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PoliticsRe: Fashola Becomes Minister For Power, Housing And Works: A New Dawn! by Toks2008(m): 1:29pm On Nov 11, 2015
Eddygourdo:
Wrong portfolio, a lawyer in works and power? haba
Have you ever worked in a corporate environment? If you have then you will understand that anybody can work anywhere.

When it comes to technicality then your assertion holds true but when it comes to administrative prowess,you don't have to be a technocrat in that field of office.

Can't wait to beat fashola in terms of efficiency..i will get there.
PoliticsRe: List Of Buhari's 36 Ministers And Their Portfolios by Toks2008(m): 1:13pm On Nov 11, 2015
[size=18pt]4. Babatunde Fashola -(Lagos) Minister of Power, Works and Housing


AT LAST IM ALMOST CERTAIN WE WILL SEE IMPROVEMENT IN THE POWER SECTOR
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RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Toks2008(op): 12:36pm On Nov 11, 2015
Omotayor123:
Why won't you know? The question is as simple as "Do you wait for Ladies to ask you out"huh
Tayo no real man waits for a lady to ask him out and this write up is about making a first move with emphasies on green light.

See,if there is a decree that women must approah guys for marriage walahi you will hardly see a lady cheat on her man because she chose him.

but when all the guys of your spec no look your way na to settle for the one wey come and then begin to fantacize about another guy..that one na life?

lets change our mindset...

Many people do not know that it was kim who gave kanye the green light and so far so good.

Enough of this bragadocio chrinkum crankum from ladies...make una help una self.
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Toks2008(op): 12:27pm On Nov 11, 2015
misspicy:
i understand your point but my point still remains i won't start that friendliness....

seriously forget all this opinion you guys are giving online,practically most of this friendliness that leads to a relationship do backfire,i have seen alot,some guys even create threads on NL and express their disgust over it,some guys see them as desperate..to me its better to be on the safer side and act like d lady we are,if all things are normal men will come your way unless there are other factors affecting d lady
I respect your standview but you need to snap out of your uptightedness.

Whoring over a guy is wat you keep explaining.

I have recieved mails from ladies who are responsible,decent,classy,amazingly sweet looking with a wow personality...ladies that no guy can talk down on...

There is a wide difference between throwing yourself at a man and making a first move which is what i wrote about.

Some guys hjust have so much in their head that they may not even notice you no matter how hot you are.

Forget forming...i have nairaland ladt friends who i will never dare walk up to if i see them one on one not because of complex issue but sometimes we guys conclude a lot.

You see an accomplished single lady you assume she is hooked or will be too busy to attend to you...we see a hot lady we conclude that this one must be hooked but try and look at us with just a smile and you will see the dragons unleashed.

Im not saying a lady should throw herself at a man or outrightly woo a man and its not every man you fancy so the point is that if you are a single lady and you see a guy that really catches your fancy,HELP YOUR MINISTRY AND GIVE HIM A SIGN OR GREEN LIGHT.

you could ask a lame question or a direction you know and if he is smart enough he will take it from there.

Dont be decieved by these bold smooth talkers omo wobey boys..na their job..dem sabi am die..same line 10 ladies a day...MOST OF THE DECENT GUYS ARE CONSERVATIVE.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Debuts New Look (Photo) by Toks2008(m): 11:39am On Nov 11, 2015
Brandnew2:
She look unhappy...wrinkles all over her face. angry





I wonder why she wanted to divorce pastor Chris in the first place because the reason where not good enough. angry





Anyway they are already made so let me use this promote the GidiLink freelance network for people who like to work from home. wink
Tot i was the only one thinking in this direction.

juliiet ibrahim and 3 other ladies i know with Anita, falls into the group of ladies born within feb 20 and march 20...

i have made some findings that these ladies are too sensitive n unrealistic for the real world.

Divorce and breakup no dey hard them except very few ones wey don learn.

Very great and selfless lovers but many of them get this knot for brain and something as inconsequential as a verbal abuse like "You are mad" can make them break up an affair...

kolo mentality.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Anita Oyakhilome Debuts New Look (Photo) by Toks2008(m): 11:26am On Nov 11, 2015
henchamb:
Will they make heaven after the divorce?
Question för God to answer
As far as im concerned,she does not need the divorce just that there is something funny about many ladies born within feb 20th and march 20th when it comes to divorce or break up issues.. i know 5 cases and all these 5 ladies find it so hard to reconcile...uuh sometimes ii wonder...

