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Tatas...Good one though.

vizkiz:
this big bedroom without a man sleeping on that bed with you is meaningless aunty. Please come and marry uncle s€Un, he has money and he is caring he will make a good husband

Trust me,without a man,she is good...enough of this must marry thing as long as she is happy as she is and if she finds a man good enough for her,she will settle down.

I dey eye the babe sha and not for her money but her personality.. i have this respect for imo babes.

axortedbabe:
No wow factor

At all andd her dad must be very angry over this.

Shebbi una don win..Abeg make una go sleep.

Nigerians and football...choi

We too like football for naija..HABBA

Me i no go watch until Nigeria takes the lead.
no wan get high BP

komek:
Bros this ur assertion happened to me recently. I am dating a girl who is 9 yrs ma junior. I wanted it that way with some personal reasons, but I discover she believes life is still ahead of her. She is too ambitious, she believes the world is so easy. Atimes I laugh when she says certain things... I know how she feels cos I felt same way when I was her age too. Like u rightly said, its good to have an experience girl who has seen it all. Recently she felt I am not moving at the pace at which she wants and she decides to give me the rude shock. Yes it was so painful cos I was always planning ahead for us. But she has her own mind and I believe she knows what she wants too. I love been with women whether there is something or nothing. I am safer in their hands. I always tell anybody that comes my way that I will want to have all girls as children. Like u said, u don't have any special formula for relationship, I totally agree to that. When a good girls comes ur way u will know. Most time we the men allow them slide because we believe we can still get another one.

I am going for a wedding next month. This my guy is doing well. I remember hearing his babe say she has said it from the outset that she can never marry a guy who receives anything less than a 100k. I just shook ma head. She said this because still falls into the age bracket of those who believes life is so easy. He demands for virtually everything and my guy is complaining already because the expenses has not been easy for him. The babe keeps manufacturing expenses because she feels she wants her wedding to be talk of the town in the mist of her friends. Na God go help us sha...this is where the experience thing comes to play...make I go church o

The irony is that experience is not about age perse and a 21 yr old lady may be more experienced than a 30yr old.

For nstance,a 21 yr old could have gotten involved in a turbulent affairs while a 30yr old miight just be in one affair that is so smooth.

Trust me,the 21yr old will value a man who truly loves her having gone through like 2crazy affairs iin the past while the 30yr old lady who have never been heart broken may toy with the man n her life.

Believe it or not,until you experieence heartbreak,you can never know the value of sincere love.

fourfunmi:
Nice thread @op.... Nice to have a matured thread on this forum....
Turned 30 last week....
Following!

Omoluabi welcom o..we are happy to have you on this thread o..and walahi pinshure reee fine gaan ni..infacti oju e jo oju omo ti oma gboro si oko lenu..kaabo

gratefulme40:
Jesus na man oo......
Na we females dey married to Him.

Chai..why you fall my hand nah?

Honestly the older we get the more difficult it is to make a decision in choosing a spouse as iin..no more time for yeye dating which means na heavy risk to marry someone you hardly know...

God will help us

bleble14:
I Love D people here, God bless us all and grant our heart desires in Jesus name

All these ghost mode entrants sef..till today we no know how 50% of thee ladies on this thread looks and I still dey wonder if no be robots dey make posts sef.

Abeg make the ladies wey still dey ghost mode deactivate and let's see you and be sure you are human....lol

halexito:
Right on point. I got rice on the fire................... My God o!!! 30min past!!!! Didn't even light the stove!!

Lol..see yasef..make you do uick go marry o.

Me I'm married to Jesus lol..

Just read this piece once more and i honestly think nitial gragra is on monsteeer we all must guide against.

bookworm07:
Still waitin for a lady to kick against dis thread, make i use plank scatter her back

lol

awhen you see a thread about ladies with very few ladies commenting then that thread is rally on point concerniing them.

Highcuerayte:
Who was God addressing here?

