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Christianity EtcRe: Is It Okay For A Christian To Eat Ileya Meat? by Toks2008(m): 12:05am On Oct 05, 2014
Sanchez01:
Lolz, you sure made light of the thread.

Back to the topic, OP, it is not right. As a matter of fact, sharing from the meat is the same as alluding to their deity and object of worship.

An example is seen in Daniel and the three Hebrew boys who refused to pollute themselves with the 'king's meat'. It is wrong to eat of the meat.
Na wa o

Which diety please?

Im a born again spirit filled tongue blating chrstian and im going to eat one tomorrow.

Islam as well as christianity are religion and they are both man made.

In the kingdom of GOD religion does not exist and in the book of life there wil be no names of christians ir muslims but the redeemed by the blood of Jesus.

Muslims pray to Jehovah called ALLAH in arabic so which diety are we talking about other than the same Jehovah.

The only miss for the muslim is not believing that Jesus died for them too which is saddening.

You can practise islam all your life and stil make paradise if you accept Jesus as your lord and saviour.

God is not concerened whether you die as a christian or muslim but only cobcerened with you accepting Jesus and confessing that he is your savuour.

John 3:16 sums it up that WHOSOEVER BELIEVES .

Please note that muslims even worship Jehovah better than some chriatians.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 11:15pm On Oct 04, 2014
Sagamite:
So you are basically telling girls not to love a guy but they should just love the way the guy loves them? undecided
As far as i know,no guy will understand ehat i wrote except ladies and this is why i specifically directed it to the ladies.

See guy,there is always a tilt in the scale of affection between a man and woman.

It is rarely balanced and one must love more than the other and its better for the lady if the guy has a stronger desire.

This is my point.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 9:16pm On Oct 04, 2014
Chinom:
That's because you are Cross eyed grin You dey quote Joenice, but replying to me. You no wear your glasses ?.
undecided
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 6:49pm On Oct 04, 2014
Joenice:
I feel you need to be examined for an eye-problem. I select what I read on this social online community and I don't have luxury of time to read all comments. You probably have more than one username and so you questioned my accuracy. Whether i am right or wrong, the truth is what i focused on and it shouldn't be cajoled. A rolling stone gathers no moss.
Something funny is goin on o.

My post was surppose to be for chinom but na joenice dey answer.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 4:04pm On Oct 04, 2014
Joenice:
I completely concur. Truly, some of these women are just inept when it comes to knowing what marriage really is, simply because they've been deluded in school. What really saddens me is their misconception about relationships. They need proper enlightenments. In spite of that, some women are good. Example is here on this online community, some ladies are intelligent, spontaneous and well-articulated and i really admire them but won't disclose their usernames in order not to make them feel like queen of the castle :-)
Oh gosh,i was thinking you are a female all this while.

Now i understand why you missed it totally.

Only a lady will understand my standview.

But i atill ask you. Are you married and as per the age only if you are above 40 then you are truly older but if you are younger than that then your age ascertion is wrong.

Nevertheless you mis-construe my write up totally.

What makes a man maltreat his wife? What makes a man take a second wife? What makes a man philanders about?

Simple answer. He does not have strong feeling of affection towards his wife and pls read all my write up again and u will bdstnd clrly that a lady is genetically made to love a man suffix to say develop strong feeling for a man if she is treated like a queen so invariably she will end up havn strng feelings for the man.

But as i wrote bfore,only a lady will catch that drift
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 3:12pm On Oct 04, 2014
Chinom:
In any case, i'm much older than you, more experienced than you and KNOW women a lot more than you. Your "Sound" advice is a camouflage for men who are actually begging women to give them a chance despite the fact that the woman is neither attracted to them nor have strong feelings for them. Sorry, i cannot see how such a marriage will last. Except the couple decide to stick together in misery for the sake of the children.

A woman should have STRONG feelings for her husband. sometimes much more than the man has for her.
Women can be funny.

I asked a simple question but you are replying with so much adrenaline.

I never asked if you pass for my mum but only wanted ro five a response based on that threshold.

