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Palazee:
Dude is the definition of consistency


The energy wasted on trolling this beautiful thread if channelled to hustling. Dude will be balling by now.

If only you knew 😂😂🤣🤣

Antihypocrite:
Abi na d club wey dem carry me go?

Which club be that?

PARADIZEPRIEST:
how did they allow you get this exclusive photo shots

Guy are you that dull abi na the school wey you no go dey do you?

Antihypocrite:
Guys, what is the fun in clubbing abeg? Few days ago I went to a club. Here is what I observed

1. Some girls hustling to get hook up gigs.
2. Some guys trying so hard to out spend each other.
3. A new job industry has been created for hype men. Whatever that means.
4. How can the smoking of shi sha be legal?
5. You cannot have a good time in a club. It's too noisy
6. I will never go there again.


File photos used for illustration

Na that hype man noise dey vex me pass

luminouz:
Boss, we don't engage the trolls. You know that their wish is to derail this thread and scatter everything.

See Jew man dey feel like crew leader after enough soapy. Hahaha.

When I know say you no be better person na when you see that Adam guy dey follow person fight. Instead of showing love for a brother, you instead tell mugus make dem ignore am. Is it because you think he’s a threat to you on this thread? 🤔

Your mates are doing big things in the world, you dey fight for class captain of Redpill Jew men? Hahahaha 😂😂😂

MetalJigsaw:
🤣🤣🤣 u dis guy abi girl wetin u want sef

See na. Na him alt be that Kezie moniker

Pukkalolo:
Ok let's get started...

1. I'm tired of being a nice guy and insecure. I want to be more confident and improve my frame?

Look, the only way to be truly confident is to simply become comfortable with rejection and criticism. We think confidence comes from the ability of getting what we desire... But in reality, true confidence is being comfortable with losing what you desire(e.g the girl). For example when a beautiful girl reject or decline a guy's romantic interest, he tends to feels sad and emotionally weak.

But I'm totally different in the sense that when I get rejected or it seemed like I'm losing a girl, I still carry myself with a boatload of CONFIDENCE. That's because I'm totally comfortable with rejection.

Confidence works in a paradoxical way: The more I try to make things go my way and try hard to get the girl, the more insecure and less confident I become. But the more I embrace that not every girl will like me, the more confidence I suddenly feel in my own skin; and that then boost my chance of getting her.


2. How do I improve my sex game?

Look at it this way: imagine you moved into a new estate, and you want to give yourself a nice haircut. You heard there are only two barbers. Let's say these two barbers are I and IAmHim1.

So you first enter into my saloon. Without even asking you the haircut you want, I began barbing your hair. I rush the task, and in less than "2 minutes" I was done with your hair. Then I demanded for my fucking money. Of course, you are not satisfied with my job.

A week later, you went to IAmHim1 barbing salon. Before he begin haircut, he asked you how you want your haircut to look like...then he began the task. He relax and passionately cut your hair. He took his time and make sure he gave you maximum satisfaction. After over 30 minutes he was done.

You naturally prefer IAmHim1 service over mine because he took his time to satisfy your hair needs.

When a girl allow you bleep, she wants sexual satisfaction from you. Having good sex game is simply having the ability to satisfy her sexually.

But here's the interesting thing I've learnt from dating different ladies over the years, there is no "one fit size all secret" to satisfy any woman. I noticed that different women have different preferences and different things they enjoy in bed . What works for one woman may not necessarily work for another woman.

Just like IAmHim1 ask you about your haircut preference before going ahead to cut your hair. The only way to know what she enjoy most is to talk about sex with her and pay attention to how she responds to what you are doing in bed.

Most times, when I'm the talk stage with a girl or getting to know her, the vast majority of conversation is centered around relationships, sex and romance.. This helps me get to know her deeply and what she enjoys.

3. How do I handle this situation? She was asking me how to make me feel better and asking if i was mad when she told me she was dating him.

Well, dude...life is teacher, the more you live the more you learn. It's a good thing that now you know the kind of best friend you have: he's a fucking snitch. And that also says alot about the girl.

4. How do I remedy this situation and still Bleep her again?

Wait, dude, are you still concerned about bleeping her You got to be kidding me!
I see what your problem is, but don't worry, we'll get that in #7.