Bros abeg help me park go one side..Thanks

Highcuerayte:
Doing that will not help you brother, my points will only be your guide and you will only be seeing my ideas while reading them. But when you read for yourself the Holy Spirit will be guiding you through. That's how I teach bro. It is the Spiritual standard for learning the truth. Read for yourself.

Oya see am...So bring out your points for all of us to learn from... This is the word of GOD we are talking about and any form of misinterpretation must not be taking with levity.

Ezekiel 31New International Version (NIV)
Pharaoh as a Felled Cedar of Lebanon

31 In the eleventh year, in the third month on the first day, the word of the Lord came to me: 2 “Son of man, say to Pharaoh king of Egypt and to his hordes:

“‘Who can be compared with you in majesty?
3 Consider Assyria, once a cedar in Lebanon,
with beautiful branches overshadowing the forest;
it towered on high,
its top above the thick foliage.
4 The waters nourished it,
deep springs made it grow tall;
their streams flowed
all around its base
and sent their channels
to all the trees of the field.
5 So it towered higher
than all the trees of the field;
its boughs increased
and its branches grew long,
spreading because of abundant waters.
6 All the birds of the sky
nested in its boughs,
all the animals of the wild
gave birth under its branches;
all the great nations
lived in its shade.
7 It was majestic in beauty,
with its spreading boughs,
for its roots went down
to abundant waters.
8 The cedars in the garden of God
could not rival it,
nor could the junipers
equal its boughs,
nor could the plane trees
compare with its branches—
no tree in the garden of God
could match its beauty.
9 I made it beautiful
with abundant branches,
the envy of all the trees of Eden
in the garden of God.

10 “‘Therefore this is what the Sovereign Lord says: Because the great cedar towered over the thick foliage, and because it was proud of its height, 11 I gave it into the hands of the ruler of the nations, for him to deal with according to its wickedness. I cast it aside, 12 and the most ruthless of foreign nations cut it down and left it. Its boughs fell on the mountains and in all the valleys; its branches lay broken in all the ravines of the land. All the nations of the earth came out from under its shade and left it. 13 All the birds settled on the fallen tree, and all the wild animals lived among its branches. 14 Therefore no other trees by the waters are ever to tower proudly on high, lifting their tops above the thick foliage. No other trees so well-watered are ever to reach such a height; they are all destined for death, for the earth below, among mortals who go down to the realm of the dead.

15 “‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: On the day it was brought down to the realm of the dead I covered the deep springs with mourning for it; I held back its streams, and its abundant waters were restrained. Because of it I clothed Lebanon with gloom, and all the trees of the field withered away. 16 I made the nations tremble at the sound of its fall when I brought it down to the realm of the dead to be with those who go down to the pit. Then all the trees of Eden, the choicest and best of Lebanon, the well-watered trees, were consoled in the earth below. 17 They too, like the great cedar, had gone down to the realm of the dead, to those killed by the sword, along with the armed men who lived in its shade among the nations.

18 “‘Which of the trees of Eden can be compared with you in splendor and majesty? Yet you, too, will be brought down with the trees of Eden to the earth below; you will lie among the uncircumcised, with those killed by the sword.

“‘This is Pharaoh and all his hordes, declares the Sovereign Lord.’”

Highcuerayte:
Read Ezekiel 31 for full account of Garden of Eden

No you quote it and bring out your points.

Thats how its done.

thanks

berexio1:
Gen 2:9- And out of the ground made the lord God to grow every tree that is pleasant to the sight, and good for food; the tree of life also in the midst of the garden and the tree of knowlege of good and evil

So why will somebody come and tell u that the tree represent humans? Are humans good for food? What I hate in my life is somebody twisting things to suit a particular theory or belief.

Man obviously didn't have the knowledge of good and evil. The answer is right there staring at ur faces..After they ate, they discovered they were naked and ashamed..So it was obviously wrong to be naked..bt must have had knowledge of other things..We can see man named the animals and even called eve 'woman'.

Did man eat the tree of life? I don't know..Am sure this means man would be immortal...

