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Not advisable if your wife steals from you .

Most men who lock their phones do so because they discovered that their spouses cant be trusted . They steal from them and. others too..

I remember one such men now as I type this. When he went to the bank to complain that money was mysteriously disappearing from his account, he was asked by the customer service after checking , "who is Mrs so so and so ?

He replied, "my wife "

He was then informed that the money has been disappearing into her bank account in another bank .

He then ask the customer service again ,"why don't I receive any alert each time she transfer money into her account ?

The reply that came next was ,"she obviously was deleting it so you don't know about. it"

And when he got home and confronted the wife about. what he discovered ,she denied that she was the one .

So wiith a wiife like that ,what do you expect the man to do next?

Lock the phone and don't tell her the password .

justlove91:
I'm not condemning or judging anyone harshly for doing good because of God, I believe it's better than doing bad because of God.

And if you read OP well you will see where I said I wish I do not believe in law of sowing and reaping so as to practice moral mandala much more. This means I still do good with the intention of reaping good in mind. I just find the concept of moral mandala such more appealing. .

Ok. But do you agree that the concept of moral mandala is not practicable.

It's hard to continue with that for long without getting disinterested at some point or struggling to continue. You need some form of motivation to propel you forward .

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I do not believe this, as a Spiritist I believe in afterlife, law of sowing and reaping and channeled messages through mediums. All messages channelled through medium agree that what motivates an action is much more relevant than the action itself in the life beyond.

"No matter what motivates you "should not have been interpreted by you to mean motivation is not relevant .

I have not said motivation is not important or relevant . Infact ,I emphasised it's relevance in kick-starting and sustaining ones drive in doing good . That's what I said .
Please go back and read again .

justlove91:
So we can both agree there are two ways to use "Good"
- As a mean to an end (the politician)
- As an end in itself.

The question of which is better remain subjective.

Why have you placed the word ,good ,in quotes and then follow it up with something that doesn't connect to it.

An action of good will always result in something for the doer of good ,and that's why everyone does good with the hope thejy benefit from it somehow .

And good is good inrespective of what we want to achieve with it. The good of the politician and those of others are the same good .

And I'm afraid you still continue to see it subjectively and that's because you want to argue that people can do good all the time without any kind of motivation , moral mandala as against doing it for a God . You 're resisting reality since it's not possible to do good everytime for 'itself "

Peope can find motivation for doing good from any where and it doesn't matter where . What matters is that it helps them to do good and continue doing so.

So God or moral mandala for humanity sake ,the choice is yours .

I don't practice any religion but won't because of that condemn or judge harshly anyone doing good because of a God.

Good is good no matter what motivates you to do it .

The intention to do good is not the same as the motivation for doing good . You seem not to know the difference .

Someone may have the intention to do good ,but cannot find the motivation to proceed and because of that does nothing .

justlove91:
@bolded
I will reply you by pasting my reply to triplechoice that I asked you to read earlier showing that sometimes the good being done change if the motive is not right.

You see, motive is very important because if a good is used as a means to an end and the end is not realised, people tend to destroy the good. Let me give two examples.

These happened to two of my friends.

1. The laptop charger of a friend got spoilt so it became stressful to charge her laptop because she has to wait for others to finish charging and the light was not stable.
This guy offered (she didn't ask him to) to buy her a charger with the intention that through that she will agree to his advances.
When the guy got rejected again after buying the charger, he angrily collected the charger back and destroyed it to spite her.

2. She was out on the street, it was about to rain. A guy offered to give her a lift but with the intention of getting her number. After driving for some minutes, it starts to rain, one thing lead to another, he asked for her number, she declined, and can you guess what the guy did? He dropped her on the road while it was still raining.

Those guys used the "good" as a means to an end but when the end was not achieved they destroyed the good.

No. They didn't destroy the good they did at first . They only discontinued doing good due to lack of motivation from realising they wont benefit anything if they continue .

