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Fiscus105:
Do u know reason why mum did that?

Claiming to be a bias judge on one sided story, portraits you as a big fool on faceless forum.

Are you for real right now

Fiscus105:
Hope u know she has more money to give u if she wanted?

Do Not Demonize church because ur mother refused to give u money. The reason ur mum is treating u like that u hide it but trying to portrait church negatively.

Hellooooo!

pocohantas:
The lady is not a big fool. The man is the FOOL for lying to his wife that he is going on a business trip only to go meet a side chick well into her 30s who is a known Calabar hookup WOMAN. You won’t call a man a fool if he told another man his wife who claimed to travel is with a sugar boy in SPAR.

When will you men ever take the blame for your COMMUNITY GBOLAS?

Are you aware that the man recovered from a stroke? He was nursed to health by his late wife. But the moment he could get his legs and penis moving again- it was to start pursuing woman.

@poco, I'm a married man, I detest cheating and I can never tolerate it, I can't just cope with a cheating partner. We all agreed the man is faulty he should never have cheated on his wife. But Poco, I want to put this question to you. How would you feel if you are the woman/lady ( God forbid it's you) that gossip it to the wife which the chasing later resulted to her death, and put the husband in a coma/death? Pls answer it with all sincererity, no stereotype, forget blaming the cheating husband and all that. How would you feel?

Cregon:
Greetings to elders and knowledgeable folks in the house. Kindly assist me in this family matter.

There is this person I know who was impregnated by her boyfriend a few years back. She didn't abort the child.

Three years has gone by and yet the young man has refused to lift a finger in caring for the child, who is now in school.

The weight of catering for this child is really telling on the girl and her family.

So advise me. What legal steps can be taken? Can he be charged to court?

Mod: Kindly help me by moving this to the front page. Thanks.

My granny once told me something some years back...

She said: son
Me: yes granny
She: I'm 109 years old, do you know what has kept me this far
Me: No granny
She: it's because I have always minding my business.

Cornerstone2018:
It might just be a test o, life is so unpredictable, yeah... she needs you today, you might need her tomorrow. Let the grown up kids visit her pending the time God gives her own child.

But she shouldn't be taking it personal. She was getting toooooo attached to the baby. Prevention, my brother, they says is better than cure.


Ire o

May God provides for your husband, the best thing is to get your own apartment and move out of that place ASAP please. I'm smelling danger...btw 2 brothers, btw you and the wife , and btw your kids( most especially your 7month old baby) and the wife.

Ire o

Fahvvy:
That a person has a genetic predisposition to a trait doesn't mean that, that trait will ALWAYS find expression ...

Lemme give you an example...
Are you aware that diabetic can also be caused by genetics? That is to say, there is a genetic predisposition to diabetes....

However, not everyone who has this genetic predisposition to diabetes end up having diabetes, you know why?

That's because once they discover that they have a genetic predisposition to diabetes (usually from family history), they take measures to put it at Bay and as such, they can live their lives without ever having diabetes even though they have a genetic predisposition to it...

So NO genetics isn't always "stronger" and sometimes "nurture" can triumph nature ...

Secondly...
What the OP described above are social vices: Yahoo, cultism, etc...
And the last time I checked, social vices aren't genetical.... That is, there is no "cultistic genes" or "yoohic genes" in man ...

So how those kids turned out to be, is Majorly environmental, ie, how they were raised ...

Pls watch ur back, I will find you and I will marry you because, I fuccking love you

You've said it all

Hmmmm.... I think I had read a thread here on NL that talked about how most Nigerian men fails to help there fellow men but preferred the opposite gender when in position to do so.

@op, I'm not against you helping women/ladies to secure a job/or financially, but I know that there might have been some of your male friends that need that same job but you chose to look away thinking you have nothing to gain from them ( which in most cases, it's the other way round), but you let your dicck to take hold of you. Tell me your propeller have not been propelling her all this while and thunder strike that your gbola.

My advice: Cut all your connection with her in all possible way, this might be a drop of water out of an ocean in what is to come, in other words, she might ruin you the more if you're not careful.

Abizz and lucrativebusiness or what is it, you've Sha both turn this thread to a 2 [/s]gender[s] man business right? But I pray the business is lucrative for you guys

Akerele44:
I search ur number in WhatsApp...not on WhatsApp

Not explanation on nairaland

U can also chat me up on WhatsApp
09032090847

From Lagos state Eti-Osa but what my Dad told us is that is grandpa dad is from Èkìtì i think Emure Ekiti...i think e also said from a royal family at emure ekiti

One located, many more to go...

phemmyfour:
Chai ..loss of money
What a huge financial loss

habaaa have a little bit of remorse nah, why money first... Rip to the dead

Jennifer663:
Rip..
See wasted money o

It's tempting

Akerele44:
Want to know what other people would do in ur situation


May God almighty not let's us be in ur situation

It's a curse

pls where is your Akerele's from? Ekiti? ... Will like to know you 08079302332

Abeg, let's call a spade a spade... What was he suppose to do? His wife reaction to it was irrational, she lacks understanding. We are talking about her husband here, would her husband be lying against her mother?

Socratiz:
It was wrong of you to report your mother in law to your wife, especially on such a sensitive issue. Who did you consult first? Did you expect your wife to pick a fight with her mum? You should have known that she would turn the case against you.

Couples should learn to consult non-family members on sensitive issues before making direct confrontation. In fact, a professional counsellor is advised.

You have to live with the consequences of this indiscretion. Pray that your wife forgives you and remains in your marriage.

