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RomanceRe: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(op):
Adaeze003:
Na wa oh.... buh then, this is just what you scribbled out of boredom and probably disdain or to spite someone?

Because in reality, guys in their early 30z marry girls in their 30z(sometimes older) and should I talk about both in late 20z range?

But let me ask, how many weddings have you attended since January? Just check, the wide age gap is no longer a trend.

Oh and teens should date teens and not some older pervert that'll turn them to sex tools(yes, I know teens might have sex on their own but at least, it'll be mutual) better still, they should be more focused on their education(if they'll listen)...

*off topic* is it just me or is the way people talk about marriage these days really off-putting?
Why you dey fight yourself?

I have always reiterated that one of the best test of a sound IQ is respecting other people's opinion without getting offended or unduly rude expecially when you are not directly insulted.

So please take a good chill pill and a cold glass of water..i just stated my opinion while i also clearly stated all you wrote in my fist two paragraphs abi you no read am?

Which one be bordom,disdaine,spite on top this matter when i was just catching fun enjoying my freelance writing thingy...wahala dey...smh
RomanceRe: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(op): 10:37pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adasun:
Op e don finishhuh
Yes e don pinish
RomanceRe: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(op): 10:25pm On Nov 25, 2015
Adasun:
Op e don finishhuh
oku ni ibon ro
RomanceRe: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(op): 9:47pm On Nov 25, 2015
misspicy:
space booked cool
lol!
RomanceRe: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(op):
STFUareyouGod:
you should also modify my post that you quoted wink
ok
RomanceRe: 7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(op):
Yeah
Romance7 types Of Ladies And The kind Of Men most ideal for them. by Toks2008(op):
I want to share "MY OPINION" on a very sensitive and controversial issue as regards the types of ladies we have and the kind of guys that is best suited for them.

There is no specific formula for a relationship to be a great one and any man can meet and fall in love with any lady and have a great union together regardless of age or status but nevertheless i have come to realize that what i am about to write holds true in most cases and i promise you all that this will be a revealing as well as thought provoking piece.

I present to you 7 types of ladies and the kind of men that will be most ideal for them to go into a purposeful relationship with...

[size=13pt]1.The Teenage/adolescent ladies and undergraduates: [/size]Many ladies at this stage of their lives tend to mingle and fall in love with guys of same age group like an 18 year old lady falling in love with a fellow teenager or a guy of a very close age gap...Many female undergraduates also tend to get involved in school romance with guys of same academic level or maybe just a year or two ahead of them.

Yes in few cases the ladies in question might just be fortunate enough to grow older together and end up marrying the guy but the truth is that the guys who are most ideal for teenage or adolescent ladies are men of wide age gap say from 6 yrs and above as these set of guys will appreciate these ladies more unlike their age mates or guys with just a year or two older.This may not make sense until these ladies find themselves at age 26 while the guy at age 28 will still be playing around and does not even know what he wants.

[size=13pt]2.:Ladies in their mid or late twenties [/size] Ladies in this category needs no sooth sayer to know that they should try to look away from guys in their 20s if they really want a purposeful affair.Yes yes we know that some guys are very well focused in their 20s especially late 20s but lets not fool each other..7 out of 10 guys in their 20s don't even understand a jack about commitment so why give yourself avoidable heartache falling in love with guys who are far from ready to commit themselves in matrimony? Guys in their 30s are best suited for ladies in this category.

[size=13pt]3.Ladies in their early 30s: [/size] If you are a lady who for one reason or the other finds herself unmarried in this age category please calm down and remove your mind from guys of very close age gap even in the 30s because most guys in their early 30s still have eyes for the twenty something ladies but we still have some guys in their late 30s who are very cool with ladies in their early 30s so a 30 or 32 year old lady should expect more appreciation from unmarried guys in their late 30s as well as male divorcées or widowers as they will not only desire these ladies in early 30s but will also appreciate them deeply unlike guys of very close age gap while guys of younger ages should be avoided like plague if you can because most times,they are only interested in playing you and moving on.