So here it was, God telling them to eat of every tree bt not that tree of good and evil..God also made them know the consequences of eating that, they will introduce death to the world. Where there is good and evil, there is death..And Yes, Lucifer was also right abt them knowing things God knows, bt I guess he didn't tell them abt death..So he cunningly deceived Eve with the idea of knowlege..Mind u, man was filled with knowlege, bt not all knowlege, so I understand the craving for more knowlege..

So man chose his part, the one that comes with consequencies. The one that brings death on the earth, the one that brings labor, hardship, struggle, survival of the fittest..The one that enables him to have the knowlege of good and evil.There would be killings, stealing,dishonesty, and all sorts together with honesty, righteousness, and good living..A world with the mix.

You get time o.

Just ask him to buttress his points from the scriptures.

Human psychology can be very funny and misleading.

OkunrinMeta:
I have read a lot of jagons here today. Eve slept with serpent and got pregnant for the devil.... What!!!!!!

Please ignore that sunday school teacher until he proves his point from the bible,just ignore him

DoubleDeeX:
LOL y'all still think like Sunday school kids

What happened in the garden of Eden was fornication between Eve and the serpent! The product of that acts was Cain; that was why he had no light of God in him. Abel on the other hand was from Adam and Eve; it was a clear case of twins with different Fathers.

The serpent was created a homo-sapien like man but without godliness in him which was why Satan easily used him to deceive Eve into fornication. It was after the fall of man that God cursed the serpent and he became a snake crawling on it belly.

The fruit they ate wasn't an apple brother. The mouth Eve used is the one down there. She ate from the serpent and her husband the same day! That's why God frowns at sexual sin; it is what reduced us to what we are today. Sin took over the world in Gen 6 when the serpent seeds completely got mixed up with godly children in the lineage of Seth son of Adam which led to the destruction of the old world by water. The serpent seed in us still escaped through Noah, which was why we needed redemption from an uncorrupted and righteous man Jesus Christ (God in the flesh).

This was what Mother Eve actually did ;

Proverbs 30:20

Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.

Oga sunday school teacher can you please buttress your point from the scriptures? and not from the proverbs you just quoted which has no corroboration with the story of eve and the fruit.

Mind you,the moment that fruit was eaten be it whatever type of fruit,the seed of evil and satan was spiritually sown into man and woman which apparently cain was a bi product.

Yes the songs of songs made several references to tree and fruits as a representation of human body but specifically in the days of adam and eve i strongly believe as teh bible specifically stated that it was a literal fruit cos there was just Adam and eve in the garden and if GOD says they can eat of the fruits of all the trees in the garden, are you suggesting that there were other people in that same garden?

So abeg once again, buttress your point from the Bible and stop using human philosophy to confuse people.

emmyrichie:
In the book of Genesis 2:17 God told man

"but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die."

And man understood what God meant.

This technically means that man already understood the concept of good and evil (Life and death) even when he had not tasted of the fruit of the tree.

So what was the essence of the punishment meted on Adam and Eve?

What was the essence of the tree in there? Was it to test their inconsistency when it's obvious they were going to fail?

I guess that tree was planted there by Satan after he was cast down to earth with the evil angels.

komek:
But bros, the babe's love for money was high sha. If u actually did all that and she was still saying that, then she is not a good girl that can even help the so called rich man. Some women want their men to have money not with the soul reason of wasting or squandering or living large. But for security sake. Every lady wants a financial security. She might not really be after those money but she would want u to settle the bills u ar expected to settle. Come to think of when the rent expires, u want her to contribute. I guess that's why so many of them want a man who is financially stable and not necessarily rich.

You are absolutely right.

The truth be said,experience is very vital in the life of a woman or man and i keep telling guys,there is no formula for a successful relationship but it is better to be with a lady who have had great experience when it comes to relationships and same goes for the ladies too as regards the man they choose to be with.