Kingozymandias:


Is this necessaryr? Every year I get too many birthday wishes from like 6 banks , isps , telecoms etc the thing dey tire person sef. .

Why all this drama or maybe it's a skit

He is probably a Tinubu supporter

Abeg leave am oo,na his birthday wishes oo

Kobojunkie:
If a point is a lie you are telling me that rather that stating it so, I should look around for ways to understand the lie?

No! Don't get me wrong pls, there are numerous ways you can let people no they are wrong without saying it outrightly, without hurting their feelings.

JASONjnr:
Op said that paedophiles should come out and seek for their right.....


I will not say anything....But if you near my young child and you try nonsense with her.....I will not report you to any police.... I'll just pay boys to kidnap you...I will throw your phone away for any possible tracking ...

Then I will torture you for a very long time....Infact, you fit no survive am....

If Una wan do paedophile work...born your own child and begin to molest them...leave people children alone.

Oga ti takie personal

Acidosis:
It's time to change your savings culture. Stop saving the remnant or leftover. Whenever you receive your salary (N400,000), remove N100,000 (or any other amount you intend to save) and invest it in your preferred account/platform.

You and your wife can then sit down and draw a new budget with the remainder (N300,000). That's how to improve your savings. You won't die and your kids won't go hungry.

I love you... Nothing to say again

Kobojunkie:
That statement in bold is a lie.. Not every woman out there has a desire to birth kids.

I actually think his advice a good one so his sister decides before hand if she is willing to in fact live with the consequence of going ahead with the relationship.

You don't tell someone outrightly that they are WRONG! It's like an insult to their personality. At least, find a way to also see it at their own point of view. My 2 cents

My condolences,may his soul rest in peace

Amojii:
Are you aware of thier famous myth that if one dies for Allah sake you will have 7 vigins as a reward in life after?

Good...so they simply don't want anyone to tell them otherwise that that myth is a lie or anything related to that,

So, they simply don't want the truth meaning they don't want anyone bringing back message of truth from the land of the dead contradicting their believes.

Hence, if you are being prayed for as a dead person, you wake up they will kill you so, you don't bring back massage contradicting what they preach,

When you don't know all this and you ask them they will simply tell you it's Haram (forbidden) for the dead to wake up in there religion,

Do you understand now?

Understood

Fully...

Amojii:
In Islam, if you have been proclaimed died and a special prayer for the dead is observed in your regard,
Then "boom" you wake up they will kill you right there...immediately, no joy.

Pls, shed more light..

Attack, attacked, attacking, attacker... English is a bitch

Benitoh:
Tinubu is begging obasanjo to forgive him him after insulting and calling him obasanjo names.

How does this relate pls?

OnionBandit:
Okoro must do every crime

Shey won fi shey yin ni?

If you add sodomy to the list of crimes these guys do on a daily, Sodom and Gomorrah go wan appeal judgement against them

Vawulence version 2.1

starbuck:
So these people are actually gone

comoffit... Why reading my mind

Besuccessful:
That one na strike? They better learn from ASUU, King of strike..

Even, thunder dey fear ASUU

I have my business( also a graduate),a dry cleaning service with 2 shops (though work haven't really started at the second shop but in the process) and I'm great at what I do. Everything is hard now, things just stand still like a stagnant water for months now due to the ongoing ASUU strike, barely feed myself and wife, losing my confidence and self respect gradually. Depression is setting in dudes... Just tired of everything damn thing

pansophist:
As they say, ''life no balance'' at all.

Lots of wealthy people suffer, and if you have eyes beyond the ordinary, you will see it clearly. Also, wealthy people have realized that life is lived ''immaterially'', but poor people think life is lived ''materially''. Unless one grew from grass to grace, it's difficult to see how it is on the other side.

My ex-boss, for example, worried not about money, but that he doesn't time to spend with his family, that how he wishes he is strong and young enough to do certain things e.g run a marathon, and how he must keep working to maintain the affluence his family is used to. If you are rich, you must maintain that lifestyle, or else, it would be grace to grass, which is like heaven to hell.

All the people you have oppressed go laugh you tire, your kids and wife may turn against you because they do have oppressed others thinking you won't go broke one day, hanging out with some certain friends will become impossible due to a downgrade of your social level. In fact, a wealthy lifestyle is upward ever, downwards never.

In my opinion, the few places where being rich has no downside is in Scandinavian countries, a region where almost everyone is wealthy. In Norway for example, the average adult is or will be a millionaire in his/her lifetime. Everybody around you is wealthy and society has a social system, that will make sure you maintain the highest quality of life even if you go broke.

Of course, this is not a reason to remain poor, the top feels much better than the bottom. But it's not a paradise 100%. As for being ugly and poor, all I have to say is, try make money and cover your ugliness. But if money cant erase the ugliness, all I can say is that may God have mercy

I feel relieved, with all your right up on this thread! You've done something great for me

sagitariusbaby:
They ought to have dropped their account details so we can at least drop something their individually no matter how small. May God help and comfort them.

I feel so sad and sorry for them���

seconded

baby124:
It’s psychological. I guess this is your first pregnancy as a couple, congratulations. You are just afraid of harming your baby through sex, or the thought of cumming on your child’s head is a turn off for you . Relax, it’s normal for you to be afraid of this. You should follow her to antenatal or go and see an OBGYN to discuss sex with a pregnant woman. Baby is not any where close to all the sexual activity. So you are fine. Plus baby can sense when dad and mum are not vibing like they should, so, it can add stress to the baby in the womb. When mum and dad are happy, baby is happy.

Could that be the determining factor?