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Maxwell775:
u don try fried egg featuring Eba before? E sweet die

Pls why do you want to kee yourself?

burp18:
this will go well with a bowl of ijebu garri served with chilled water.

Your head dey dia

niggaman:
Oga read what is up there well, he said he is due for another rent payment by May this year meaning he is not owing her and his rentaancy has not expired. So why cant she do the right thing by issuing him and quit notice against this running rent and wait for the right time with assistance from relevant bodies to quit the tenent.

I felt like responding to his comment, but I noticed he doesn't worth the stress...

This is barbaric...

This so called intruder (the lady with the first son), is she not married or have a husband of her own after? If no, then it's a plan between her and your husband. There's no such thing like paying bride price before claiming a child...

IT'S A GAME

LEARNPYTHON:
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Will come back...

Oshokhai69:
No matter your experience, it is plain stupid to send money to a 13 year old for upkeep. How do you just put thousands of Naira in a bank account of a 13 year old and expect that person to turn out right? In this age of social media. Are you not even concerned about security of the child? There are so many foolish people on this Nairaland walahi!

Pls don't get him wrong, I think what he is saying or should I say what I meant is that the money can get to the mother through the child(depends on how well you brought up the child), and at the same time, call the mother and inform her about it, though it won't go down well with the mother, but who cares...

We see things from different angles.... Ilu gangan ni, iwaju lo ko si e, eyin lo ko si elomi

Oshokhai69:
This is one of the most stupid advice I have ever seen. How can you be sending upkeep money to a 13 year old? Slowpokes full this Nairaland walahi

I think there's sense in what he said...

I have had experiences that makes me see a lot of sense in it, so don't just rubbish it

Iamzik:
God can choose for you and you will use your own have to spoil it. When it comes to marriage nothing is guaranteed. People change...even those that are like angels.

It takes sacrifice and common sense, accountability and perseverance. We tend to want to overburden God when he has given us freewill to choose and determine our destiny

That's it...

There are so many examples of couples I know of that didn't even involved God in choosing a life partner and they are happy together till now after many children, I have them very very close to me. And there are other ones that involved HIM right before choosing that their marriage didn't even provide a child before it crashed beyond repairing, so, it involves at the bolded and some little little things.

Modified: I didn't say that we shouldn't involves God in all our dealings, but a lot of people has really been blindfolded with and taking the so called religion beyond extreme that nothing else matters.

Westerhoffe:
Please, choose right by allowing GOD choose the right partner for you.

That way, you'll have no reason for divorce.

Pls, if I can get you right, is it every divorce that doesn't have the say of God in them? And is it every marriages that last till old age that got choosing by God?


Religion will end us all in Africa, most especially Nigeria...

LilMissFavvy:
What are you lacking that makes your wife get entangled with other men? She is working and earning money, so this is not about her golddigging. You must do something about your personality and general appearance.


There are people who had poor upbringing and they are used to talking dirty. You should not conclude that your wife is unfaithful, till you catch her red handed. The way she is flirting with the guy is totally wrong, and it's only a matter of time before she falls into temptation. When she comes back, tell her you want her to end her friendship with the guy. Don't let her know you heard the discussion in the car. Tell her you feel jealous that she went out with the guy .

So, to you now a lady is prone to go outside because her man is lacking in one or some ways? Why are you talking like this? Why?

Pls, is your man a perfect human being?

I only type this just not to insult or speak ill of you. You no try at all

Jewessgratitud3:
I suffer severe menstrual cramps and it's really taking a tow on me. Like I no longer look forward to having my menses because of the pain and discomfort that comes with it.

The only thing that stops the cramps is felvin but it makes the flow three times heavier than normal to the point that I'll start feeling dizzy. The last one scared me cos after taking felvin, on the second day I was changing diaper every 5 mins. (Yes I use diaper cos pad no longer holds my flow. ) At a point I stood up and it's as if the whole blood in my system gushed out and I nearly passed out. So I said I wasn't going to use felvin again.

Now, I didn't use felvin this time and the flow is normal but I've been crying from pain since yesterday. It's like labor pain and im tempted to take felvin but when I remember what happened the last time, I'll ditch the idea.

Please what can I use to stop the pain that will not increase the flow? Please help with remedies that work.

Pls try this out, and pls, don't underestimate it...

When the pain has started or about to, boil water to a degrees that might not be sooting to drink ( I mean hot to some extent), try and drink some and at the same time, put another very hot water in a bottle or you may heat pure water and put it on the lower abdomen close to you Vj. Pls try this within 10-15 minutes and I'm sure you will be relieved completely.

PLEASE TRY IT

MODIFIED... If the pure water or the one you put inside the bottle is too hot, you might rap it with clothes then put it on your abdomen

mobileboy:
is this not the same Tinubu abusing, bashing and mocking Funke Akindele during election period

That is politics my dear friend. There is no long time enemies, who your foes is today might be your friend tomorrow.

Kobojunkie:
A mother could equally ask at what age should mothers stop bathing their boys, and you get an idea of what the issue really should be. When doing things for your kids, you do it to teach then them how to do it for themselves eventually. The child should be able to let you know when he/she can do it for herself when that time comes, or at least that she would like to try it for herself then.

Kobo...For the very first time here on NL, I fell in love with this your comment. This answers it all...

Blitzking:
Tell the man u don't love him and if he doesn't back off disgrace him openly reduce him to a piece of bread in the public u are forcing him to have sense and to find a girl worthy of his affection..but make sure you later don't regret your action becos dem go fuuckkk u tire b4 u find Mr right or last last end up as baby mama or with one riff raff.