5. How do I stop being emotional and acting like a girl?

I've already answer this question several times. Simply open my profile and read all my posts on these thread and read all my topic nairaland.

6. How can I keep myself sane and stop thinking about it?

Well, distract yourself with productive activities....and try to meet other girls online or something. By the way, why do you still even have her phone number Anyways, just keep yourself busy with productive activities.


7. Give me some general advice about game? How do I improve and go on from here.

The best way to improve your game with women is to change your focus. Most men are pussy focused because they subconsciously believe pussy is the prize. They'll do anything to get the pussy...

But I'm different. I'm attention focused because subconsciously I believe my attention is the fucking prize. I learned about the idea of pussy focused and attention focused over the years of dating different (naija) ladies.

It's funny, in my entire life, I've never seen or heard anyone talk about the concept of pussy focused or attention focused. I had to learn that the hard way: personal experience.

Years ago, I realized that most women dating advice out there always tell women to be cautious when it comes to giving men sex.

But nobody told men to be cautious when it comes to the amount of ATTENTION they give women. Instead they tell men the opposite. They say, "women love attention, so if you want to get her, give her your full attention."

But in reality, it's the other way around: if you want to get her, give her less of your attention.

When you are pussy focused, you believe her pussy is the prize to be won, so you try to impress her by saying or doing things that you think would inspire her to give you access to the pussy. This naturally makes you weak.

A man who is pussy focused places more importance on "getting the girl".... He doesn't mind disrespecting himself or sacrificing his self-esteem in the process.

I'm attention focused, so I places my attention on pedestal, not pussy. A woman's heart or pussy is not the prize to be won but rather my ATTENTION is the prize to be won. She has to earn my full attention.

The reason why you find yourself in this mess with that girl is because you are pussy focused. If you were attention focused, by now she'll be the one chasing your attention and trying to give you the pussy continuously.

Pussy focused game is what most pua, dating gurus and even most redpill advice teach... This is why most guys still lack solid game despite everything they've learn about women.

I run attention focused game because my attention is the only thing i have DIRECT CONTROL over. So, I don't give a flying Bleep about her pussy: my focus is to simply keep adjusting the validation(attention) I give and withhold from her.

I have met only few guys in my life who are authentically attention focused. These guys are never lonely: they attract and get lots of women in quality and quantity

When you run pussy focused game, you'd be trying to pass her shit test.

But when you run attention focused game, you'd be the one basically dishing out the shit test. Remember, my attention is the prize and she has to earn my full attention, that's why I'm dishing out these shit test to see if she's worth my attention.

Later on this thread, I'll give you different series shit test I throw at woman to see if she's worth the pursuit... The more she pass my shit test, the more I reward her with my attention.

When you run attention focused game you might naturally tend to come across as a asshole, cocky or overconfident.. Which is not a bad thing tho. Girls will love you regardless.

See my interaction with this girl in this post. She thinks I'm the biggest asshole, but up to this day she keeps returning for the D:

https://www.nairaland.com/7800065/darkest-aspects-female-psychology#125048452

I hope this was helpful. Stay blessed.

Oga copy and paste. How much is this your book wey you wan sell to mugus after copying from PUA websites

millie0:
Well understood.

I was placing too much importance on her and I lost myself in the process. By acting too needy and desperate, I was making her pull away.

I'm the prize and my attention is worth more than sex with her.

This has thought me more about human relationships. I also realized I was naive, your "friend" could sell you out faster than your enemy.

Thanks again.

You go just dey laugh the mugus that are taking you seriously. Hahaha 🤣

millie0:
Gold. You explained things perfectly and colorfully. I see things clearly now. I've learnt my lesson from this situation.

Look at this troll. Are you a man or woman? If man, are you gay?

So you siddon for your room and just dey type epistle say you need help..to gain what? I looked at your old posts and I felt like giving you a hot konk on that your large forehead.

AyoII:
Wahala dey oo, So f.. king trolls has taken over this thread. It's too early in the new year to start doing this. You guys can do Better.

Go learn the difference between ‘has’ and ‘have’ this new year..

luminouz:
You should have ignored him.

Other mumus like him are vicboy1, wotowotoman. Same moniker, same person...