You really need to calm down because this beer parlour response of yours is totally uncalled for.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 1:55pm On Oct 04, 2014
alutacontinua:
cry cry cry
I wish you the best! sad
Thanks dear
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 1:54pm On Oct 04, 2014
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alutacontinua:
This post deserves a standing ovation!
I still don't get how women claim to 'love' men that treat them like trash.
Btw, @toks, is your wifey back?
Please, tell me yes embarassed
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 1:51pm On Oct 04, 2014
Chinom:
A relationship based on the bolded is doomed to fail. Not to mention a marriage. Women are not wired like that. Your ' candid advice' simply sounds good to the ears. it is an utopia. It can never work in a real marriage. Even amongst animals it does not work.
Most female species choose and decide who they want to mate with. They choose who will be the father of their offsprings. A woman who has no strong feelings for a man will not be willing to have sex with the man. Without sex, no children.
Women like to be blown away by their man. They can only let a man take charge if they have strong feelings for the man.

For a man, [b]"all cats are grey in the dark" [/b]But for a woman, that's not the case. You get my drift here / !
I can see you only assimilated some section of that write up without comprehending some cogent points.

Have you watched beauty and the beast? Please go n do rhat.

Except you are not a lady but trust me,any true lady will fall for a beat who treats her like a queen,like a jewel even if you had no dotty feeling for him in the first place and the cutest man on earth will look uglier than a beast if he treats you like a real dung.
Thats my point.

You will eventually have feelings for a man who cherishes u if only you give him the chance. Trust me on this.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 1:45pm On Oct 04, 2014
alutacontinua:
This post deserves a standing ovation!
I still don't get how women claim to 'love' men that treat them like trash.
Btw, @toks, is your wifey back?
Please, tell me yes embarassed
Lol! Honestly i hav put her case behind me as it seems she just wants to be a staller.

She is not sure of what she wants so just pray for her just as pastor chris asks us to pray for her zodiacmate ANITA Oyakhilome
(Ladies born within feb 20 and march 21)
Most Piscean ladies have that funny nature of been melodramatic in their relationship and matrimony and im unperturbed. When i see the right woman,i move on.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 1:36pm On Oct 04, 2014
Chinom:
A relationship based on the bolded is doomed to fail. Not to mention a marriage. Women are not wired like that. Your ' candid advice' simply sounds good to the ears. it is an utopia. It can never work in a real marriage. Even amongst animals it does not work.
Most female species choose and decide who they want to mate with. They choose who will be the father of their offsprings. A woman who has no strong feelings for a man will not be willing to have sex with the man. Without sex, no children.
Women like to be blown away by their man. They can only let a man take charge if they have strong feelings for the man.

For a man, [b]"all cats are grey in the dark" [/b]But for a woman, that's not the case. You get my drift here / !
How old are you?

Are you married?

Please answer these questions before i continue.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 10:11am On Oct 04, 2014
samflex:
That pregnancy trick tho, escaped it twice already....girls are not smiling
Meaning two abortions i guess. Sorry for u.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 10:08am On Oct 04, 2014
cococandy:
See question grin
Abi nah. When you say all the time i begin wonder.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 8:46am On Oct 04, 2014
cococandy: Cosigned. Stamped and fingerprinted by me!

If a man isn't crazy about me,I can't be with him.
Worked for me all the time. All the time.
All the time?, like how many times?
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 7:25am On Oct 04, 2014
This is my candid advice for the young eoman out there who still probably have time talking about ladies of 25yrs or below.

I keep telling ladies and when i write things like this it seems im stupid or i too know.

Marrying a man is not about your feelings towards him but his feelings towards you and its not about six packs,tall height,cute looks or even the cheese in his pocket.

A lady needs a man that will truly cherish her and every other thing is secondary and if you think i am blabbing,go do your research and you will realize that no matter how you think you love a guy,if he treats you like serious shit,that love you have for him will fly through the window.

It really matters to like the man in your life i know but trust me,if that man treats you well and i mean like a real queen,i give you a short while and you will wake up one day to realize how deeply you have fallen for him too even if he is a short fat ugly guy..Please think deep before falling for that sweet tongue guy.

As a lady,you an an endangered specie in this cruel world of man and your love for a man is so insignificant if he does not love you and your strong desire for a guy who does not truly desire you is the greatest mistake you will ever make.

The most unfortunate twist to this is that most ladies know a ,man who truly loves and cherishes them but they are always like "Tunde loves me i know but i don't love him" and she ends up with a man that will treat her like plague so i keep wondering that if ladies will only go for a guy who truly cherishes them, we will have many ladies settling down fast and will also have a very very low rate of divorce.

