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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:58pm On Oct 30, 2015

Adeolaolumide:
Hmmm,ds thread still dey exist. You can easily know frm d tone of some posts y some women remain single @ 40. I pity them, they can never learn.

Yeah the thread is still on and lets try to be modest in the way we writ...im learning to be modest too.. a lady or guy been single at 40 often times has nada to do with their personality just that this love affair thingy is too complex to decipher..

Do you know that the older one gets the more difficult it becomes to settle down?

This is because it bcomes a bigger risk to just settle for one person as there is no more time for courtship and you now want to be extra careful and by so doing,one will just realize that years havee gone so pleease leets stop mocking single people who are of advanced age..marriage is a serious matter and one cant just plunge in.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 9:49pm On Oct 30, 2015

lolu20:
what do u know about love.I followed my heart.and u don't av d right to me whether I am in luv or not.how can u open ur mouth and say my luv is selfish. if I find luv in a married woman,so be it.all d single ladies doesn't appreciate a gud man.moreover,they r not legally married. it was just introduction, no kids whatsoever. d girl denied d ring when I asked her about it.she told me I can still come and marry her if I am ready now. but I just decide to avoid violence.

lolu for the first time,i just saw your post today and after going back to the begining,i saw this post and i must say you are the one confusing us and eveen yourself...

The lady in question is not married and i wonder why you kept referring to her as marrid...IF IT IS TRUE THAT ONLY INTRO WAS DONE..then she is not a married lady and if you truly want each other then she should leaave the guy and stick with you...Stop complicating things for yourself referring to her as married and I ONLY HOPE SHE IS SAYING THE TRUTH COS MANY LADIES LI A LOT.

Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by Toks2008(op): 9:32pm On Oct 30, 2015

Neverquit:
Y'all are funny. So you think women don't cheat? If una get mind, go and do DNA test for your children. If you no get that kin kudi, just do it on the first born. Una go fear fear with the result. S.M.H.

All of una saying women need to involve emotions to cheat...how about prostitutes? Rubbish.

A woman that cheats = Prostitute
A man that cheats = Prostitute

Please, we need to stop justifying cheating. If you truly love and respect your spouse, you won't cheat on him/her.

Men, the same way you will feel if your wife/woman cheats, is the same way she feels when you cheat. So why should you then subject another human being to that kind of pain?

I honestly think we are missing something here...No one is freaking stopping any lady from cheating on a cheeating hubby as a revenge..she is very free so lets stop all these refreences to a lady also cheating back..please go on and chat on that man cos he cheated on you..Its your call and just be prepared to face the consequence if caught. And do i hear a lady say wat consequence? well i really dont know unless you find out yourself.

Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by Toks2008(op): 9:20pm On Oct 30, 2015

afamgod:
God forbid my husband cheat on me. I don't think i can cope with it. He must feel my wrath. Its either i cheat on him back, collect money from my cheating partner and use it to prepare his food(he knows the implication in our part of igboland) or i will totally ignore him and we become housemates.
I can't imagine another woman on top or under my unclad dh, touching and toiling with my private and personal property(pinis). I can't stand the thought of my dh doing those press-ups and saying some sweet words on top another woman. God forbid. Mek i no even catcham. My boy friend for uni won't forget me in a hurry. I dealt with him for saying some stupid things not to mention cheating.

Issorite

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Politics › Re: Tuface And Rep Member Herman Hembe Back In The Days by Toks2008(m): 2:11pm On Oct 30, 2015

Manweysabi:
Yesterday was today... Soon tomorrow will be yesterday.

Be good with everyone around you... for no one knows what tomorrow will bring. Never underestimate anyone... Never!

One of my greatest ideologies.

Education › Re: Nigerian Students And This Cohabitation Menace by Toks2008(m): 2:02pm On Oct 30, 2015

temitayomie:
Lol...Why do I have this feelings that this practice has come to stay ask those that attended university in the 80s and 90s if they were not cohabiting.

No be today madam

Let us be true to ourselves...while some cases are not justified..some seem to be.

I dated a lady way back in school andd we we lived together for 3yrs simply because she could not afford off campus hostel n the school had no hostel.

Funny enough we were able to maintain a no sex policy but the truth is that this is one act that must bee discouraged cos its resultant effect is usually terrible.

Education › Re: Nigerian Students And This Cohabitation Menace by Toks2008(m): 1:53pm On Oct 30, 2015

kennygee:
Small children who still rely on Pocket Money.

