₦airaland Forum

wetdick:
so i am asking you, how do you expect a man earning 100,000-150,000 monthly to save or budget 5 million for a wedding?


for your info, most wedding you see nowadays are sponsored by parents

Don't mind her jawe

Preshy561:
I never said you should spend 5million on wedding, I said you should save up to 5million aside the money budgeted for wedding and luxury.
5million should be fixed in your account.

And how many people have up to N1m in this country let alone N5m? According to CBN 88% of Nigerians dont have N1m in their accounts yet you see people getting married every Saturday

Pikin still dey worry you sha

OAUTemitayo:
Please don't lie to him.
I once dated a SS and if there is one thing I cherish her for, it is her loyalty and honesty.. Though I broke up because of her feminist tendencies...
She is still someone I cherish a lot.
Never lie,it would create hatred for you at last.

The feminist tendencies is one of those things that turn me off in women too. They end of as terrible wives and it's something a young man should worry about

Serves him right

RIP in advance sir

I wish them happy married life

Miniano:
Hey bro I have been in your shoes some years back I met this girl she was quite and calm she Begs me even if I offended her it lasted for 4 months then bling the love became something else she feels too important she too over protective too sausy.

One day I sat down and think about this I can't continue living my life like the I sent her a break up message she pleaded and I accepted her back she baahve very well for another one week she bling shes back to her previous wahala character she hates it when you try to control her or tell her things she doesn't double date r have any other guys she's just too arrogant and never wanted to be under a man's command.

This are the cause I noticed if your girlfriend is from a polygamous family her dad or mum has been separated since birthy brother this can be the main causes of this issue.

Because she was not taught how to leave with a man so she never know what a man is. My advice for you bro is just to leave her alone no matter how much u love her u will end up regretting you married her I pray you don't regret in name of God.

Remember sugar came sweet but we no fit swallow am this means no matter how much u love some people in your life you have to let them go.

I had to call my ex girlfriend and call her about our relationship I had a conclusion with her on phone call she should move on with her life that's how I survived. It will be very hard for her to listen to you she's gonna turn you to someone that will be beating his wife because they would be some day you won't be able to tolerate all her characters again. My advice

That's very true.. Upbringing also matters depending on the structure of the family

Sometimes I don't blame proud and arrogant ladies, their family structure could probably be the cause

A lot has been said here but I'm going chip in mine

OP, you don't need to force a woman before she submits to you. This is something that should flow naturally due to how she sees you.

If this isn't coming, you don't need to force it.. Just know when to quit and save yourself from worries

Also, two alpha beings can't be in a relationship, it will always end in quarrels and disagreements.

Offpoint1:
I see a ship whereby 2 captains are trying to sail,
A kingdom where 2 kings are trying to rule,
A pack of wolves with 2 Alpha male,
A pride of lions with 2 dominant male,
A car where 2 drivers are trying to drive,
I see a perfect ingredient for a disastrous home.

Op, you don't need my advice... you need common sense. You don't have 2 madmen in a room and expect a tidy room.

Word of wisdom... Nice one man

What a kind hearted woman.. Money cannot buy some people's integrity

Considering your genetic disorder, when you start dating, the first thing you should be curious about is the guy's genotype and you shouldn't let it take long before you tell him your genotype. This will ease you the stress of emotional trauma after you have committed yourself to the relationship

Trust me, things like this will only continue to happen if you want to trap a guy down by withholding this worrisome information from him.

This is what a man will experience at least once in his lifetime

Welcome to the world of wise men bro

jieta:
the man's posture already sold him out. putting his hand on his back like a weak man who does not know what he want.

Haha

deepwater:
I actually do not understand the issues with our country men
Is it really lack of awareness or just outright poverty ?

It can be traced down to poverty my dear

Ejimagift:
It's been long i read your 10 reasons article on front page. You don't write anymore?

Baba, I still write but on a different platform

Seems I will bounce back on Nairaland soon

Ejimagift:
U guys should be happy when it favors ur team. U remember at the world cup when Nigeria protested a hand ball by marcos Rojo this same VAR referee consulted and no penalty given leading to our elimination. How can kimpembe backing a shot intentionally hand ball? Don't u watch replays?

Let's forget about that of Nigeria.. We all know the referee robbed us at the WC

As for that of Kimpembe, as a defender you shouldn't be flying your hands in the 16 yard box whether the ball hit your hand from the back or not

Ejimagift:
The referee that gave Man U that fraudulent penalty deserves this kind of death.

Will you deny the fact that it was a hand ball?

You had to post your balls on Nairaland... Hahaha


OP is a real mad man.. I repeat, you're a mad man

samsam2019:
pffft I married someone I can safely say was my best friend and we were together for 8 years. The marriage didn't even last for a year


Our grandparents did arranged marriage. Some dont even know who their partners were and their marriages lasted a lifetime



Moral of my story; do whatever pleases you. No one. I mean nobody has the truth or trick about long lasting happy marriage

That's the truth bro... The duration of a relationship doesn't guarantee a lasting marriage

vroy:
the same player that got away with RED card in d first leg

Abi ooooo

highcollide:
he backed the ball when it hit his hand, was that an attempt at obstructing the ball with his hands?

The position of his hand was obviously not natural.. Which defender jumps like that in the air with his hand apart ?

highcollide:
VAR will kill football.

So you want that defender to get away with that handball right?

Education is already close to its death in Nigeria.. Today, polytechnics should be scrapped, tomorrow, COE should be scrapped even though the almighty university we want everybody to attend is nothing to write home about

It's always like that at first before reality will dawn on you
Sha be careful!

freeze001:
Na wa for this master-servant politics some people dey play for some areas for Nigeria o! So one man will tell a sitting governor in his own state to stay away from campaigns and his word will be law? Yet the same party with almighty Tinubu's approval gave its ticket to that sitting/outgoing governor to contest as Senator knowing his many 'sins'? So if he had been declared winner, all would have been well? The people would no longer be seen to be angry with his person/the party? And these subjects/servants have no say? Is this really good politics?

Honestly, I was shocked when I saw the title

I wonder when Nigeria will break free from the bond of Godfatherism

If truly she's a virgin, kudos to her


Virgin ladies are going into extinct. It's hard to see a lady as sassy as this yet a virgin

This one deep oooo... Waiting for the council of elders to look into your case
Cc Lefulefu Toks2008

Na Timaya finish this girl career

adaksbullet:
Am steel remembered wen am looked down in one guy on footboll feed, is march mine leg and am gived him beetings off his live, these boy didnt not even fighted me back, so am beet her well well
After the march, toooooooo mine greeeeeeetest suprise, man his an sooooooooooooolja
Naso is boys is bundu me into car boooooot

The kain beeting am chooped on barak that day ehn

You no well at all baba

This is highly commendable

Range Rover should top the list

ikeno:
tell the girls to drop their phone while I go and source for money to settle the bill

Funny u

lilmax:
the ones that do not see it as achievement should not get married..... everything we put effort in is an achievement

Don't mind them jawe... If graduating or owning a house or cars is an achievement why shouldn't marriage be an achievement?

Nairalanders sha, always trying to be pessimistic about something that doesn't interest them