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veralu:
Tiwa, wats up with u and ur guy, u can never be jayz and bey, dis is Africa, naijja 2 be precise, stop dis, its so fake, think of increasing the family, u are 2 old 4 dis na, na wa o

All this teebliz talk na damage control but as long as he remains a wife beater,its only a matter of time before the marriage collapses.

Insiders hav revealed that he beats her up over money sharing issue n i guess that was why Tiwa got another manager.

To all the wife beaters out there,just take this.

T.F.Y

Toks2008:
Dating someone you can not marry is just like sitting for Jamb,gaining admission into the university and going through the stress of studying when you know you can't graduate.

Sounds foolish abi? But its just the same.

If i know there is no possibility of getting married to you,i wont even woo you let alone touch you.

Dating someone you can not marry is just like sitting for Jamb,gaining admission into the university and going through the stress of studying when you know you can't graduate.

Sounds foolish abi? But its just the same.

Habba! Osofia is light years ahead.

So natural and creative in comical speech while saka is kind of eccentric

There was no need to post this. Though she did not portray the guy in bad light but made Google look incompetent in making decisions but then a woman will always be a woman.

http://lindaikeji..com/2014/10/between-linda-ikeji-and-mr-aye-dee-real.html#more

I really feel for the women folk in Nigeria.

A man sees a sweet lady and walks up to her straight up to make his feelings known but a lady especially in Nigeria will not just dare walk up to a guy to express her feelings for him without been seen as cheap.

I want every man reading this to realize that just as we are hoping to hook up with a lady of our spec,in like manner a lady wants the same so why make them feel withdrawn?

A lady will see a guy that matches her dream guy and all she can do is to HOPE the guy walks up to her and if the guy doesn't, she watches the guy leave just like that. So sad.

I think ladies should find a way of initiating conversation in such a situation and if the guy does not see the green light then sorry.

And when they eventually get married, they are supposed to take shits from the guy for fear of been a divorcee and the stigma that comes with it.

Here we are now implying that a man can bleep a woman asides his wife and its just ok while a woman must not make the mistake of getting caught if at all she is practicing and that's just the way it is and there is nothing the women folk can do but to maintain a status quo.

What a pity. GOD help our women.

Mintayo:
Some set of people in the family section do not believe this. Infact they will tell you that prayer cannot solve the problem,neither can the Bible,such is it that they see divorce as the only option!
I once told a lady that,if my wife cheats on me,i am ready to forgive her as long as she tells me why she did it...maybe there is something that i am not doing right!
Some people don't know what it means to be married or stay married,they don't know what it means to be in love or to love someone!
Well,i guess that is why we are different!

I can see you are not getting it and i pray you never find yourself in this situation.

Its easy to lip talk but when faced with the harsh reality you will understand.

Its not in the forgiveness bu the problem lies in the memory. Of-course i can forgive my wife of sexual infidelity but trust me, it cant be the same again.

When i make love to her afterwards i will start thinking, was it that i was not good enough? Could it be that the other guy did it better, even if i handle her bosoms i will start imagining how the other guy sucked it and .. honestly its a terrible thing.

Kudos to GOD on the way he wired ladies that are just ok sharing a man with another woman when a man cant even stand the imagination of his woman been caressed by another man.

And please understand this, the worst one is when you catch her in the act,chai! the picture will never erase from your brain till you grow old and die. you may still get over hear say or her confession.

iiiyyyk:
i can forgive every wrong thing from a wife
but i dont think i can forgive a cheating wife, as much as i will like to do, but i dont think it will be possible.
I won't be able to touch her again.

pls God never allow such thing to come my way.

Th funniest part is that a man can fall in love with a lady that has slept with all the men in this world but devil help you that after he is married to you or commits his love for you and you MISTAKENLY sleeps with another man, that is the end and you may start wondering if you were a virgin when he met you.

bebe2:
I kind of see ur point.

Se-x in marriage is sacred like u said.

