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franklyn82:
vision or no vision, if u get money and u no get vision, no worry ladies go help find one.........................

OkeyEche:
look through her eyes nah

franklyn82:
vision or no vision, if u get money and u no get vision, no worry ladies go help find one.........................

kennygee:
When your cup has full.

Islie:
“My mum told me that she was going to take over me as my father has taken over my sister

comoestas:
Hello,

I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun.

6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.

I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand.

Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me.

I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out.

Nairaladers, how do I end this>

panachuku:
so because u dont have time for dating u shud go and marry jst any body. And later end up in a messy divorce and regret

ipledge10:
He changed the world by killing thousands of native Americans abi

VickyRotex:
Beautiful piece. Op, May wisdom never elude you.

obiorathesubtle:
Finally! Something I can call 'sense'

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
"our"?. Sorry , I dont believe in jesus.

mudility:
Please friends I need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that I think I have fallen in love with one of my female workers and it's driving me crazy.

I am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employees. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she possesses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she has been uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i really value her services to my business and it's okay if she says no.

Honestly i do love her but don't really know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
Not everybody is destined to have a love life or female partners , some are best left "SINGLE".

fourfunmi:
Hmmmmm....
Some men have Vision, some na Television dem get...
Any lady that follows a man without Vision will end up watching Television!
Na inside that Television she go see that young guy with Vision she let go making it.

A word is enough for.......una fit help me finish am abeg!

panachuku:
Desperation is bad madam stella , what happened to all the suitors and admirers u have in time past. Baffles me how person go jst enter Nairaland dey find husband wey be stranger lmao

pinkbaby:
Am a single lady, resident in lagos and working. I will love to meet a guy between the age of 30-40year who is matured, responsible well read, working, a christian and ready to settle down. He should value family and respect humanity. I'm not particular about colour or tribe. A cool calm and collected you should call me on 07067265152.
Please kids and un-serious fellows should stay off

egobetatoday:
i understand her perfectly. she's saying ladies and our mothers who stood by their boy friends/husbands/our fathers when when things were tough were sidelined when the going became good. the younger generation learnt something from that- men cannot be trusted to act right so they will rather marry a rich guy from the start since men dont respect their wives who laboured with them -they prefer girlfriends who are after them for their money. gbam.

kingzx0:
Nice one, not like those who sees ur money and tags it 'our money' but responsibility 'yours' . Women with liability mentality should just disappear from this planet

alt3r3g0:
95% of the comments here show that people have issues with reading and understanding a simple article....Really sad

luvinhubby:
No light, dry taps, long queues of vehicles on filling stations buying fuel at over 100 naira per liter & Buhari's ministers are going to pocket N485 million each annually when their principal is saying Nigeria is broke.

Buhariiiiii oo !!!

coha:
OP oh! Are dese except d last are d qualites of my ex,even hse him no get,na him papa hse him dey stay,after making him a man whre is he now? Na only God go judge sm guys.smh

Fembleez1:
I fall under 1, 2 and 3 May God help me

Mzdivacious:
didnt i tell u to calm down..i said its a no to "jobless men"..is a taxi driver jobless..bus drivers from lagos to osun make like 10k per journey,more than some office jobs.oga nawa u

misspicy:
i have had dis discussion with the OP.times without number and d guy always say.d same thing...imagine talk

this guy wants women to stay with a guy when he has nothing and he sees nothing wrong if the guy should eventually ditch the girl wen he is made...like seriously,women don suffer...he wants to eat his cake and have it.....lubbish


i say NO to all those useless questions he asked because i no come this world come suffer,i have my own money and i must marry a made man too...lobatan

Mzdivacious:
bros caaalm down.ejoor e gbe agbara le.even i wont be jobless at a marriageable age.why would i marry someone who is.u think i d bring a guy who lives in a one room apartment and my parents will bless d marriage.be REALISTIC.if those points are no biggie to u.u can bless d marriage when ur sisters n kids bring men like that home.ur post is so long i couldnt read more than 2paragraphs.but my opinion still stands

specco:
The hype on the ability of Tinubu to detect potential good leaders is becoming worrisome in the light of the faltering Ambode, the debt ridden Aragbe of Osun and his beloved senator-wife in the senate.
Let Tinubu go on and replicate other Fasholas in other positions of authority if Fashola is not just a fluke.

Codyt:
This one is just too much… hun!” I soliloquized in my bedroom after she had dropped my office bag and ran out to get my food. This continued for 3 weeks. Sometimes, her boobs will just slip out of her ‘top’ and she will simply apologize. My wife has never met her on that gown as she wears another cloth when it’s almost time for my wife to return. I have developed double minds about her. I have had different evil thoughts since this whole thing started. The one that happened last was the way she sat facing me, with her legs wide opened. I left the food that I was eating and walked to the bathroom to do nothing in particular. I had thought she would adjust as soon as I returned, but she didn’t budge. I think I fell into her trap finally that day. I almost had it with her when I grabbed her, and she jumped at me. We started that regrettable romance before God intervened with the sharp cry of my baby. That was what saved the day.

The next day, I had told my wife that we should send her away, but she vehemently refused to accept my suggestion. She had asked me to give some reasons why we should send her away, and I had told her that she was getting so stubborn and lazy; hence, she is as good as no House-help.

My wife who claimed she had never experienced that had accused me of formulating things against the lady. She told me that I wanted her out of the house because I had seen that she will soon secure admission into the higher institution, and I will soon begin to pay for her school fees. I couldn’t tell her the truth, because something tells me it will be disastrous. I just felt I could handle the matter in the most professional way. But right now, things have gone out of hands since the past 2 weeks. I have done virtually everything that can be considered dirty with her except that I have not done it with her yet. What’s keeping me from doing it is my conscience and for the fact that I can’t do that in my matrimonial home.

That sin will be so grievous, I know. She had asked me repeatedly last week if she can meet me in any of the hotels around town this weekend since my wife will be around then. She has just Saturday and Sunday to take care of her hair and visit friends, and she wants to use that opportunity to have me all to herself. Now, I’m contemplating on this issue. All I need is your advice; Saturday is just 5 days from today, and I can’t make up my mind on what to do. I love my wife, but I think I’m becoming so foolish in the name of being faithful. Please, tell me; should I do it or not? It has gotten to the level where I cannot tell my wife the truth because she won’t even believe, since I had told her a different story before. She will see it as blackmail. Your reaction will either encourage me or discourage me, even though my mind beats faster, and something tells me to do it. Should I?




Source:
bbmspy..nl/2015/11/please-help-my-house-girl-is-tempting.html?m=1

Mzdivacious:
who said u have to settle on top marriage.a guy with no job.tf??!!!

Nnemuka:
no is my answer to all questions..... i rather remain single than say yes.

LadyJul:
your opinion is not necessary...thanks