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perdollar:
And she stays in nsukka

Coming from an Igbo man that stays in every state one Nigeria. So because she stays in Nsukka means that she must associate as Igbo.

Meanwhile when you get a response, you talk about hate for the Igbo tribe. Una never ready.

zakkxx:
I am from Southern Kaduna we are 99 percent Christians even my grandfather was a Christian; I feel very angry when a southerner call me Hausa! I am not Hausa! Stop the foolishness by trying to convince her that she is Igbo!! Stop that nonsense!! We are bajju(my tribe) kagoro, Jabba, kattaff, marwa, etc in southern kaduna!! We are not Hausa

Million likes for you

mastermaestro:
If you were discerning, you would have understood from op’s accounts that he disrespected her tribe first. This superiority act awakened her own tribal bias. Why would he try to pin the Igbo tag on her? I am sure this is the primary reason she doesn’t like Igbos. Most Igbos she has met have probably wanted her to believe she is one of them.

You don’t know that it’s demeaning to belittle other people’s unique tribal identity no matter how insignificant? This is what the op has been doing to this young lady. Her resentments and bias are daily awakening as a result.

I wish that I could like this a million times

zinizta:
if she says she isn't Igbo then she isnt igbo.

na by force.

delta tribes intermarry

it is likely she has other ancestry from Ijaw, itsekiri, isoko etc

allow her be who she is.

Those Igbo people dey vex me. Everybody from South South na Igbo by force, if you no gree then you hate them.

haslaw:
You yeebos should stop deluding yourselves that people hate you because of what she has been fed with as if the lady has no mind of her own.

You think to the high heavens of your own tribe and got irritated when she refuse to accept to be your tribe but instead is very proud of her own tribe, You are the one that is highly intolerant because you want everyone to be Igbo like you.

The real reason people hate you yeebos is because of your heartless character and evil ways. I have lived and worked in both northern and southern parts of Nigeria and have seen the wickedness of yeebos in these regions. There is a Hausa landlord in Zaria, Kaduna state that has practically been chased out of his own house by the tenants who are majorly yeebos. They gave the man hell on earth and nearly everyone blamed him for renting his house to yeebos. This same scenario I have witnessed in both Lagos and Ibadan. This same characters (My sister told me) are being exhibited by yeebos in America. Same thing my colleagues told me was happening in Malaysia

You can never transact business with an Igbo man and he would not seek to cheat you and in some cases be very wicked to you. I avoid yeebos as much as I can because of their heartless and evil ways



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AlexBells
MoneyGoDrop

I tire honestly. Someone is from Delta state, you called her Igbo and she rejected. I am from Agbor, and I don't like being called Igbo. Does that mean that I hate the Igbos? The way people are wired though.


If as an Igbo man, you tell me your tribe and then I call you a Deltan. Will you accept it?

ygowon:
@Op,
I take God beg you. Don't add wahala to the existing wahala you are carrying. That girl is not compatible with u, though you like her a lot. With the way you are following this girl, she's seeing herself as doing you good and you are likely to regret it later. Nothing lasts forever, not even the feelings you are having for her.

The truth is that she has hatred for your tribe and she is very likely to use it against you. When you meet the right person bro, everything will be easy. Things will fall in place easily. I am talking from experience.

In fact, your story reminded me of my encounter with one smallish delta Igbo girl. I asked her where she's from, she said Aniocha. I said, ooh! You are Igbo, she said she's not Igbo. That she's delta Igbo. Lol! This girl liked me and wanted something serious but just her perception about Igbos made me see her somehow. So, I stopped giving her attention and she was the one giving me attention.

We started being friendly and we talked about s3x and before you knew it, we started talking naughty. She asked me what i wanted from her, I told her I would have loved to date and marry her if she was Igbo. But we can just be friends with benefits. I don't really know if she accepted just to win my heart but we eventually had s3x and she right there, told me that she was not coming again except we were dating. That she wants someone she can call her own. I told her no wahala. That was how I stopped replying her and gradually, we are separated. Haven't even jam her since then.

Please, @Op, if you are not ready to be given conditions in your relationship where you too cannot give, that relationship will not favour you.

In order to let go, always remind yourself of her as side. Let it cloud your mind until u begin to loose that feelings. Delete any form of contact with her and pretend not to have known her before. If she's your woman, it would be easier to get along with her.

Someone said she's from Aniocha, you called her Igbo. She told you that she's not, so that's how you figured she hates Igbos?

Meanwhile same you told her that you want to marry an Igbo girl, and the world did not end. Why are Igbos like this?

MoneyGoDrop:
I truly didn't understand the hatred people had for Igbos especially the south south people till i went for service. I found it weird that someone that bears and speak igbo will be insulting you and making bad jokes about the language they also speak.

My advise is move on from her. Her hatred for your tribe will only get worst,same with her attitude. I generally stay away from religious/churchy people because most of them have lost touch with reality.

All tribes in Nigeria hate the Igbos. Na wa for una

MistaMann:
I updated my RN8 but I noticed it has become very slow. Please what could be the problem or how can I rectify it?

It is space wahala

Be like all these teams no need top 4

My Dell E6410 Laptop is whining me.


So it loads windows properly, then after that the screen goes blank. Meanwhile the system is still on because the keyboard lights are on, and every other thing. If I cold boot, and then put it on again. The window shows normally, loads, and then goes blank.