Your reaction to your friends action is subjective . You cannot see that any good can come from it in the end hence you judge them wrongly . It's possible it leads to marriage . Who knows ?

Their reaction after, not before, the girl rejected them is also subjective . I neither support that kind of behaviour , or encourage it.Not everyone reacts that way .

So, I think it's safe to say ,your friends are no gentlement from the way they behaved later ,but however, they actually tried to do some good as a means to an end, and that good was never destroyed . The lady enjoyed it if only temporarily

justlove91:
What I mean by that in the context of the example is that the rich man ought to build the hospital or charity organisation simply for the improved health and living condition the people will get, that is making the people the end. .

Don't forget that the rich man in your context is also a politician . In other words ,the context is politics and the rich man is who? a politician .

So ,he did no wrong at all to build an hospital for the people in order to motivate them to vote for him . The rules behind the game of politics allows for that kind of behaviour ,and on the personal level we all engage in that kind of politics which is normal :To marry a woman or man ,you must play politics ,if not ,you remain single .

In politics ,people are only motivated to vote for you if you first of all demonstrate what you can do in the present moment , or capable of doing later after you win the election. The electorates won't vote for you for voting sake .You must make promises or better still do something first they can enjoy to encourage them. That's it. .

Rather than taking those actions as a stepping stone on the way to his end (political power or fame), that is making the people the means to an end.

It's to motivate the electorates to vote for him . It's not wrong and at least the people are benefiting something and may continue to benefit after the election if he wins .
And you 're getting it wrong .The peope are not the means to an end ,but the hospital itself ,without which they won't vote for him .

justlove91:
@bolded

Of course a rich man could build hospital and charity organisation with the wrong motive (maybe fame or political ambition) and people will still be better off with it than without it.
But it will be much better for the people to be the end rather than a mean to an end.

As a said earlier, I'm not sure about mother Teresa's intention.

Please be clear about the bolded .

LordReed:
This is my position as well. I find I am less bothered by why people do good things than that they do it at all.Your motivations for doing good will not make you superior or inferior to some other person who has a different motivation.

Exactly .

Whatever reason one finds for doing good doesn't matter . What matters is that we are good to those around us because at the end of the day it benefits us more, whether moral mandala or God.



Not many persons will bother to confirm first the motivation behind any act of kindness shown to them before showing gratitude.

It's more important to focus on the good in doing good and receiving it from whoever, than on the motive behind it. Any other thing is for the purist to debate on.

And it's your personal opinion that mother Theresa is what you described her to be . The thousands of people ,who benefited from her act of kindness, rate her differently and that's because they received real life saving help from her and not just the reason behind the help .

A good person is a good person wherever you find him.

LegendHero:
But certificate is not money. Don’t be a dullard.

I can photocopy my certificate and still use it legally.

But I can’t photocopy money because it is only useable legally in its original form.

You must be a fool then for intially comparing paper money issued by financial institution such as CBN and an uncertified document reprinted by an anonymous third party agent .

Please stop replying and take your stupidity elsewhere .

LegendHero:
The signature is always static for the given period. Even on the certificate the school issued, the signature is printed and that is why they are so identical to a fault.

Do you think the school VC for example will be signing every damn student certificate?

It’s just like saying CBN sign every paper money issued by themselves.

Can you as an individual reprint paper money that carries the signature of the CBN governor?

Kobojunkie:
1. Not worth investing mental energy into abeg!

2. My experience?

Well, I was aware I had mental problems even as a child but those around me couldn't quite comprehend what I meant, and several fed me bullsheet stories about how I was special. I had so many questions but none of those around me seemed to have answers for any of the questions that plagued me from my youth. I noticed that they seemed to rationalize anything and focus attention on whatever it was they could find to distract them from all the core questions one ought to ask in this life.