Most men will never touch the woman again if they find out they slept wit someone else.

Call it pride or watever u like but the fact is wat drives a woman to infidelity is totally different from wat drives a man.

We will all agree that most men think wiy their pe-nis, once the thing done stand something need to bring am down regardless of the consequences. And most times these actions have no emotional involvement.

Buutttt before woman open leg for another man, e don weigh am, calculate am, manipulate am and decide say its worth doing.

And once she try am once, she go hardly stop am. Even science says there is a certain hormone thats secreted during se-x dats imbibes the memory of the man in her for a very very long time.

So which man wants to be competing with dat??

I am in love with you.

I love intellectually sound ladies. A turn on for me. You just sums up everything.Check! check! check! a thousand likes.

This is why i still feel something for my supposed ex because if there is one thing i can bet anything on, its the fact that she is sexually decent and irrespective of what went down between us, i can not accuse her of sexual infidelity and worse still if she is doing it, as long as i have not discovered then it is non and void but the day i find out that a lady cheats on me sexually with another man,no more story, that is a man for you.

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

Very interesting

Well, lets leave the issue of cultism for now and dwell on his feelings for you. From what you wrote i can sense that he loves you but then if the reason you don't want to be with him is that he is a cultist then give him a life line and that is to leave that group and if he loves you enough,he will do this. Afterall Samsom shaved his source of power for love.

Look here lady, his feelings aside but if you must know, you are not safe dating a cultist and rivals may use you to get even with him if any trouble brews.

This is a serious issue and i would want you to go to the police immediately and file a complaint and let the police invite him and warn him and this i believe will put sanity into his head and you can be peaceful in that campus,

If he was not a cultist i would have advised you differently.

Sincere9gerian:
4. Could it be that you'r the greatest mumu on planet earth?

*just wondering*

I have made a promise never to trade words with low lives and low IQ individuals on nairaland again.

Too bad some people will never learn proper decorun. So unfortunate someone wasted some resources in sending some people to be a docial being.

roxell120:
u will lick ur wounds once again come 2015

Which wound you sustain?

MarshRiley:
I really feel bad,people are quick to judge and bring down others,our catholic brodaz did all dey could to ridicule the CAN president,now the truth is out
I can't remember any church that courts more anti-christian doctrines and does things that are morally wrong like the catholic church,yet no one judged them....Remove the stone In ur eyes before removing the speck of dust in ur brothers eyes

Oh my GOD.

I have ben wondering about so many issues concerning this siezed 9.7m usd and i cant shake off these questions.

1.Could it be that the federal government actually purchased that jet for the CAN president because i dont see where he can get money to buy such considering his financial prowess.

2.Could it be that the fed government have been using this clergy jet to smuggle out our money ofcourse with a ready document to back the act incase they are found out?

3,Could it be that pres Zuma of south Africa have had a secret pally with Jonathan to save the fed government of Nigeria this big shame hence bringing out he new story for the gods?

*Just wondering*

Ochek:
Perhaps I am since I don't belong to APC abi?

O gosh! is this about party or facts on ground.

Toks2008:
When i see how gullible our youths are i tend to weep for this country.

Why are we so easily deceived? Definitely the diplomatic ties between Jonathan and Zuma must have paved way for this new story for the gods.

The point still remains that the total process was wrong and a violation of the money laundry act so why cant we call blue blue and be true to ourselves.

Over N5tn in government funds have been stolen through fraud, embezzlement and theft since President Goodluck Jonathan assumed office on May 6, 2010, a SUNDAY PUNCH investigation has found.

Everybody oya o solve mathmatics

oya carry biro

1000million makes 1 billion
1000Billion makes 1 trillion
1 trillion will be 1 billion in 5000 places

Graduates are dying of stampede trying to write a mare text for an unsure employment
Youths are suffering due to poverty and unemployment

And some youths are here singing praises for a corrupt government

*Weeps*


http://www.punchng.com/news/n5tn-stolen-under-jonathan-investigation/

waternogetenemy:
See their mouth now... Be proud of ur country and don't let APC lead u astray....