Please no one should quote me.
PoliticsRe: Checkout The Pose Of President Buhari's Security Personel by Toks2008(m): 9:43am On Nov 11, 2015
lol!

Nairalanders.choi!

The Guy was about taking his leave to give them privacy.
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Toks2008(op): 8:58am On Nov 11, 2015
misspicy:
well i still will not be caught making a first move or asking a guy out....i might show him i like him but it starts and ends there,i wouldnt voice it out because from things i have seen and heard it most times backfire,eg the girl lose her self worth and makes her feel less and some guys will keep reminding them they made d move on them so they should face whatever....

well forget all we see online and what few guys say,most guys will use it against the girl at some point.
You are still missing something and maybe you should read point 6 again.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 8:47am On Nov 11, 2015
bleble14:
@toks2008, if u are looking for a lady to marry, I will advice u as my friend to always go to d source, d one dat Ordained marriage, dis goes to each and every of us, be u christain or muslim, always ask God for direction, am not a pastor or any of dat but I think its d right thing if u want d best
Definitely no one can rule out the GOD factor but since adam blamed GOD in the garden of eden, GOD have now decided to leave the searching to man and whenever he finds one,he gets his favour.

Adam told GOD after the disobedience..." “The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”(Genesis 3:12)

And GOD was like "i see, so na me u blame abi" so GOD now said "Who so finds a wife(husband) finds a good thing, and i will give you my favour"Proverbs 18:22

End of story.

Catch you all latter in the day
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Toks2008(op): 8:38am On Nov 11, 2015
RedCard1:
6, so that ladies will see what rejection feels like
grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:44pm On Nov 10, 2015
odaroooo

Good night my lovely people.
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Toks2008(op): 11:36pm On Nov 10, 2015
quiinnBee:
after all this i still wont make a move on a guy.

would rather give him the green light.

if he cant catch the hint then thats his problem cheesy
The green lght is the first move im implying.
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Toks2008(op): 11:25pm On Nov 10, 2015
Cutehector:
Its not pride buh I dnt ask a girl twice to be my girlfrnd
Oh so im not alone on this...

In-fact na serious jamb for me to even sit you down and tell you my mind. Though i prefer to start as friends but i also prefer to know if there is a possibility of us taking it further because in my school of taught,ko si ere ti ekun ba aja se
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:19pm On Nov 10, 2015
BluePearls:
i can fill in those gaps for u
LOL!

Honestly what i want in lady is not much at all and i wonder why its so difficult getting one...

Another annoying angle is that most ladies that i have as friends were met online and worse still 95% of them are not in Lagos and i so much detest long distance thing,

Sometimes when im driving and i see a hot chic,i will be like...does it make sense to park and start following a lady like mumu? At a stage i will leave my car at home and see if that will help and when i enter a bus and see a pretty lady,i will be like which kain regberegbe be this because the thought oif starting a conversation sef is crazy.

Honestly many ladies dont know what guys go through trying to settle for a lady. Even the casanovas and philanderers wil tell you that there is a huge difference between trying to get a decent lady to marry and just getting a bed warmer.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:09pm On Nov 10, 2015
Ishilove:
Pele o cheesy
lol! you dey pity me?

For instance, i love the personality of siamia,the jovial nature of udysweet,the curves of...the pretty face of...,the company of...,the ..

Honestly this is not about a man not knowing what he wants but its a big big task choosing a lady to settle down with and sometimes we need the help of you ladies.
Romance7 Reasons Why ladies Should Make a First Move On The Man they desire. by Toks2008(op):
We have heard of the stigma that comes with a lady making a first move on a man and with the African mentality, a lady would rather wait and hope that that guy that gives her goose pimples would just walk up to her and woo her but most times,this never happens and when the man who does not catch her fancy comes her way,she will bark at him so ferociously as if the guy is responsible for her "timidity"

I have actually sat down to reason deeply about this issue and i have come to a solid conclusion that judging from the happenings of today,it will be a wise thing for a lady to stop waiting and hoping that one guy she wants will just read her mind and walk up to her and i would like you all to see 7 realistic reasons why you should give that guy a green light without outrightly wooing him if you truly want him rather than wait and pray he comes your way.