Anyway, I continued to struggle with my personal mental and neurological demons— depression, anxiety, panic, and narcolepsy as I later found out — until about a decade ago when it dawned on me that my mind was finally giving out on me. I couldn't cope anymore with all the stress and I couldn't keep up with even regular conversation. I believe I lost my language at that point — aphasia— It was then that forced myself to seek mental health treatment. I did get treatment for several years but I think my case was far gone at that time so eventually the meds began failing me only two years in and I found myself back at square one again. I was able to make it finally a matter of life and death. I felt it was better to die than continue existing for the sake of existence with the hell in my brain, so I went back to the questions about life and meaning that had plagued me since my childhood. I resolved to find answers to die. I began reading through religious books to find any god that would respond to me. As one who has actually traversed the length and breadth of the mind, I was ready to honestly seek answers that were outside of my mind which I was sure had none to offer. I was not going to fool myself with any more delusions.

I did as instructed in almost all the other books I had read and nothing happened or came down. No answers! So, along the way, when I came to the bible, I decided to research claims made by God in order to follow the instructions as well just as I had done with the other information I had found in other religious books. Somehow, I began to notice a sort of presence surrounding me at the time. But recall I also had mental illness and neurological issues as my bedfellows at that time so I tried not to think too much of the new sensation but it did creep me out how things seemed to suddenly align and begin making sense more than they ever did. It was like I was not alone anymore but I could not explain it cause I truly believed it was my mind playing tricks on me. I remember that while researching the Bible, I remember wondering what happened after the disciples exited the scene, and then one day, I entered a shop and it seemed I was being led to the book section — a place I rarely ever went in that particular store since it was all very old books on the shelf. But then a particular book caught my eye. I opened it and lo and behold, the answers to the questions that I had were in the book. This sort of thing became a regular occurrence as though some invisible power was able to read my mind and lead me to what it was that I needed answered or even needed.

Then one night, after I had again practiced what I had read in the book as before, I got home and everything changed. Out of my mouth, a foreign dialect began to pour out every time I tried to say something and I was certain that someone else was there with me. I called up my family and reported that I had made some sort of connection with aliens and I think I was possessed by one of them. That was my first-ever experience with the supernatural. And the beginning of my journey toward the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.

So, long and short, I was aware my major problem was mental, and physical, even though those around me did not agree. But because mental illness has a way of imposing a sort of laziness on one, I did not get help in time for it, and that fault was all mine as I kept getting caught in one mental delusion or the other in my bid to find answers for the questions that plagued me. While on treatment, I gained enough clarity to realize the delusions for what they were, identify them, and fight back. However, with meds eventually failing, it was hard to keep the fight going but I got clear enough to realize that resolving the questions would get me a lot closer to where I could maybe live above the fog for a while. Fortunately, I found the spiritual and began my journey toward complete resolution of the mental and neurological problems that had plagued me all of my life.

Oh! What an inspiring story!


And this what I'm talking about !

Your personal story of going through very challenging times, when all hope seems lost , and then finally finding a way to rise above it ,can only serve as great encouragement and healing for others currently going through the same thing or anything closer to it .

You have gone through the valley of the shadow of death and with that fear has been completely removed from your life .

The greatest challenge in life is to eradicate fear and once that is done nothing can defeat you anymore .


Thanks for sharing ,but I'm already worried about what some fools on this board, whose major occupation is trolling, would want to do with the things you have opened up about your past struggles.

Just take care of yourself .

Thanks once again .

Kobojunkie:
1. Read my initial post for answers.

2. Concerning what exactly?

1. We are on the same page on this , and I quite agree with you that one should first of all rule out natural causes from a doctor or professional before anything else.

But the problem is that most people in this part of the world are unable to listen in order to understand what you 're saying . It's always flying past their heads,

And the major reason for that, in case you don't know, is because they hold on wrongly to the idea that "the spiritual controls the physical" .

That statement ,which has been misconstrued and not well understood ,especially within Pentecostal Christianity ,has unfortunately become a thought blocking phrase that hinders clear thinking and prevents them from doing the correct thing .


They really don't understand what it means to say the " spiritual controls the physical " and when to apply it. The just repeat it unthinkingly on just about anything .