GEJ till 2019! Guy i dey feel ur Presidency Oooo!



I know fit lie!

When i see how gullible our youths are i tend to weep for this country.

Why are we so easily deceived? Definitely the diplomatic ties between Jonathan and Zuma must have paved way for this new story for the gods.

The point still remains that the total process was wrong and a violation of the money laundry act so why cant we call blue blue and be true to ourselves.

Over N5tn in government funds have been stolen through fraud, embezzlement and theft since President Goodluck Jonathan assumed office on May 6, 2010, a SUNDAY PUNCH investigation has found.

Ochek:
Now, were are all those kicking left, right and centre. Blabbing all they can with their insulting e-tongues on my President? Hope you will be quick to take back your words like you were quick to let them loose?

#TeamGEJ2015

Are you this gullible?

sean079:
Bros U ain't lying is even 10 out of 10 coz am living example. I can't believe I'll cheat on my fiance , I can't imagine dat happening to me. Even d girl in questions would be telling me am cheating on my girl n I always feel my conscience is stabbing me. How I wish ladies will understand how men were created by the creator

You see. sometimes when i write people think i do that out of my kind of person but do you know i never cheated on my lady since the day i met her 12 years ago and the day we parted last year? Yet i did not shy away from the truth that 9 outta 10 guys will cheat on their ladies yet i have never done such.


So thanks for buttressing my opinion jare.

enkay4love:
[color=#990000][/color]. Yes..agreed that Akwa Ibom was an offshoot of Cross River in '87,so does that still make them Efiks,rather than the Ibibios that they are,after 27 yrs of seperation? Anyways,carry out a thorough research on the morality of Calabar women & u'll realise that the true born Calabar women are'nt as promiscous as u think,rather it's non-indegenes claiming Calabar indegened are the promisquity pros.So much about Calabar women promisquity,am tired!

I think i will ask Seun to get a way to add a cane or slap e-monition because i am honestly pissed at the way some Nairalanders discuss some isues.

FIRST I NEVER USED THE WORD PROMISCUOUS BUT HIGH SEXUAL LIBIDO

This is not a crime and i have one too,its just in the gene and of-course whether they are now efik or whatever,its a gene thing dont you get it.

I will beat you o.

dhammyg:
ABSOLUTE CRAP
MY NEIGHBOUR A DIVORCEE WITH 3KIDS GOT MARRIED LAST YEAR.PEOPLE LIKE U KEEP TELLING THIS SORT OF LIES TO WOMEN TO KEEP THEM IN BAD MARRIAGES



TO ALL U MEN MAD AT BEREM.THE TRUTH MUST REALLY HURT PAINED NIGGAZ.UNFAITHFUL MEN BE LOOKING FOR FAITHFUL GIRLS

I totally agree with you but there is usually a kinda balanced situation and i will state the fillowing IN MY OPINION


1.A divorced lady without a child has a good chance of hooking up in marriage with a single guy but a better chance with another divorced guy without any child or never married guy with child(ren)

2.A divorced lad with children has a very slim chance of marrying a single guy except she has money to trap the opportunist but a better chance to marry a widower with children or a divorced man with children

3. divorced man has a great chance to be with a virgin lady or with any woman as long as he is able to win her love.

enkay4love:
[color=#990000][/color]. Who told u Calabar babes luv sex too much? & who decieved u that Ini is from Calabar?u peeps shuld always verify ur details b4 spewing ur assumptions.Am from Calabar & ur generalization does'nt apply to me. Point of correction,INI is from Akwa Ibom & not Calabar,got that!!

Lol you make me laugh. Maybe youwere born in the 90s.Let me educate you a bit. In 1987, Ibrahim Babangida's military government carved Akwa Ibom State out of Cross River

All these new states are confusing many people, ekiti was part of ondo and akwa ibom was also calved out of cross river which has its capital at Calabar so Calabar has always been used to generalize people from that region.

