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shona2487:
I'm not 30yet but very close. I feel there are some ppl who r not 40 but r equally mature. I personally find it difficult to relate or even post comments because of d dense population of *baby adults* on nairaland. I may nt put my mouth in your discussions but I'd like to observe frm behind d curtain. Wld be refreshing to read mature comments

If you think i will comment on your pics na lie,i will never say its fine and sexy because that is what you want me to say but i will never say that but i can only write it...lol

And how close are you to 30? just asking..

menesheh:
Pascal's wager is very old argument nah refuted severally.

If you die and find out (if you can) that their is no god that issued this various religious tenets, let's assune you were given another opportunity to spend another lifetime, promise me, you will not keep regretting such high volume of ignorance throughout such life.


Of i die and find out later that there is this God, waiting patiently to deal with me for mere disbelieving, if he couldn't allow me to explain myself afterall, I will be happy to receiving such punishment knowing fully well that am morally upright than such god.

I have pretty enough questions to ask if ever i could be given just five minutes to question god.

You will be amazed that you will be given enough time to ask your questions and you will surely get good answers but at the end the fact still remains that you will have nothing to gain and everything to lose.

Krystalzkris:
smh. I asked what you would do if you found out it isn't your Yahweh and Jesus that's master over there.

Nothing to gain and nothing to lose.

onetrack:
And what if this god only allows atheists into heaven?

All join...at least they believe he exists

Krystalzkris:
sounds like gambling to me... What if you die and find out that its Zeus who is the true god.. He'l roast your silly ass for not believing..

I appreciate you assertion but speaking from the contemporary beliefs i believe it will be a fair gamble.

Thanks bro

ernesty20:
Nice piece

I have always wondered how easy it is for people to bring down the beliefs of others because to me this is grossly unfair and not necessary.

I believe in the muslim faith and i also believe in christianity...i respect the Athiest mindset and that is the way to go.

Everyone has a right to his or her beliefs but no matter what we believe,there is always a constant which is the truth and so i always ask myself some questions like, what if it was not necessary to accept Jesus as my lord and Savior? what if there is no GOD? What if there is no judgement,heaven or hell? What if there is no life after death?

But before i made my decision some years ago on what to believe,i pondered over this story and i want you all to read.

Some men were to embark on a compulsory one way journey to a certain destination but there is an unfounded story going round that on the route to that destination,there is a big river they must cross and the best way to be on the safer side is to take with them a life jacket because without a life jacket,they will never be able to cross that river to the other side.

Fortunately,this life jacket is a very light one that does not add any significant weight to their luggage and if they get to that river and realize they don't need the life jacket,they have nothing to lose and will just cross over anyways but if they get to that river and realize they need that jacket to cross over,they have everything to gain and nothing to lose.

This is the case we face today; The Bible says we must believe that Jesus died for us and accept him as Saviour(Which is a synonym of the life jacket) before we can have an everlasting life in paradise(Cross the river)

Atheists say you don't need to believe there is a GOD let alone Jesus before you can have a good after life.

Christians say you need to accept Jesus Christ as lord and Saviour in order to have a good after life.

The Muslims believe that Jesus was a servant of God who was sent to the world but never died for them and they need not believe in his death and resurrection.


Now this is the interesting thing to ponder over:

1.If as an Atheist you believe there is GOD and accept Jesus as lord and savior and you die and realize you really do not need to believe all these,you definitely have nothing to lose at all but if you realize that your decision to believe these paid off,i guess you have nothing to lose but everything to gain.

2.For the Muslims who believe that Jesus was never crucified hence no need to accept him as savior,what if you die and realize you were wrong all along,you will definitely have everything to lose and nothing to gain but if you accept Jesus today and you die to realize you made a wise decision, you will have everything to gain and nothing to lose.

I have made my choice many years ago and if i die today and realize there is no GOD,no life after death,no judgment,no heaven or hell,i honestly have nothing to lose even if i have nothing to gain,its still safe but if i die this moment and realize that i made the right choice believing there is GOD and that Jesus actually died as a lamb of GOD to save the world from eternal condemnation i have everything to gain and nothing to lose.

