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InvertedHammer:
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It is amazing that monthly rent in UK is just 400 Pounds Sterling for everyone and everywhere.
Then the rest is for feeding, transportation and miscellaneous only.

What rabbit hole do you live in? What planet do you live in?

You already calculated her living expenses even when more information about her was not provided in the article.

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Are you that dumb to undrstand that my illustration is for someone who earns around £1500?

wirinet:
I hope you have learnt not to discard that Nnamdi Kanu is dead, and the person on trial in Abuja is a double according to aunty Kemi.

It is easy to make reference to her failed report whilst ignoring many that were true. Even news papers carry false report so what is the point.

My point is clear so don't make it look as if i don't empathize with the family of the boy..i just choose to be objective rather than getting emotionally sentimental.

Golan007:
I agree but I still insist 18k a year for a single guy is quite small.

15k a month would mean take home of 1320 pounds a month.

Rent even in Coventry or Newbury would be about 650 for the lowest.

Then you Transport, feed, pay for mod cons.

Oh boy, na suffer.

Guy i tire for you o. 1500 afer tax is ok and even 1300 after tax is ok. If you are not prudent even 50k a year wont be ok for you.

Golan007:
In what part of UK 18K a year great?

It is optional.

iF You are still single you can live in London but if you are a family man you should opt for outside London where you can get a bigger and more convenient apartment for a family life and your spouse must be ready to share bills with you.

In UK nothing like ''the man must provide all'

thebosstrevor1:
You know what i meant clearly.

Council flat = public housing.

Answer my question, if a bus driver in the uk can afford a 2022 model toyota Camry car by just putting in 100 pounds,then why are most of these people living in public housing?

You still don't understand council houses.

Anybody can apply if you don't see the need to pay too much on private rent cos you can still buy a house from the council.

it is a matter of choice. You have this naija mentality of living large cos you have the money. life is about prudence.

thebosstrevor1:
They don't.

It is a shift job not a full time job, some bus company pay as low as 11 pounds per hour while some pay 15 pounds per hour.

i wont argue this further.

Sammyashol:
That's all they want, they want us to get tired, from extending the time frame of the panel to delaying and trying to frustrate the efforts of the panel to the extent of brutalizing one of the testifiers against the government at the judicial panel, Because they know when they play all their tactics most of us might have gotten tired but that's where they got it wrong, we are of the coconut head generation, we ain't backing down, whatever they might try to do, 2023 is around the corner, we need to keep sensitizing everyone around us to get their PVC and not to fall prey of this devilish and blood sucking demons again come 2023! We will not be silenced � #NoJusticeNoPeace #SoroSoke

PVC is useless with these people. Buhari has refused to sign the electoral Bill which is the only way we can have hope that our votes will count.

thebosstrevor1:
33k is great in the Uk

But a bus driver doesn't collect 33k per annum

They do.

It ranges from 27k to 33k depending on the city, the type of bus and so on.

thebosstrevor1:
Keep typing what you don't know

If a bus driver can afford 2022 model, then why are most of these people living in council flats, depending on government for support

See your life! See your reasoning. What do you even understand by council flat. Guy stop showcasing your ignorance biko.

Golan007:
33k isn't great in UK.

Nonsense talk. Mind you they can still do another job cos bus drivers don't work round he clock and they have a very flexible working duration.

But with 33k, you will leave a good life and even save good money if you don't go beyond your means.

thebosstrevor1:
So which movie did you watch this from??

So a bus driver in the uk can afford a toyota camry 2019 model??

Fyi, most bank managers in Nigeria can afford that car in a year.

If bus drivers are respected in the Uk, then there won't be instances of kids shouting, been abusive or spitting on bus drivers.

Toyota Camry 2019 is too low. They can easily afford 2022 model and guess what, they don't have to pay at once which is a very good thing unlike the suffer head we do in naija which is why corruption is on the rise.

With as little as £100 a month you can get a brand new tear rubber(Not fairly used) car of any brand you want.

InvertedHammer:
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By the time a bus driver finishes paying her bills in London, she will be praying to God to be able to relocate to Nigeria on half of a professor's salary in Nigeria.

