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Health / Help Save Baby Emmanuel Okpue. by Totfulguy: 5:18pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
This is baby Emmanuel Okpue born April 26th, 2016. I came in contact with the baby Emmanuel at Lagoon Hospital Awolowo way Ikeja, Lagos while taking my own daughter for a check. Baby Emmanuel was diagnosed with Severe Bronchopneumonia according to the Doctors at the hospital. The situation requires urgent interventions to drain effusion and to place the baby under pediatric intensive care. Baby Emmanuel is currently under oxygenation and requires this to keep breathing and to stay alive. The hospital has done it's best but the situation requires the above mentioned intervention which needs an immediate deposit of 1.5 million Naira. His father, Mr Uche Okpue who is a driver, can hardly go by. I am moved by the plight of an innocent baby whose life is on the line to reach out on this forum. If you are moved to assist please do so using the following bank account detail which belongs to the father of the child, Mr Uchechi Okpue. Bank: Stanbic IBTC . Account number: 0011733633. You can call Mr Uche Okpue on 08059090255 or 08034372297. It's the least we could do for a dying child. 1 Share
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Family / Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Totfulguy: 2:26am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard: Ok...am not one who likes to come down hard on anyone. So am sorry to have sounded the way I did. But reading your post, I could sense the rage under your breath and I thought, in your interest, you should leave the house. But you do sound sober, so I will give you my honest opinion. I presume you are relatively young, thus your rather selfish and childish (no insults meant) assessment of your situation. I know as you grow older (compulsory) and grow up (optional) you will find out that there are things in life that were not entitled to, which we have and for which we should be eternally grateful. Here are a few things you have for which you should be grateful one of them is your caring parent. But to help you re-orientate your mind, take the following into consideration. 1. Caring Parents: By your admission, your parents have cared for you the best way they can. And they deserve your gratitude. Life is like a relay race. Parents run and hand the baton over to their children. The baton must be handed over whether we like it or not. Many parents do not consider it a necessity to prepare their children for the responsibility of "handling the baton" (eg, Showing them love, teaching them life values, give them an education or a vocation, stand by them when they need help and be there until they become adults (18 years old). But you have this. You see at some point, our parents, especially those who have 3, 4, 5 children, believe that they have done their bid for you and it is your turn to hold the baton. I can assure you, that if you have shown the expected sense of duty and responsibility, eg showing that you can handle issues responsibly and hold your own (and this does not require money) your parents will give you added privileges. But if all they hear is a whining son/daughter who appears to "drop the baton" when you should actually run with it, then you will not blame them for the treatment you are getting. "You dress to be addressed" they say. So instead of seeming to whine and beef, can you look at ways that you can be useful to your parents and take some responsibilities off them to lighten their load? Can you teach your younger brother or sister and assist with home chores. Or are you always on your phone doing so much but actually doing nothing? Your parent want to see you take more responsibilities off them and not be a burden. They have tried. 2. Understand that they don owe you: You see you need to be honest with yourself and realize that your parents have played their part and really do not owe you the things you now ask (as if of right) of them. They have done their bid. Ask yourself, if you did not have parents (like many who do not) what would you have done with yourself? I often ask young people who claim that they are lagging behind BECAUSE of their parent's failure to step forward and assist, If your parents are responsible for your backwardness, who will be responsible for those of your children? This thought gave me the drive to mentally detach myself from my parents strings and understand that I am all alone with God. This mentality helped me to look for my own things no matter how little as long it is genuine and has my name on it. So leave your rage behind and start looking for little genuine things to do and get busy. If you start leaving your house to "little things", you will see less of your mum and much less of what she is doing for your little one. You will probably come back too tired to notice what they are doing. I can tell you from my experience, that the moment you start going out of the house to do a small job, their attitude towards you may change. As a person, before I started my own business, I have sold shoes OK shoes, artworks, ran errands for people etc. And I kept busy with those things until I got a job. [b]3. Be sincerely grateful to your parent: [/b]You will notice that for as long as you are harboring resentments towards your parents, you will only stifle the creative functions of your brain and end up living in that closed enclave called "self" where nothing else exists but you. You need to think beyond yourself and think of what you can do for your parent. Ask yourself, if the responsibility of caring for your parents fell on your shoulders RIGHT NOW, would you be able and willing to stand up to it? Or will you see an opportunity to seek revenge? Times are tough, I know. But you can start small, start somewhere, start somehow. I hope this help. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Totfulguy: 11:26pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Holywizard: Please leave the house. Judging by your name "holywizard" you are confused (A wizard cannot be holy). People who have put in their best for you deserve gratitude not hate. You need to leave the house before you make front page again for the wrong reason. |