[size=13pt]4.Ladies in their late 30s and early 40s: [/size]We all know that 7 out of 10 guys in this age brackets must have been in one form of committed affair at a point in their life before attaining this age bracket so apparently most guys in their late 30s or early 40s are either widowers or divorcées which simply means that the guys that will naturally be most suited for ladies in this category are either divorcées,widowers or you just might meet with very few ones who have never been married before.

[size=13pt]5.The unmarried single mum: [/size] Well i believe this is a rather daisy situation as many hot single mums still find themselves in the hands of hot young never married guys who sincerely desire them but lets be frank with each other..It is not so easy for an unmarried single mum to see a never married single guy to really desire her and want her as a wife except she is very fortunate so my advice is for ladies in this category to look in the direction of single guys who are also baby daddies. The widowers with children,the male divorcée with children will be most suited for an unmarried single mum.

[size=13pt]6.Female divorcées: [/size]If you are a lady divorcée without a child and still very much young then you just might be fortunate to meet a never married man who will sincerely want and appreciate you but if children are involved them your best bet will be a fellow male divorcée with children or a married man who will not mind to have you as an extra wife.

[size=13pt]7.The widowed: [/size] This depends on the age of the lady but any widow with children and in here 30s may find solace more in a fellow widower with children,a make divorcée with children or a married man.

I know this piece may not make sense to some people but those who reason deep might just see the truth in it but as i wrote earlier on,
IT REMAINS MY OPINION.
RomanceRe: Woman Drags Ex-lover To Court For Duping And Refusing To Marry Her by Toks2008(m): 5:27pm On Nov 25, 2015
I will never date a lady i don't see myself marrying..NEVER...not even if she has all the money and connection in the world..nahhh
TravelRe: 500 Nigerians Deported From The UK Arrive Lagos by Toks2008(m): 2:37pm On Nov 25, 2015
I feel for these deportees..Nigeria is hell on earth for 80% of our Youths both male and female.

A friend of mine traveled to UK and for one month he would wake up early to iron his cloths for fear OF power outage and not until after a month before he got used to the fact that he is no longer in Nigeria where electricity supply is more of a miracle or luxury.

GOD SAVE NIGERIA.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Would You Give Blowjobs For 100k Monthly? Twitter User Narrates Ordeal by Toks2008(m): 1:58pm On Nov 25, 2015
jashar:
God forbid. 100k is too small a price to pay for such nonsense.
The price for my soul has been paid in full already.
It's better to fry puff-puff and sell maintaining dignity than doing such.
Pffffttttttt........



but the way some people are reasoning is appalling o. shocked . Can you with good conscience advise you sister or daughter to do such?
Why all the antagonisms?

Shheeeshhhh
So how much will be ideal? considering your stance that 100k is too small?
PoliticsRe: Meet Audu’s Teenage Wife Whose Dream Of Becoming Kogi Ist Lady Is Shattered(pics by Toks2008(m): 12:51pm On Nov 25, 2015
arabianights:
was she forced? she went in for the money and knew he would mot survive for long. she better be pregnant or even have a child.... either way ,she go know kogi withcraft soon
Be pregnant ke...its better she is not so that she can just move on with her life.
PoliticsRe: Meet Audu’s Teenage Wife Whose Dream Of Becoming Kogi Ist Lady Is Shattered(pics by Toks2008(m): 12:16pm On Nov 25, 2015
thorpido:
Some parents literarily sell their daughters for money.
She does not look like a lady who was forced to marry the man...

Honestly when i look at this cruel world of men,i just pity the ladies...how many 69yr old ladies can marry a 30yr old guy let alone a 19yr old?

indeed its a cruel and unjust world of man that we live in.
CelebritiesRe: Blogger Sisi Yemmie and Genevieve Nnaji: How Actress Snubbed Blogger by Toks2008(m): 1:16am On Nov 25, 2015
nuelzy:
buh muna forget o...genny can be rude atyms...