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Ignorant people everywhere writing what they know nothing about. The UK system is so organized that except you go beyond your means, you will always have enough to save after expenses.

An average salary in UK is £1500 and with about £1k you will live a life many Nigerians dream of.

£400 for accommodation which includes Electricity bill 24/7 supply...high speed 5G uninterrupted access to the internet with full video streaming 24/7....Gas bill...water and council tax even if you have to share some amenities

£300 for feeding and i mean feeding like a prince.

£180 for transportation if you go out often.

£120 for miscellaneous.

You will still be left with £500 savings which is about 400k in naira.


If you now have a spouse and you want to live in a bigger apartment you can do that and because they usually share bills in UK you will still be left with good savings each month except you do pass yourself and of course many people earn more than £1500 after tax.

You lot should stop writing nonsense.

Skyfornia:
Who should we blame? Her country or herself??

By the way, why is our female footballers not making money like our female celebrities?? No endorsements etc, meanwhile the big brother housemates and Nollywood actresses are buying properties like undies.

Something is wrong

Do you know how much Bus drivers make in U.K? They make about £33,000 (About N25M) per annum.

She is living a great life.

Sammyashol:
airmark

lalasticlala

Seun

Toks2008

See i am just fed up with the story.

I have created a thread about it and there is no denying that indeed there was a massacre because some police men actually came in to mix with the army so even if the army claimed they only fired blanks, what about the police that also joined in the shooting?

The government will bury the truth by all means and because they are in power, they will surely succeed but they can never bury the truth in our minds and only satanic, evil minded blood sucking generations of Lucifer will agree with the government.

CHoccolaTE:
@bold, una too dey lie for this nairaland. Why you come add fisi for the explanation? You could have made your point about how female orgasm is complex without telling that lie.

I am not sure you are a lady cos if you are, you should know better that ladies have very strange sexuality.

Dimmatic:
I done catch you, so u are the person that replied to my comment on this issue on Gistlovers post

Who be dis? and who is Gistlover?

Ganbite:
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Bros check and balance nah, is that news needed at this time when the parent are still mourning the pain in their heart... can anyone do that to her own child and scout free, even if the boy is willing to join, can she reason on the verge of duress, that he had no choice than to join due to the fact that beaten and threatning is too high

This is exactly the sentiment i was referring to.

When it comes to investigative journalism there are no sentiments. Some kids have been arrested and ''IF'' what Kemi said is true then it just might change the narrative thereby altering the type of judgement the kids will get.

Hope you get it. We all feel the pains of the family but we must always dissociate sentiments and emotions from reality.

You guys are just too sentimental for my liking.

You see this lady ehn, i have learned never to discard whatever she says even if it sounds foolish. I am not saying she is right or wrong neither am i insinuating that what happened to the poor boy regardless of whether he consented or not is justified but we must understand that ''mad'' people in many instances are usually right about what they see or say. So whilst some people tag her mad, her past findings have proved to be true in most cases.

suratwo62:
If you no know sometin no spoil am. Even Sha Rukh Kahn, Priyinka Choprice, Salman Khan and many Indians dey chop rice with okro.

You are an Alien.

Exposescammers:
Please how is north Cyprus is it as bad as that. My brother came back after 5 years with nothing to show for his struggle. He couldn’t buy a car at all. Naso e bad reach for there? Anyone with similar experience or something to say about that island

North Cyprus is worse than Nigeria.

I have not been there but I have friends there.

Infact a friend was discussing this with me this morning and he described the place in a very derogatory manner.

aribisala0:
Clearly you do not understand English or logic
Being young is not what makes you satisfy a woman
It helps but if you have not learnt what to do it is not a gamechanger.

It is not just about climbing on top and going backward and forward.
You need to get yourself out of this mindset that good sex is a sporting activity
Many studies have shown that 80% of women DO NOT have have orgasm during penetrative sex

There are many lesbian women with high libido who are not interested in men whether young or old and they are fine.
Whatever a lesbian woman can do to give an orgasm does not require a penis
There are many women with high libido who can ONLY orgasm by masturbation
If a woman has a so called high libido. One partner may no be enough whether young or old. Some women like threesomes of even more People are different.