Crime / Re: People Murdered By Cultists In Elele, Rivers State (Graphic Photos) by Totfulguy: 8:23pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
ChangeIsCostant: What does being a cultist do for anyone. You feel a part of a group that does not mind giving you away and tomorrow you die with your eyes open. They call you hard man but you are gone. What has it done for you? Nothing! If you be cultist, carry am find work or carry am invent one good thing. Na so our things they be. When Oyinbo they do "cultist" of "witchcraft", dey de carry invent the facebooks and the Youtubes and the Tweeters of this world. Our own na to carry am answer WESTLIFE! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: 11-Year-Old Boy Maltreated By Stepmum: See The Highest Order Of Child Abuse by Totfulguy: 8:06am On Jun 11, 2016 |
princetunex007: So why cant you give an Anonymous tip to the police in your community. Give details here on this platform and people will help spread it. You will not forgive yourself if anything happens to that boy...I see you have good intentions. |
Politics / Re: Mass Sack: NLC, TUC Vow To Cripple Banking Sector by Totfulguy: 11:01am On Jun 10, 2016 |
sanusidabo: National League of Corruption! |
Politics / Re: Mass Sack: NLC, TUC Vow To Cripple Banking Sector by Totfulguy: 10:58am On Jun 10, 2016 |
Adesiji77: What is the outcome of their "negotiation" with FG over the hike in fuel price? Non.Senc. A bunch of sold-out, dishonest old men. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: White Kids Sing In Igbo Language (video) by Totfulguy: 9:44pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
bnanzip: Okay |
Agriculture / Re: Photos From My Small Watermelon Farm by Totfulguy: 9:42pm On Jun 08, 2016 |
SuperSuave: Lovely! Which part of the country is this? |
Nairaland / General / Re: You Lied,anioma Is Igbo &part Of Biafra,t/ruler Of Ukwuani Tells Gov. Okowa by Totfulguy: 7:49am On Jun 08, 2016 |
FREEDOMLOVER: Just passing! |
Nairaland / General / Re: UNILAG Students Drown In Beach During Friend’s Birthday by Totfulguy: 8:10am On Jun 07, 2016 |
Adesiji77: Sad |
Politics / Re: Nigerians Reacts To President Buhari's Twit About The Murdered Woman In Kano by Totfulguy: 12:42am On Jun 05, 2016 |
omoyemirally: If this is not an endorsement of the murder of an innocent woman, has the CIC made any mention of bringing the culprits to justice? Why do people argue as if they are arguing or reasoning in reverse? How has the president "spoken well?". Are we implying that the woman deserved to die because she disrespected another person's religion? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: What If Your Wife Or Girlfriend Cheated With Another Woman? by Totfulguy: 2:57pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
crackhaus: Una no serious! |
Family / Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Totfulguy: 2:55pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
byvan03: Spot on! People should know where to draw the line. Maybe the devil should wear a uniform so when he causes something we will see/know he caused it and also the ones he did not cause. |
Politics / Re: Niger Delta Avengers Bomb Chevron Oil Well Amidst Heavy Security (Photo) by Totfulguy: 8:41am On Jun 01, 2016 |
dragon2000: Atlantic and Mash no be Sambisa oh! 1 Like |
Family / Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Totfulguy: 7:42am On Jun 01, 2016 |
Ahasuerus2: Female thread! 1 Like |
Family / Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Totfulguy: 7:24am On Jun 01, 2016 |
pet4ril: But that may not really solve the matter...so what would you do to solve the matter permanently? |
Family / Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Totfulguy: 7:22am On Jun 01, 2016 |
byvan03: So how would you handle the issue? Will you confront him with the matter or would you act like nothing happened? |
Family / What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Totfulguy: 2:42am On Jun 01, 2016 |
I have earlier put up a post to sample the opinion of men on what their reaction would be if they found out their wife was cheating with a fellow woman. But I will like to also hear from women and understand how they'd react if they found out that their husband/boyfriend cheated with another man. So this thread is basically for women. How would you react if your husband cheated on you with a man. It will be educating to hear your reaction to this. |
Family / What If Your Wife Or Girlfriend Cheated With Another Woman? by Totfulguy: 2:28am On Jun 01, 2016 |
Am not one for sensational posts, but I just thought of this infidelity scenario and decided to sound out Nigerian men just to see how ego plays out when men find their wives/girlfriend cheating with other men, vis-à-vis cheating with a woman. So this thread is basically for men. So what would you do if you found your wife or girlfriend cheating with another woman? Well to answer the question myself, I would not really feel threatened, I'd just feel they are silly. If i came back and saw them on my bed in my room, I'll probably just ask them to go to the visitors room. |