character-wise...#her ego outweighs her alot
I have known genevive since 1998 when we acted in a soap...PALACE...she has this dont near me atitude but im not judging her tho...we all have a wow and nay sides.
RomanceRe: My one and only lovely Bae. by Toks2008(op): 9:48pm On Nov 24, 2015
donkuso:
Thank you Jesus for saving me
wink
CelebritiesRe: Anna Ebiere Goes Into Trading Upon Return From US (Photo) by Toks2008(m): 12:12pm On Nov 24, 2015
Aminat508:
Source:https://instagram.com/p/-cbnVXMiie/
I wont be surprised if she is from imo or has imo blood in her..imo babes love business and i love them for that.
FamilyRe: 15 Funny Childhood Nostalgic Photos That Will Make You Feel Old. by Toks2008(m): 11:28pm On Nov 23, 2015
Even people in their late 20s will be like "oh the good old days" smh
FamilyRe: 'my Husband Rented A Flat For Our Maid' - Wife by Toks2008(m): 11:22pm On Nov 23, 2015
RomanceRe: I Wasn't Her TYPE 3yrs Ago And Now I Suddenly Became Her Type. by Toks2008(m): 11:17pm On Nov 23, 2015
Raalsalghul:
And Toks2008 has spoken!
LOL!
CrimeRe: Man Declared Wanted For Withdrawing N45m Mistakenly Credited Into His Account by Toks2008(m): 3:38pm On Nov 23, 2015
That moment when you just finishedd days of fasting and prayer for an uncommon blessing and this happens...

Honestly what the man did was indirect robbery.At least he would have made adequate enquiry about the source and if it seems like a miracle then he can go ahead to withdraw it...
PoliticsRe: Things To Know About Prince Abubakar Audu (oct. 1947 – Nov. 2015) by Toks2008(m): 11:55pm On Nov 22, 2015
For petes sake what is he freaking looking for again in that office...Well adeiu and let your reward after death be according to your deeds on earth.
RomanceRe: My one and only lovely Bae. by Toks2008(op): 11:22pm On Nov 22, 2015
If you are reading this but you have never given your life to Christ then you need to do that right now cos the trumpet of your life can sound at anytime and the most devastating thing anyone can do to him or herself is to be found dead without having Jesus as your Saviour.

He is reaching out to you this minute so right from the comfy of your home or wherever you are,just read these bold letterings out and you are automatically saved and your name will immediately be written in the book of life and you will never have anything to do with hell ever again...

"Lord Jesus,i believe you came to the world as the lamb of GOD and you were crucified to take away my sins.I accept you this moment as my lord and Saviour,thank you Jesus for saving me"

If you read these words out then i say congratulations...your name has just been written in the book of life...You now need to pray for the holy spirit to come into you and perfect your salvation.

Congratulations once again..You are now officially a citizen of heavenly paradise.

Christianity EtcRe: 10 Practical Ways To Battle Sexual Temptation In A Christian's Life by Toks2008(m): 11:06pm On Nov 22, 2015
[size=30pt]GET MARRIED[/size]
RomanceRe: My one and only lovely Bae. by Toks2008(op): 10:57pm On Nov 22, 2015
Joslyn:
I LOVE you JESUS.You have been good to me despite my sins.*Grateful heart*
grad2012:
I love u jesus from my hrt ,thank u so much for ur everlasting love.
Ladies seem to love Jesus more.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:40pm On Nov 22, 2015
fourfunmi:
Omg! I am so sorry @viviciousvivi , Kindly accept my heartfelt sympathy. I've still got my parents but about 3months ago I lost 2 people very dear to me. I wept for weeks, I was broken, shattered and lost my will to continue. Gradually I started to get out of it, through the help of many around me who tried many times to knock sense into my head...it was like a vortex sucking me in. My dear I know how you feel and may God comfort you and heal your heart. You'll be in my prayers.

@udysweet... Pele...welcome to my world...I get those mad headaches constantly now; infact, every week. Try to reduce your phone/computer use, rest your eyes, keep your lights dim/off...that's what I do. Ndo my sister.

@Toks2008....awayu?? I remember reading something something about politics. Abeg when should I come and submit my proposal? How was the weekend bro?

@ddshow...refreshing weekend right? Hope you are very (not fairly) okay! Fingerscrossed plus looking forward to the actualization of the beautiful plan you are working on.

@halexito....very soon you won't be as single as the sun anymore...remember how gloomy the day is without the sun; we all need the sun. You have so much love to give; don't worry 'Miss Deserving' is on her way.