Be with a man who have strong feelings for you and not the one you have strong feelings for.

I can't stress this enough.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 6:56am On Oct 04, 2014
Ojizy1: i remembered when i was 19 years and i was dating a lady of 32..she don't even care whether am 19..she wanted us to get married i had to run for my life
Show me one matured lady who says she does not need a man in her life and i eill show you a disillusioned hypocritical fool.

That is the way GOD has made us,when its time to get married,we must feel incomplete until we find a partner.

Many ladies who say they dont need a man will still end up keeping male compaby,chT with male friends and even get laid yet will be singing "i dont need a man" who is fooling who?
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 6:52am On Oct 04, 2014
Even more disheartening is yhe fact that the few married ones are quick to hop out of their marriage and i just marvel.

Please help me ask them. Is it these set of scarce men the never married ladies are clamouring for that they also want to pick from after divorcing their hubby?

Honestly it is a sad situation.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 6:47am On Oct 04, 2014
victorv12: Nigeria women has suffered...Poverty of the mind has finished them all. They go all out when they need a man to settle with. They're too desperate!
And i can bet most of them probably have had ample opportunity to settle down in the past but their crazy high standard as regards the criteria they want in a man probably detered them.

Until our Nigerian ladies learn to love for the right reason,this menance will continue.
FamilyRe: The Things Nigerian Women Do To Find Husbands(Men Beware) by Toks2008(m): 6:43am On Oct 04, 2014
Isaiah 4:1 New International Version (NIV)

1 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”
CultureRe: Blood Money: How Real Is It: Share Ur Stories. by Toks2008(m): 10:36pm On Oct 03, 2014
kenjava20: The love of money is the root of all evil, so says the Bible. This aphorism aptly captures the experience of a 20-year-old man, Agu Nwanu, who said he delved into voodoo practices and money ritual in a bid to get rich by all means.

Nwanu told the reporter that at the peak of his foray into voodooism, he, alongside a traditional priest, slaughtered 11 young virgins for money rituals at a village in Ebonyi State. According to him, right from his childhood, he had made up his mind to serve the devil in order to become rich.

He took the decision, he noted, as a 15-year-old young lad in his village in Ebonyi State. Agu’s reason for insisting on serving the devil was that his father, who served God all his life was also poor all his life.

Said he: “When I was growing up, I never wanted to be as poor as my father. I had wanted to become not just rich but very wealthy. I reasoned that I had to serve the devil in order to become very wealthy. I believed that my father was afflicted by abject poverty because he had faithfully served God. I had believed that by serving Satan, I would be very rich, build mansions and ride big cars, as I have learnt that many wealthy persons got their money by serving the devil. So, I was determined to do money rituals too so as to hit it big.

“At 15, I began to practise paganism, I would go into the bush in the village, clear a spot, gather some stones and put some leaves on them. I would then pour oil on the stones and then kneel down to worship the objects.

I also was desirous to know the devil. I was very curious about him. I was asking everyone around about powerful native men, who could link me to the devil. I wanted to meet with him, tell him that I wanted to be very rich at all cost.”

Indeed, a few years later, Nwanu came by powerful native doctors, who introduced him into various ways of doing money rituals. “I began to meet with different native doctors, who were asking for some items as requirements for money rituals.

“The items included dogs, fowls, hairs and parts of human beings as well as some other things needed for the rituals. These items were mixed together and eventually, I started making money. That was how I was able to sponsor myself in secondary school as well as feed and clothe myself. In spite of all these, I wasn’t yet satisfied, as I was still living with my uncle.

“I was thirsty for good money. I once got introduced to a powerful native doctor, who assured that he could help me to become very wealthy on certain conditions. He said I had to get married and begin to make babies, as my wife and children would be useful in sustaining the money rituals. The man also told me that I was also too young then because I was barely 20 years old.

“He advised me to do the rituals when I turned 25. I didn’t like the conditions he gave, so, I decided to seek for help elsewhere and I got it.

“In January this year, I was introduced to another powerful native doctor in Ebonyi State. I had to travel all the way from Lagos to Ebonyi to meet with the man. I disguised as a middle-aged man to forestall a possibility of the man, dismissing me as too young. The native doctor turned out to be a priest to a deity believed to be the god of money.