[size=13pt] 1.Many men are confused and don't know what they want: [/size]Yes many guys are so confused and ths has nothing to do with imaturity.Each day, a guy sees different ladies of different ersonalities, colors,curves and beauty and just when they are thinking about dating a lady, they see another one that looks even more alluring to him and on and on he gets so lost as to which lady to go for even when he is not sure which one will say yes to him but when you give him a green light,,he is likely to let down his guards and settle for you. Guys love daring ladies and we find them amusing

[size=13pt]2.Takes an extra effort to woo a lady:[/size] Don't be deceived when you see a dude and you start thinking he has all the ladies in the world after him because in actual fact, many guys battle with fear of rejection even the sweet looking ones. No matter how sweet looking a man is, he usually plans his moves and they know there is a possibility of you turning them down but maybe just a sweet flirtatious glance or sweet smile from you to him will make him more relaxed and feel more confident to approach you and pour out those lyrics.

[size=13pt]3.Most responsible guys are shy or don't have that time to woo a lady:[/size] The bottom line is that in most cases,those bold and daring guys that walk up to you are playboys but the more reliable,responsible and purposeful guys are shy or don't even know how to woo a lady or are too devoted to their career to do that so if you see that sweet looking dude,just say hi to him and if he does not catch the drift,he is on his own.

[size=13pt]4.Hard to get syndrome:[/size] Some ladies still think playing hard to get is in vogue..I am one guy that will not bother you again if you give me any strong NO body language. I believe if you want me as a friend even if not as a date for a start at least be friendly with me and don't give me this appalling attitude. Honestly there are too many ladies out there for one girl to dey form hard to get and if i am a lady, i would rather prove hard to forget rather than hard to get.Many men don't even bother these days wooing ladies because they have that mindset that these ladies will end up forming and are easily drawn towards the ones that show them a green light.

[size=13pt] 5.Every lady deserves the man she desires: [/size] As guys,we are cool with the fact that we know what we want in our lady as regards her physical appearance and when we see such that meets up, we simply summon courage and walk up to her but in the case of a lady,it is expected of her to just sit and wait in hope that the guy walks up to her and it is considered improper for her to express her desire for that guy...how partial and wicked can this ever get?. I believe that What's sauce for the goose should also be sauce for the gander and i believe it is unfair for ladies to just cry in silence when they see a man they so desire and who might just desire them with hope that he makes the first move.

[size=13pt] 6.Making the first move on a guy is never the same as throwing yourself sheepishly at him: [/size] I have heard many people use these erroneous remarks that when a lady makes a first move on a guy then the guy will not value her or will see her as cheap...you never jam babe that will make the first move and will comport herself so well that the guy will have a rethink and value her even more than he ever imagined. When you make a first move on a guy,it does not mean you will start monkeying over him or be at his beck and call and yes you can make a first move on a guy and still deny him sex wella so ladies must understand that whoring over a guy is a total different ball game and making a first move is another.

[size=13pt]7.Economy crunch:[/size]In-fact in Nigeria, this has become number one deterrent as many guys have lost hope of ever getting a girl to truly desire them because to these,they will always believe its about money and not love. You will be amazed that the guy you are so much into is also deeply attracted to you but he has been thinking about his pocket and asking himself how on earth will he be able to meet up with "your standard" especially if you are the high class babe.But if you just show that guy a little encouragement,he just might overcome this thought and make that move.

The truth is that making a first move on a man can be done tactically and does not really mean throwing yourself at him or opening your legs for him to take undo advantage of you but you can go for the man you want and still maintain your dignity and he will respect you all the way.

I don't know if this makes sense but just thinking out loud.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:19pm On Nov 10, 2015
Honestly i need a woman to come take over me completely because with the way im going im so scared that settling down may not cross my mind and there are many reasons for this.

I am so careful that i fear i may not make up my mind and not that i philander o but honestly i no get strength to woo any lady especially those wey think its still fashionable to prove hard to get.

