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The CEO can be fired. Steve Jobs the Founder of Apple we all know was once Sacked and replaced, Bill Gates a Co-Founder of Microsoft had to resign after the Board of Directors carried out an Investigation on some of his affairs.
This happens a lot.
Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC) is another intersting case in this regards where the Founder was displaced.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/deadline.com/2021/05/bill-gates-microsoft-board-for-inappropriate-relationship-jeffrey-epstein-melinda-gates-1234758254/amp/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/steve-jobs-apple-fired-returned-2017-7%3famp

Casper21:
The question “Can the board of directors fire the owner?” is becoming increasingly contentious. CEOs and founders of companies often find themselves out of a job after being fired by means of a vote undertaken by the board of the company. If the person in question is not the owner of a controlling share in the company, there is not much they can do to avoid being fired.

Sharing the ownership of a company leads to loss of total control over it. As external investors are brought in, owners' shares get diluted, and the founder of a company can often find that he or she owns less than half of the shares in that company. This leaves him or her at risk of being fired.

If a CEO has a contract in place, he or she may get fired at the end of that contract period, if the company has new owners or is moving in a new direction.

The CEO, despite being the person who incorporated the company, often gets fired in times when the company is experiencing a slump in financial performance. This is because internal company politics and differing leadership styles render people vulnerable.

If a founder gets fired, then the company's investors have obviously lost confidence in that founder's ability to establish profitability. Or, in the case of a company that is already turning a profit, they do not consider the founder capable of helping the company grow and evolving to meet the needs of a changing market.


...Strategies for Avoiding Dismissal....

Tech Crunch advises executives to always remain defensive, working with key players and building personal relationships with board members and shareholders. These, according to Tech Crunch, are the most important strategies in defending oneself from being attacked by the board of one's own company.

Founders and CEOs need to focus on more than the fact that they are indispensable – they also need to recognize the areas in which they are vulnerable. They can do this in a number of ways:

Knowing whether or not a board vote is enough to fire them.

Being aware of whether or not alleged wrongdoings need to have taken place in order for them to be dismissed.

Keeping one's ears open to listen for complaints and expressions of discontent, and
Being careful of the contracts that they sign.
An important step that CEOs can take to protect their position is to get all promises in writing. A CEO should never trust anybody who claims to always have his or her back.

The CEO can be fired. Bill Gates a Co-Founder of Microsoft had to resign after the Board of Directors carried out an Investigation on some of his affairs.
This happens a lot.
Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC) is another intersting case in the regards where the Founder was displaced.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/deadline.com/2021/05/bill-gates-microsoft-board-for-inappropriate-relationship-jeffrey-epstein-melinda-gates-1234758254/amp/

Casper21:
The question “Can the board of directors fire the owner?” is becoming increasingly contentious. CEOs and founders of companies often find themselves out of a job after being fired by means of a vote undertaken by the board of the company. If the person in question is not the owner of a controlling share in the company, there is not much they can do to avoid being fired.

Sharing the ownership of a company leads to loss of total control over it. As external investors are brought in, owners' shares get diluted, and the founder of a company can often find that he or she owns less than half of the shares in that company. This leaves him or her at risk of being fired.

If a CEO has a contract in place, he or she may get fired at the end of that contract period, if the company has new owners or is moving in a new direction.

The CEO, despite being the person who incorporated the company, often gets fired in times when the company is experiencing a slump in financial performance. This is because internal company politics and differing leadership styles render people vulnerable.

If a founder gets fired, then the company's investors have obviously lost confidence in that founder's ability to establish profitability. Or, in the case of a company that is already turning a profit, they do not consider the founder capable of helping the company grow and evolving to meet the needs of a changing market.


...Strategies for Avoiding Dismissal....

Tech Crunch advises executives to always remain defensive, working with key players and building personal relationships with board members and shareholders. These, according to Tech Crunch, are the most important strategies in defending oneself from being attacked by the board of one's own company.

Founders and CEOs need to focus on more than the fact that they are indispensable – they also need to recognize the areas in which they are vulnerable. They can do this in a number of ways:

Knowing whether or not a board vote is enough to fire them.

Being aware of whether or not alleged wrongdoings need to have taken place in order for them to be dismissed.

Keeping one's ears open to listen for complaints and expressions of discontent, and
Being careful of the contracts that they sign.
An important step that CEOs can take to protect their position is to get all promises in writing. A CEO should never trust anybody who claims to always have his or her back.

Success is relative.
Let me place two Scenarios.
Alinko Dangote finally Opens a Refinery in Nigeria and a group of Armed Robbers robbed a Bank and carted away with a lot of Cash.
Which of the example given above would you say is Successful?

Success is simply the act of achieveing Set Goal(s) and achieving it/them.
The Reason why a lot of folks loss focus is because the Society has set a blueprint of the definition of Success.
Success is simply the definition we give it. Focus on yours.

Enehdebby:
Can we actually say that a poor Man is successful and what do you mean when you say that someone is successful in life?

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But your President is Buhari. How did you end up in that shoe?

temitope27:
I can never be in a wrong shoe

https://www.instagram.com/p/COUuzkRJ60-/?utm_medium=copy_link

Nothing is Wrong with you, you are Unique especially in our present day world.
There are folks home and abroad that would like to hold conversations with you in this regard.
Be very proud of your self.

Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

So Nigeria is now so corrupt that an officers are now being rewarded to do what they are paid to do.
By default, he is suppose to return all monies found in a crime scene yet again this is Nigeria where honesty is a scarce commodity.

I wouldn't be surprised if the sum returned finds it's way to someone's personal coffers.

blamingthedevil:
https://twitter.com/OvieNews/status/1393345288555929605

The Internet is way vast than we think it is.
Every step you make is linked to the types of Ads that pops up in your phone.
Information is drawn from your location (where you visit), the type of sites you visit with this Artificialintelligence (A.I) can draw up a Personality Trait.
Sometimes it would seem as if you thought about something and lo and behold it pops up on your screen. It isnt magic, or you saw someone after a long while and even though you guys didnt exchange contacts, the person pops up as People you May know on Facebook.

Future Technology would Marvel the Human Minds.

Ojemedad:
Fee days ago I bought a Samsung phone, Elepaq Generator and Samsu oil...

Boom on my Facebook timeline I saw ad of the three items I bought

note: I didn't search for those items online neither did I tell anyone



Is anyone experiencing same?

Focus on your Job. 10years from now, I doubt if you can even remember last name, the memory of her would be hazy.
I repeat focus on your JOB!!!

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

Why so mean?

LilMissRobbie:
Didn't this woman release a video a while back saying that she was done with her husband? So it's our business to know when you're done but when you return to him like a dog that returns to eat it's vomit, you will not tell us. All these fake Nollywood actress do not cease to amaze me.

N80,000 Cash in her Wallet.
How much is Police Salary Again.

The disrespect for Authority clearly shows how decayed the system is becoming.

God Save Nigeria!!!!

dre11:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2021/04/four-arrested-in-ondo-for-stripping-female-police-inspector-naked/amp/

I just felt I need to drop this.
Happiness and sound state of mind is a conscious effort.
In reality, who sets these standard of comparism in life??
We all have our individual race and zenith to climb. It's not a matter of who got there first, take charge of your own life course and find peace in whatever you do.

Life is a sweet journey friend. If we look at it with the spectacle of who is doing well and who isn't, we would be in a standstill while time goes by.

Remember these words by an Infamous Nigerian Musician : Dangote, Dangote still dey find Money.

Understand this and know peace!!!

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

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PastorOsigwe:
So with 400k I can enter Dubai?

I have made my point, if you see it from a different light, that's fine by me.

IamPlato:
many Of You Blaming Him Are Just Sentimentally derailed


No Normal Man Will Hear Such And Just Be Happy and Love Her With Such life

Read the next words slowly and digest it "You are not Mature"
I hope you get the point ??

Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Followed with "Tiger Head" Battery ..lol
How time flies.

Xenry:
This torch and big tiger batteries na 5&6, and the torch is unbreakable.
I remember using it then, and I loved pressing the red button to make it flash the light, good old days though.

"Smokers are Liable to die young" that's the warning sign on Cigarettes Packs similar to your case, the warning sign is "Marry her at your own Peril".

Bro, Flee.

bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

Bro, this your friend has passed the phase of friendship, he is now your brother.
From what u have typed I sense they dont have kids yet.
In my opinion, I would say you let your friend know what it happening. He gave you this responsibility and he deserves an honest feedback.
Do this and save a brother from driving down into devil's hell.

Deathisfree:
Hi I’m going through a very difficult face at the mm.

I own a 3bed room bungalow, my friend own one too but few plots away. We bought the land together about 8 years ago and we’ve been a very good Neighbor.

When my house got to roofing, this my friend gave me some money to complete it. Infact he’s my alpha and omega, we’ve been a very good friend from secondary school.

I don’t mind if he’s seeing this ,I really adore and appreciate our friendship but at the same time. I don’t want his marriage ruined becomes of me.

December 2018, my friend got a visa and travelled to the U.S.A, when he was leaving, I drove him to the airport, he told me to please take care of his wife and I should watch over her like my own wife but unfortunately, the lady has been giving me lots of altitude so I decided not to go check her any more when ever I am around.

To shorten the long story. I work in a company, I did go home mostly Monday’s to Wednesday, my works was mostly weekends but last week i was shifted to weekdays so I go home weekend now, I have been observing a young man and my friend’s wife sneaking in and out of their house.

A woman sells provisions in our street, she told me about the guy few weeks ago, she said he always comes buy Hollandia yoghurt at night also said the first day the young man came to her shop, he came to buy a condom she has been wondering who the guy was.

Yesterday one of my co worker came around 7:30pm and I was in his tinted hilux, I saw the guy smooched my friend’s wife ass,she quickly removed his hands and they went inside ,the young man drove my friend’s car and they went inside

With everything happening now it’s obvious the lady doesn’t care again. Because I don’t see a reason why she has to be fornicating and knowing we stay in the same street.
I am so heartbroken, my friend doesn’t deserve such wickedness. Right at the moment I don’t know what to do. I believe telling my friend isn’t the solution. Please I need advice And I’m available for any question and advice.

She just hit you with "Reserve Psychology" making you feel bad because you almost caught her dirty secret.Yes, she might have feelings for you and willing to get married to you but that guy would be someone she isnt willing to marry to for some unknown reasons but still she can't do without him. Folks like that lurks around even after marriage they are like pests.

My advice for you, if you still have feelings for her make sure you discover who that guy really is and how the friendship was formed because you might end up having this one battle to fight after you get married.

In all be wise, be close to God and listen to your heart

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread

What I can tell you is this, If you truly make the decision to change and save your life (because you are dying slowly) you would be a beam of light and hope to alot of people who are going through what you are going through presently.
Make that decision today, look for someone to that would be willing to take the walk of change with you, someone who would be patient with you and not judge you even when you fall. Change bro and when you do, there are a multitudeof people who would see your story as Hope to save theirs.

ChildOfDoom:
unhygienic behaviour

in a bid to impress, I do thoughtless things. three days ago I caught up with an old friend. in order to seduce her, I sucked her vagina. she hadn't taken her bath and was sweaty when we met. I even rubbed petroleum jelly cream on her boobs and sucked it off intermittently. naive and naughty me! I currently have issues with my larynx, abi windpipe. probably a growth.i can't breath well.

I also expose food and plates, despite knowing there are rodents and cockroaches in my room. sometimes I don't wash the plates before I use. I do not wash hands from the toilet before feasting. Lost passion for etiquette. I do eat roadside food regularly, exposed to flies (na Dem cheap pass). the list is endless. gamblers hardly pay attention to their health or well-being. I feel bad though that all Mama's advice and admonishment while growing up failed to reflect in my life.

I will stop here for now

One would have thought you have realised yourself and learnt alot from your mistake but instead you are still looking at "Drugs" as an alternative. You said you are 18yrs old. You still have a lot to learn young chap!!!

otalu2:
thief and people caught me and started beating me up i tried to explain thing to them but there was just no way out,people brought thing to set me on fire before an elderly woman ask them to wait she asked me what happend,lucky the bet9ja staff started to explain to her that am not really a thief i came to bet without money and tried to run away,she asked people to escort back to the bet9ja shop my parent were contacted they came and i was released,my dad was so mad at me that he even canceled my education,now exams have been written,recently he said he is giving me one week to pack my thing and leave the house that i am a disgrace to him i called my relatives to beg him but he said i must go,the problem now is i dont know were to go because i dont have a friend even in school i dont know if there is any one here who can accommodate me in return i promise to do anything i am asked to do anything at all even if it is to do any dirty thing like drugs anything that can give me money i am ready please help.

