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Adaeze003:Why you dey fight yourself? I have always reiterated that one of the best test of a sound IQ is respecting other people's opinion without getting offended or unduly rude expecially when you are not directly insulted. So please take a good chill pill and a cold glass of water..i just stated my opinion while i also clearly stated all you wrote in my fist two paragraphs abi you no read am? Which one be bordom,disdaine,spite on top this matter when i was just catching fun enjoying my freelance writing thingy...wahala dey...smh |
Adasun:Yes e don pinish |
Adasun:oku ni ibon ro |
misspicy:lol! |
STFUareyouGod:ok |
Yeah |
I want to share "MY OPINION" on a very sensitive and controversial issue as regards the types of ladies we have and the kind of guys that is best suited for them. There is no specific formula for a relationship to be a great one and any man can meet and fall in love with any lady and have a great union together regardless of age or status but nevertheless i have come to realize that what i am about to write holds true in most cases and i promise you all that this will be a revealing as well as thought provoking piece. I present to you 7 types of ladies and the kind of men that will be most ideal for them to go into a purposeful relationship with... [size=13pt]1.The Teenage/adolescent ladies and undergraduates: [/size]Many ladies at this stage of their lives tend to mingle and fall in love with guys of same age group like an 18 year old lady falling in love with a fellow teenager or a guy of a very close age gap...Many female undergraduates also tend to get involved in school romance with guys of same academic level or maybe just a year or two ahead of them. Yes in few cases the ladies in question might just be fortunate enough to grow older together and end up marrying the guy but the truth is that the guys who are most ideal for teenage or adolescent ladies are men of wide age gap say from 6 yrs and above as these set of guys will appreciate these ladies more unlike their age mates or guys with just a year or two older.This may not make sense until these ladies find themselves at age 26 while the guy at age 28 will still be playing around and does not even know what he wants. [size=13pt]2.:Ladies in their mid or late twenties [/size] Ladies in this category needs no sooth sayer to know that they should try to look away from guys in their 20s if they really want a purposeful affair.Yes yes we know that some guys are very well focused in their 20s especially late 20s but lets not fool each other..7 out of 10 guys in their 20s don't even understand a jack about commitment so why give yourself avoidable heartache falling in love with guys who are far from ready to commit themselves in matrimony? Guys in their 30s are best suited for ladies in this category. [size=13pt]3.Ladies in their early 30s: [/size] If you are a lady who for one reason or the other finds herself unmarried in this age category please calm down and remove your mind from guys of very close age gap even in the 30s because most guys in their early 30s still have eyes for the twenty something ladies but we still have some guys in their late 30s who are very cool with ladies in their early 30s so a 30 or 32 year old lady should expect more appreciation from unmarried guys in their late 30s as well as male divorcées or widowers as they will not only desire these ladies in early 30s but will also appreciate them deeply unlike guys of very close age gap while guys of younger ages should be avoided like plague if you can because most times,they are only interested in playing you and moving on. [size=13pt]4.Ladies in their late 30s and early 40s: [/size]We all know that 7 out of 10 guys in this age brackets must have been in one form of committed affair at a point in their life before attaining this age bracket so apparently most guys in their late 30s or early 40s are either widowers or divorcées which simply means that the guys that will naturally be most suited for ladies in this category are either divorcées,widowers or you just might meet with very few ones who have never been married before. [size=13pt]5.The unmarried single mum: [/size] Well i believe this is a rather daisy situation as many hot single mums still find themselves in the hands of hot young never married guys who sincerely desire them but lets be frank with each other..It is not so easy for an unmarried single mum to see a never married single guy to really desire her and want her as a wife except she is very fortunate so my advice is for ladies in this category to look in the direction of single guys who are also baby daddies. The widowers with children,the male divorcée with children will be most suited for an unmarried single mum. [size=13pt]6.Female divorcées: [/size]If you are a lady divorcée without a child and still very much young then you just might be fortunate to meet a never married man who will sincerely want and appreciate you but if children are involved them your best bet will be a fellow male divorcée with children or a married man who will not mind to have you as an extra wife. [size=13pt]7.The widowed: [/size] This depends on the age of the lady but any widow with children and in here 30s may find solace more in a fellow widower with children,a make divorcée with children or a married man. I know this piece may not make sense to some people but those who reason deep might just see the truth in it but as i wrote earlier on, IT REMAINS MY OPINION. |
I will never date a lady i don't see myself marrying..NEVER...not even if she has all the money and connection in the world..nahhh |
I feel for these deportees..Nigeria is hell on earth for 80% of our Youths both male and female. A friend of mine traveled to UK and for one month he would wake up early to iron his cloths for fear OF power outage and not until after a month before he got used to the fact that he is no longer in Nigeria where electricity supply is more of a miracle or luxury. GOD SAVE NIGERIA. |
jashar:So how much will be ideal? considering your stance that 100k is too small? |
arabianights:Be pregnant ke...its better she is not so that she can just move on with her life. |
thorpido:She does not look like a lady who was forced to marry the man... Honestly when i look at this cruel world of men,i just pity the ladies...how many 69yr old ladies can marry a 30yr old guy let alone a 19yr old? indeed its a cruel and unjust world of man that we live in. |
nuelzy:I have known genevive since 1998 when we acted in a soap...PALACE...she has this dont near me atitude but im not judging her tho...we all have a wow and nay sides. |
donkuso: ![]() |
Aminat508:I wont be surprised if she is from imo or has imo blood in her..imo babes love business and i love them for that. |
Even people in their late 20s will be like "oh the good old days" smh |
Raalsalghul:LOL! |
That moment when you just finishedd days of fasting and prayer for an uncommon blessing and this happens... Honestly what the man did was indirect robbery.At least he would have made adequate enquiry about the source and if it seems like a miracle then he can go ahead to withdraw it... |
For petes sake what is he freaking looking for again in that office...Well adeiu and let your reward after death be according to your deeds on earth. |
If you are reading this but you have never given your life to Christ then you need to do that right now cos the trumpet of your life can sound at anytime and the most devastating thing anyone can do to him or herself is to be found dead without having Jesus as your Saviour. He is reaching out to you this minute so right from the comfy of your home or wherever you are,just read these bold letterings out and you are automatically saved and your name will immediately be written in the book of life and you will never have anything to do with hell ever again... "Lord Jesus,i believe you came to the world as the lamb of GOD and you were crucified to take away my sins.I accept you this moment as my lord and Saviour,thank you Jesus for saving me" If you read these words out then i say congratulations...your name has just been written in the book of life...You now need to pray for the holy spirit to come into you and perfect your salvation. Congratulations once again..You are now officially a citizen of heavenly paradise.