Even ordinary malaria is attributed to spiritual causes that requires prayers to cure it instead of cheap over the counter antimalaria drugs .




2.If there was anytime in your life when everyone around thought a problem you had was spiritual and were offering prayers to deliver you without success , until you chose to see a doctor ,or professional on your own or with the help of others , where it was finally resolved ? . Yes, any personal experience ?

This is what I do whenever I want to advise some religious persons about seeking professional help . I usually find that very effective in the long run .

.People pay more attention and learn better from what you have gone through yourself ,not just mere advice and that's why they say experience is always the best teacher .



In any case ,you' re not under any obligation to share your personal experiences . You 're free to do what you like .

Thank you .

Kobojunkie:
An OK from your doctors should do.

2. An example of what exactly?

1. What does an ok 'from your doctor' mean ?
Are you saying that a medical doctor can let one know a problem is spiritual ? .

2. Any experience of anyone you know concerning this . It could be you .

I believe you 're speaking from experience , and we know that people learn better from stories or what others have experienced .

Kobojunkie:
First be sure it has been sufficiently ruled out. Then and only then should one even come using the term spiritual.

Ok.
But how can one be sure it has been sufficiently ruled out ?

Can you give an example to make it more clearer .

Kobojunkie:
I suggest you first rule out mental illness before you believe any claims that your problem is of spiritual roots. Make an appointment with a professional mental health counselor immediately and get the necessary evaluation done first. If treatment is recommended by the therapist, I suggest you pursue it with all energy to ensure the identifier issue is properly taken care of.

And when mental illness is ruled out by a professional ,what then ?

LegendHero:
The signature is always static for the given period. Even on the certificate the school issued, the signature is printed and that is why they are so identical to a fault.

Do you think the school VC for example will be signing every damn student certificate?

It’s just like saying CBN sign every paper money issued by themselves.

But reprinting of another person's signature without their permission is a crime .

plaindealer:
That's not true, the schools have nothing to do with third party vendors and they don't authenticate records that's not theirs because they are not responsible for other people's products.

Replacement certificates are ordinary products of printing services.

So the 'printing services are also allowed to 'print the signature from the original certificate ?

onumadu:
How I wish that more people would share their experience of the spirit husband spirit wife phenomena.

A lot of people are suffering in silence because nobody understands them. Some are too embarrassed to even admit that they are battling the problem.

From my own research, the issue is a BIG problem that A LOT of people have, though they don't usually connect it to other problems in their lives: poverty, career failures, infertility (fibroid, PCOS, demoid cysts, ectopic pregnancy, miscarriages) ,infant deaths, dysfunctional sex lives with spouses, inexplicable conflict in the home, untimely deaths, family chaos and lack of cohesion, etc .

They simply ascribe these problems to other culprits, while the real culprit hides under the cover of ignorance and religious dogma. I would never forget what the exorcist in the book I referenced earlier said about people he cast demons out of.
He said he performed the exorcism on even some church leaders who pleaded secrecy.

Unfortunately not everyone is blessed with the gift of dreams, because in dreams you see these things better.

Anyway, let's keep hoping for more real life experience cases.

Knowledge is power.

How does a spirit spouse make one have fibroid ?

And do you know of anyone who had their fibroid melting away ,without medical intervention ,after the spirit was eradicated ?

Well for me ,people should be advised to seek medical help first, before anything else

Most of the problems you listed above can be handled medically because there are rational explanation for them.

The only time I think one should consider 'spiritual', (alternative explanation) , is when it cannot be explained.

onumadu:
Firstly, thanks for sharing your friend's story. It helps to prove one of my suspected theories, which is that we as MAN (or living human) have a LOT of authority over these things, but because we are in the flesh and mostly ignorant, we don't know that fact.
I've had an experience that I would share later.

Having said that, I would not dismiss spirit spouses outright, because the very fact that people don't believe that they exist, gives them IMMENSE power to make mayhem in the lives of people.
In fact, these powers depend on people's denial or being unaware of their existence to thrive and do damage.

