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pinceprinz:
Trash lol, just trash!

marshalcarter:
So whr is the advice

missbronze:
Hmmmm. nice thread we got here. I say goodevening to everyone on this thread.

Well, I just feel we should discuss some causes of being single at 30s and 40s.

I will blame our economy as the major problem, most guys and ladies wish to marry at least by age 25. but, how do explain that even at age 38yrs and through with school, yet, we can't a land a job. who wants to be a burden? and, who wants to accept a burden?

Truth be told, the rich guys in this country are mostly men in their 50s and 60s.

That all said, does it mean we should now fold our hands and watch the problem of this country hinder us? No..!!!


Let's face reality, we guys and ladies should know is time we come together and help each other. Gone are those days of waiting for one rich man or waiting for one gal from a rich home. Face it, the rich gets married to themselves.


If as a man you have an income of atleast 50k, ( which is the starting salary most coy pays now sef). then, go ahead and marry, if you have found that special person. But, please, let your partner be earning too. Even if its small, it will be needed in the family.

All every couple needs is planning. If a couple is on income of 80k monthly for eg, believe me, hunger won't kill them. they will be comfortable.they should decide to have just a kid for that moment on that income of 80k. not more than a kid oooo. until sometin better and bigger comes. All we need in this life of relationship is planning and understanding. and, not all the whole wealth in this world to settle down.


Abeg, I Don talk my own. another person should drop his own observation and what he/she thinks is the solution.

*drops mic*
*Let me continue eating my rice*

Toks2008:
I Saw this great piece of advice from a female nairalander "missbronze" on a thread and i was so impressed that this is coming from a female and i really think every lady reading this should consider this wonderful advice..

She wrote..

"Well, I just feel we should discuss some causes of being single at 30s and 40s.

I will blame our economy as the major problem, most guys and ladies wish to marry at least by age 25. but, how do explain that even at age 38yrs and through with school, yet, we can't a land a job. who wants to be a burden? and, who wants to accept a burden?

Truth be told, the rich guys in this country are mostly men in their 50s and 60s.

That all said, does it mean we should now fold our hands and watch the problem of this country hinder us? No..!!!


Let's face reality, we guys and ladies should know is time we come together and help each other. Gone are those days of waiting for one rich man or waiting for one gal from a rich home. Face it, the rich gets married to themselves.


If as a man you have an income of atleast 50k, ( which is the starting salary most coy pays now sef). then, go ahead and marry, if you have found that special person. But, please, let your partner be earning too. Even if its small, it will be needed in the family.

All every couple needs is planning. If a couple is on income of 80k monthly for eg, believe me, hunger won't kill them. they will be comfortable.they should decide to have just a kid for that moment on that income of 80k. not more than a kid oooo. until sometin better and bigger comes. All we need in this life of relationship is planning and understanding. and, not all the whole wealth in this world to settle down.


Abeg, I Don talk my own. another person should drop his own observation and what he/she thinks is the solution."

*drops mic*
*Let me continue eating my rice*

missbronze:
Hmmmm. nice thread we got here. I say goodevening to everyone on this thread.

Well, I just feel we should discuss some causes of being single at 30s and 40s.

I will blame our economy as the major problem, most guys and ladies wish to marry at least by age 25. but, how do explain that even at age 38yrs and through with school, yet, we can't a land a job. who wants to be a burden? and, who wants to accept a burden?

Truth be told, the rich guys in this country are mostly men in their 50s and 60s.

That all said, does it mean we should now fold our hands and watch the problem of this country hinder us? No..!!!


Let's face reality, we guys and ladies should know is time we come together and help each other. Gone are those days of waiting for one rich man or waiting for one gal from a rich home. Face it, the rich gets married to themselves.


If as a man you have an income of atleast 50k, ( which is the starting salary most coy pays now sef). then, go ahead and marry, if you have found that special person. But, please, let your partner be earning too. Even if its small, it will be needed in the family.