I have a distant cousin who lives with her Bf in School.

She pays the rent, the guy runs the house.

She washes his clothes, irons them and he does not eat with less than two pieces of meat.

He gives her money for Soup and her upkeep, he does menial computer jobs ang phone sales asides his studies.

Her parents are not aware.

How can these be curbed?

Parents shouldn't just abandon their kids in School, give them surprise visits.

Know where they live. If you notice anything shady, Insist on them staying in the hostel or living with a relative.

God bless you...thats just it

Education › Re: Nigerian Students And This Cohabitation Menace by Toks2008(m): 1:46pm On Oct 30, 2015

SUGARBEE:
The rate at which Many Nigerian University Undergraduates and students engage in unwholesome relationships is becoming really alarming.

You now find students who were sent to school by their parents to study and become something in life now engage in acts such as cohabitation and in relationships which cause them more harm than good.

Unfortunately, most schools are to blame for this. Universities in the eastern part of the country have made this cohabitation thing look like it's nothing. Why would a female student cohabit with a man "In School" with most times, she getting pregnant at the end and the man dumping her.

It may look rosy and sweet love at first in the relationship but then stepping it up to cohabiting with your partner is totally unpardonable and unacceptable! The fact still remains that you and your partner are both students and for the lady, the dire consequences would be present if you do get pregnant as you may tend to stop your education.

Nigerians need to wake up to this monster called 'Cohabitation" slowly eating away our society.

Am naturally ahead.

Those are the days of real love...when a lady sees nothing wrong in staying in one funny lookiing room,sleep in same funny looking bed with the guy,get scrwd front n back n this single room apartment,cook with 500naira and enjoy the meal so well but suddenly after graduation,the same lady can not see herself starting life with a man in one room and i begin to wonder...

The truth is that these schools should be blamed for not pproviding enough hostels but then the ladies should also use their heads and not offer themselves as intimacy gadgets to boys who dont even know what they want at that point in time..

Health › Re: Risks Associated With MouthAction by Toks2008(m): 9:56am On Oct 30, 2015

bulldoza:

Ode Ignorant dumbfùck
Keep diving your mouth into filth factory of URINE DIRTY BLOOD WASTE PRODUCT DISCHARGE OF OTHERS

No problem bro but i guess you should not xpect a BJ from your wife else...

Politics › Re: We Never Supported Saraki's Emergence As Senate President:pdp Senators by Toks2008(m): 7:58am On Oct 30, 2015

Bishop4bella:
Yeye people. Why won't they stage a walk out when their plans is not walking out has planned.

Dirty PDP

Ireally don't understand what is going on...Its like castigating someone because he is a suspect...why not wait until he is declared guilty as charged?

Saraki is still the senate president and still preciding because the CCT has not declared him guilty so i believe that Ameachi's case should not be diffrent.

I trust Baba to remove him as a miniter as soon as the case is over with and he is found wanting.

I see PDP action as very childish and laughable.

Education › Re: Ayade Orders Suspension Of Prayers In Schools by Toks2008(m): 7:33am On Oct 30, 2015

cornoil:
Ok. All these occultist guys ruling Nigeria

I just wonder. I don't see the correlation of good governance and stopping prayers in schools.

Health › Re: Risks Associated With MouthAction by Toks2008(m): 7:07am On Oct 30, 2015

bulldoza:
Filthy pig

Even if she carry hypo wash am, that region will forever remains the dirtiest part of the human body.

God forbid!

Habba see as you curse someone else over your ignorance...

The female core is the cleanest part of her body and cleaner than even your mouth PROVIDED SHE IS NOT HAVING ANY INFECTIONS and this is because of the microbial flora caled lactobacillus acidophillus..this bacteria is responsible for fighting off infections and keeps the region clean so my man if you marry your wife don't deprive her at all..Most ladies love it and those who dont get it from their hubbies really feel cheated but may not want to discuss it.

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Health › Re: Risks Associated With MouthAction by Toks2008(m): 6:58am On Oct 30, 2015

Love Machine:
It's hard to find a girl who is faithful to one partner only.Forget their pretentious attitudes, they fvck any man who can pay their prices.

This is one big problem im presently having with the ladies i come accross..even as a guy i have been with just two ladies in 20freaking years but for most of the ladies i have met,they talk about exes as though they are talking about casual friends they have met and i just can't reconcile the fcat that many ladies have had more exes in their lives that they are totally confused as to what they really want. This has nada to do with insecurity but fact...how can i be all over a lady who have been with tommy,steve,emeka,Austin and the list is endless...GOD help us guys.

