discuss it -If you dont like the way he or she snores,discuss it. -If you hate his or hygiene,discuss it -If he or she is too boring in bed,discuss it. -If you feel you are not getting enough attention please discuss it and don't ever stomach or condole things that gets you mad cos a day will come when it will burst out of you and you tend to overreact so discuss it in a timely,humbly,and romantic manner and be at peace If we all learn to communicate effectively with our partners , I bet the rate of break ups will be greatly reduced. Divorce and broken relationship is the greatest delight of the devil because this is the only institution GOD takes so much pride in because he instituted it right from the beginning of the world so Lets learn to communicate any and every issue that bothers us with our partners and you will remain happy and also know where you are heading in your relationship in a timely manner. Hope this helps. 146 Likes 18 Shares
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| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 8:29pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
udysweet:lol..no wahala...as per hooking up shey dem dey hook up with invisible people wey we know see dem face? And asides i no get time for long distance affair jare...most times e no dey work |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 3:41pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
zubinike:Gbam! This is why it is important to know who you roll with..I derive passion from communicating either in oral or written form so don't be surprised if you see me have over 140 threads...its a passion i have no power over but i can only try to control it. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Anita Oyakhilome Shades Ex-husband, Pastor Chris by Toks2008(m): 3:35pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Balkan:My broda chere. People are complex and it may surprise you that im supporting pastor Chris on this matter. I dont want to go into funny details but i can tell you that if you ask Anita to state to the world exactly why she filed for divorce,you will be surprised that she will make no sense to the real world. If you observe ladies born within febuary 21 and march 21 and i stand challenged by any lady born within this period to come out and call me a liar. This set of ladies are too emotional for this real world and very very weired. As innocent and sweet that they are and i mean trust me, they are 100% sweet and great lovers BUT THEY HAVE A BIG PROBLEM....Most of them can break up their affairs over issues wey no make real sense and once they break up their affair,they hardly ever reconcile and they will continue to believe there is no way out except the lady really really force herself to reconcile. When any lady ask me why i broke up with my ex of over 11years and i ask her to let it go and she insists,i always want to give such her number so that she can ask her directly at least to hear from her directly....this is because i know sey she no go make sense. Tell a lady within this birth period to gerraway and you are in soup..tell them "shut up" and you will have lots of apology to make..so what does this tell you? Yes pastor chris must have done somthing wrong but i insinst it is not enough for all this melodrama and unwarranted negative publicity. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Anita Oyakhilome Shades Ex-husband, Pastor Chris by Toks2008(m): 3:19pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
IndianaJay:See my sister i understand you but in the case of Anita,she is totally confused..i have followed the story very well and as i wrote, except there is something she is stil keeping from the world,she is only making herself a subject of ridicule. Lets assume for one sec that pastor Chris sleeps with a female member please tell me if that is enough for her to start all these melodramatic nonsense? Is she the first pastor's wife to face such situation? Just watch her and quote me, she may stall this seperation for years without concluding the divorce. My advice to pastor chris is to understand the type of wife he has..as sweet as she is, she is very pessimistic and negative and even if she has 10reasons to reconcile, she will look for reason to leave. Only with serious effort can pastor chris melt her heart cos if he leaves her like this,she will just make a mess of herself. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Anita Oyakhilome Shades Ex-husband, Pastor Chris by Toks2008(m): 3:11pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
Queennikky:Serious noise my sister. If anyone sees this lady please tell her to get the divorce done fast and move on..the world has no place for confused and disillusioned people. Except there is something else she is keeping from the world...so far she has no case so make she park one side abeg. 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:32am On Dec 03, 2015 |
petkruz:I have this weired sixth sense that seems to be right in most cases. You are very well welcomed... I am a social bird,an apt intelligent communicator and a great charmer...Proudly Gemini. 1 Like |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:29am On Dec 03, 2015 |
udysweet:Swet Aburo to sure,Bawoni |
| Politics › Re: Dokpesi: Money I Received Was For Publicity And Media In Political Campaigns by Toks2008(m): 1:27am On Dec 03, 2015 |
feedthenation:this baffles me too... Imagine..over 2billion naira for AIT alone..haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...kilode? Its unfortunate that in as much as Buhari is trying to respect Jonathan...the sins of the man are just too many to overlook... I am scared that Jonathan may end up been messed up. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:15am On Dec 03, 2015 |
petkruz:Something tells me you are not up to 30 but even if you are not,i will beg the op for a pass for you.. Leo lady...hmmm,the affectionate lovers who also love to be center of attraction. If you want this lady to love you,just devote your love to her and give her great accolades and you have nothing to worry about and be ready to see a very daring lady in action... It may surprise you all that im writing all these but the truth is that you can reduce the stress of courting someone if you know the zodiac of that person. Call it astrology if you like but to me its simply a good study of human behaviors in relation to their birth period. But if you cros the line to start going into star gazing and using astrology to fortell your daily or monthly life outcome,then you are on your own. |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 12:01am On Dec 03, 2015 |