Apart from spirits, there are also other "beings" that inhabit what a renowned spiritualist Prof Nathan Uzorma calls "the subtle layer of this realm".
In that "subtle layer", beings can appear PHYSICALLY and disappear at will.
Most times, humans not gifted or trained can NEVER see these beings. But the "initiated" see them easily.
These beings perform PHYSICAL acts on this planet.
And they are not exactly spirits, and neither are they physical beings.
Deep stuff.
I'll share one example next ...

You still don't get my point .

What I reject is the name ,spirit spouse given to it and not that people don't have those experiences .

I say ,spirit spouse is not an accurate description of the entity responsible and I have given reasons .

Having sex with someone doesn't mean they have become your wife automatically . The idea behind spirit spouse is that once you have sex in the dream ,then you have a spirit spouse .

How? Where and when did the marriage take place ?

You are a Christian and so I ask, why not use the word demon instead of spirit spouse which is from traditional African religion tied to reincarnation .

For me ,the word is , negative spirit
or energy entanglement. This, I think ,accurately describes it.

One of my childhood friends who passed away before now ,,may his soul RIP, once shared with me a strange recurring dream he experienced when he was still a bachelor and living alone .

According to him ,he would see himself in a dream having sex with an unkown lady, the same person everytime .It worried him greatly it was the person appearing each time and because of this,he decided to pay close attention to the dream to unravel it.

Whenever she appeared in the dream ,she would go through exactly the same motion of pulling down her pants seducttively to get him aroused ,and the next thing he would see himself on top of her banging away ,unable to stop or resist her until he ejaculated and wakes up from it to find he has soiled his bed with his own semen ..

Wet dream ?

He wouldn't see it as that .

He said he had reasons to suspect that something other than just ordinary wet dream was going behind the scene .


He wasnt practicing sexual repression to trigger that kind of dream experience . He had regular sex whenever he wanted to.

So what could be the cause ? He had no answer and immediate solution and because of this , it got him further depressed that there was something going on in his life he had no control over.

Another thing he told me was that the dream was always leaving him badly debilitated plus the bad mood that came with it.

Then he got an idea on what to do.


And this was what he did .

Every night before going to sleep ,he would affirm to himself that he was going to confront the woman in the dream whenever she showed up .

And so , one fateful night , she came as usual and without wasting time was begining to pull down her pants. But this time around ,my friend said he became conscious in the dream as if in the waking state and remembered what he promised to do .

At first, he pretended he was trying to unbuckle his belt for another round of sex ,but immediately lashed out angrily with ,

"So you have come again ?
'just wait ,let me pull off my trousers first ,

" today I'm going to fug the hell out of you so that next ....."

Before he would finished saying that, she stopped in her tracks and with suprise showing in her face , pulled up her pants quickly ,turned around and ran away.

That was the last time he ever saw her in his dreams . And he became free from the experience .




.Now that I just narrated what my friend went through and how he resolved it , I would like to say this,

I think I have been greatly misunderstood on this thread . I never said people don't have the kind of experience my friend had or dismissed them as imagination .No.

My position is that the explanation of what is responsible is not correct . I prefer the phrase ,negative spirits attachment and not spirit spouse which only mask the problem and makes it seem less than what it's.

That phrase ,spirit spouse, is a misnomer .

Spirits not yet in human form or have dropped a body at death , ( every human being is spirit in a physical body ) no longer possess sexual organs to have sex with anyone . Spirit is made of light energy. What exist is positive or negative energy ,spirits . Sometimes a spirit can be both positive and negative .

So I say, those sex dreams people suspect are caused by whatever are never what it seems . They're just symbolic representation of something going on behind the scene which must be investigated by the person experiencing it . . A negative entity might be using that illusion of having sex with you to vicariously feed on your energy of life force It's not real sex.

In addition , one should be aware that , the mind can create wet dreams to enable one relief sexual tension . That one is not a problem if you have ever experienced it. But unfortunately some person think otherwise . Not every wet dream or sex in a dream is evidence of spirit spouse, demons or whatever .One should learn the difference so one don't jump the gun .