Do you know that till now i just laugh when i think about my ex and this is because i know it was share naivity and nothing else because no matter how sweet a man is,no matter how caring,if you are courting a lady who have never had any other man except you,be ready for a rude shock cos most of these ladies must stray as they will always believe there is something better out there and same goes for a man who have not had ample experience with the women,let him have an angel from paradise as a lady,he is bound to mess her up and latter realize after she is gone.

doctortope:
Why would any reasonable government do that and expect commitments to work from the medical personnel they are paying stipends?

in the first instance i think 130k is way too high for a corper but if there should be reducton i think 50k nakes sense and not what is suggested.

Contumely:
You were with a LovePeddler and never noticed. That line of what her mates get is an impediment, a vice.

She could as well get 100k a week as olosho.

lol..she was not a love peddler..infact she was all i dreamed for in a lady except the fact that she seem to have an innate affinity for money which came to fall when i had financial issues.

Trust me,in Nigeria,even virgins wiill setlle as a 10th wife to a rich man rather than be the only wife of a broke dude.

Urine:
How is this news?

This is Nairaland

Understanding networking


Have you ever used a product or service(s) and told a friend or family member about it? Do you know how many people who have joined face-book,watsup,instagram or even nairaland through you just by telling them about these platforms?

Now lets ask ourselves;"If the manufacturer of that product you introduced a friend to decides to reward you each time that friend buys that product or mark decides to give each face book user 20cents for every one who signs up into face-book through you would you love the idea?"

Many people indulge in network marketing day by day but they just do not realize it but when faced with the decision to vividly take a bold step into network marketing they will usually take a second look and will readily create a cold feet towards the idea and this is indeed very strange.

The truth is that anytime you tell anyone about a product or service,you are indeed networking and what you are vividly doing is marketing the brand by networking friends and family members with words of mouth hence the term NETWORK MARKETING.

But before i state these 5 reasons i would love to quickly let every reader understand that there are basically two ways of earning income in life and that is active and passive.

Active income is the one earned from the regular jobs or service rendered which means you are directly involved in the process of earning and such requires a continual active participation to earn such while passive income is the type of income earned indirectly by leveraging on other people's effort and does not need your repetitive active participation materially or physically.The latter is the secret of many millionaires today while in Nigeria we are still saddled with the active income mentality and this indeed is an unfortunate situation,

Now lets get down to the reasons why you can't do without networking.

1.Every corporation and entrepreneur needs network marketing to stay in business.:

But for networking,how else will face book gain such recognition and how will seun be known today as a proud creator of nairaland? many great products will only lie fallow on the stands if not for one user that told another 2 which in turn informed another 8 and on and on.

In-fact people advertise on nairaland and other platforms because in one way or the other,pioneers of such platform have marketed such by words of mouth to several others and the member base of such platform have now grown to a level where companies now find them as a viable template to advertise their products and services.



2.Regular Job insecurity.:

Day by day people lose their jobs and many more will be retrenched due to growing economy crunch. but when you get involved in network marketing,you are taking a wise step in securing a passive income because that job you so much depend on may be taken away from you in a flash and while you look for a new one,a good network marketing company will bring in a substantial amount to get by . I have seen many people who were working in well established companies who were also part of one network marketing business or the other and some of them lost their jobs and were saved by the commission that they earned from a network company they have joined in the past while they were stil active in their regular jobs.



3.Low employment rate.:

Apparently many people are just myopic to understand that while they look for jobs,their lives need not be on standstill and as i always advice graduates and youths;"look for a job but don't wait for a job".

Another unfortunate twist is that many job seekers end up as a marketer for the company they work for earning direct commissions that is fixed and dependent on working their hearts out yet will be unwilling to take advantage of a good network marketing company to earn unlimited commissions through group efforts.


4.You must retire one day:

Many gainfully employed people forget so soon that no matter how indispensable they may be to that company,someday they must retire and then what next?

Yes you may say you would have generated so much to start your own business but will it be a taboo if you take advantage of a good network marketing system while you are still years ahead of retiring so that you can also start earning passively and save up even more for retirement as well as continue to earn passively even when you are out of active job.