This question was first asked in the Year 24BC and till date no tangible answer has been given.

majamajic:
What are they doing differently from their male counterparts ?

A little reminder that your mum and sisters are women and they are Nigerians too.

mosdii:
Vagina People Are Useless...All Of Them

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All of Them

Nollywood is an industry that would marvel your mind.
Sometimes I wonder what's the Agenda of the Actors Guild of Nigeria. The way and manner their member dies in the face of little or no care is thought provoking even the Veterans. They truly need to Get themselves together and address the welfare of their members.
And let me add, no matter where you find yourself in life always "FEND" for yourself first cause man might fail you.
R.I.P Ernest

LegendVibes:
https://igberetvnews.com/1380525/breaking-nollywood-actor-ernest-asuzu-dead/

Ernest Throwback Movie scene

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YuHCMvmeeIE

I hope you would forgive yourself when she finally wrecks your Brother's business ??

Manoftheyear:
Good day guys, happy New year to everyone, please I will make this post as brief as possible.

My brother asked me to help him look after his business when he wants to travel for Xmas, and it happens that I know much about the business, and he have a salesgirl too whom from my observation is a single mother though she is still very young.

Now this is the problem, since I started coming to that shop, I noticed this girl used to do some uncertain things (wuru wuru), so I decided to be more watchful and that's when I found out what she has been doing in the shop. I have caught her red handed in this act.

The first occasion was during last week Tuesday when we were about to close for the day and I was going through the sales book only for me to realized that the items we sold earlier in the day, the quantity in the book was different from what we actually sold, she minus some quantity and I called her to it and she acted as if it was a mistake, I acted as if nothing happened.

Second incident was last week Saturday, I was in the shop and one woman came to the shop with an Item she bought from our shop, so I was in my corner not minding them but I realized she came to complain of something to her and later bought another thing, I saw the item she came with so after the woman left, I called the girl and asked her when the woman bought that item, she said it was on Thursday, so after sometime, I went to the sales book to check if she wrote it, but I was shocked when I went through the whole week sales but I couldn't find it. I kept my cool, till in the evening when we were about to go and i asked her to show me where she wrote it, only for her to be going through over and over again, I asked her, I thought you said you sold this thing on Thursday and she said no.

Now because we have closed for the day, she wrote it as Monday sales, but I keep wondering if it was only this item that the woman bought. Even is she sold it on Thursday and forget to write it down, the Money would have reflected after the close of the day, but it didn't, that means she intentionally stole the money. She is the one with shop keys and she opens the shop before i come every morning.

Now my problems are

1. I love minding my business

2. It's my brother's business which he entrusted to me to look after for him, so if after finding out all these things and still keep it to myself, if anything goes wrong in future I won't forgive myself.

3. This lady is a single mother and very young, I assume this is the only place she gets what she's using to take care of her herself and her baby, I really feel for her and I know she is going to loose her job if my brother gets to know about this.

Please what should I do?


Please forgive my errors, I'm not perfect

Bro, the truth of the matter is "Family is the main thing" Sometimes to put smiles on the faces of those we love a man has to walk through the valley of the shadows of death. You have made your walk but it wasnt financially beneficial. Dont beat yourself because of that fam.
Call your family bro, if you cant call no one else,
call your Mama she carried you for 9months and her heart would always be with you no matter the path you take in life. Suicide isnt the way to go, you would cause more harm than the present situation if you do.
Remember this line if no other stick to your understanding "Family is the Main thing"

Sebastine1994:
When half of my neighbors have travelled, I am now left alone in the compound. every year it is only me who remains back, I am ashamed. I can't go home. I offended my family so much.

I was deported from South Africa for drug trafficking, my father spent all his life saving to send me abroad, I went there to do drugs,

Now I have my freedom, but my heart remains in chain, seeing my family struggling financially because of me and the failed investment on me. I am depressed because of this.

I can't call them, I don't know what to do. I may take my life if the emotional torture becomes much.

You have read the handwriting on the wall, deep down within you, you know the interpretation, you know what to do, do it!!!

Bbliss24:
Good evening guys,
It all started in my University days, I met this guy but I was in a relationship when I met him. I didn't like the guy because of his tribe no offence,I just liked his vibe but we dated.