And finally any entity that is impinging on one's free will , should be avoided , with all ties completely severed . There's spiritual deception everywhere . As above so below .


Well ,each one to his own.

My apologies to anyone waiting for what I promised to share

I have been taken away by some engagements .

The story will come later today . Thanks

sonmvayina:
I have shared my story here a while ago..
Well let me say it again...


Well I became conscious of her around 2004 during my NYSC. Before Then I thought it was a wet dream and just shove it aside.
Then when I woke I will be all wet and most times I would be in control and sometimes I would be dominated ....
I thought when I travelled to London it would stop but it didn't, until I met a lady from Trinidad and Tobago, after enough chatting and phone calls for e agreed to meet at my place...but long story short, junior no gree raise, she wondered why after I don talk full ground...next day she gave me some chants and ask me to wake up around 12.35am. I did ..I summoned her..
That's when she actually came "Sophia"..we talked..she was not jealous at all....she gave me the low down of everything ....I thanked her and told her to please allow me enjoy my incarnation. She said it would require for me to give her some stuff..and give up some things. I promised. So we became ally. I asked her why I could not "chop" the lady from Trinidad and Tobago, she said it would have harmed me...if I did,...I thanked her..we just became better aquinted. Since them she has become my ally.

It's obvious your story is missing some vital parts .

How can it be true that the person, the Trinidad and Tobago lady , who helped you to resolve the problem would have harmed you ?

And have you tested Sophia to know if she's not a mischievous entity from the other side masquerading as a spirit wife ?

Yes . That's very possible .I will share a friend's story later and how he resolved the problem .

Sometimes what some persons think is a spirit wife may not be it .

Dem nor born dat "spirit wife" well to come try me. We go fight till day break .

Kobojunkie:
This is all nothing but more bullsheet story telling abeg! I am not in the mood for this.

And you were not telling stories with your responses ?

cococandy:
They encourage men to sleep around because they are “polygamous” and somehow they are shocked that this the result. When there’s no surplus of women to go around, they invariably have to share their women with other men since one is not enough for a real man who is not a “simp”. This is simple math.

The way I can’t even pretend to have any sympathy for a polygamous man who’s affected by this. I hope they all get one or two kids fathered by other men.

The few faithful men are exempt. God help them

Oh!
You're sensible .
But your friend, Kobo wants to drag every man into it even the faithful ones.

But then, if a man or most men are unfaithful to their wives , it's still not an excuse or justification for the behaviour, paternity fraud .

Most women are
even againstt it .

And no where in the world is such a behaviour tolerated , a married woman getting pregnant for another man and then passing it on to her husband who doesn't know anything about it.

No matter the circumstances .It's fraudulent and unwise for any woman to mislead her husband or the person she intends to get married to with something that should not be his responsibility .

This is how I see it.

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Kobojunkie:
1. The fact that you resorted to telling stories already reveals that this is nothing but an attempt by you to over the facts which is that what you observe today comes from faulty cultural foundations.

2. So, these days it is not women stuck in marriages going out to have kids and bringing home babies from their encounters with other men as it was in the past? It is more special or different because it is now legally a crime? Keep telling yourself that nonsense.

Something is not right here .The education you have of your own people is very poor .That's the problem you need to deal with first before you continue to defend nonsense .

There's nothing like faulty foundation causing what we see today . That only exist in your imagination that likes to denigrate anything African .White people also engage in paternity fraud . So tell me ,what's their. foundation?



You ',re conflatimg two different things which are not related in anyway .

A fraudster is always fraudster no matter where they're found You 're in denial by defending such people .

Any woman trying that, paternity fraud , in those days is publicly disgraced around the community and then banished together with the man she has slept with . And that has not stopped in case you care to find out . .

In the past ( even up till now), there were sytems in place to prevent married women from engaging in such behaviour . In some cultures ,the women are placed under a curse or ask to swear to an oath with something connected to a fearsome local deity that they will never cheat on their husbands ,and because of that they never attempt to sleep around .