If to say i be oshomo-gbomogbin maybe it would have been easier. I dont know if im even making sense but i know what im implying because sometimes we guys need a lady who will just come into our life and take us ny fire by force and the truth is that guys of about 35yrs and above are vulnerable and would easily fall for any lady who is daring enough...ki ni mo nko pa pa..maybe i need a rest after a busy day.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:11pm On Nov 10, 2015
udysweet:
@Halexito,nice write up there,thumbs up. Sorry I ddnt see ur msg wen I wanted to sleep,lol. Na today o,so maybe I'll re read it wen I want to sleep tonite so it wwill apply,lol. Hope you're good?
@Toks2008,hi oga every gbobgo. Triple twale to the 8star General,commanding officer of the group,lol! I can see new faces,nice to have all of you*hugs*
Udyswerrie i dey gbadun the way you dey tuale walahi and i just might employ you as my special adviser on hailing matters in the nearest future.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:09pm On Nov 10, 2015
snrr:
if not for this age barrier ehnn.... *tempted to break d rules* well back to ghost mode.
Do you play the guitar so well?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:07pm On Nov 10, 2015
vivaciousvivi:
Good. Use it, heal first biko grin

Is this thread always this quiet?
Nope. At first it was so lively but many ladies dey shy to come out and i always wonder that why shall they shy when they know that ladies are the spice of life and all the guys here are straight which means we would like to interact more with ladies rather than guys so make all the 30plus ladies come on board and you will know that this thread is as lively as you can ever imagine...

The bold lettering reminds me of a funny conversation between me and one mgbeke and it goes like this:

ME:Are you shy

Mgbeke: Why shall i shy when im a people

ME:Oh yes you are a people?

Mgbeke: Yes nah and even if i shall shy shall shall shy for you?

ME:*faints*
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:59pm On Nov 10, 2015
vivaciousvivi:
We are here o.
This is a surprise. Saw this thread a while back and I swore the title read 40+ so I didn't bother. Guess it's being modified.
What have I missed? cheesy
Omo you are too pretty for my liking.
FamilyRe: Divorce: He Claimed To Have A Degree In Mass Comm But He Has Just A Sch. Cert. by Toks2008(m): 9:17am On Nov 10, 2015
Nzepresh:
Na so oh. So go borrow money, borrow big car, form owner of big house, within a short time the lady will still find out. Why tell lies to someone you wish to spend the rest of you life with?
Apparently that lady is a pooh pooh cos despite the lies the guy gave,im certain if the guy has enough money the issue of cert will not come up.

This is one of the dumbest reason for divorce i have ever heard because this is not about assault but false claims of being rich and well read...soro niyen...

That lady was scamed in the first place cos of her greedy and materialistic tendencies which the guy must have sensed.

Lesson for guys...most ladies love lies
lesson for ladies..love for the right reasons
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 8:18am On Nov 10, 2015
bleble14:
@halexito, don't mind dat man(toks2008) he is looking for my trouble, hope ur nite was good. Take care
grin


Now i no fear again...btw shey you know that you have a nice setting at least from wettin my eagles eyes fit see. Nice one

Wishing you all a great day.
RomanceRe: I'm So Ashamed Of Guys Who Do This..... by Toks2008(m): 1:49am On Nov 10, 2015
Dubemkelly:
Have you been living under the rock? This been discussed massively, why recycling it? Lets try come up with something different and juicier. Repetition Kills Interest
And for it to make front page is a clear indication of the pickery pockery mindset of the mods on nairaland.

But for my love for writing,nairaland is not worth my worst write up andi have realzed that nairaland is a pooh pooh where 90% of frront page materials are either lifted from other blogs or simply a crinkum crankum.

Indeed there was a forum called nairaland.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:18pm On Nov 09, 2015
ddshow:
Welcome home and a wonderful evening to you!

Hope your day went well.



Amen! We love you too.

Please endeavor to check up on us here often enough.

Bless you.

Greetings to all our newbies, we welcome everyone.