petkruz:Sometimes you just want to make friends with a sweet looking lady lol...Lovely pics i must say |
| Family › Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Toks2008(m): 4:50am On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3:Please out of the other prince charming,which one have proposed to you? You need to read this.. My candid advice for the ladies I simply laugh at the naivety of some ladies who claim they are in search of a man who will truly love them and appreciate them. Why i laugh is because deep inside these ladies,they know if a man truly desires and appreciates them but what they are actually looking for is totally different from what they claim. I have heard many ladies set standards as regards the type of man they want and there is absolutely nothing wrong in that except the fact that they cross the line by wanting to be with a man they have strong feelings for and even if they meet a man that truly desires them,as long as they don't have feelings for such man,its a NO. I'm sorry to tell you this truth; many ladies will end up been an object of ridicule in their affairs until they learn the fact that all you need is a man that will truly love,appreciate and value you and every other thing is secondary. Don't be carried away by his money,looks or razzmatazz but be sensitive to know if he sincerely wants you and cherish you. If you are fortunate to have a prince charming who also truly desires you,good for you but never make this a must. Yes i agree that your feelings towards this person is important but your marital happiness does not lie in what you feel for him rather its the way he feels towards you. Of what use will it be if you end up marrying a man you are crazy about but will make you cry all the time?,Of what use will it be if you end up with that man that has all you want except the fact that he turns you to a punching bag or makes you unhappy? Some ladies are actually fortunate to end up with man of their dreams but to be on the safer side,be sensitive to know if that man truly desires you because not every man that comes for your hand in marriage truly loves and cherishes you because many guys these days marry for selfish reasons. Trust me,its better to be with a man who truly wants,desires,appreciates you than to end up with a man you want but does not really want you. As a lady,you are genetically structured to naturally love a man that treats you well and a cute guy will turn ugly to you when he treats you like poo while that guy you felt nothing for will look so cute and adorable to you after he treats you like a queen so the best part is that you will fall in love in a short while with any man who truly shows you he cares even if he is a short fat ugly man.(watch beauty and the beast) and you will agree with me that all a woman needs is a man that will love and cherish her all the days of her life. That is the man you need,and not necessarily the man you are crazy about because if a woman marries a man who truly loves and cherishes her,she is complete but if she marries a man she is crazy about but does not truly love and cherish her,she is finished. Hope this helps https://www.nairaland.com/2440267/costly-mistake-many-ladies-make 5 Likes 1 Share
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| Family › Re: I Caught My Husband Sniffing My Niece's Pants by Toks2008(m): 4:41am On Dec 01, 2015 |
espionagesavvy:This may be a hard one but you may have to send your niece to another family member or make a switch with a male child of same woman who is somewhere else. You need to take the bulls by the horns before your niece who is probably in her irrational stage of life collaborates with your supposed randy hubby to destroy your home cos teenagers are one hell of irrational beings who do things that ordinarily will never cross their minds at older age. Be proactive before things get out of hand. My opinion. |
| Family › Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(op): 10:47pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
| Family › Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(op): 8:37pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod:  |
| Family › Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(op): 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod:lol..as in? |
| Family › Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(op): 6:09pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Teempakguy:Not funny at all and this is why i tell guys looking for commitments to tell any lady who asks him what he does that he is jobless and just trying to get another job even if he is the MD of shell..If she loses interest in you please don't push it..you need a wife and not a leech. 88 Likes 5 Shares |
| Family › One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(op): 3:47pm On Nov 30, 2015*. Modified: 9:19pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents are from a very humble background and had to make huge financial sacrifices. After graduation,this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and we all know the financial demands that come with marriage ceremonies. As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden. Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that? But it gets even crazier by the day cos most of those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while many acclaimed graduates just hope for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad. Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female... We go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA! What happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s. This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life. So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira. So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth... "Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"? Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind. Odiegwu. 122 Likes 13 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Why We Should Stop Picking On Girls Who Are Dating For Money by Toks2008(m): 3:42am On Nov 30, 2015 |