Get closer home and ask people from your own village to tell you exactly what they do to prevent married women from cheating so you stop spewing toxic waste on Nairaland to pollute everywhere and think you 're making sense .

The African woman of the past was hardly promiscuous unlike these days where anything goes due to the influence of western culture .


Polyandry was not widespread and so using that to generalise is stupid .

Morever , in that arrangement it's the women that marry the men and not the other way round . And it's only in a remote part of Ghana that's happening ,not everywhere.

That's it.

All that you're doing now is talk nonsense and deflect to cover for your initial emotional response to the topic .

Just rest Kobo .

Kobojunkie:
All the broods of the babymama's aren't children? Look, you are approaching this from an angle I am not even concerned with at all. What you call paternity fraud today was accepted norm back during the days of your ancestors. That it is now been made a crime does not remove from the fact that the problem is a result of cultural foundations from the time of your ancestors. So unless you are here to advocate we abandon the ways of your ancestors as well, I ask you don't bore me any further.

SMH
You have shown you don't know the difference between paternity fraud committed by women these days and certain cultural practices of some of your African ancestors in the past and even in the present moment .



No where in Africa was paternity fraud an acceptable practice .If you know of any such places, mention them .


The only instances back then , where a woman was allowed to give a child from another man to her husband , were in cultures that practiced polyandry( parts of Ghana and others, not everywhere ) ,or if the man is impotent ,both husband and wife can agree that the woman meets with another man to get her pregnant .

In both cases ,polyandry or impotency , it's always with the consent of the husband or everyone else involved , and that's not fraud .The husband is always in the know .

But for paternity fraud, these days , the husband knows nothing at all . It's betrayal of trust and wickedness on the part of a woman especially when the man may not be impotent to sleep with another man ,get pregnant and then give it to her husband.

You shouldn't be defending such people if you know what you are doing.

And I'm not boring you .The problem, I see, is that your mind is stuck in the ancient past and because of that you're producing very odd and outlandish arguments to defend what is not right .



Just rest and forget this .

Kobojunkie:
*** Yawn***

You get it now ?

It's paternity fraud and not just a case of men sleeping with other people's wives or girlfriend .

A child is involved in the latter .

Kobojunkie:
So, women open for them means it is all the fault of the women? Like I said before this..... foolishness and stewpidity.

Do you even know what's paternity fraud ?

So if my wife or the girl I intend to marry cheats on me and gets impregnated by another man ,I ,who has no knowledge of what has transpired behind me , should be blamed for it ?

I'm the one who has been cheated on and still being defrauded with a child that's not mine, yet you say it's my fault ?

How ?

mayor1814:
What is mikel on? Drogba deserved it. I'm a Nigerian and I like Mikel, but I'm not influenced by sentiment or emotion. Drogba fully deserved it.

The headline is misleading .

Mikel never said he deserved it ahead of Drogba.

sonmvayina:
I used a ram and some other stuff women want...and I don't have sex with my wife on Sundays...That's how far I could go...

Sophia don relax.....she still helps me and guides me from other side...she is my good ally. I don't see her as an enemy...

So between you and the Christians ,who are certain your Sophia is a demon disturbing you , who is right about her true identity?

If you were a Christian , I'm sure you know you would have been ask to come for deliverance and not appease her with a ram and the other things you didn't mention .

FxMasterz:
Like everyone else who read your mention to him, I was shocked too when I read his response to you.

He has been hurling insults on me since morning.

May God help him.

Triplechoice indeed.

Both of you are jokers . You cannot be a judge in your own case . Others can read and understand better .

Focus on the op and stop derailing .

FxMasterz:
Smiling.

Look inwards.

Many are reading you and making a lot of your personality.

God bless you.

Who are you to judge me or anybody here ?

After derailing the thread ,you want to look for justification for your misbehaviour.

SMH. . Others are also watching you too . Hope you know that ?