So when you just start talking as if there is one cap for everyone I know you have learnt what you think you know from porn films.
Reality is different . Women are complex and many of them have complex sexuality , sometimes they want to be with other women, sometimes they want to rough handled and other times they want toys

It is only an immature man that believes he can own a woman or satisfy a woman sexually for ever. After a while they will get bored no matter how good you are . Just like with men women don't want to eat ogbono everyday no matter how good you are at some point she will know all your moves
They are just better at pretending

No be mouth I sabi women. I go school for dia matter

You get sense.

This is why i laugh at ignorant guys boasting about extra big dick and so on. How naïve they are. I have a lady friend who told me she enjoys getting fingered than having normal penetrative sex.

Only foolish men boast of the ability to please a woman sexually cos a woman is the most complex sexual creation of GOD. No matter how good you may be, just ask a lady how she loves to be sexually satisfied else you may just be fooling yourself thinking you are satisfying her.

Speaktruth88:
Speak for yourself my guy. Not all of us dey use kpekus like dog

You are still a kid.

cafolu:
First you ask if she was insane when she married a polygamous man; then you immediately decide that 'una' dey condemn polygamy and finally summarize that no lady is married to a polygamous man. Is it that no woman in a polygamous marriage is a lady? If yes, what about the men and what has being a lady got to do with a decision to get divorced?
@ the bold: Stand one place let us know the problem. What exactly is your point? You appear to be the one actually fooling yourself.

Sorry typo.

I meant to write monogamous.

Every man is polygamous. The one who claims to be monogamous is either too broke to be with other ladies or just fooling himself cos if the chance presents itself he will sleep with another lady.

Polygamy is not just about a man being with many wives but as long as a man sleeps with another lady who is not his wife, he is a polygamist.

cafolu:
So just because of divorce abi separation, a woman now lacks character, has become empty and has nothing to offer? So someone cannot leave a marriage, a polygamous one for that matter? Are you sure the man she was married to doesn't have problems she got tired of managing? Make una no dey insult women o! It's not a crime to be female please! How you can just comfortably insult a perfect stranger you know absolutely nothing about and have no personal relationship with whatsoever is just plain crazy.

Was she insane when she married a polygamous man in the first place?

Any small thing una go don dey condemn polygamy. The man she cheated with (If true) possibly has other ladies so what do you call that?

Stop fooling yourself... No lady is married to a monogamous man.

baralatie:
Well
Life goes on!
She is now free to do whatever she wants but the guy that was promising her the world has also run,ran away .
Stay away from alakoba boys

Alakoba boys are the type of guys many ladies desire.

It is like a curse for many of them.

Wiseandtrue:
no one can turn you to second hand except you allow them to!

Enjoy your life jawé. Life no get duplicate!

Does this even make sense. As long as you are not a virgin, you are a "second hand" or "fairly used"

So what is the point?

Let me guess for lalasticlala.

Egusi.

This is a very serious decision but I will close my eyes and painfully remove the Egusi soup.

What about you?

And this is the type of lady that will tell her husband to be...

"I must do trad, white and court wedding..."

"I can not share my man with any other lady" meanwhile another man is publicly getting his own share of her private part.

I honestly pity men who allow themselves to be boxed by any lady.

Mercychen:
Why are you tempting me with this Ebukas pics?
I just love his dress Sense. Nothing more. And his height.

Dress sense, nothing more.. AND HIS HEIGHT...

Anything else to add

EnemyofGod22:
I'm Planning To Lay Claims To My Baby Girl My Girlfriend Gave To Another Man.

Here is my true life story
My name is Samuel, from Benue state, Idoma language.

Last year November 2020 I met this girl from Akwa Ibom state, we both live in pH, before I woo her, I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no. She told me that her boyfriend broke her heart, they are no longer together. I said okay, I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend which she said yes, she loves me too, from that day on we became friend. On 9th of November, I invited her to my house which she came, we had great time together, we had malaton sex that day, each day by day our relationship growing stronger.

