₦airaland Forum

daretodiffer:
You didn't tell me she was for sale

Besides this is online, you can't really tell someone's personality and by the way it is still your sister's choice to make

Chanchit:
That's why its not good to judge, if a guy opens a thread that he's 24 and in love with a 15yrs old girl, na so nairalanders go begin match keypad kpakpakpa, sebi una see am now. For all the people quoting me on that 20yrs old that tried to sell her baby, this is another testimony, even if Annie and 2face did not tell us, I'm 80% sure lots of abortions must have gone down the drain, but they had the last laugh. So don't be quick to judge.

HerexG:
Looking beyond the materialistic factor in a man or lady is the key to a ever happy relationship

kingDavidda1st:
If not for the saboteurs that you surrounded yourself with while in office, I'm sure you meant well for Nigeria.

AfroKnight:
I have some friends who are ladies. I have never asked them out before and I don't intend to. They are just friends. This is different from friendzone cos there is nothing romantic about our friendship. There is mutual respect.

HCpaul:
Wrong! The highest realm of love is friendship.
All this dating and marriage stuff will soon be expired, but friendship will forever reign in paradise.

THERE IS A FRIEND THAT STICKETH CLOSER THAN A BROTHER.

Swissheart:
Okay,

Luckygurl:

I should walk up to a male friend of mine and give him a kiss on the lips..

Lmao!!
I sure would get the 'looks like you've been neck deep into your usual romance novels' or 'when did you start drinking' reply...

On a more serious note, why should I?

Oahray:
On the whole, this is a nice writeup.

However, affection isn't static. A lady may just decide to give a persistent guy a chance and end up loving him more than he loves her. Such love could wax stronger or gradually fizzle out. There is no law that a guy who loves a girl more than she loves him would ALWAYS show the greater love.

I'd always advocate giving love the right conditions to blossom rather than ladies looking for a love greater than theirs. The latter is as short-term as it is selfish.

That said, most of the tips here wouldn't have the same effect on every guy. For example, if a lady Oahray likes decides to give him unreasonable space for no reason, they would likely become strangers by the time she's ready to check if it worked.

SkinnyDude:
unless she does not attract me sexually.. like this my neighbour.. yanshless and boobyless

Luckygurl:
Nah!!

I don't believe this...
That the male friends I've got are all hanging around me cos of some future banging they hope to get.
Plus the ones I personally initiated the friendship...

If I hear

In as much as majority of the so called friendship between the opposite sex are mere facades to what actually is going on, you can't totally rule out the fact that there exist the platonic kinda friendship between a few that actually know what they want.

abiolasogey:
Kk,,i love it wen dey love me mre dan i luv dem,,tis fun lyk dat,,nd dey wl b willing to do anytin to prevent me frm goin....

Ashanti0522:
True... however, a woman shouldnt make a man , who treats her like poo , feel like a hero anyways because somewhere out in the big blue sea there's a man that's patiently waiting for a man to throw that woman in the trash so that way he can pick her back out and treat her like the treasure she is she just has to be patient and strong enough to walk away ha lie for what ?

5minsmadness:
How does he "be a man and stop it"? what if she now starts communicating with him in secret?

cc tearoses, TV01, toks2008, mindfulness
Having a similar case with a couple. Your input will be highly appreciated.

AfroKnight:
False impression kee? Make babe no try am with me o. I go surprise her.

Ashanti0522:
Lie about going on a date with another man ?? That's dumb

Originalsly:
Do you know that if you didn't know the slavish English language Nairaland would be off limits for you? Do you know that if you didn't know English your contacts and opportunities to develop would be limited to speakers of your tribal language only? .....that Google would be just a name to you and not a well of information and connections? You don't speak English girls figure your scope is limited ...why waste time with someone with a low ceiling?

vizkiz:
Mtcheeeeew
Broke nigga. FYI dummy, You just showed nairaland how stupiid you are

Just because she ask for assistance and doesn't wanna furck you in return doesn't mean she is a gold digger. Were you blind, deaf and stupiid when she told you she had a lover

We guys are annoying joor... If she furck you now, na you go come nairaland come dey talk say ladies are hoes. Dindinrin broke

lolu20:
30

Hannysmilez:
Trust me,a lotta ladies will crucify you for this. Please,before a lot of you come after me,understand my point: I'm not saying men should cheat oh,I'm only saying that dissolving your marriage just coz he cheated is not the answer.

TheFatOne:
Lol.. Easy

wahaladey7:
Why do i feel sexually satisfied with this woman than my own wife? I met her barely two months before my wedding. As clock was winding down for my marriage, i sighted her that faithful day along my street and later found out she stays in the neighborhood. I took a casual interest in her and one thing led to another, we started sleeping together. To me, it was a last minute affair to say goodbye to bachelorhood. Little did i know the widow with two grown children will hold my sexual appetite spellbound. When i got married, i swore to stop but never did. Till date (11 months after) i still haven't find enough courage to let go. The reason being that, she's just too good in bed. Damn, some people are just experts in the art! I give it to her. It has come to the extent that i weep internally whenever i am done being with her. How can i just turn away from the beautiful bride i married, only to be possessed by a widow? Yet i still can't stop! God SAVE me!

HARDDON:
Op, i do dig your point of view n as someone who likes been opened minded about issues, i applaud u for some cogent points mentioned.

Just a quick question though: why have they been flaunting directives since 2009?
There is no directive ncc wud pass across they wud willingly obey. Is it because itz now getting into their head that they r major players in nigerian telco n comtributes to d gdp . They now feel we need them more than they need us? They want to b treated like sacred cows just like our politicians? Huh?

Nobody is above the law, if they must continue operation here, they have to abide by ncc directives.

smuth:
Knowing can be roughly sub-divided as knowing how to and knowing that. If the question is about knowing how to, then the normal 'rules' apply when deciding on the appropriate tense.

Do you know how to make eba? (present tense)

When you started school did you know how to tie your shoelaces? (past tense)

When knowing means knowing that, then the past tense is used for knowledge that existed in the past:

Did you know that she was married when you asked her to dance?

You can use the present tense for present knowledge:

Do you know that the meeting has been cancelled?

However, it is also very common to use the past tense idiomatically to refer to present knowledge. So there is no problem asking:

Did you know that the meeting has been cancelled?

The past tense is often used when the questioner expects that the listener does not in fact know. For example, see these three questions of "Did you know that ...":

Did you know that he's Saraki's son?

Did you know that the iPhone 6 is a collector's item?

Did You Know That Earth Is Getting Lighter Every Day?

Happy Learning!

Hannysmilez:
I think women should accept this one oh. There's a high chance your man would cheat on you,but that doesn't mean he does not love you.
Most women say "ehn,but he promised in front of the church to love and honour me",they have forgotten that they also promised to stay "for better,for worse". I'm not advocating for cheaters,I'm just saying we should get our heads outta the clouds.

lolu20:
bro,thanks. I left her a year ago.I didn't let her know,I was leaving cos I was via with my service year den.u know d Igbo tradition is different from d Yoruba tradition. d IBO pple don't recognize introduction like d way d Yoruba pple take it.d IBO pple respect marriage a lot and d bride price.d Yoruba believe dat u r good to go so long u av kids,and I've down introduction. dat is where I am confused. so sad,I can't hold her again. forever mine

Adeolaolumide:
You talk too much. Women don't like talkatives and a nagging husband.

Adeolaolumide:
Love is not complex, it's people that are complex. I can tell you from all I've read so far why certain people are still single including u sef.

TheSonOfMark: