Crime › Re: This Boy Was Caught Trying To Smuggle Out A Laptop After His JAMB Exam by tomzman: 6:01pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
The boy needs some psychiatric evaluation. |
Politics › Re: Emeka Ihedioha, Imo PDP Governorship Aspirant Buying Vegetable In The Market by tomzman: 5:57pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Publicity stunt! Did his maid go on vacation ni. When he gets in now you won't smell him anywhere near that market.
Only a fool would fall for this. |
Politics › Re: March 28 Poll: Survey Rates Jonathan Ahead Of Buhari by tomzman: 9:44am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Maybe the title of the thread should have been 'At last GEJ wins a fake online poll' |
Family › Re: Polygamy: Why Men Marry More Wives. by tomzman: 9:22am On Mar 20, 2015 |
blessedvisky: mehn what a long article. too long . however what I know is that you must be a very strong and probably mean person in order to maintain two women in the same house. Fighting, envy, jealousy, animosity and so many unhealthy practices emanate from polygamous homes. the man Sef no go get peace of mind. So y bother??
#TEAMONEWIFE  I dey tell you! I once led a group of people back in school. There were about 8 ladies in the group. Mehn those ladies almost ran me mad. An issue that would take the guys less than 2 minutes to agree upon, the ladies can drag that same issue for over an hour and still not come to a reasonable conclusion. Each of them would want so many different things and I as the leader had the herculean task of trying to find a balance so that we could move forward. That was when I began to wonder how men with 2, 3, 4 or more wives cope. Omo, na #TEAMONEWIFE o. One trouble is enough. |
Food › Re: Funny Cooking Blunders; Share Your Experience by tomzman: 9:04am On Mar 20, 2015 |
Very funny thread. I don't remember making any serious cooking blunders. Just d normal salty food and watery pap/ custard. |
Politics › Re: Aisha Buhari Campaigns In Edo In A Colourful Manner (photos) by tomzman: 8:24am On Mar 20, 2015 |
This is beauty, class and intelligence on display. The very qualities of a typical first lady. |
Events › Re: Meet The Latest couple In Town...... by tomzman: 6:33pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Happy married life |
Crime › Re: Peace Ambassador Arrested For Biting Fiancé’s Manhood In Delta by tomzman: 3:19pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Peace ambassador indeed |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo's Town Hall Chat With Nigerians In S. Africa Via Skype (Photo) by tomzman: 3:17pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
sinizia: Hilarious photo? What's hilarious about this pic?  I thought I was the only one. I wonder what's hilarious about the pic. |
Politics › Re: 12 Political Parties Pledge Allegiance To APC by tomzman: 2:31pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Change is on the way |
Family › Re: See What A Father Did To His Daughter.....pics Not Appealing *beware* by tomzman: 12:42pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
That's not fair |
Crime › Re: Woman Bites Off Friend’s Lip Over Gossip (pic) by tomzman: 12:40pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Orisirisi |
Education › Re: Most Beautiful University In Northern Nigeria! What Do U Think? by tomzman: 12:28pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Quite beautiful |
Politics › Re: Survey Tips Buhari To Win March 28 Election- The Sun Newspapers by tomzman: 12:21pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Change is imminent!
9 more days to go. |
Phones › Re: NCC To Sanction Operators For Unsolicited SMS, Voice Calls by tomzman: 12:02pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Long overdue |
Politics › Re: Fani-Kayode Calls Amaechi 'Son Of A Palm Wine Tapper' by tomzman: 11:51am On Mar 19, 2015 |
inspiredm: .........And then President Jonathan who is NOW your paymaster is the SON OF A FISHERMAN That animal doesn't think before opening the garbage he calls his mouth. From a palm wine tapper's son to an elected governor is a success story. I'm very sure FFK's children would be ashamed of him. |
Politics › Re: Sirajo Alkali Dies, Jonathan’s Police Outrider by tomzman: 11:34am On Mar 19, 2015 |
O ma se o |
Education › Re: My Room Mates Brother Sleeps In A Weird Way! Should I Be Worried? (pictures) by tomzman: 11:29am On Mar 19, 2015 |
sparkleRed: Nt a biggi, it's just a bad sleeping habit, I sleep like dat sometimes Blood of chisos!  |
Politics › Re: Polls : Jega Ignored My Request For A Meeting – Oritsejafor by tomzman: 7:30am On Mar 19, 2015 |
Why won't Jega ignore a man of questionable reputation and depleting integrity |
Politics › Re: Jonathan Rocks Fulani Attire As Fulani Farmers Make Him Their Patron (photos) by tomzman: 11:05pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
It's one thing to get endorsement, it's another thing to get actual votes. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Peace Olanike Adeleke: ‘How Pastor Adeboye Anointed Me To Sing’ by tomzman: 5:44pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Welcome to the right path. May the Lord uphold you to the end. |
Politics › Re: JEGA Speaks, Says There Are ‘still A Few Security Concerns’ Ahead Of Elections by tomzman: 5:04pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Jega better not announce another postponement cos the consequences might not be palatable. |
Celebrities › Re: Girl Stabs Boyfriend To Death At DS ICT Polytechnic Abeokuta (Graphic Photo) by tomzman: 4:53pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Some girls are foolish. How does stabbing him solve the problem. And the girl is fine o. But guys you better start to wise up. It's character over beauty o. The day my lady raises a sharp object at me is the day it ends!
RIP to the guy. |
Politics › Re: All The First Ladies Nigeria Has Ever Had (Photo) by tomzman: 4:40pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
kennygee: Maryam Babangida is the finest. Confirmed! I wonder if the other posters are looking at a different picture. |
Celebrities › Re: Funniest Pictures Of Obasanjo by tomzman: 1:28pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
OBJ the funny man |
Celebrities › Re: IBinabo Storms Court Of Appeal Over Sack Judgment, As AGN Rally Around Her by tomzman: 12:18pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
sholexy21: SON: Mom, grandma is so annoying, I wish she will just die. MOTHER: Idiot, it's your mother that will die not mine.  |
Education › Re: History Of Some Top Nigerian Universities by tomzman: 12:11pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
OK o. |
Family › Re: Rude Awakening: I Am Not My Husband's Next Of Kin And Beneficiary!! by tomzman: 11:30am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Op, you need to search yourself and answer some questions. First look out for the dates on those documents to be sure that they are not before you guys got married. Next, I would ask if you have a son for him. If yes, then it might be appropriate for your son to be his next of kin.
But most importantly, I would like to point out the issue of trust. The truth is trust is hard to build but easy to destroy. The fact that your husband married you doesn't mean he would trust you for life. It is your responsibility to keep on building on that trust that made him marry you in the first place. Most men find it difficult to trust their woman and it's mostly the woman's fault. Time and space would not permit me to share my experiences with women as regards this issue of trust. But search yourself, are there some 'little little' things you might have done in the past that made his level of trust in you to reduce? again I say search yourself.
The last thing I would point out is communication. It is very important in marriage. Find time to talk to him (reasonably and calmly) about this issue and hear him out. It may even lead to the opening of other secrets. Communication is key.
Finally, have your own account, no matter the situation. You guys can still be contributing to another account but you should have your personal accounts.
All the best. |
Crime › Re: Wife Allegedly Beaten To Death By Her Husband by tomzman: 10:32am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Too bad. |
Romance › Re: Hilarious!!! Seducing A Banker.... My Most Embarrassing Moment. by tomzman: 10:21am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Hmmn |
Politics › Re: See This APC Advert About FFK on Vanguard(picture) by tomzman: 8:07am On Mar 18, 2015 |
FFK is a disgrace |
Family › Re: How Do You Sleep? by tomzman: 11:37pm On Mar 17, 2015 |
Lisaflex: 4 or 5...As d spirit leads Picture or adonbelievit  |