MAY GOD NOT LET US BE AMONG THOSE WHO WILL KNOW THE TRUTH AFTER WE LEAVE THIS WORLD WHICH APPARENTLY WILL BE TOO LATE.IT COSTS US NOTHING TO BELIEVE THERE IS GOD AND THAT JESUS DIED TO TAKE AWAY OUR SINS.PLEASE LETS PLAY SAFE.

[size=14pt]Think about this[/size]

LordOfTheWeed:
Don't mind them, keeping porns on their phones as if their lives depends on it,, ,, ,, Instead of keeping it on their laptops, just like i have 486 porn videos on my laptop.. .. ..

LordOfTheWeed:
Don't mind them, keeping porns on their phones as if their lives depends on it,, ,, ,, Instead of keeping it on their laptops, just like i have 486 porn videos on my laptop.. .. ..

BLOOD OF GOD

martphreak:
We were not created to master our sexuality very early in life. We were created to master our emotions in submission to Holy Spirit.

Pornography is evil. Why are you learning sex styles as a youth? It is pollution & perversion. You eventually become an unclean thing before God as a result of lustful thoughts. It will push you into the sin of fornication before marriage & even hunt your marriage. The mind of God concerning sex in marriage becomes fulfilled when you & your spouse don't know anything about it. You must be ignorant of the details of your sexuality before marriage because sexual expression in marriage was meant to come naturally & not by learning. Couples who divorce because of sex knew many things about it before marriage. If you have known many things already, marriage is not an escape route for you because you will eventually fall into the sin of adultery if you marry someone who doesn't know much or rather anything. Your spouse will seem not to satisfy you. Instead, genuinely give your life to Jesus Christ, burn all bridges connecting you to sexual perversion today, discipline yourself & submit yourself to the power of Holy Spirit to restore your original factory settings.

Men & women of destiny guard their eyes diligently like Job who made a covenant with his eyes...

God bless us.

In as much as i love your standview,pornography is a total evil that needs serious ddeliverance from because its so addictive that evn the married still get involved in it just like self servicing. When you watch porn you lust after the porn stars be it male or female and lusting is fornication.

im not here to form holier than thou because even as a believer i was so endeared to porn that i even had some on my phone and i had to take a stand and i deleted them from my phobe nd even my lap top.

Dont let anyone fool you,porn is a great monster expcially for the single..and only the spirit of God can break that addiction.

As for marital breakup as a result of sex,its not because of porn but its about the ex factor..

A lady who have dated a cocky guy marries a guy of less than avrage size and a man who hve dated a tigress before marries a jjc lady and the past memory will not let them rest.

A lady who have had many sticks in her core before marriage may find herself thnkn of a prtcular guy in her past nd given the chance wll still bed that ex.

We all need self control and only the spirit of GOD can help us.

ladyF:
True.....I seriously hope I am found worthy on my day of judgement undeserving as I am.

I hope there is chocolate in heaven sha

Lady F believe this,once you give your life to christ and pray for the indwelling of the holy spirit not enjoying sins or deliberately living a sinful life and always asking GOD to forgive you of any sins that easily beseech you,heaven is guaranteed for you.

Just dont give up your salvation no matter what.

As for chocolates...there will be the best of them in heaven that you have neveer eaten heere on earth.

one interesting fact is that no talent is lost in heaven thats why petr still fishes and surprisingly Jesus still does some furniture jobs in heaven just for the fun of it.

There is no sporting activities you wont find there except violent sports like bocing,wrestling n so on.

All you see on earth are inspirations from God,all the technology yt to come are in heaven like teleporting,wireless electricity,moving road where you just stand and the road takes u to where you want to go and many more.

Honeestly heaven is always always on my mind and thats why i dont fear death..for believers,to die is gain just as paul wrote.

Let us all embrace christ and be at peace.this world with all its beauty is inconsequential to the beauty of the world above.