Estharfabian:Good this is coming from a lady and i hope this is not just mouthing but you...... Show me a lady who values money above true desire and i will show you a potential ajale victim....wondering what Ajale means? ....ritual coven 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Why We Should Stop Picking On Girls Who Are Dating For Money by Toks2008(m): 11:36pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
saasala:And this incoherent pooh made front page...smh OP you try at least you did a good work trying to make sense and passing a morally bankrupt message to your sisters and daughters who i will pity if they ever go in line with you. Iranu 10 Likes |
| Romance › Re: My one and only lovely Bae. by Toks2008(op): 10:52pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Crazy Interview Question "What Is 1+1?" by Toks2008(m): 6:39pm On Nov 29, 2015 |
1+1 is a mathematical expression that evaluates to:2 (number) (in ordinary arithmetic) 1 (number) (in Boolean algebra with a notation where '+' denotes a logical disjunction , see logical disjunction#Definition ) 0 (number) (in Boolean algebra with a notation where '+' denotes ' exclusive or' operation, or in a quotient ring of numbers modulo 2 ) The terms 1+1 , One Plus One , or One and One may refer to: 1+1 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 + ⋯ , a mathematical divergent series 1+1 (channel) , a Ukrainian TV channel 1+1 (album) , a 1972 album by Grin 1 + 1 (album) , a 1997 duet album by Herbie Hancock and Wayne Shorter 1+1 (song) , by Beyoncé Knowles One Plus One OnePlus One, an Android smartphone One Plus One, original title of Sympathy for the Devil (film) One Plus One, 2002 graphic novel published by Oni Press OnePlusOne, (Marriage and Partnership Research) founded in 1970 by Dr Jack Dominian 1+1 in marital sex can be 3,4,5 or more depending on the... Thank God sey i no dey find job cos the kain answer i go give to some funny questions... |
| Business To Business › Re: Get large quantity of edible giant land snails. by Toks2008(op): 12:29pm On Nov 29, 2015*. Modified: 11:09am On Sep 20, 2017 |
fayodele:Sorry for the glitch. Just as i stated,i only supply not less than 300pieces so for those interested you can call this line....o8o23146o46 50 to 60grams at N200 each and above 60grams to 80grams for N250. You can just get any smail from the regular market and weigh it after removing the shell to have an idea of the weight. |
| Romance › Re: My one and only lovely Bae. by Toks2008(op): 8:54am On Nov 29, 2015*. Modified: 9:22am On Nov 29, 2015 |
If you have evr at anytime in your life accepted Christ as your lord and Saviour and for one reason or the other have given up your salvation due to repetitive sins please its time to retrace and come back to Christ because he has not forsaken you regardless. I remember when i newly gave my life to christ at the tender age of 13...i guess i was ib form2 as it was called way back now called jss2 or so...then if i mistakenly abuse anyone you will hear my friends say "ah see this one that is calling himself born again abusing someone" and i will feel so ashamed and would almost want to give up the born again thing. The simple fact is that many people in hell today have no business there but they are victims of their own decision. Yes you can give your life to christ and afterwards still see yourself commit crazy sins over and over and over again AND THIS DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT YOU ARE BORN AGAIN....and each time you fall into sin, you must ask GOD to forgive you But when you start enjoying those sins and you see yourself craving for it or looking forward to it then you have crossed the delicate line. The truth is that the grace of GOD is not for us to enjoy sins or to sin with impunity but the grace is there for us to live above sins,to put away any consciousness of sins and understand that by faith in christ we are justified and not by the sins we commit or the righteousness of our deeds. After you give your life to christ,all you need to do is ask the holy spirit to come into your life to perfect your salvation and you will be amazed that those sins you think are too strong for you to overcome will suddenly be so weak to dominate you...remember ONLY BY THE SPIRIT and not by our power or effort can we live a redeemed life. Hope this makes sense. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: 8 Amazing facts about salvation you will not hear in many churches. by Toks2008(op): 8:43am On Nov 29, 2015 |
I remember when i newly gave my life to christ at the tender age of 13...i guess i was form 2 way back now called jss2 or so...then if i mistakenly abuse anyone you will her my friends say stuffa like "ah see this one that is calling himself born again abusing someone" and i will feel so ashamed and would almost want to give up the born again thing. The simple fact is that many people in hell today have no business there but they are victims of their own decision. Yes you can give your life to christ and afterwards still see yourself commit crazy sins over and over and over again AND THIS DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT YOU ARE BORN AGAIN....and each time you fall into sin, you must ask GOD to forgive you But when you start enjoying those sins and you see yourself craving for it or looking forward to it then you have crossed the delicate line. The truth is that the grace of GOD is not for us to enjoy sins or to sin with impunity but the grace is there for us to live above sins,to put away any consciousness of sins and understand that by faith in christ we are justified and not by the sins we commit ore the righteousness of our deeds. After you give your life to christ,all you need to do is ask the holy spirit to come into your life to perfect your salvation and you will eb amazed that those sins you think are to strong for you to overcome will be so weak to dominate you...remember ONLY BY THE SPIRIT and not by our power or works can we live a redeemed life. Hope this makes sense. 2 Likes |
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