@magneto...your write up is lovely. I did a little soul searching too fter reading it. God bless you for the lovely piece. Truly, we attract who we are and are also responsible for that. We should try to imbibe those virtues and characteristics we look out for in ourselves so we can attract same.

@everyone.... I hope y'all had a lovely weekend...I wish everybody a lovely week ahead...
lol...it is well sis..we will get there
Nairaland GeneralRe: Tribute To Etruth! by Toks2008(m): 9:38pm On Nov 22, 2015
Idrismusty97:
This is shameful on the path of Dagote, I am highly disappointed. Etruth is nice guy, An Ardent supporter of the APC even before the party won. May his soul rest in perfect peace.
i dey suspect this dangote trucks end of the year accidents...its been happening for years...
Nairaland GeneralRe: Tribute To Etruth! by Toks2008(m): 9:28pm On Nov 22, 2015
CUMPOLICE01:
R. I. P to him.. . Buh he was online yesterday morning. He loved God nd the scriptures so much. May God bless his soul
.. .. Lalasticlala oya cme oo. A fallen nairaland hero
Yes o and if what im thinking is right...we need not grieve for him cos he is enjoying a greater life right now.

But for my assignment on earth...i cant wait to be with christ in paradise..."winks"
CelebritiesRe: Basketmouth Pays Senate President Saraki A Courtesy Visit At Home (Photo) by Toks2008(m): 8:16pm On Nov 22, 2015
bunmioguns:
Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men. Proverbs 22:29


This type of blessing I asked for O Lord
Just do what you love doing as in what you will do very well even if you wont get paid for it..that is what will take you up there.

Our school degree is only a plus.
RomanceRe: I Wasn't Her TYPE 3yrs Ago And Now I Suddenly Became Her Type. by Toks2008(m): 6:58pm On Nov 22, 2015
searching4l0ve:
[b]
undecided@OP RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE undecided 99.99% OF NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE ROMANCE THIEVES WAITING TO SUCK YOU DRY IN THE DISGUISE OF LOVE/RELATIONSHIPS. YOU ARE EVEN LUCKY SHE'S NOT THE DESPERATE TYPE THAT WILL GO FETISH JUST TO HAVE YOUR ATTENTION. NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE MONEY HUNGRY AND POVERTY STRICKEN. THEY HARDLY STAND BY A BROKE MAN NEITHER DO THEY BELIEVE IN POTENTIALS NOR YOUR DREAMS. ALL THEY ARE CONCERNED ABOUT IS MONEY, MONEY AND MORE MONEY. WHEN THE CHIPS ARE DOWN THEY ABANDON YOU AND LOOK FOR NEXT COMFORT ZONE IRRESPECTIVE OF THE MEMORIES OR NUMBER OF YEARS YOU SPENT TOGETHER. sad THE ONLY THING THAT GOLD DIGGER HAS TO OFFER YOU IS THAT SMELLY HOLE BETWEEN HER LEGS WHILE SHE CONTINUE FLEECING YOU IN THE NAME OF LOVE grin. ITS A TERRIBLE SITUATION IN NIGERIA. I ADVICE SANE MEN TO IGNORE THESE FINANCIAL LEECHES CALLED NIGERIAN GIRLS FOR A FOREIGN LADY WHO KNOWS THE MEANING OF TRUE LOVE. IF YOU WANT A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE FOREIGN GIRLS ARE MOSTLY THE BEST CHOICE TO MAKE.

#Team foreign girls cool cool[/b]
Why foreign? that sounds too far...

Go to neighboring countries like togo,Ghana,benin rep and see hotties who will not even ask you where you work or what you do for a living before they start an affair with you.

In Nigeria,you will mostly find real love with ladies from 18 to 22 but after this age, most times, their life would be corrupted and they will start affiliating their feelings for a man to money...alternatively, ladies of mature ages say from 28 and above will also not mind to be with a struggling guy not that they really want that but they feel time is no longer on their side.

Go outside Naija and tell a babe you are a vulcanizer,she will care less as long as the love is there but in naija you darenot tell a lady you are a bar tender..trsut me she won't pick your number again..how crazy and pathetic.