My Sunday message.

You will love this...10 amazing reasons why you must never miss heaven..

Visit this link to know...

www.nairaland.com/2563215/10-amazing-reasons-why-must

Have a splendid sunday.

Sanmel:
I'm sorry for disobeying the rules, I'm not up to 30 but I just love the thread.. If we obey all the rules, we'll miss all the fun. Good morning & happy Sunday to you all

Oh i see.No problem dear.

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udysweet:
Yeepa! Mo ti se awon irunmole o,wch ebo I wan offer now o,lmao! Aaawwn,am sorry dearie,I was jus responding to specifics ni jare. You knw u,you're special na,oya don't let ur head to swell o,lol!happy sunday

Ok my tit tat,have a great service..Still thinking of where to worship today as i always alternate between any Pentecostal church in my area that comes to mind..

ateke2:
Wow! How did I miss this? I am in. 30+. someone should welcome me

You are most welcome bro.

udysweet:
@ddshow,thanks! God bless*smiles*
@gratefulme40,you're welcome. We did it together o,its a collective effort. @siamia isn't arnd,I doubt. If not,trust me she will hav commented on this. @ifeanyi83,mba o,ur not late. Join our train jo,lol! Nno nu(I got it right)
@lolu20,its ur day today,its official you're 30,yay! Happy bday dearie,God bless ur new age,welcome to d 30s club. Abg its jus cake I want,been havin mad craving for it(like preggy woman,lol)
Aight guys,enjoy the days*hugs and kisses*
Good morning everyone and a happy sunday

Clap for yourself,you try.you no greet me but anyways i greet you,have a great sunday and everyone in the house.

Sanmel:

Ghost mode,please deactivate and lets meet you.

Daninya11:
1-When a girl ignores your message twice, leave her alone. She ain't blind, she just choose to ignore it. There is no more need sending more messages. Move on to the next girl sharply..

2-When a girl accept your request, seriously typing "thanks for accepting my request" is very lame.. Do it in her inbox if you must . Some of you get ignored when you type that crap on her wall..

3-You don't need to be a male LovePeddler. Don't woo every girl on your list. Some are good enough to be just friends with you..

4-Guy, don't be the thirsty dude on a girl's post, simply hit the like button and move on. If you need to comment, make it brief and interesting. Don't go begging her to add you..

5-Bro, if the picture is beautiful like it and give a simple compliment. If it's not, there is no need lying to get her Attention.. Can't wait for Facebook to upgrade, where you just press the dislike button. Lolxxxxx.

6-Buddy, when chatting you don't spend your whole time telling a girl how beautiful she is, hundred of guys have told her how beautiful she is everyday. They find it boring when you join the train..

7-If you find yourself always starting the convo with a Particular person, like you are always the first to message her, please stop it for a while. If she doesn't notice, you are not important to her.. Leave her alone..

8- If you both don't roll, don't tag her to your pix. She might find it offensive..

9-The lesser of you, the better for you. When you are all over her wall, all over her pictures commenting and liking everything, you are less appreciated because you are acting thirsty.

10-When you compliment a girl on her pictures and another person compliments her on the same picture and she thanked the other dude and skip your name, please remove your comment. It wasn't necessary..

*This are plain psychological tips*

If a girl ignore your messages, refuses to pick your calls, refuses to see you or go on a date with you, rejects your gift or returns them.
Guy, it's high time you hit the road cux she ain't feeling you.

My rules from time memorial.

stephnie44:
God bles d op

Amen o.

There is this way our sweet ladies make their way into this thread that seem so tactical and its interesting i must say.

Sometimes i look at the female viewers profile and i can bet they ought to relate with us but they will just prefer to view lol..

please come in and lets interact.The thread is primarily for interaction so dont feel withdrawn..your participation here is never tantamount to desperation...NEVER...we are all responsible men and women and there is more to man and woman relationship than love affairs.