Travel / Re: Nigeria To Sign Visa-free Pact With 8 Countries by Totfulguy: 5:58pm On May 25, 2016 |
BeastAmbition: Who says we cannot make our visas desirable by people in Dubai and the UK? Why dont we make Nigeria the Dubai of Africa and make our passport holders proud? What does it take? Dedication, forethought and honesty! |
Politics / Re: Current Price Of Items In Buhari's Administration (pic) by Totfulguy: 10:15pm On May 24, 2016 |
weyabblog: Way forward? First admit that we are going backwards irrespective of political affiliation or ethnicity. Lets start their. Make we no follow google map go enter lagoon because we TRUST Google! 7 Likes 1 Share
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Politics / Re: Current Price Of Items In Buhari's Administration (pic) by Totfulguy: 10:06pm On May 24, 2016 |
weyabblog: Broh are you fighting me? No be me put/ increase the prices nah ... Everybody is saying "we should suffer so that our children will enjoy". Thats what they told our parents. The same people, only say dem change clothe. 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: Current Price Of Items In Buhari's Administration (pic) by Totfulguy: 9:48pm On May 24, 2016 |
weyabblog: Tins are gerring berra! Fuel Nkor? |
Politics / Re: Jonathan Goes On Exile In Cote D’Ivoire, Militants Move To Shutdown Oil Output by Totfulguy: 12:27pm On May 23, 2016 |
wordychap: Jonathan will go into exile when those who stole before him have returned. There is a long queue of exile-worthy ex-leaders who are still in the country. He cannot jump the queue. This dailies should stop this hypocritical rabble rousing. Its an insult on the person of the former President. Dont get me wrong, I DO NOT SUPPORT looting, but when it appears that there are looters scattered all over the geography of Nigeria and you think you should only point in one direction it is no more journalism. It is Nons.SEnce. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Properties / Stock Holding Company For Worldclass Sanitary Ware Company Coming Into Nigeria by Totfulguy: 7:34pm On May 22, 2016 |
Our company is in early discussions with a prospect (a company) who happens to be based in India and have intentions of expanding to Nigeria. he Company is a global leader in FAUCETS, SHOWERS,SANITARY WARE, SPAS, WHIRLPOOLS, SHOWER PANELS, SHOWER ENCLOSURES, FLUSHING SYSTEMS, WASHROOM ACCESSORIES etc. They are interested in speaking with a stock holding company or an organization with such capacities that will hold their stock when they ultimately start operations in Nigeria. We are reaching out to members of the Nairaland Forum who might have large stock holding capabilities and who might be interested in this opportunity that offers a nice compensation plan. For any who might not be in position to personally offer such services but who may know some company who might, I will be glad to have any contact within your professional network who might be in a position to offer such services. Kindly revert with any organizations that may come to mind to enable me start up some sort of initial engagement as the representative of the companies are hoping to come to Nigeria soon. Please bear in mind that this opportunity does not require any financial commitment from you and you are free to pass it on if it does not suit your present circumstances. I will await your response. Feel free to reach me on o_maxwell@hotmail.co.uk. |
Politics / Re: 940m Grazing Reserves For Herdsmen:lawmakers Fault Buhari by Totfulguy: 5:04pm On May 21, 2016 |
cktheluckyman: There is Land at Bourdillon and Gerrard Road for Grazing Reserve. I will personally donate it. 5 Likes |
Politics / Not Fantastically Corrupt. by Totfulguy: 11:05am On May 20, 2016 |
I decided to put up this thread to enable us celebrate hardworking people around us who are known for their honesty and integrity over the years. This thread is intended to honor such people and prove to the world that there are indeed Nigerians who are not "NOT FANTASTICALLY CORRUPT". This are men who over time are not influenced by the corruption around them and would never compromise.0 I saw a post by a great Gentleman who happens to be part of my professional network, where he celebrated a newspaper vendor he has known for years to be a man of integrity and I am putting it up here. So do you know someone near you who is not "fantastically corrupt" and not corrupt at all? Lets celebrate them together and give honor to whom it is due. It could be your coblar, Janitor, Tailor, Former school teacher, landlord, driver any one. Just start your post with NOT FANTASTICALLY CORRUPT. You can tell about them or you can put up a picture if you have. Lets do this people.
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Politics / Re: Fuel Hike: NLC-TUC Strike Updates by Totfulguy: 10:27am On May 18, 2016 |
Iyawotuntun: Not me. GOD! |
Politics / Re: Fuel Hike: NLC-TUC Strike Updates by Totfulguy: 9:49am On May 18, 2016 |
Larryfly: Proverbs 26:4 and 26:5. Today I decided to do verse 5. Sometimes I do verse 4. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Fuel Hike: NLC-TUC Strike Updates by Totfulguy: 9:40am On May 18, 2016 |
olatunji21: Guy no vex. I don modify that bit. Per term I meant. Common... 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Fuel Hike: NLC-TUC Strike Updates by Totfulguy: 9:37am On May 18, 2016 |
ASL33: Thank you my brother. |
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