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ttomexy:I love your post and i will quickly address the two bold parts. 1. Unfortunately it is a taboo for a lady to cheat on her husband and that is why even JESUS said that the only condition a man can put away his wife is when she sleeps with another man while married and there was no where in the bible where a woman was asked to divorce her husband for same reasons. Yes i know that Biblical injunctions are bi-gender in context but this particular quote was very gender specific and here it is:"But I tell you that any man who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and any man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery"Matthew 5:32 [b]2.A woman is permitted to marry another lady's hubby.Yes hard to take in but its a fact.Women are very ok with being a second.third....wife and that is just their make-up. There is really no husband snatcher but husband sharer but it is when the present wife refuses to mellow down and accept this that the man makes up his mind to stick with the new lady and dump the first wife but most times, we see men who marry second wife still showing great love and affection for the first wife. I can't continue to stress this fact but please our young ladies should start learning this truth now.There is more to life than looking for a faithful man about. A faithful guy can become unfaithful and vis avis so do yourself a favor and stick with a man knowing that he could be unfaithful,polygamous or crazy hopeless philanderer. For the guys, i always say if you know you are hopelessly lost to the spirit of philandering please and please do yourself,your wife and the children a favor by taking your sexcacades far far away and use a protection to at least reduce the chance of bringing home crazy infection to that decent and faithful lady. I will stop here.[/b] |
[b]As a GOD fearing man i was able to control myself and remained faithful to one lady for 12 years and i will do it again with another lady as long as i am very ok with her physical sexual features. I believe that most men cheat because they want something else but married another thing. For me i love curvy chics and if i marry a straight shape lady trust me, even if she has the character of an angel and can perform so well in the kitchen and in the bedroom, anytime i see a lady with my desired body features, i will be tempted to have a sneak peak. Men are visual and if you check very well, hardly wil a man easily cheat on a lady that has the sexual endowments he wants and i have observed that most guys who cheat usually say stuffs like"if you see this girl's this or that..nah die" and i wil be like, what stopped you from looking out for a lady that has those features and marry her. The fact remains that if a man can marry more than a wife(AND THIS IS NOT A SIN PLEASE) So what is the fuss over his cheating on you. As a lady who is married, your happiness should be hinged on your children or yourself if there are no children yet.Get financially independent and just take your hubby as a sex partner understanding that you are probably not the only one he is sleeping with EVEN IF HE IS FAITHFUL TO YOU.With this mindset you will save yourself of avoidable headache and heart ache. Your concern is to be the main woman and not the other desperate vulnerable mistress. Just do your part by being submissive,financially independent,great cook and very romantic then leave the rest to GOD but trust me,women with these virtues are rarely treated anyhow by their hubby because they are usually well respected. Abeg there is more to marriage and life than all these cheating brouhaha[/b] |
One of my quotes from the thread the Op made reference to and a lady replied that i made no sense. Toks2008: |
Amya:Im happy someone read series of my posts on that thread and have made good sense out of it while some have abused me and even asked me to bring my head for nailing. Good one OP. By the way,A happy birthday to me
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adconline:If i were you i will at least try to be intelligent to counter my superb analysis on why i believe condom does not stop stds especially HIV. But it is a sign of daftness to just come online castigating and abusing me because i made a concise post with excellent analysis and this in itself goes to show that you are simply getting worked up for no justifiable reason. Any intelligent person will read my post and assimilate and if he/she has something contrary will simply state without resorting to vulgarity. Please be sensible and matured. I will stop here. g night. |
BlissB:LOL! Abeg o no come see me because i am too single and i don't want any temptation o. |
adconline:Honestly i think there should be a mental evaluation before people are allowed to join nairaland. Cant you make your point without sounding razz and insulting? You are the one who just displayed unwarranted arrogance because the last time i checked i made an intelligent post which can be accepted or countered with intelligent comments and not a display of stark dumbness and unwarranted sarcasm. |