It is 'before she finds Mr'.... pls don't add 'right'. Because, the probability of her finding Mr right again is as impossible as man entering the SUN.


I wonder why my wife agreed for me

Because she be like ayrra star while I be like Segun arinze

VinnyBaba:
Una when they ARGUE with Kobojunkie dey Try!. 😕😒

Me! Argue with Kobo! My mental health is very important to me...

olabrinks:
3k for a family of 4 and you want her to cover his shame? Somebody that comes from a well to do family should deprive her children of good food because of shame? That is not wisdom it’s foolishness. Granted she shouldn’t rub it in her husbands face, but no matter what he will feel inferior because he’s not financially stable. That’s his cross to carry because he knew the lifestyle she lived before they got married.

Pls, can you recite the marriage vow?

Kobojunkie:
1. You want a woman who was raised in a rich home to come and experience poverty with you? Was that some sort of agreement you both made when you got married that you would both live solely off your money and not a dime from her own family money?

2. The business they are planning to open is for her, abi? Not for you? Why should they INCLUDE you in the plan? She is from that family so should she not at least get her share of the family money for herself or something?

3. When you were dating her, did you not notice this same thing about her?

You deserved a knock on the head sincerely for typing this rubbish. But it is you, KOBOJUNKIE I am not surprised

Acidosis:
How did you transition from buying your wife a car and a wristwatch worth 75k to giving her 3k to cook for you and your two kids?

If your story is true (which I 100% doubt), then you have a bigger problem on your hands - the problem of financial stup*dity.

If you're doubting it then I can say you haven't really understand life...it can humble anyone.


Pls don't say that again...abeg

That will be a dream come true for me. It was my childhood friend and I that used to anticipate our first time on plane, how and what the feelings will be, but now he's located in Arkansas now and here I am, just looking at it at a far distance. If just to carry me up and landed back in a sec it will be a dream come true at 35.

elipheleh:
So a responsible man does not have the rights to be respected by his own household?

So being responsible does not worth anything in your house?

So a man should invite others to beg before his own wife will act in line and respect him?

So a woman giving birth gives her license to start disrespecting her husband? Hasn't many women on earth given birth and still sensible?

You see how stupid and daft you sound?

Oga ade, be calming down. I don't want to reply to the op details, but seeing this spark something out of me. I was so angry when I saw the word "tamed", when I read "after spending 300k for are C's". I'm very sorry to say this but I can smell pride, too much ego and so on ... This is wife we're talking about not girlfriend, it's his responsibility to cater for his family, who else does he expects to cater for the hospital bills? Me? You?. Though, it is not that I'm supporting the behavior of the wife, and as a man, it pains when your wife is acting in a disrespectful manner. He should try to find out why not yelling for respect hereandia. It takes some stupidity sometimes to stay in marriage. Oga the poster, pls calm down all will be fine.

francisbarrack:
Firstly ur friend should put age aside/family pressure.
Get more information about him n know about his past secondly she should seek God guildlines through fasting n prayers. She should not rush.

Exactly my advice to her, but I think she's taking her time now. Thanks nairalanders

ednut1:
Likely going to end up in tears. How old is she

like 35

Uniquetani1:
Trouble dey sleep, your friend want wake am

Pls explain more

Which book/s can I get to read on Commercial Cleaning business? I had searched but couldn't find one... Please

truthhurts2:
A VERY CLOSE FRIEND OF MINE. She's overdue and desperate for marriage, and she used to be unlucky when it comes to finding the right partner. She just met a guy that is of age but single, this guy is not financially bouyant but she is(self employed). Both of them are desperate to get married that within a month of their meeting this guy had introduced her to most of his family if not all. This my friend is ready to give him money for business of his choice or bring him into her business so they can both be doing it together, ready to get new apartment for both of them that in short , she's going to be the breadwinner of the family if they later end up together. Now, HER FEAR... What if she get unlucky again with him? What if this guy dupe her? Is it the right thing to do for a guy that she barely know nothing of?

NOTE... Pressure is on this lady from her family

Your advice are needed pls...

Your kindly advise is needed ejoor

Blunttruth:
No, the man duped people, and disappeared. They waited till he came around for naming ceremony and had him arrested. The wife had no idea he was involved in fraud

oh! He got what he deserves then

Blunttruth:
Too many redflags. I know a lady exactly like this. She was self employed And doing well for herself,but was almost 40 and desperate. She met a guy and within 3 months they were married. Just two years into the marriage the man ram down her business, ran away in the guise of going to look for business opportunities,he came home for their first child's naming ceremony and got arrested for fraud. Till today,the once thriving lady has gone back to ground zero, her husband is in jail, her only gain in the marriage is the child she had.
The lady in question has to be extremely careful. We don't want to be hearing takes of woe later.

you mean wife got her husband arrested? What will she tell their child?

Medianna:
I don't mean to be sarcastic.
But the age her family didn't want her to reach without getting married, she's there already,so why the pressure again?
Sometimes I laugh at scenarios like this.
She should just be careful Sha, even relationships that we are confident it will walk out,some never does at a point, talk more of the one you have your reservations.

I think it's a normal thing for parents to starts asking questions when they see that the time has overlong due. We can't blame them

Kobojunkie:
Ask her to come online to seek advice. E get why!

give your own opinion... lobatan

Kobojunkie:
Tell your friend to come to submit her own story by herself here on nairaland in order to get feedback live.

she called to seek my opinion, and the matter come get k-leg for me

Kobojunkie:
Tell your friend to come to submit her own story by herself here on nairaland in order to get feedback live.

she's doesn't even aware of nairaland