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aameyah:
You did away with her after deflowering her, abi. Well done.

M4gunners:
Na so so promise dem dey promise.

Acidosis:
Na all these kain yeye relationships dey cause infidelity in marriage.


At the end of the day, you'd go after a guy you don't love out of desperation while keeping contacts with your school bf.

You might even end up with a virgin rich and innocent guy, after spending 7 good years under another man's roof


A beg abeg, just stick with your boyfriend, force him to marry you!
"Ki olorun ma je ka gbe egun elegun."


I will never marry any woman who has spent 7 years with another man. Your best shot is to lie about your past.

Whoever hears this will marvel

believer01:
i am a regular member on nairaland and i create this user to remain anonymous. i need mature guys and ladies to advise me on a way forward.
dont mind my grammar and typographical errors

i have been dating this guy since our 100level days in school, most people fear in school is that school relationships ends at the gate but our did'nt end at the gate. we went for youth service and still continue with our lovelife though the relationship was collapsing during service year but we built it up again and everything was okay after service. i happened to serve in his state and i was retained after service which makes us to start staying in the same town.
In school all our focus was to finish school, serve and get a good job. marriage was not really discussed cos i was thinking it was too early and since we were doing fine for 7years i believe marriage is inevitable (i hope that word is correctly use). there is one thing i discovered after service
1. he is not ready to talk about marriage not because he is tired of me or anything (cos i know i am one of the best things that has happened to him) but cos he believe he must have millions of naira in his account.
2. he believes the tradition of not marrying early in his family could also delay his marriage even though i have met almost all his family members.
3. he brings up quarrel or another issue when i bring up visiting my family even though he has met them twice.


my questions:
1. should i wait till "forever" when he will be ready to discuss/ready for the marriage?
2. i love him but now i have offers from different guys and i know the offers won't last forever(i have turn down 2 already). should i stay and pray he comes to his senses or leave him?
3. we are so closed to each other and understand each other so well that it will be difficult to understand anyone else like that.
4. am not against him having millions of naira but "money is never enough" his friends that are not as okay as himself are getting married already.
5. am not trying to rush him into marriage but how am i to know i won't regret waiting until when he will be ready? what if he leaves me after the long wait?

7years relationship now. plssss no insult we all do crazy things for love but we learn everyday and i believe this forum will give me the candid answer i seek

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

radiokilla:
You see why i don't like this NYSC. Youths dying sporadically. O GOD

fatdon2:
Hausa was expecting their candidate to be emerge as winner but this time d yorubas call betrayers manage to overpower aBoki man see imagine. This Buhari govt political positions are competition between Abokis and betrayers. Let us watch hw d speakership position wll be whether still d betrayers wll stll defeat Boko Haram people. To me i support Boko harams to defeat nig betrayers people. Nothing concern about southsouth and southeast people because they ar look for biafra not in position we just allowed those two nigeria group to drag for position. Tank u biafra people.

abraka00:
You are an idiot.

emmatok:
Sorry Saraki has said it before now that he will be the Senate President.

APC didn't lost any anything here.

emmykk:
he is a pdp decampee not orignal APC member

abraka00:
You are the One from Togo. He only said PDP shall rise again. Idiota!

Pangea:
Saraki is a dark horse
People like that don't last,
He has made enough enemies and he will continue to look over his shoulders for the rest of his tenure!
It will be a miracle if he is not impeached before the tenure ends!
Unless he keeps his nose clean and he is not corrupt.
But that is another theory of the goat and the yam

temitemi1:
YES! YES! YES!!










PDP shall rise again!!

Chosen1984:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

Cannot be summoned by a commisioner
so many meanings to that.

is it as the commissioner for Justice in Lagos?
or

Commissioner for Jagaban.

Sen. Saraki that is the V.p calling you.
Answer immediately! Haaaaaa.

APC!!!! Chain

Omotayor123:
Contrary to ancient time where virginity is seen as a pride of Every woman And Every single maiden is expected to be One.

Nowadays, Virginity is seen as 'Abnormal'! people will find it impossible to believe that a Mature maiden remain One.



When a lady comes out to say she's a Virgin, Criticism follows And pple that care will advice her not to mention Such to Anyone ( isn't that funny)



And yet Our Religious and Cultural society Expected Maidens to be Such.
So what went Wrong

Why is Virginity now a 'Taboo' for mature single ladies

cc. Tophaz, Twasi, Midehi, Mirexxx, Mrs Chima, Aminat508, firstEva, Mhizkel, diddydiva, Adeh39, SubbieD & other Romancelanders....

cc. Ishilove

Omotayor123:
okays....
Will definitely cheer you on.

As long as you know go dia go chop our money....




And if u must Chop, D tin must be chop make I chop

jeffizy:
I'm sorry, but your picture here confirm what your ex's dad said.

If I was in your shoes back then, my only mission in life will be about proving them wrong.

Here you are hanging your shades on your forehead and wearing a knicker underneath a sweat shirt. Those kids may not want you as their dad cos ur profile is still not encouraging.

6fit:
For guyz,d first time he insert his dik into a punna and ejaculate either into the condom or punna is when d guy is disvirgined.....i may be right or wrong

shammahyaro:
A friend of mine at sec sch then,lost her's at 14 and became an addict....she even molested her bro too........... She allegedly when to a guys house to beg for intimacy,,,,

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I looked up intelligent in the dictionary just now, and I saw your passport

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oseod:
The most intelligent posts I've seen on this thread are
Toks2008
Nkemdi88
Uniqueren

oseod (seriously, this guy isn't just intelligent, he radiating so much sexiness.......he's "intellisexy"