Ignore and eat g them fade away like the mist before the early morning sunrise

Says the man that is successful with beautiful women when he dey soapy 🤣🤣

Ballzproblem2:
There are several monickers people should learn to ignore


They're: tranquility, wotowot.oman labidi.69


(same person)

learn to ignore him once you see his moniker in your mention Don't try to read the context is not worth it.😉

Guy you don finally treat that STD for your balls abi you carry am enter 2024 🤢🤮

Dyfynezz12:
What's population of China,India?

First, China don block their internet from these sites. Two, internet penetration in India is no where near the US wey almost everybody get cheap internet!

Daniel7543:
U.S no get joy. See as the margin long

What’s the population of the US? Guy you are too dull abeg. WTF!

PureFace1:
Some Essential Dating Advice for Men
by Mike Pilinski

If you're a single guy still looking for your dream girl, I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical" as you well know.

Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out:

1) Don't Try to Act Like a Fake on the First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche.

Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.

Acting like a phony with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive.

She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!

2) Create New Memories Instead of Swapping Them

Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.

It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.

So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere.

Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.

3) Don't Be a Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!

The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background.

Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4) Forget About Trying to Act "Like Yourself"

The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.

Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phony-baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.

So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks.

Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.

5) Five Minutes of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND.

You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.

6) Obsession Is the Hallmark of the Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested.

Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.

7) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It

I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind!

Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.

Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH.

Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.

Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!

Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you test it out.



https://www.sosuave.com/articles/essential.htm

See where those mugus dey copy and paste from. Tomorrow dem go talk say they are successful with women and they want to sell books to mumus.

ShaqFu:
honestly, It shouldn't be your business or anyone else's how a person decides to spend his money, or who he decides to give it to.

Na lack of toto. Women don show these boys pepper. Can you blame him for hating women with a passion when woman never look him side since dem born am? I wonder whether na man or woman he dey think when he dey soapie? 🤔

luminouz:
Beauty and shape wey men like me wey no dey spend shi shi don fuq taya? It's pedestalization mumuricality disease (PMD) dey affect these simps na. They think because the girl is pretty, she no dey suck diick, do doggy, being choked, ass slapped, vigorously fuqed, cummed on her face and drink my cumm-type of girl. If only they knew!!!

The mumu might have not sent his parents 100k in a whole year but here he is, doing appreciation of the Lord's work!!!

Damn, simps make me mad!!!

See bolded. For soapy and porn. Right?

poweredcom:
You be heavy mumu , mugu , na u be so if u dont keep a stupid nigerian girlfriend who has notin to offer you than make your life miserable ....money you wont be a man on ur own

I dont know why guys wont listen upon how information have been disposable in this era how can u give a girl u have not.married 100k out of ur salary

Oga u deserve to be slapped and wipped ....u for carry ur whole salary give her na ...giving an ingrate ur blood amd sweat ....and u gain insult kick her to the streets

Guys go and search for famous pick up artistes on the internet (PUA). If you read their blogs and you are not convinced that these are the sources for these clowns’ materials, then you are an idiot!

luminouz:
Pukkalolo... Kindly ignore that asslicker crying for your attention. Don't let IT derail the thread.

Who but a dîngbat would ask someone to provide evidence of his success with women so he can send Xmas money? Dem tell you say we be smellos for here?

Mumu

Look at them. Broke ass losers trying to chop Mugu from people wey no sabi. Nigerians are so gullible. No wonder useless pastors dey cash out daily.

I repeat. All of una wey dey form Voltron and master of women are hungry Jew men in real life. Una no dey get toto apart from brothel wey una dey go nack and pay 2k.

All the trash you jew men dey write are copied and pasted from well known pick up artiste websites. I go start to dey post the links to expose you mugus.

My offer still stands. If you Jew men are so successful with women, show proof and I wire una Xmas money sharply. Bozos!

Never ever trust a girl that has male besties or that prefers to hang with guys. In most cases, she’s fukking them.

Those friendships occur because one person is attracted to the other that may not find them desirable at the moment. The undesired one accepts to be friend zoned with the hope of something happening in the future. And in many cases, something go happen. Una go fight and that bestie go take advantage to shine Congo. Infact, Bestie go dey pray say make una dey fight well well

FanRong you be real Jew man. You think say na achievement to buy sneakers for woman? ;

That girl is just using you for free food and accommodation. She go soon cut out when things work for her. She sef know say you be Jew man

Ahnie see the kind pizza wey these jokers carry come for me. Yamayama fall on their bald head for this