“At the priest’s place, I was asked to speak with an invisible deity, who spoke to me in a guttural voice. He demanded the heads of seven female virgins, babies preferably. Though I was stunned at its demand, I was ready to do whatever needed to be done. I indicated my readiness but said I didn’t have the means of getting the babies since I was not used to the place.

“The priest offered to help and took me to some motherless babies’ homes and hospitals in the state. At first, the owners of the homes and hospitals asked for N400, 000 for each baby but we haggled and beat the price to N70, 000 for each.

“We eventually got seven babies even though we didn’t make all the payment. The priest made arrangement with the authorities of the motherless babies’ home to secretly bring the babies to his shrine in order to prevent a possible encounter with the police.

‘‘Once the priest got the items, he asked me to go into a room where he had lodged me. So, the next day, he invited me to his shrine and there I saw blood and human remains splattered all over the premises of his shrine and I concluded that he must have used those babies for the rituals.

“The priest then handed some charms to me and instructed me to return to Lagos. He said I should observe a dry fast for seven days and nights. He also instructed me strongly against having anything to do with women. He specifically said I should not allow a woman touch me or talk to me. This, to him, would preserve the potency of the juju.

“I was overwhelmed with great joy and made a strong decision to obey the priest’s instruction to the letter. But before I boarded the bus en route to Lagos from the Ebonyi motor park, an unknown woman called out to me and followed me in spite of my blunt refusal to give her audience. The lady succeeded in touching me before I got rid of her.

“Instantly, the charm I was given got broken. I ran back to the priest and was dumfounded with what he said. He said the lady that accosted me had ruined the charm because she was in her menstrual period when she touched me.

“I would have been punished severely for spoiling the charm but the deity had a soft spot for me and gave me a second and last chance. I was to do another charm with another seven virgins, four males and three females. My failure to get the additional seven virgins in three days, he said, would result in my death.

“By that time, I had spent almost all I had on me. I had only N43, 000 left. I had paid N400, 000 as part payment for the earlier ritual. So, I pleaded with the priest to assist me and he contacted some kidnappers in the state.

“He invited them to have a chat with me and the kidnappers said I was fortunate to approach them at that time because they had four virgins whom they had fetched for a client that didn’t need them any more, as another set of kidnappers he also contacted had gotten the virgins for him. So, the priest and I pleaded with the kidnappers to give me the four virgins on credit. I gave them N40,000. We promised to pay the outstanding money after the second ritual.

“Actually, the money was ready and stacked in many polythene bags and they were shown to me. But the deity had warned that I shouldn’t touch the money since the charm was already spoilt. The other seven virgins were to be used to placate the spirit behind the money so that anyone, who touched it would not be severely punished.

“Considering my situation, the priest pleaded with the deity to accept the four virgins that we eventually got from the kidnappers and the ritual of appeasement was done. After that, I was asked to come back to Lagos and wait for seven months.

“I was instructed to struggle to survive by doing odd jobs within those seven months so that I would have gathered enough experience that would enable me spend the money prudently. As the ritual of appeasement on the money was done, a paper on which my name was written fell from the ceiling.

“There was a message, congratulating and welcoming me to the club of billionaires. On that note, I returned to Lagos. As the earlier instructions about abstaining from women were passed to me, I did my best to abstain from women for the seven days of the dry fasting. I ensured this by locking myself up in the house and coming out only in the midnight to get fresh air.

“But shortly after the fasting, I had an encounter with a member of The Lord’s Chosen Charismatic Revival Movement.

“The man preached to me and we became friends. I agreed to go to church with him one day and after the church service, the presiding pastor, Brother Anapeto Peter, ministered to me and prayed with me. It was there that I received Christ and renounced my evil ways.

“Since then, I’ve been having an inexplicable peace of mind. I have asked God to forgive me for my past atrocities. I will never go back for the money, as I have given up everything for God to rule my life. I have realised that I was just being deceived by the satanic priest and his deity.”

Via: The Sun/Naij.com
super story for the gods.
PoliticsRe: Why Can't APC Present Fashola As Presidential Candidate by Toks2008(m): 2:53pm On Oct 03, 2014
Fashola may not win because of his over zealousness in the past 4years.


Nevertheless, as a quote states:

No electoral malpractice can overshadow the mandate of the majority except they allow it,and until every electorate understands that political office holders are like job seekers and their employers are the electorates.

If we employ them with our votes and they impress us,we can always retain them and if they disappoint us, we can always sack them with our votes without any form of sentiment.