softysparky:This is why i want to be your friend. I am impressed with your down to earth and non materialistic nature and you strike me like a very decent lady. I have never asked for any nairalander's number before and trust me i wont push it. |
softysparky:Please add me on watsup on 08023146046 but if married please disregard this. Thanks |
MaxNaija:I am too caring to a fault and i tend to become a nuisance to a lady who usually has cramp during her time of the month as i would virtually want to be with her all through,cook for her and virtually turn to her errand boy and i don't like that part of me but can't just help it ![]() |
softysparky: I think its a psychological disorder to contemplate rape because sex ought to be enjoyed. I am too gentle to the core and my manliness will turn to jelly at the sound of "stop" even with my lady. Maybe rapists have a stimulant that they use which makes them insensitive to the plea of their victims. Na wah |
Jboyossai:How can you bleeping call this konji? This is bestiality in action and thank GOD they will serve a life sentence to teach other intending beasts a big lesson. Guys must have self control and a man without self control is totally a disaster waiting to happen. In as much as i understand that sex starvation can make a man act foolish, i would rather commit the sin of fornication with a LovePeddler rather than resort to rape. Arrant rubbish. |
naughtyboi419: Don't bother,its a very good omen for APC. Shebi its the same way they over-flogged the destructive campaign that latter worked in favor of APC so let them continue with theire hate campaign and that will even make APC better and bigger. MUMU PEOPLE. |
StOla:When the bible says in the book of James 1:19 "But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger" i knew there was a good reason for this verse. When i read the thread yesterday about Buhari owning a mansion that expensive i knew it was a facade but i kept mum. I wil advice people to refrain from making crazy,childish,destructive comments immediately after they read or hear anything about anyone but should be very patient for more facts to emerge so that they will not look foolish afterwards. My 50kobo |
hadura29:You are not cut out for menial jobs but as a captivating orator you will make a good diplomat, lawyer or preacher. You will also do very well as a surgeon, soldier, researcher, detective, police officer, lawyer. So if you must get a job you should look in those direction but asides these you need to still find out your natural talents and work on them. Wish you the best. |
faithtracey:I would have given you a room in my apartment for free but i? scared. You registered on may 1 and this is your very first post on nairaland so i dey wonder. |
jaybee3:I had my first degree in microbiology so i know what im implying but for all i care..its your call and watever rocks ur boat is yours to tackle. G night abeg. |
sexyeyes:Well i dont know if i will ever be faithful again but i was indeed faithful to my ex for 12years. The truth is that even the few guys who are faithful have realized that its not worth it. Nevertheless im very choosy as per the type of lady i want so that i wont be so prone to cheating on her because if i marry a lady im not sexually attracted to,i may love her but still cheat on her. |
jaybee3:I will pretend that i did not see your display of childishness and lack of manners. Now let me give u some valuable enlightenment about the fact THAT CONDOM DOES NOT PREVENT STIs OR EVEN HIV Do you know that condom does not cover the entire shaft or penile region? the base of the shaft and part of the srotal sac makes contact with the vaginal fluid during intercourse. We also know that HIV is prevent in the vagina fluid and it can pass through a delicate membrane such as the delicate skin in the penile region so apparently as we make love with psycological pleasure,we also stand the risk of contracting hiv nd other sti once thepenile shaft or srotal sac touches her fluid and she can also get the virus if an infected lover has the virus as a result of mild abbraisons on the man pnis so please rid urself of the ignorant mentality that condoms prevent sti. my word of advice,be matured and decent when you make posts on ab online socia platform so that you will not be percieved as a low life social tout. |
oseod:Get my point 95% of men will cheat on their woman meaning we have 5% who will not. i have been with a lady for 12years wtout cheatn on her not because of the lobe i hve for her but because i am a believer with great love and fear for GOD but im only one of the 5% Ladies will always lure even a man who does not want to cheat and this is where the problem lies..even a man who does bot want to cheat will be lured by these jezebels and how many men can withstand these sultry beauties. |