If there is one thing i still respect in my ex despite her imperfections,its the fcat that while it lasted even if i can't trust her i can bet i was the only one and even for about 3yrs we have parted,i can stil vouch she is not sleeping around and this is the number one virtue i can't joke with..its called sexual decency because that is my greatest turn on..but these days,getting a sexually decent lady is like picking up a diamond on the floor which is rarely possible.

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Health › Re: Risks Associated With MouthAction by Toks2008(m): 5:33am On Oct 30, 2015

senier007:
http://tribuneonlineng.com/node/20834

This is one if the reasons i don't do casuals or sleep around cos for me, Mouth Aaction is more enjoyable than actual penetrative sex and i see it as boring getting down with your woman without doing that so rather than jump from one dirty girl to another,i wouldrather stay put and use my mouth to do other good stuff.

This is why its good for a guy to relax and patiently get just one sweet chic and lick her like a lollypop for the rest of their marital life and hoping she does not go out to bring home nonsense ...

Staying faithful to one partner is the best prevention against any yanmayama std.

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Romance › Re: My Sister Now 33 And Still A Virgin Looking For Husband? by Toks2008(m): 1:08am On Oct 30, 2015

brownsug:
As I read I'm laughing like I'm mad _ get mouth die
I'm outta here haha!

brownsug:
As I read I'm laughing like I'm mad _ get mouth die
I'm outta here haha!

Romance › Re: My Sister Now 33 And Still A Virgin Looking For Husband? by Toks2008(m): 10:35pm On Oct 29, 2015

Brought up in xtian home and properly train by our parent. She have devote all her lifetime going to churches and books. When she was in school she dont have time for guys as she always face her books which result her efort to 2nd class upper at university of ibadan studying economics. She serve in the year 2011. When boys are looking out for her in her 20's she dont entertain them now she desperately praying for husband yet she still a virgin.
What can she do?

Please leave virginity aside..One fact is that she is sexually decent and i like that though you don't have to be a virgin to be sexually decent.

But one fcat is this..Physically unattractive ladies are sometimes left with no choice but to be decent cos guys really don't rush them so when a lady starts to form i quickly look at her to see if she is worth the traffic and if YES then i give it to her and if NO i just yimu...

Its like ugly ladies claiming they have character and i wonder if it will not be a double disaster to be ugly physically and character wise else the need to force a gooid character outta themselves.

Nevertheless i respect her so well expecialy if she is also hot in physical looks because such is worth having.

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Romance › Re: My Sister Now 33 And Still A Virgin Looking For Husband? by Toks2008(m): 10:27pm On Oct 29, 2015

ideyhere:
No offense intended ooh....
But I think she meets the search criteria of a certain gentleman on this forum...

Where is Toks2008?

Jesuswept

I talk say i dey find virgin?

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 9:03pm On Oct 29, 2015

missbronze:
Op, don't use plantain for the dodo.

Use water and garri.

smh for you.

lmao

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 8:59pm On Oct 29, 2015

misspicy:
i get ur view now,and i still insist such women are in abundance n not in rare my mum an example even till death

www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/05/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narratives.html?m=1
second narrative
husband's response,men can never satisfied.

wow so touching...the lady should give the guy a second chance.

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 8:41pm On Oct 29, 2015

misspicy:
that is not too much to ask,and i believe such a woman is not scarce or hard to find,atleast we recently helped one get over d cheating habit of her husband...

the only clause is,do you have the requirements to meet with all this qualities you are after?

www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/04/chronicles-of-blog-visitor-narrative_30.html?m=1

read the story on that link when you are tru,lemme know,i will send you a link to her husband's response...

There is no gain saying im a rare breed but in Nigeeria where money reigns mor supreme in the life of most laddies rather than love,there is absolutely nothing a man can do to please a lady who puts so much emphasies on money over love.

I had a great affair for 12yrs and 6yrs into the crtship we had introdctn then both agreed to wait for her mum who is in the states to come bck befre we had the trd wedn cos accrdn to her,she does not want anthr woman to sit as her mum at her wedn since she is still alive n i felt that made sense...but unfortunat for somee rsons her mum was still busy in the states until we broke up.

The years of our courtship was great,after intro we moved in tgther and trust me,my business was doing well and money was flowing in so well and i did my best to ensure she lacked nothing..remained sexually faithful to only her all the years we were tgther but about 4yrs ago i had a terrible set back in my business and the lady i tot i knew so well changed..