What could be the problem? I want to fix it as soon as possible

This Antonio useless. Two big chances ffs

O je sare lo 444, 4 meta is a metaphor

WibusJaga:
No shaking. Chelsea is saving energy for Madrid match. 3rd place epl finish is already guaranteed

You need to check league table again

betshopagent:
Chel 3 brentford 1

Be like you dey see reverse

It's 3

She scored above class average in every single subject. Where the class average was 62, she scored 90+.

So how did she end up in 19th position? Na wa for the way these Nairalanders think.

We4all:
Study the class average carefully then you will know it’s possible.

Where did you see class average?

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So some Nairalanders actually believe that one can jump from averaging 1-3 to the 19th position. No wonder this forum is like this.


There's clearly a lot wrong with the final position.

egojeny1:
Pls is there away goal rule in this game?

Yes, ends like this and it's over

NYSC camp, Anambra state.

GloriousGbola:
Interesting how the tables have turned. Social media shaming is really the only effective way in the end.

Several pages ago, poopypants was being dared to do her worst - now it is ineffectual curses galore.

Same thing happened on twitter between cremechic and a freight company. It was when she called them out on twitter they finally resolved the issue

A little customer service and matters won't come to this
Lord knows if this medium was available in the past I would have also fked some people up.

You know what's sup. Someone even wanted to pay damages to the seller at the beginning, he rejected it. Oya, change the tabs and ask for additional cost he refused.
Now you are crying.

For all your tags, they could decide not to use same account and nothing would happen.

Anyway, try to talk to a Nairaland mod. Present your case, and the post would be deleted.

When they told same seller not to allow this escalate up to this point, you were acting stubborn. Now you are crying foul. A lot of people here advised you to protect your name, you said no.

I would like to see how you would win in court if you don't take a more matured approach to this problem you got yourself in.

hotseat:
SOUND, LOUD AND CLEAR WARNING TO ALL GHANAIAN ARMED ROBBERS IN KUMASI, GHANA!





Our beloved Super Eagles must not come to any harm whatsoever.......




Otherwise Ghana go get invaded ala Russian style.




BE WARNED!

If only you were current, you would know that the match won't be played in Ghana

DKM123:
Nairaland is full of poverty stricken men, though. No real men on this platform. Just poor small boys and touts.. #50k for a family of 4 in this present Buhari's Nigeria?

That's like 12k each for a month on food.

That's like #400 for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

That's like #140 naira for each meal

Kai! Kai! Kai!

How much is a piece of meat in the local buka? I am sure OP will always insist for big meat in his food o.

Yet they are attacking the poor woman as if she is committing an abomination. Nairaland is full of poverty stricken mofos. Walahi.

Why not go to the market yourself OP and go and shop. When you buy 4liters of local groundnut oil alone for 8k and same 4 litres of palm oil for 3k, your eye go neat. You will wonder wether you lost money. Thanks to Buhari.

You better seat her down and appeal to her to try and manage the money and that's NOT BECAUSE it is ENOUGH and adequate but BECAUSE that's all you have. There is a way you will show love and pet your woman and she will actually perform magic. Don't listen to this small boys on nairaland that are experts at romancing poverty, if not your marriage will just scatter.

BTW, OP, if you like go and impregnate her again inside that #50k. Then expect her to perform magic. Nonsense and high blood pressure. If you are not financially ready to start a family, then don't get married and bring kids into the world to suffer but you people will not listen. Is marriage by force? Those waiting to be financially capable before venturing, are they f*oools? School fees hasn't even started and there is already fire on the mountain! Instead of strategizing how to improve your finance, you are running to nairaland to report your wife!

Are you sure that you read the story? The fact that you are rich does not mean everybody is like you. A man giving his wife 1k per day for transportation to her place of work, that's at least 25k in a month. She's not contributing a dime from her salary, yet complains that 50k monthly for feeding is too small. Is that not madness? The fact that you are also supporting this shows the kind of society we have today.

If the man dies tomorrow, she would explain who's going to be dishing out 80k monthly for her.

Note: I am not saying 50k is too much, but she has a job. Why can't she augment that 50k with say 20k from her salary? Meanwhile she has her own family member in same house.

Would she have been happy if she was the one bringing the money while her husband's relative is in same house? We need to learn how to be empathic abeg. It's not easy to make money.


Modified: This one na men hater, so I expect a senseless response.

Ibime:
Ipukulu becomes first FA Cup side to book FA Cup playoff spot

Have also established 50 point gap at the top of the main league

Wait 50 points gap, how?

50d33q:
I need 11 players why do I need bench again

So you no dey prepare for unforseen circumstances?

timbros:
Una try.

Meanwhile see my bench

My own na only Coady but I still feel the pain

Yeah, they sent success mail today. Interview (last stage) starts next week Tuesday

They have dropped 12.5.2 for Note 8

zanyt:
They repeated questions, you should have studied the PQ thoroughly. Just hope for the best!!!
Good luck to all of us

The repeated questions, but also changed some numbers in it though.

Keegan:
When Messi picked him as his FIFA Best, all haters were condemning him. Now compare his efforts, his hat trick to that of Lewandoski. What Messi sees sitting many cannot see standing.

If being deluded was a person.