YEM101:A million likes for your advice and one will always decipher words coming from the matured minds and those from todddler mindset. If im a lady i will expect any unpleasant surprise just after i say i do to my man. Only ladies with toddler mentality worry their brain over a mans faithfullness but the matured ladies will warn him to use protection if he ever decides to go astray and also do it very far from her. Men will be men no matter how good you please them. |
egbaguy:You just nailed it. A man can die for a woman yet still cheats on her. men see sex differently from women and a man can sex a woman without any emotion attached and will forget yourface after the act. This is one secret our mothers knew and remained in their matrmonial home. many ladies who leaves their marriage because their hubby cheats on them usually end up with a man who already has a wife thereby commiting same crime they detest against the man wife. |
oseod:Oga proff abeg which part of my post are you having headache over? Im too intellectually sound to decipher your rethorics ao please communicate effectively. Nevertheless,except you are married at least for 10years without cheating on your wife please dont bother replying to this post.I expect men to catch my drift not boys or men with boys mindset. |
koyyes:[b]Story for the gods... Nobody is safe from HIV or stds because even condom does not really give guaranty protection. If you like continue to change men a million times,95 out of 100 men will cheat on you even if you are hotter than the sexiest lady in the world. For the men, if you must commit the hell bound sin of philandering please and please do your wife the honor of doing it far far far away from her to give her the respect and please for the sake of your life,that of your wife and the children, please use a protection. I want every lady reading this to take this hard pill in and swallow with a cold glass of water,MOST MEN WILL CHEAT ON YOU NO MATTER WHAT and you will be the most clueless and foolish woman to pay back by doing same thing because at the end you will be at the losing end remeber that its a cruel world of men and if you ever allow yourself fall victim of baseless retaliation,you will blame yourself by the time many men use you like rags after you have ben sent packing from your matrimonial home. Wise up.[/b] Thats all. |
fellis:[b]I remember writing on a previous thread that 99% of men will cheat on their wives no matter what and some people were asking for my head. I am not a philanderer and i had never cheated on my lady of 12 years when we were still together but please please every lady should get this fact clear,men are polygamous by nature and there is nothing any lady can do about this. What you should concern yourself with are: 1. Are you the main lady or the side lady? 2.Does he love you and if asked to choose one lady will he choose you? 3.Is he using protection with the other ladies? Look here ladies, only a foolish woman leaves her hubby because he cheats on her and i repeat ONLY A BLATANT FOOL OF A LADY LEAVES HER MAN BECAUSE HE CHEATS ON HER. There is no guaranty that the next 100 men you will be with will not cheat on you so live with the hard fact and concern yourself with more important aspects of life like giving your life a meaning and if you have children just divert all your love on them and se that hubby of yours as a sex partner then and only then you will have happiness in your marriage. [/b] |
chowlade:How old are you? Are you married? No insults intended buy you must be a teenager to spit this poo as an advice on a social media. |
hadura29:First you need to ask yourself, what do i enjoy doing? That is the first step to discovering yourself then from that you can get any job that fits into your passion. If you hate marketing i bet it will be a waste of time and it will be better you do other stuffs with your time rather than waste it doing what you are not cut out for so find your passion,something you just enjoy doing and gives you great happiness when you do it..that is your ideal career,pursue it and you will make wealth and if you must get a job, get one that is in en-sync with your passion. Hope this helps. Visit this thread and if yours is not yet listed just let me know your month and day of birtyh and i will tell you what career is best suited for you. https://www.nairaland.com/2313526/personaility-holds-key-ideal-career |
hadura29:You are right jare. May GOD help our youths |
Chinaimporter:Dem don come again. Pastor gengemula |
hadura29:Will this make frontpage if the caption was -Thank GOD for me i have started my dream business? May GOiD save Nigeria youths from the JOB mentaility. Congrats all the same. |
aguiyi:I dey rock am right left and centre |
aguiyi:habba..this is simple logic. |
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