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[size=30pt]GET MARRIED[/size] |
fourfunmi:lol...it is well sis..we will get there |
Idrismusty97:i dey suspect this dangote trucks end of the year accidents...its been happening for years... |
CUMPOLICE01:Yes o and if what im thinking is right...we need not grieve for him cos he is enjoying a greater life right now. But for my assignment on earth...i cant wait to be with christ in paradise..."winks" |
bunmioguns:Just do what you love doing as in what you will do very well even if you wont get paid for it..that is what will take you up there. Our school degree is only a plus. |
searching4l0ve:Why foreign? that sounds too far... Go to neighboring countries like togo,Ghana,benin rep and see hotties who will not even ask you where you work or what you do for a living before they start an affair with you. In Nigeria,you will mostly find real love with ladies from 18 to 22 but after this age, most times, their life would be corrupted and they will start affiliating their feelings for a man to money...alternatively, ladies of mature ages say from 28 and above will also not mind to be with a struggling guy not that they really want that but they feel time is no longer on their side. Go outside Naija and tell a babe you are a vulcanizer,she will care less as long as the love is there but in naija you darenot tell a lady you are a bar tender..trsut me she won't pick your number again..how crazy and pathetic. I weep in silence for our ladies because at teh rate things are going, we will start sering only baby mamas without husbands. |
wrongnumber:Yeah bro... If i am not your type today then im not your type forever. Every lady should see a man's money as "THE MAN'S MONEY" and a rich or financially ok guy as they tag it must only be a plus and never a criterion for loving a man or staying with him and infact it is a criminal act for a ldy to be in an affair with a man WITH THE HOPE THAT HE MAKES IT LATTER IN LIFE. Ladies must learn to love a man for the sake of love and must never affiliate their feelings to what the man has or what he is likely to be cos all those can go in a whimp. Honestly i will rather settle for a togo girl that sells kenke to be financially dependent rather than be with these empty and hopeless lady vultures who after spending years in the higher institute to bag a degree will still come out with a hopeless mindset of getting a made guy rather than strife to be made but only pride themselves in speaking packaged grammar and would rather invest on their body to attract a rich guy rather than get serious in making something out of their life. Awon oponu |
cashcity:In situations like this i would wish i was not a believer in Christ cos such a lady deserves to be used like a slut as in use and dump her ass. Foolish ladies everywhere who were sent to the same school we were also sent to,live in the same country we live,seek for the same employment in the same companies that we do and even have more chance of gaining employment than we do yet will want us to be financially made in our 20s and 30s before we can approach them for romance... help me ask them why their parents spent so much on them to get a qualitative education just to come out to have no sense of self reliance but only to start hoping for a man who has the finance to come into her life. I think a new course should be introduced into the curriculum of our higher institutions...and should be called Richmanology where ladies are trained on how to hunt for guys who are financially ok. Hopeless ladies everywhere...Each parents should hence forth start asking their daughters before they spend a dime on her education "Do you plan to come out and fight hard to be financially independent against all odds"or will you still come out to start hoping to find a rich man after we spend our money to send you to obtain the same degree this same men have?" |
firstEVA:I see. |
magneto:Wow..thanks bro for the encomiia...im humbled. |
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@OP RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE
THE ONLY THING THAT GOLD DIGGER HAS TO OFFER YOU IS THAT SMELLY HOLE BETWEEN HER LEGS WHILE SHE CONTINUE FLEECING YOU IN THE NAME OF LOVE
. ITS A TERRIBLE SITUATION IN NIGERIA. I ADVICE SANE MEN TO IGNORE THESE FINANCIAL LEECHES CALLED NIGERIAN GIRLS FOR A FOREIGN LADY WHO KNOWS THE MEANING OF TRUE LOVE. IF YOU WANT A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE FOREIGN GIRLS ARE MOSTLY THE BEST CHOICE TO MAKE.