All every couple needs is planning. If a couple is on income of 80k monthly for eg, believe me, hunger won't kill them. they will be comfortable.they should decide to have just a kid for that moment on that income of 80k. not more than a kid oooo. until sometin better and bigger comes. All we need in this life of relationship is planning and understanding. and, not all the whole wealth in this world to settle down.


Abeg, I Don talk my own. another person should drop his own observation and what he/she thinks is the solution.

*drops mic*
*Let me continue eating my rice*

Creamychic:
Hmmm..nice tips. This one though Are you a relationship counselor? I personally will decide to settle down with someone based on my observations during courtship. Can you kindly expatiate on this point? Thanks

GboyegaD:
Don't you think it is unfair to the OP and other posters to keep dropping the age requirement without consent? If you believe a 25 year old is fit for marriage why then Oga someone younger not fit?
Just my opinion though.

udysweet:
@nouvelle,tnx a lot ma,my head is swelling o. Dis one ur always at d #observation corner,hahahaha.
@siamia,Amen to the prayers.
@Toks2008,oga at d top,awon olori oko bambam,twale for u sir!wait sef why I com dey hail u so,looool!
@the rest,mak una pardon me. I'll use a laptop one day,stat from page one and take note of names here so I can call each by names,so for now I'm grouping all,lol.
To the new entrants,welcome to the group*kisses*

Jilo83:
op is right o. this is what am passing through now. we have been friend for more than 20yrs and nothing happened. last month d girl initiated sex and I fell. Just last night hear what she said " I need help o, I can't stay an hour before thinking about you"

ebonflex:
Being that a lot of african men still think like cavemen, I'm sure some would make statements like OP.
I however am a guy, and I have many female friends.
Its necessary as it gives you perspective from the female point of view on matters.

phreakabit:
Apparently you aren't up to par intellectually and not worth trading insults with.
Your pattern of posting, gives you away as a pseudo neanderthal.
Even anthropoids would feel embarrassed to be nominally associated with you.
I'd take the high road and walk away now. . .
I believe you have suffered a crushing defeat here.
Go mend your broken spirit lad.

tyson99:
Na why those werey girls no dey wan date broke niggas again rather they go for old men who go be like ancestors to them,awon omo wobey!

oderemo:
This fat oaf of a governor can't hit the ground running. Lagos is too big for him to rule, he is best a commissioner of some sort, night clubbing/igbadun.

nouvelle:
@udysweet, or maybe udysweetest I am good, you keep giving me a shout out, I am touched. How was the Sapele wedding, I hope you had a nice time, hope you didn't get to drink some of the famous 'Sapele Water'.

I have been on the sideline as usual, viewing everything on the down low

Welcome to all the new members, tobmar, megn and any other person I didn't mention. toks2008 will be here shortly to advice you'all to deactivate your ghost mode by that he means you should say a bit about yourself: sex, if it's not showing on your moniker, age and anything else you feel like saying then putting up your picture for maybe 10mins so people can meet you.

Shout out to toks2008, gratefulme40, sparkles003, @klassic: strangely, the thingy about the date of birth didn't work for my personality, where is joebeckz , I am also shouting out to all others I didn't mention.

It's November and I'm grateful to God for the new month, new possibilities. Did we all make it to church? For us, we are in the process of finding a new church that works for both of us, we tried a new one last week, it was lovely, we went back to the normal one today. We may try another next week or stick with the new. I love possibilities. Have a sweet November everyone and a lovely week

Anyone needs me, i'm chilling on the bleachers Ma'am Siamia, no refreshment yet o

PRINCESSO2:
38Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.Luke 6
Listen you need to speak the word of God whenever Satan tempts you
Psalm 199:11-Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.


John17:17-Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth.

Christ is coming.and he comes for a pure church.
Ephesians 5-
25Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
Romans 8-
13For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live. 14For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.