Fast forward to December Christmas day, I called her to come to my house, she told me she's going to her elder sisters house to assist her prepare Christmas food, I said okay, then after Christmas on 27 December she came to my house we again had great time together. She stayed in my house for four days before she went back to her house.

One day I visited her in her house, I met her with a guy, they are almost fighting each other. Immediately she saw me she left the guy and met me. I asked her who the guy is? She told me it was that her first boyfriend, She said the guy nearly beat her because of me. She again said the guy is angry with her because of me. I said okay if she love the guy let them continue their relationship, she said no, it is me she loves and she can't continue the reletionship with him. She told me we should go to my house that night which we went to my house, one thing lead to another, we had great sex till day break.

Fast forward to January

On second week of January this year, she came to my house and told me that she missed her period. I took her to pharmacy and did some tests and the result came out she is pregnant. She asked me what is she going to do with the Pregnancy? I told her to keep the Pregnancy, but she said no she's going to abort it, then I told her if she has ever done abortion before she should not try this baby because it will going to back fire on her, she confessed said yes, she has done one abortion before, but what I told her now really entered her and she will not abort it again.

On the 3rd week of January, she came to my house and said I'm not the one responsible for her pregnancy. I was mad at her, I was thinking she was joking, but she said she is serious about it. Then I asked her who is responsible for the pregnancy? She told me that it was that her first boyfriend that is responsible for it. I asked her how is she sure it was that guy that got her pregnant? When on November, December and January we do have sex almost every day? And again I took her to one private hospital and did some normal test, the result came out she was pregnant from first week of January that day as she saw the result she said she is confused about the whole thing.

On first week of February, I was already prepared to take her to her parents for introduction and possibly pay some bride price, only for her to come to my house and insist that the boy responsible for her pregnant. One thing I discovered is that, the boy is financially stable than me, that's why she chose the boy over me and the boy's mother has hospital according to her, while my own parents are in the village.

Despite the fact she claimed I'm not the one responsible for her pregnant she is still coming to my house we do have sex, and bath together and eat together she keep telling me she loves me. I asked her if she truly love me as she said why did she carry my pregnant give another man? She said the woman always has the final said who give her pregnant.

Fast forward On MAY, that is, the pregnancy was 5months, she came to my house midnight I asked her why did she come to my house? She said she had misunderstanding with the guy and the guy is threatening to beat her, she went straight to my bed and lie down, removed all her clothes naked and said let air touch her, I told her what she is doing is not good if she knows truly the pregnant is not mine, why is she coming to my house and lie down naked? I tried as much as possible to send her away but she refused to go and kept telling me she loves me.

She asked me which baby do I like her to born? I told her, baby boy, she again asked me which name do I like to name the baby? I name him (OCHE) OCHE means King in Idoma language, every day we keep calling each other and when I called her, I always called her mama OCHE which she does called me back baba OCHE.

Some time I do send her some money to take care of herself.

To cut the long story short, she gave birth in September, but unfortunately it was a baby girl she born. The day she born, the next day she called me and informed me about the baby, which she even snapped the baby and sent it to me on Whatsapp.

Before I forget, again on last Sunday of July midnight she came to my house, I asked her why did she come to my house with 7 months Pregnancy? She said her boyfriend make her angry and with annoyance she even told him he is not responsible for the Pregnancy, the guy is mad at her. When I was about to sleep, she started making move for sex, I stopped her several times but she refused keep trying until I fell for it, we latter had sex again.

Matured men and women in the house please advise me on what to do, because I'm planning to lay claim of the baby.

Sorry for so many typo,error in the write up.


mod please push this to front page.

You have the right to a DNA. Go do it. If she refuses you can involve the police.

As long as you had unprotected sex with her, it is your right to do DNA.

Righteousness2:
Mr. Ned needs to repent and discharge all these young girls and women .

Before GOD, with the Exception of His legally First wife, they all are nothing but his sin Partners.

Mr. Ned you need to repent and Submit yourself to JESUS Christ, because all these Vanities will not count when you stand before GOD.
Don't let culture or people Deceive you. What Matters is to obey GOD.

Laila has done herself good to find her way. She has an opportunity to do things the right way. She was never your wife before GOD.

Odensin