₦airaland Forum

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol. Nice point sha... But if she says no, either I give it out to the cleaner, or I wash it myself with the machine... Either ways,

Equality must be maintained at home.

One thing about humans is... *We all reason emotionally and justify it with logic*

I won't force her - so as to live in peace. But the probs is only when she doesn't keep to her own end of the bargain!! Lol

KreativGenius:
She's a very responsible and intelligent lady. Please for my sake, mo bo wo. Ejo wo.

I just hope God deliver them from bitterness of heart and restore them happiness

But those guys wey mess these girls up no try sha.. Those guys no get mercy at all

Someone wrote an article recently titled "why a lady should get married".. Omo, you need to see the way these ladies almost brought down the head of the OP out of frustration

Jupxter:
Argh,tosin, you didn't get what he meant by that statement. He means he hopes the lady actually shares in everything, especially financial upkeep of the family, that women should bring in 50% in the maintenance of the home

Abeg no let laugh kill me jawe.

BiafranBushBoy:
I hope my lady isn't a feminist by mouth and a "woman" in Nature!!

Kolewerk!

I just dey laugh you sef

Just imagine a scenario when you tell your wife to help you wash the clothes you will be wearing to office the next day and you returned home and met the clothes unwashed, only for her to tell you she's your wife and not a maid

Abeg, these ladies are clowns jawe... Forget all these bullcrap wey we dey read for Nairaland. A woman will surely get kicked out of the home if she wants to be acting actually as these ladies are acting

Heloct:
Emotionally fulfilled? Hmm. That's strong. I have no idea what that is. But anyways, I think these young ladies following Adichie's footsteps should get their path right. They are young and coming up. Adichie is made already. That an opinion makes sense doesn't make such opinion correct.

KreativGenius:
Haba Tosyne, you the expert haba bro... Take it easy nau brother

4our:
u no lie


She is a weak girl that was hurt


She dated a nairalander, he used her and dumped her

Doctormarvin:
During my clearance back in the days,i was number one on the queue but my clearance officer(a male) picked all of the females from the queue,cleared them and told the rest of us males to go and come back the next day...imagine! so much for equality...right now I am a proud masculinist! and I am pretty sure I have the right to be cos I don't want same happening to my son...loool!

Abbeycharles:
Una fit kill person with laugh for this Nairaland sha

Heloct:
More like fighting for what they do not understand

Doctormarvin:
lol,let the government grant equal rights...i'm sure pretty much the problems of the average Nigerian female will disappear,poof! overnight... hilarious!!!

Hahaha.. Funny you

pocohantas:
I don't expect you to get the pattern.
You keep claiming feminist are heartbroken, pained...no boyfriend...more trash.

And I ask you that question, yet you fail to see the pattern? Meaning, you say those things over and over to make yourself happy...they also don't fit into this discourse.

pocohantas:
But a happy man discusses this and it interests him.
A happy man like you is always seen on threads like this?

Sometimes you don't know how silly your logic sounds.

pocohantas:
Tell me the name of your church na...

I hate stupid men, men that perpetrate evil and men that support and make excuses for them. Offline, I can avoid them...online, they are just everywhere.


What else do majority of Nigerian boyfriends contribute a lady's life...aside increasing her vagina mileage?


I want to know why lack of one should be the end of life.

What has this got to do with our argument? Please, it doesn't in any way follow the pattern of this discourse.

You don't have a point madam. You're only trying to say things just to make yourself happy

Doctormarvin:
The thing is most of y'all acclaimed feminists have not been denied anything on the ground that you're females instead of males and please if you have,kindly let us know ... especially something you truly work for and deserve,face the fact that feminism is becoming a joke in Nigeria...take a look at successful Nigerian women around you,they are respected and it's evident that they never carried their smart phones to engage in fights over rights that has been theirs since they were born...lol! youthful exuberance! life will humble y'all

Asianguy:
True
Feminism+Atheism= psychological disorder

When you see a feminists who is also an atheist, abeg run oooo... No catastrophe be that oooo

I will advise you to go and sleep and stop arguing jawe.. You even get time to dey follow them argue sha... Me wey dem tey tey, I no dey take them serious one bit

Go and make your research and you will get to find out that most of the ladies ranting on this thread have either been robbed or mayweathered by fccck boys, therefore, relationship no longer interest them and that's why they are always trying to pick loopholes in anything that has to do with marriage/relationship just to make themselves feel happy

To be precise, dem no get boyfriends

Asianguy:
If you are a Christian you will know feminism is bad, I supspect you to be an atheist.

uk10:
explain the difference between submission and mutual respect in marriage

From all the dramas I have seen on this feminism of a thing, I have to say that feminism is madness in Nigeria

pocohantas:
I saw you endorse the post. The way you all expect your wife to submit, that's how you will submit to me. Mutual submission

Any thing in the marriage that doesn't flow both ways is questionable.

Like say I don know say I go find you here... Me and you dey always jam each other for feminism threads sha

Which kind coincidence be that?

Doctormarvin:
spot on bro!An accomplished happily married woman loved by all won't come to vent her frustrations on men under the guise of feminism same with single accomplished females...y'all feminists should know that men are not your problem,work on yourselves please!!!You live a life of depression doesn't mean you drag others into it too

Only ladies that are suffering from depression and low self esteem are usually the ones parading themselves as feminists especially on a faceless forum like this

I repeat, a happy and emotionally satisfied woman will not be fighting for who should submit to who, only the low life single ones present themselves as feminists

QueenSekxy:

greencard:
this one u keep vying for"FEW" exceptions ..ayam not understanding

Are u trying to give your self hope or something?

Prefola:
Owk i'will take this since you used the word "FEW"....
But to get those few, it could be likened to looking for crude oil in sahara desert...

Tommfrench:

You be smart guy. Nice one baba

tycoon3:
Don't mind those feminist hoping for equal right. That's why we have so many divorces and seperations and even baby mamas this days just because they don't want to be submissive, even bible says man is the head while the woman is an help mate.
I pray they listen so we can have a better world where marriage works and less divorce

Prefola:
I was ones an advocate for Long distance relationship,was always argueing with my friends that it works untill i learnt my lesson the hard way...
maybe i was blind by love by then sha but i can never make that mistake again...
it was even an Edo girl sef,it seems the thing flows in their blood..the girl almost made me commit suicide due to heartbreak...
my advice is, never ever try it..u won't understand now untill you experience something disastrous..

Tommfrench:
hmm...

You suppose know as e dey go baba... No loud am