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libertyfather:
Just forget marriage its a scam....i regret im in it right now getting out is my biggest problem, looks like the easiest way my enemy get me

dmgr:
You 're asking if u should give him chance,op chance for what if I may ask?

I don't know what's even wrong with some people self,look at op now,from her write up she claims he loves her,if he is really into you he won't cheat on u period. And even if he does,he won't allow you find out..

Hope u know u can't stop him from chatting and socialising with his female folks..
Even if we advise you now, u wont adhere to
what we will tell you because like u said he d!!cks u real good..

I know u will still go and tell him all what we said here

Britishcoins:
And this is a brand new aircraft, produced by Americans, Booing 737 crashed twice in 6 months.

Something is wrong with that model.....

RIP.....

dingbang:
Cokacoola

Tosyne2much

Iceberylin

Chimerase2

Ronald4lif

Laveda


Alberto2k


I have forgotten other monikers I want to mention, will update as I remember.

MajorJeffery:
Married for 22years? Haba Haunty, you never tire? Delegate some of your bed duties to slay queens and live longer.

Edited: I just read your long post and I have few words for you. No one holds the key to your happiness and life, not even your husband. Think of what ending your life will do to your kids, siblings, parents and friends. Outlive your challenges, never allow them to outlive you. Shalom

Toks2008:
The bitter truth is that until we get to our late 40s or 50s, we may never understand that marriage is very vital for companionship.

All these guys n ladies shouting it's not a must to get married are ignorant. When they are still in their 20s n 30s n still getting attention they will take it for granted until it dawns on them at older ages when it becomes more difficult.

They full everywhere.. Your head dey dia bro

Even those guys on Nairaland always ranting that women are inconsequential to them are only deceiving themselves
Frustrated n depressed. You go to some big houses n all you will see is one lonely man or woman in their mid ages.

They will be forming voltron in public and will be shedding tears in private...we k ow their type.


Even me as a guy I dare not say woman is not a necessity.

Mightyking22:
i concur with u bruh bt we know how this part of the World react to issues like this

funmisticqueen:
doesn't he know that romanceland is a toxic place for romance, it's a war zone, not a getaway for two.

anambraamaka:
I know this girl ooo
Nigerian like to pretend eh those slamming her dey collect prick/pucci abegii happu nwa mmadu aka

OAUTemitayo:
I tell you.
Imagine saying my family cannot visit and sleep at my place if we marry.
It was a red flag..
And I really love her, but one need to use his sense

wetdick:
so i am asking you, how do you expect a man earning 100,000-150,000 monthly to save or budget 5 million for a wedding?


for your info, most wedding you see nowadays are sponsored by parents

Preshy561:
I never said you should spend 5million on wedding, I said you should save up to 5million aside the money budgeted for wedding and luxury.
5million should be fixed in your account.

OAUTemitayo:
Please don't lie to him.
I once dated a SS and if there is one thing I cherish her for, it is her loyalty and honesty.. Though I broke up because of her feminist tendencies...
She is still someone I cherish a lot.
Never lie,it would create hatred for you at last.

Miniano:
Hey bro I have been in your shoes some years back I met this girl she was quite and calm she Begs me even if I offended her it lasted for 4 months then bling the love became something else she feels too important she too over protective too sausy.

One day I sat down and think about this I can't continue living my life like the I sent her a break up message she pleaded and I accepted her back she baahve very well for another one week she bling shes back to her previous wahala character she hates it when you try to control her or tell her things she doesn't double date r have any other guys she's just too arrogant and never wanted to be under a man's command.

This are the cause I noticed if your girlfriend is from a polygamous family her dad or mum has been separated since birthy brother this can be the main causes of this issue.

Because she was not taught how to leave with a man so she never know what a man is. My advice for you bro is just to leave her alone no matter how much u love her u will end up regretting you married her I pray you don't regret in name of God.

Remember sugar came sweet but we no fit swallow am this means no matter how much u love some people in your life you have to let them go.

I had to call my ex girlfriend and call her about our relationship I had a conclusion with her on phone call she should move on with her life that's how I survived. It will be very hard for her to listen to you she's gonna turn you to someone that will be beating his wife because they would be some day you won't be able to tolerate all her characters again. My advice

Offpoint1:
I see a ship whereby 2 captains are trying to sail,
A kingdom where 2 kings are trying to rule,
A pack of wolves with 2 Alpha male,
A pride of lions with 2 dominant male,
A car where 2 drivers are trying to drive,
I see a perfect ingredient for a disastrous home.

Op, you don't need my advice... you need common sense. You don't have 2 madmen in a room and expect a tidy room.