So that is small enlightenment for you before you begin yab me.

Furthermore, there will always be an exception to every rule but when you do random sampling and 80% sampling tilts towards a conclusive evidence then we are llowed to assume all.

sarutobie:
where did you get such a fallacious statistics that every 9 out of 10 men will cheat on their spouse? that is why I called the whole write up bullshit..

Now you are communicating so let me be modest and say 8 out of 10

sauceny:
So,what are you implying,that what she did is a welcomed development that needs an applause or what¿

A friend of mine way back got her number & did her that same day,she kept pestering my friend,he had to run for his life before babe would kill him with sex.

Are you referring to same ini edo?

sarutobie:
BULLSHIT

Habba, don't always give a dull impression about yourself. When you use such low life word i believe you should buttress your assertion. Don't you think so.

I guess it wil be intellectually reasonable to state why you think its a bull poo

cococandy:
You also have the patience of a saint

I think i do but i had to learn it.

1stola:
A loosened toto has no value AND CAN HARDLY BEAR FRUIT, its like lock that can be opened with any key.

Is there any womanliness that is not loosed except probably the one you opened by yourself and also kept to yourself.

Any lady you meet as a non virgin is already loosed and could have been with as many guys as possible.

How are we sure that this lady is that loosed even if she cheated on her guy?

Which guy wil even marry a lady and base abroad without finding a way to make her be with him at least regularly even if she has to fly back to shoot movies.

I blame her for cheating IF IT IS TRUE but i also blame the guy for been lackadaisical in giving too much space.

If my wife ever cheats on me, it will not be because of sex deprivation,Never because i am very monogamous by nature and will give her full dose but when you deprive a young sexy lady like ini edo long time sex wettin you expect.

Ondo,Ekiti and calabar ladies love sex so much so if you are married to these ladies please don't give too much space o. They have very high libido.

Googlr it.

berem:
When a man cheats, they say its a man's world and men are polygamous in nature. When a woman cheats,all hell let loose and she's called a sort of names and she's even thrown out of her matrimonial home.

Ini Edo,its time to move on babes. Life must surely go on!

Let me advice every lady reading this.

I am not an advocate of men cheating on their wives but please, the moment you get married,expect that guy to cheat on you. 9 out of 10 guys will cheat on you even if you are the most sexy lady in the world. Hard to take but the truth is that a randy man will be a randy man and there is nada you can do about that and trust me, if you keep changing men from now till eternity, you are almost likely to experience same situation

The best bet is to tel him if you suspect anything to do it far away from your notice and that is the best way he can show respect to you and don't ever think of getting even because that shame will be yours and he can send you packing and that will be even a greater disgrace for you.

Always see other ladies trying to sleep with your man as clueless,hopeless and frustrated attention seekers.

Ladies should stop this competition as regards man cheating as a prerequisite for them to do same.

A lady is wired to be chaste,monogamous and guys naturally are polygamous in nature and any man that remains faithful to you alone is a rare breed.

Please stop this baseless comparison.

berem:
When a man cheats, they say its a man's world and men are polygamous in nature. When a woman cheats,all hell let loose and she's called a sort of names and she's even thrown out of her matrimonial home.

Ini Edo,its time to move on babes. Life must surely go on!

See advice.Chai!

Now look at this thread concerning ini edo

https://www.nairaland.com/1934564/ini-edo-busted-in-law-over

A s we can see, she was sent packing because of adultery accusation and can you imagine that just based on accusation which could be totally false,she is labelled bad and sent out of her matrimony and all he did was go to the bride's parent to collect the bride price he paid.

Now if they ever had a legal marriage, it will take just more than lip accusation to treat her this way and that guy will have to come up with good evidence to prove that she was indeed guilty of the act.

Cant we see that the importance of legal marriage can't be over emphasized?

It is not about the fact that legal marriage will force two people to be together not at all but it will give credibility to the union so that when you part,it will be for a strong reason and not mere accusation or speculation.