She would say she feels i have offended pple hence my misfortune,that i should go out and seek solution bla bla and she droped the bombshell that she will leave if she turned 30 n stagnancy persists and she did just that in feb 2013 after series of crazy acts and i just had to let go.

Im writing this to clear the air on why iim still single at my age..its not that im not "cute enough" or im broke cos to God b the glory things have changed and still getting better but its because most Nigerian ladies are hopeless,they can marry a monster for money.

Right now i have lost faith in Nigerian ladies expecially those who have no job or nothing doing at all to make a living..cos this category mostly care less about love but money money and more money...leet me just stop here

So let me have the link to the hubby response.

Romance › Re: 13 Facts you must know Before You Say I Do To That Man. by Toks2008(op): 5:51pm On Oct 29, 2015

ebyoma:
Made lots of sense... I've learnt a whole lot from this post. Bravo @Toks God bless ya

Amen sweetheart...im glad it makes sense to you..

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Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 5:47pm On Oct 29, 2015

akike:
You couldn't even keep a home. You should be ashamed of yourself

Please nairalanders help me join hands in binding every monitoring spirits whether online or offline wey no wan let me rest by fire in Jesus name...AMEN

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Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 5:46pm On Oct 29, 2015

favoured234:
Hmmm unusual

Yeah very unusual...

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 5:43pm On Oct 29, 2015

Olasco93:
Some people don't read to understand, but just to comment trash/insults.

@OP, I like your creativity, the way you masterminded this post from the begining to the end makes every viewer read in between the lines, your writing sence really drew many people's attention including me to this post.
This is what Professor EMEKA in my school call Advertising and Marketing Strategy 101!

lol thanks bro but to be honest i only modified a little but a friend sent this to me yesternight and i was like oh my..she got me reeal good so i felt like sharing it.

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 5:38pm On Oct 29, 2015

halexito:
I like the humour! Still young at heart Toks!! Ride on!!!

Thanks jare...i no be news paper guy who is always serious 24/7 lol.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 4:44pm On Oct 29, 2015

Ronke001:
My 30th birthday is today so I can finally join this thread.
I've been an observer since the day the thread was created.
Kudos to the OP and those that have kept this thread alive.
Happy birthday to me and God bless u all.

Happy bornday swerrie.

Abeg show ur face nah make we see you.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 4:38pm On Oct 29, 2015

halexito:
I can see some ghosts on this thread. Now! Will you introduce yourselves before Siamia catches you and Toks you out? I don torqque my own o!

lol...quite creative

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 4:28pm On Oct 29, 2015

Hooduhark:
Funny u! Lol@never spoil. How do u mean?

I was still innocent as per that thing..shey you get?

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 3:59pm On Oct 29, 2015

misspicy:
uncle Toks2008 when are you getting married?

I will when i see a lady who is pleasing to my eyes.A lady who is not after what a man has,a financially indepent lady who can at least pretend to be God fearing and should be good in the kitchen.

This is not too much i guess and by the way abeg o i no be uncle...just call me toks.

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 10:06am On Oct 29, 2015

Luckygurl:
The all serious Toks2008 becoming a troll...

Now this is surprising, tell me, what has come over you??

Or better still #hackers alert, This is a more reasonable excuse.

Who has hacked Toks account??

I guess this is the jolly side of toks...lol

Romance › Re: Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 10:05am On Oct 29, 2015

kinibigdeal:
65% of Humans, have mental disorder -WHO

Lol.... tell me you did not lke the humour...

Romance › Please Nairalanders I Need Your Urgent Help. by Toks2008(op): 9:43am On Oct 29, 2015*

I know am not supposed to be disturbing you all this very moment knowing fully well d situation of things.

Pls, don't think am taking you all for granted or trying to take undue advantage. I cherish our friendship more than u can imagine, it's just dat I don't know who to ask or where to turn to at dis very moment.

Sometimes, things become so confusing n extremely difficult that one is forced to inconvenience friends n family and u are one of those I know I can run or turn to in a time like dis.Pls don't be offended n don't take it to heart or feel bad if u cannot be of help to me, it happens atimes.

Sometimes, you really want to help, but d situation at hand at dat moment really makes it impossible to do so. I understand.But will appreciate if u can help me wit dis. It is very important you tell me. I really need d answer pls.............I want to fry dodo, should I use plantain huh

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