So if you are a lady of 30yrs and above,get in here and lets discuss various issues of great importance like enterprenural opportunities,moral values,and other interesting topics...

ddshow:
Lol...Bless you too. Hope your day has been worthwhile.

Yeah thanks my broda...

Oliviaarims:
Yea,I know....

Good

ddshow:
Hi everyone, hope this meets us well...!

Toks2008, welcome back. I must commend you for putting the past behind and also for the heartfelt apologies. I will implore you to continue with your openness and never to inhibit your passions for any reason.

Udysweet, you are a special woman. May God continally crown your efforts and bless you exceedingly.

Thanks my second account lol..dont mind me jare i appreciate your remarks..God bless you bro.

aameyah:
....

What language is this?lol

brownsug:
Haha! Maybe u like toks u don't know how to tell him lol

Lol Brownsug omo to set how you dey? abeg fi omo emere yen sile o..mi o mo nkan ti mo gba lowo e ti ko je ki n gbadun ni thread yii o.

gratefulme40:
Good to know the thread is back in shape. How's everyone been.

Udysweet..welldone. You have done a good job in keeping the thread alive.

Toks....good to see you back

Siamia (not sure i got the spelling right). How have you been?

@All...hope you all had a good day?

Oh i dey kampe...

Its one of those things lol..lets just say me and siamia pulled a publicity stunt lol..

Sis siamia where you dey? e don tey abeg show..your padi dey here o.my sweet sid

misspicy:
Kilode iwo bobo yi,oni mi fe,ode je ki okurin to setan ri mi...hian,dakun ma ba parol mi je ni bi o,lol....

Good morning sir

Rotflmao...chai you this lady no go kill me..very funny...

/[quote author= post=37232061]Polygamy is really not my cup of tea and I don't like giving marriage advice coz I ain't married but I know women who stayed alone after their husbands passed. It might be hard but it is possible tho not compulsory.
So... let everyone do what they think best.[/quote]I agree but the question is "can a lady really be alone without a male companion"?

estwhile:
Hi everyone,

Pls, I need help from experts in the house to learn the art of writing. I've registered on freelancer.com, been bidding(at least 3 a day) but none has been successful, besides, i'm not sure i can pull through. Would appreciate any assistance anyone can give.

Thanks

Writing is a passion.If you don't have the passion for it then you need not bother. Just look for what you are passionate about and follow that path.

Chidinho10:
I have an urgent report titled "The role of Staff welfare in Organizational Growth and Development"... I have written some of it but will not be able to complete it alone before deadline... I need 2 people to help me out. Will pay USD 5 per 500 words... First come, first served...Deadline is 2pm, thanks. Drop your emails if you are interested

Just a little bit curious..How exactly will you know if the content is ok by your standard before paying anyone?

And is there no reported case of a writer being scammed as in after doing the job,he or she never gets paid..Just wondering how this stuffs work because any writer can write junk and expect to be paid and another can do great work yet not paid so i want to know the module of this thing.

funsho75:
here to read comment.
I think am Mr A.
but wat does chronic philanderer means...
sorry I don't like using Dictionary

Just use google..lol!

joebeckz:
Lol na work o. I don show again sha. Make I catch up

No wahala my guy..

udysweet:
Hello people! Hope your day went well? Thank God for that o. Bet some pple are stil stuck in traffic? That's for the lagosians o. Eko oni baje o. Its d weekend,TGIF!
Pls let's return d fun here. I know I use to see a Dosunmu here,we hvnt seen u here in a while. @siamia,hope ur gud sis? Pls let's still keep dis lively once again.
@Toks 2008 am gonna smoke u out frm were u are and sweep u bak into this thread,lol! U can't jus fizzle out like dat,mbanu! And dos who dey find troble,tnk God no fights again,let's live in peace again o.
Love y'all,kisses

Udisweet this your dp dey make me imagine things o..those lips though.hmmm

halexito:
Gbam! That's Toks2008!! Maturity per excellence. Welcome back!!! YOU WERE MISSED.

It is well my broda.Mis you all too.