I weep in silence for our ladies because at teh rate things are going, we will start sering only baby mamas without husbands.
RomanceRe: I Wasn't Her TYPE 3yrs Ago And Now I Suddenly Became Her Type. by Toks2008(m): 6:45pm On Nov 22, 2015
wrongnumber:
Richmanology lol!
Yeah bro...

If i am not your type today then im not your type forever.

Every lady should see a man's money as "THE MAN'S MONEY" and a rich or financially ok guy as they tag it must only be a plus and never a criterion for loving a man or staying with him and infact it is a criminal act for a ldy to be in an affair with a man WITH THE HOPE THAT HE MAKES IT LATTER IN LIFE.

Ladies must learn to love a man for the sake of love and must never affiliate their feelings to what the man has or what he is likely to be cos all those can go in a whimp.

Honestly i will rather settle for a togo girl that sells kenke to be financially dependent rather than be with these empty and hopeless lady vultures who after spending years in the higher institute to bag a degree will still come out with a hopeless mindset of getting a made guy rather than strife to be made but only pride themselves in speaking packaged grammar and would rather invest on their body to attract a rich guy rather than get serious in making something out of their life. Awon oponu
RomanceRe: I Wasn't Her TYPE 3yrs Ago And Now I Suddenly Became Her Type. by Toks2008(m): 6:24pm On Nov 22, 2015
cashcity:
I met a lady in my neighbourhood about 3 years ago in a friend's birthday party. We exchanged contacts and started talking as good friends. With time I started developing feelings and decided to ask her if we can move the friendship to next level.

She said no that I am not her type for relationship, that we are better off as friends that we were. She said that there are so many qualities of a man of her dream in which I am no where near.. Mehn, that statement hurts me so baaaaad. Then, I just concluded my NYSC and she was just in her 3rd year in university. Gradually we stopped contacting each other.

Few months later, I secured employment in one construction company as a site engr. Withing a year, God started blessing me with personal contracts to the extent that I was forced to resign in the company to manage my contract works....I visit my parents in the neighbourhood as usual but never see anything that resemble her all those while. One day a lady shout out my name when I was trying to navigate a T-junction in my street with my newly purchased 2012 Toyota tundra. I struggled to recognise her cos it has been long and women changes so fast. After little discussions, we exchanged contact again. Now my phone can no longer rest because of her constant calls.. She is even forcing me to fix a date for her to visit. This is a lady that allegedly insults hell out of me when I was poor. Again, how did I suddenly become her type now when my stature and look still remain the same.. Pls advice me pals. Should I take her as girlfriend or move on with my life?
In situations like this i would wish i was not a believer in Christ cos such a lady deserves to be used like a slut as in use and dump her ass.

Foolish ladies everywhere who were sent to the same school we were also sent to,live in the same country we live,seek for the same employment in the same companies that we do and even have more chance of gaining employment than we do yet will want us to be financially made in our 20s and 30s before we can approach them for romance... help me ask them why their parents spent so much on them to get a qualitative education just to come out to have no sense of self reliance but only to start hoping for a man who has the finance to come into her life.

I think a new course should be introduced into the curriculum of our higher institutions...and should be called Richmanology where ladies are trained on how to hunt for guys who are financially ok.

Hopeless ladies everywhere...Each parents should hence forth start asking their daughters before they spend a dime on her education "Do you plan to come out and fight hard to be financially independent against all odds"or will you still come out to start hoping to find a rich man after we spend our money to send you to obtain the same degree this same men have?"
RomanceRe: I Wasn't Her TYPE 3yrs Ago And Now I Suddenly Became Her Type. by Toks2008(m): 6:13pm On Nov 22, 2015
firstEVA:
It happens, you were not up to her level then perhaps cos of your financial position. I am also very sure you look better now so no big deal.
I see.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 1:31pm On Nov 22, 2015
magneto:
Anytime dear...be safe


Shout out to toks2008 and siamia, ur dads did a good job of raising two great leaders like u! I doff my hat for them as they RIP...
Wow..thanks bro for the encomiia...im humbled.

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