5.It does not disturb your present job or career:

One funny misconception people have is that network marketers are jobless and this is very laughable. I joined a network program in 1998 when i was a fresh graduate and while i was still in my active clearing business i was still earning from this same company and as i write this 15years down the line im still earning and infact it was a succor when i had issues with my business 3 years back.

So i want everyone to understand that network marketing is a good business and all you need to do is to find one that you are ok with the compensation plan and stick with it.

Many Nigerians see network marketing as a get rich quick system and this is where the problem lies. Do not lure anyone into any network company but tell them the truth about it.It is a life long business and what many Nigerians what to achieve with this business in a year was actually designed by the company to take years to achieve.

It can never be saturated because not everyone will progress in the same phase. So look for a good network marketing company and make the best out of it.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

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As an e-commerce consultant,people have asked me to state my view concerning this business module and i can say the loop hole here is in the balancing of legs which is a big problem in ensuring smooth compensation.

The products can be bought and used but the compensation plan is not too cool considering teh conditions.

CaroLyner:
lalasticlala what do you think.

LOL! Honestly im not a front page freak and i have countless bloggers who share my threads on their blogs whether it gets to nairaland front page or not.

There is no gain saying that 8 out of 10 threads i create is worth sharing on the front page for people to learn and this is why i laugh most times when i see some funny threads on front page which is suggestive of the mindset of the mods that handle various sections of nairaland and furthermore i believe that all my threads can not possibly make front page.

Asides from the romance section which i see as more original in front page contents.My advice to nairaland mods on other sections is that they should be more original in what they bring to front page and not wait for other blogs to place a content before lifting it as many contents of famous blogs are repeated on nairaland which is not only appalling but very inappropriate as we have more than enough original contents on nairaland by nairalanders which can easily make an interesting front page material.

So please just learn from what i post here and care less whether it gets to the front page or not cos as i wrote,I am not a front page freak.

Thanks.

CaroLyner:
7)It helps you recover from unexpected
setbacks. Job lay-offs, sickness, family emergencies,
calamity damages–all of these are real-world
scenarios that you will encounter at some point
in your life. And they’re not just super
stressful, but they’re also huge financial burdens. If you have a nest egg, you’ll be
better equipped to deal with these sudden
events without breaking the bank or resorting
to high-interest loans. You’ll have fewer money
worries and you’ll be able to bounce back
faster.

. It enables you to spend guilt-free on
what you want. It’s easier to enjoy what life has to offer if you
already have money set aside for your needs,
possible emergencies, and other necessary
stuff. You can afford to indulge on your luho– whether it be fashion, gadgets, or travel–
because you are financially secure and not
living paycheck to paycheck.

Interesting...

mznuez:
How cheap ? Men been deceiving ladies since 19BC

Not at al...just that real love is an experience endemic to ladies from age 15 to 21 so they tend to do crazy things for love..

can you remember how you fell in love at 18 to that guy who always asks you for money and you will gladly give him? shey you remember...lol

philGeo:
Too bad, how APC will be sacking other parties like that, is it because they are in Power or what? To bad if this story is true, because they win the presidential election, they thinks that, they are the only party that deserve everything? After attacking the PDP members, you are now after their States, APC members are Saints but PDP members are corrupt? Show me 1 Nigeria politician who is not Corrupt and i will show you people that will enter Heaven's, one principle that people easily forget is that, a friend of a Thief is thief, if you collect donation money from corrupt person you are also corrupt. CAMPAIGN MONEY.

Why wail?

Do you think tribunal just wakes up and nullify electiions?

Please stop writiing funny stuffs and let pdp prove to us they did not rigg the elections.

Randy guys looking for an excuse to explore new succulence since time memorial.

I always tell wives..be careful not to give your hubbyy an xcuse to dump you for another lady cos most men are lookng for xcuses to explore and only very few will not mind staying put with one lady...

elantraceey:
Nice points


6: You won't be tagged a gold digger.

Yeah thats part of boosting your self value