Toks2008, Udysweet, Gratefulme40, Melsan, gfm01...and everyone else, I salute.
My brother how you dey?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:15pm On Nov 09, 2015
bleble14:
@toks2008, am a human and not robot as u think,dats me, are u saticfied now?
Lovely pics but this even scares me more considering that background..are you sure you are not........ lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:18pm On Nov 09, 2015
Adnan002:
If time permit me and i want to xpress my views,i will do so within the authorization of the naira land,thanks for committing me to join nairaland,i'm so happy with feeling excitement in my heart.If time permit me and i want to xpress my views,i will do so within the authorization of the naira land,thanks for committing me to join nairaland,i'm so happy with feeling excitement in my heart.If time permit me and i want to xpress my views,i will do so within the authorization of the naira land,thanks for committing me to join nairaland,i'm so happy with feeling excitement in my heart.
I hope all is well.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 7:16pm On Nov 09, 2015
bleble14:
@Toks2008, u are not serious ooooooo, na fear dey catch U, am human like u oooooo. Am Blessing by name so no fear oooooo. One Love
I hear you but until i see your pcs.. no go believe..
PoliticsRe: Fayose Pictured Buying Asun (goat Meat) In Ekiti by Toks2008(m): 6:33pm On Nov 09, 2015
Brandnew2:
Sometimes I'm left to wonder if we're indeed practising democracy or the Nigerian version which has been adapted to "PHOTOCRACY". Government ot the photography by the photographed for the photoshop fans. huh
Ekiti is more or less liike a cosmopolitan urban village so all these publicity stunts are easy..let him try same n Lagos...
Nairaland GeneralRe: Who Will You Give Your Seat To? by Toks2008(m): 6:30pm On Nov 09, 2015
What if im also suffering from chronic fatigue?
Na to bone face,relax well and take a deep rest.
CelebritiesRe: Joseph Benjamin Celebrates His 40th Birthday by Toks2008(m): 6:16pm On Nov 09, 2015
MhizRonny:
Looks Young
Yeah..just like 2baba and myself,these days clockng 40 is just like clocking 30 for guys.
BusinessRe: Tips On How MTN Can Survive The NCC Fine by Toks2008(m): 10:06am On Nov 09, 2015
Keneking:
On 26th October 2015, MTN Group was fined $5.24 billion (N1.4trillion) by the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC) for failing to disconnect non-registered SIM cards. In light of this recent decision, I hereby recommend the following on how they can survive the impact of this decision.

A. Shareholders:

Shareholders should approve the payment of the $5.2bn before the due date. Changes in Shareholding structure is imminent and no delays is expected from the Group in this regard.The top echelon of the organisation should be re-organised starting with its management.

B. Topline:

The business topline for the remainder of the financial year i.e 1 November 2015 - 31 March 2016 should be revised. No doubt, subscribers would leave the network and earnings would drop significantly especially voice. Therefore profit and loss account should be revised to include the periods when the sanction becomes effective in this case since 2012.

C. Cost of Sales:

This would remain as there are already commitments with service providers based on scheduled plan. There is no need to revise the factors in profit and loss sheet.

D. Cost of Labour:

Management should as a matter of fact begin the process of reviewing contract costs with expatriates, already, there is an exchange rate hit (20%), a function of the devalued currency early in the year is significant cost to the company in the course of the financial year. An option to locate other expatriates in Asia is due e.g India, China and Indonesia. These professionals can be hired on need basis and terms of employment clearly chalked out.

An important note is that other outsourcing agencies can be engaged to commence the process of providing comparative and lower service cost from next financial year i.e 1 April 2016 - 31 March 2017.

Local employees can be committed to contract with non-key positions placed on secondment. No need to downsize.

E. Cost of Marketing:

-Local budget for marketing should be adopted. BTL (below the line) option most recommended.
-Highly capitalised marketing should be banned for next 5 years i.e post Year 2020
-Aggressive marketing in hinterland to be promoted.
-Discount on data and bundle opportunity should be created.
-Discount on voice should be created for youth and group target. New target should be created in this segment.

F. Cost of Finance:

Of course, the burden of settling NCC fine requires a huge cashflow. A phased payment/settlement is recommended. MTN Nigeria should enter into a phased settlement plan with NCC. A letter of comfort stating how and when this payment would be made should be made in line with Shareholders approval.

- cashflow concerns: as a result of the expected massive exit by subscribers in the short term, there might be deficit in cashflow of the local business. Therefore, a massive inflow of capital is now required. This can be achieved through local banks with a consortium likely to create the balance needed. Another option is find another partner in form of shareholder.

- finance cost: with the current interest rate of 16%-18% from local banks, an additional terminal loan would lead to increased liabilities and exposure to banks.

G. Partnership: Business to provide opportunity for corporate partnerships in the form of sell-off of non-performing part of the business. A proposal to sell its data arm and concentrate on voice would be a great idea.

In conclusion, communication is key for the business in Nigeria. Shareholders should address the public directly in the case of regulators, customers, public (internal and external) regularly. There is no need to apologise but rather provide action plans on how to keep the business going and to overcome the existing challenges in the country.

In the face of a new management and focus, the company can turnaround this enormous challenge in the next three to four years and bounce back in winning ways.
My advice is that MTN should apologize to Nigerians and appeal to their subscribers to help them with Whatever they can afford i belive they will be able to raise a substantial sum and they can add teh rest..AOT did it years back so i dont see any big deal.

Nigerians are empathic people.

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