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ileobatojo: Rotflmao!!!

Good joke!

Celyt: ^^ my dear tell them o

@Troy20; nawa for this your reasoning! does it mean that a well-trained daughter can't be a role model as well as take care of her younger siblings? Anyway, na you get your mouth.

@bellong Lol.. @Olalan, you guys are so on point!

@Op, our prayer as parents should be that the Almighty gives us children(irrespectve of their genders) that will be far ahead of us intellectually, morally, financially and any other positive attribute.

And that He grant both male and female children in every home especially in tribes where the quest for a particular sex if not granted always bring strain in marriages FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE, Amen!

Celyt: ^^ my dear tell them o

@Troy20; nawa for this your reasoning! does it mean that a well-trained daughter can't be a role model as well as take care of her younger siblings? Anyway, na you get your mouth.

@bellong Lol.. @Olalan, you guys are so on point!

@Op, our prayer as parents should be that the Almighty gives us children(irrespectve of their genders) that will be far ahead of us intellectually, morally, financially and any other positive attribute.

And that He grant both male and female children in every home especially in tribes where the quest for a particular sex if not granted always bring strain in marriages FOR THE SAKE OF PEACE, Amen!

zicoraads: If u like be the Luis Vuitton of Nigerian fashion...or even be an ardent follower of Rihanna,thr are some basic things u should know about Ur country's politics. Tryna to pin ignorance or unintelligent ladies on 'interest' is just dull...try something smarter.

Baby mama: You are taking things too seriously
Do you know some of the people you are referring to are not even men
Many of them are boys wey never even sprout one single bia hia for chin

addictiv: People should learn that no one is above error n mistakes. Women no matter how controversial they are have had their fair share of the society placing them second rate. Even in instances where a woman is more qualified n competent in a job or role, she is pushed to the back based on sentiments due to her gender. while placing a critical role on a lady my be seen as a risk, if she is given the needed support n guidance to enable her steer through such challenges. She ll come out more confident n can be able to make tougher decisions in due course. Guys should try as much as possible to encourage n tolerate their women. Women should take those little things that re entrusted to them seriously. Cos she who is faithful in little things is always rewarded with bigger things.

crackhaus: Here is my post from a thread related to this one, edited in very few places but the same in totality.

I'm a lover of women, don't get it twisted...these are just observations, so feel free to crush my self-esteem if you don't like what you see

crazymommy: Saw some comments from some guys here and i weep for the future of this country,and na people go marry this kids for house.

shoerack6: The most painful part is when it comes to begging. I can stand for 1 hour begging him.
Just how many days ago, he was angry that my aunty's husband called me.
He's so jealous and practically controls my life. If not that I already have kids, I would have asked him to divorce me.
He has another wife (i'm the first) so whenever he's not talking to me, he'll just face the other wife and abandon me. This breaks me down.

andromida: I am not excusing your wife's behaviour. You are the one i heard and replied to when you want a change you go for it if you want to wait for the other party to change before you change then you've settled for a hard situation and i can see you just want to be happily married. Tit for tat will not work it just escalates the situation. The question is how long are you willing to play the "she did this, i will show her game"?

I notice that love looks like pain and punishment and showing eachother to too many people. If there is an easier route to happiness why won't you take it? Your becoming a better person is not even for her its for you! you become happier, you drop unncessary ego trips, hidden anger you grow up! so whats wrong with changing for you?

Just to be clear i am not excusing anything bad attitude is bad attitude. Your wife has bad attitude you "show" her with your own bad attitude, how does that help you or your marriage? So its up to you at the end of the day you lead by becoming better she follows suit. Nothing wrong if you teach her by actions what you expect from her instead of sulking, blaming,hurting quietly and planning how to return the hurt.

rokiatu: Trust me luv nairaland don't work that way. No matter how respectful you are, some morons on here will get to you I swear.

DAngelo: @andromida, thanks for your post, but once again the assumptions, the clichės et al, it always comes to this. I never accepted being the baby or expected to be one of the kids. Here's what I expected: I expected to love my wife and I expected my wife to respect me and be submissive. Did you read where I wrote that I talked to her about the way she spoke to me? So I'm a baby because I realize that talking to my wife is nearly an exercise in futility but somehow it's normal for her not to realize that I'm hurting even when I've explained to her in plain terms that I didn't like what she did?

Then there's the talk about ego. Ego is always spoken of as if it applies only to the male gender, like women don't have an ego. I wish people would live under my roof and see what I go through and come back to this forum to talk big. I'm all for advice, but people should empathize, try to see things from people's views. Maybe my post wasn't clear enough or explicit and your conclusions were drawn from my words, but please let me make it clearer that at no point did I state that I wanted to be mummied by my wife. I simply stated that if people are willing to excuse women for being childish, nags or insensitive (I just picked this one up from your post), then men should be excused if they sometimes act like babies or have ego-trips. But that's not my case here.

ExpressBooking: So married people should zip up eeh? I wonder you have 82 likes for that comment. Your comment is most ideal for singles but that question is likely meant for married people who wants to prevent pregnancy after they must have had the desired number of offspring.

nouveaux: u are beating about d bush. Ur points arnt strng enuff, dey dnt hold water.

i can bet my Lunch, ur muslim¿

oyinbogirl: REally, and whats the reasons you would choose that course?

GentleMimi: Beautifully compiled! But do not be surprised if u do not get ''likes''. Most NL males hate the display of such feminine intelligence. It irks them. Bravo!!!

kulyie: ehen? If them like money pass marriage,how that one tale affect your life.

Instead make them mind their own problem,na other ladies buisness them go dey mind.smh