When I met my current boyfriend I told him that I was in a relationship and that I can't double date he was like no problem but mind you i already found him attractive. To cut the long story short i broke up with the other guy to date him. It was all rosy the first two years he worked his service to ph then because my family lives in ph I was in Enugu then but i went home for break,where we hooked up and most times I had to lie to my parents that I was going for night class just to spend the night at his place mind you he was very smart and sound academically so some of those night he did put me through for my exam.

To cut the whole story short he has changed completely what he use to do before he no longer does it,his excuse is that I made him that way . I stay with him in Enugu but temporary till I get my place during this period he gets angry easily and hits me his excuse is that I am arrogant and I dont respect him.Most times I try to opt out from the relationship he comes up with story of after all I have done for you I gave up my family and my life for you and this is how you want to pay me back ,then he starts rendering causes on me.

The truth is he is a good guy and when I met him he never laid his hands on me until I started staying with him. We have dated for 5years and emotions are mixed I find it hard to leave the relationship....

I almost felt you were making sense until i realised you rated Efe over Laycon.
If the likes of M.I can recognize the Potentials of Laycon, i have just one simple question for you----Who are you
Just before you rush to type your name to make it seem imporatnt in this regards, ask yourself this question, "does my opinion about another man's life really matter"

Donspicey:
During the BBNaija show i supported and voted for Laycon to emerge as the Winner because i was thinking that he would take tover from EFE or TOLANI in the music industry as the big thing from BBnaija but very unfortunate the guy fall my hand Big time...


As a music lover that delights in listening to upcoming artistes with the believe that they always have something upstairs to offer i listen to underground artistes when ever am less busy so that i could be able to analyse their lyrics and contents but to be candid Laycon is one of the WACK artistes i have ever listened to.....


His songs lacks direction.........


The productions is below standard.......


The mixing and mastering is very poor for my liking.......


No content in the Lyrics.......


Though am happy for him for winning the grand price and also for the numerous endorsements but musically he have nothing to offer.....


Out of anger and disapointment i deleted all his songs on my playlist but am still one of his fans anyway........


I will still get his songs if he improves but for now,i will avoid his songs like a plaque...


Let me continue listening to..

TEMS...


WURLD.....


DESHINOR....


KAPTAIN......


TOLANI......


EFE......


OXLADE.....


ZINOLEESKY......


OMAY LAY........


ODUNSI.....


CHEQUE......


DIAMOND JIMMA.......


SEYI VIBEZ........


PREETYBOYDO.......


And many more new face wey get oil for head...

The Police Officer kills a citizen and "The People" Protest yet "The People" catches a suspected criminal and they Burnt him/her on the street.
Nigerians, we are The People!!!!

dignity33:
I understand that many Nigerians like taking the law into their hands when thief or arm robber are caught but do you also know that many have died for wrongly accused of certain crime they do not commit. This are some of the reason you should aviod Jungle Justice.

1. Many can accuse someone wrongly out of hatred or sentiment and as a bystander you may not know the actual story of thing and before you realised what you have done the person is dead or in critical condition. It happened in 2019 somewhere in South Africa when two Nigeria was accused of kidnapping a young girl who turn out to be the daughter of one of the victims . And Nigeria with the type of hatred they have on another tribe I have no doubt that it can happen here.

2. Thiefs can turn to accuse their victim of being the thiefs and before you know it the person is dead by mob and the actual theif will find a way to escape . I have read a story of youngmen who stole from someone ran away and while the victim was shouting ole ole, they get to a corner hide and once the owner entered the corner they started beating her calling her thiefs and people gathered without letting the woman to speak and those men sneak away letter it was discovered that the woman is innocent.

3. killing a theif by mob will create more radical arms robbers than those soft robbers who can have a little empathy for their victims and it will also make the work of police more difficult during there investigation for that certain crime because the evidence is dead.

4. Jungle Justice make the killers no different from the robbers or thiefs. lastly our law enforcement ageny should try and be proactive in fighting crime because I'm sure if police are honest in there work of protecting life and property this jungle justice will be a things of the past. Add your comments.

There is no way on earth you are serious with what you typed. Let me just believe this is a comical or an early "April Fool" joke

Zzor:
Yes I kill such men with stares, that type of stares you garnished with yeye expression, only stingy men goes to the market