So,how do we resist temptation-
James 4-7Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you.
Ephesians 6:17-

And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:

Hebrews 4:

12For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. 13Neither is there any creature that is not manifest in his sight: but all things are Unclad and opened unto the eyes of him with whom we have to do

What did Jesus do when he went into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil.
He spoke the word of God.
Then was Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil. 2And when he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was afterward an hungred. 3And when the tempter came to him, he said, If thou be the Son of God, command that these stones be made bread. 4But he answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God.
The Word of God can help us stop sinning.

Romans 6:23-23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
1 Corinthians 10: 13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
I too struggled with sexual immorality until one day the temptation came and I think I said (I must have received help from the Lord)- THE SEXUALLY IMMORAL SHALL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD
The temptation eased up. And i thought the word of God can help the homosexuals or other sinners too.They can say when tempted



1 Corinthians 6-9Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 11And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God when temptation comes,you need the word of God.

For pride-James 4:6But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.
Also-
Matthew 23:12-
And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.

For fear-2 Timothy 1- 7 For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.

For Sexual immorality -18Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

And for those who feel guilty -
There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.

Tobmar:
Happy new month to u all. I'm interested in joining d whatsapp group

megn:
Happy Sunday and new month to all Nairalanders. @Siamia pls can u add me up in your group chat (whatsapp)? Coz u r making a lot of sense.

udysweet:
Hello lovelies! Happy sunday and happy new month to y'all. We tnk God for making us see d 1st of Nov and sunday of d month.
Welcome to all d new pple joining the thread,you're highly welcome.
@charlesamino der is also a dedicated whatsapp group u can be part of,created by @siamia who also opened this thread. The numver is in one of the pages,u can scroll back thru pages to get it.
Then to those of us who just wants to say things because God gav us mouth,mak una easy o,don't be judge dat God ddnt create u to be,let God be d judge. Certain things are meant to happne for a reason,dsnt mean u can act lik u also knw it all. Easy does it pls.
So let's jus be open and love ourselves cos its a one big happy family here,we dnt need bad blood and nasty requests,mbok! Lol
Enjy ur day.
@Toks2008 dearie,where art thou o? @DDshow,wats up@klassik u good? @nouvelle how are u ma? @lolu20,my gud frnd,how's it goin?
And to all,pls pardon me,lik a system I've not booted fully yet,been a hectic week\weekend . Am typing from sapele in Delta state,came for a trad weddin of a dear frnd and also to tap into the annointing too. May God grants us all our marital hearts desires speedily in Jesus name,Amen!
Love y'all

phillipay:
strings are always attached it might just take time to show

icebebe:
Lmao!! Reminds me of an SU in school caught watching porn

chuna1985:
Lmao, wen did being a choir member become switter Dan earth
Hell A place manufactured to make u a good member of this society.

braine:
And what is the essence of this on front page? Nairaland is really lagging behind in content quality these days.

frankay430:
she is beautiful

chuna1985:
Do u really want to be a choir member in heaven n clap ur hands n sink forever

geez18:
poverty na bastard! just see how people risk their lives. even a woman risking the life of her child

chuna1985:
All those bible shiit didn't happen

fabre4:
Op don't let your ignorance lead people to hell







There three experiences that a Christian must undergo when he accepts Christ in order to be able to live above sin it is very important that that he gets this experience as that is what would enable him live above sin they are
salvation: this is the first experience in which you are delivered from sin and it'd consequence you don't work for it as it is a gift of God. Here sinners are incapacitated as they cannot help themselves so in that state a sinner must completely believe God is able to forgive through our faith Jesus as he has paid for the sins of as many as willing to accept him and make him their saviour. once you are saved God wipes away your sin but it doesn't take away the urge to sin. we will discover how to take away the urge of sin next

danbrowndmf:
Have got love for akwa ibom girls sha.. They can love..


Cc Laveda.