Until you and i understand that we hold the key to change in this country with our collective mandate and pave a better tomorrow for our unborn children,we may never ever move forward.

Olabode Akorede
CelebritiesRe: Photos Of Desmond Elliot's Campaign In Surulere by Toks2008(m): 2:29pm On Oct 03, 2014
Now i can see why it will be very difficult for Nigeria to move ahead.

Fine i also do not like the gate crashing nature of these celebrities into politics and i am also a politician who decides to start from the grassroot.

Nevertheless we should give them our support. We the youths must start this journey if we want change to occur in this country.

Lets stop making mockery of their decision and support them morally and of-course with our mandate.
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Experience Love At First Sight? by Toks2008(m): 2:08pm On Oct 03, 2014
There is nothing like love at first sight but strong admiration at first sight probably if the person has some outward qualities you like.
CelebritiesRe: Taiwo Of Singing Duo Oshadipe Twins Dies by Toks2008(op): 1:55pm On Oct 03, 2014
Sometimes i sit and wonder what is the use of all this baseless hatred,enmity,bitterness,rancor when all we have in this world is far less than an hour in God's sight for a thousand years in this world is just one day with GOD.2 (Peter 3:cool.

Lets all embrace the love of Christ and live every minute of our lives as though that is the last time we have on earth. There is no point in dieing except if you make it to the kingdom of GOD else, its a waste.
CelebritiesTaiwo Of Singing Duo Oshadipe Twins Dies by Toks2008(op): 1:47pm On Oct 03, 2014
One half of singing duo Oshadipe Twins, Taiwo, is dead.

She reportedly died in the early hours of Friday in Lagos. The cause of death has not been made public. Taiwo was married and just gave birth to her first child in July 2013.

The twin sisters started as child musical starlets but later delved into acting. Details later…

Rest in peace dear. Gone too soon.

http://africanspotlight.com/2014/10/03/taiwo-singing-duo-oshadipe-twins-dies/
FamilyRe: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Toks2008(m): 6:27am On Oct 03, 2014
It is in the genetic make up of women to marry a man who could be already married. Thats just the way it is but for a single man to go after a marriedady is gotally absurd.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry Someone Who Has A Child? by Toks2008(m): 11:26am On Oct 02, 2014
Any body cqn lqrry qnybody irrespective of your stqtus as a single parent.

Though its more likely that a lady with a child outof wedlock may end up as a second wife or a wife of a man that also has a child already.

To create a balance i think a lady who has a child out of wedlock should look forward to marrying a guy in same condition to create a balance so that the guy will not start thinking he is doin the lady a favout.
RomanceRe: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Toks2008(m): 7:55am On Oct 01, 2014
@OP, you can date a broke guy but cant marry one. You are a clueless disillusioned lady.

Anyways,my advice for guys is to make money first before coming near NIGERIA ladies.

If you have your money,most Nigerian chics will be point and kill for you.

My candid take
RomanceRe: 10 Things Guys Do After A Break Up by Toks2008(m): 9:38am On Sep 30, 2014
All these are very true BUT ONLY IF THAT GUY REALLY LOVES THE LADY. Else her name na sorry.
TV/MoviesRe: Geoffrey Crowned Winner Of MTN Project Fame 7.0 by Toks2008(m): 10:46am On Sep 29, 2014
IrishKez: Exactly my take
But then it's viewers like you and me that made that possible for Rukky.
I felt really hurt and nearly cried that Emeka didn't win anything.
It's unbelievable. embarassed
However, am happy for Christian and Clement.
Anytime i hear the hosts say "you can vote as many times as possible"then i just conclude two possibilities.

1. That the outcome must lack credibility because as an individual i could buy a huge rechatge card value and vote a thousand times for my choice even if he or she is not that good.

2.Or probably the voting is a facade and just aploy to generate some cashback for mtn while actual winners are chosen based on real performance.

Whichever way,i was entertained anyways.
PoliticsRe: Why Buhari Should Not Contest? by Toks2008(op): 10:06pm On Sep 28, 2014
Whatever other option asides Buhari or Atiku. Thats my point guy.
PoliticsRe: APC Presidential Aspirants To Pay N27 Million For Forms by Toks2008(m): 2:45pm On Sep 28, 2014
One hand for your waist,one hand for your chest,o ya sekem,sekem,sekem

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