₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,325,186 members, 8,420,713 topics. Date: Friday, 05 June 2026 at 09:47 AM

Toggle theme

Truthhurts2's Posts

Nairaland ForumTruthhurts2's ProfileTruthhurts2's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 (of 24 pages)

CrimeRe: Nigerian Navy Dismisses V.N Ukpanwane For Sodomy And Using Illicit Drugs by truthhurts2: 8:40am On Aug 18, 2022
OnionBandit:
Okoro must do every crime

Shey won fi shey yin ni? huh huh

If you add sodomy to the list of crimes these guys do on a daily, Sodom and Gomorrah go wan appeal judgement against them
Vawulence version 2.1
EducationRe: Nostalgic Vintage Pictures of old Nigeria by truthhurts2: 11:24pm On Aug 17, 2022
starbuck:
So these people are actually gone huh
comoffit... Why reading my mind shocked
PoliticsRe: Electricity Workers Call Off Strike by truthhurts2: 11:06pm On Aug 17, 2022
Besuccessful:
That one na strike? They better learn from ASUU, King of strike..
Even, thunder dey fear ASUU grin
RomanceRe: It Takes Courage To Live This Life. by truthhurts2: 11:37pm On Aug 16, 2022
I have my business( also a graduate),a dry cleaning service with 2 shops (though work haven't really started at the second shop but in the process) and I'm great at what I do. Everything is hard now, things just stand still like a stagnant water for months now due to the ongoing ASUU strike, barely feed myself and wife, losing my confidence and self respect gradually. Depression is setting in dudes... Just tired of everything damn thing
RomanceRe: It Takes Courage To Live This Life. by truthhurts2: 11:20pm On Aug 16, 2022
pansophist:
As they say, ''life no balance'' at all.

Lots of wealthy people suffer, and if you have eyes beyond the ordinary, you will see it clearly. Also, wealthy people have realized that life is lived ''immaterially'', but poor people think life is lived ''materially''. Unless one grew from grass to grace, it's difficult to see how it is on the other side.

My ex-boss, for example, worried not about money, but that he doesn't time to spend with his family, that how he wishes he is strong and young enough to do certain things e.g run a marathon, and how he must keep working to maintain the affluence his family is used to. If you are rich, you must maintain that lifestyle, or else, it would be grace to grass, which is like heaven to hell.

All the people you have oppressed go laugh you tire, your kids and wife may turn against you because they do have oppressed others thinking you won't go broke one day, hanging out with some certain friends will become impossible due to a downgrade of your social level. In fact, a wealthy lifestyle is upward ever, downwards never.

In my opinion, the few places where being rich has no downside is in Scandinavian countries, a region where almost everyone is wealthy. In Norway for example, the average adult is or will be a millionaire in his/her lifetime. Everybody around you is wealthy and society has a social system, that will make sure you maintain the highest quality of life even if you go broke.

Of course, this is not a reason to remain poor, the top feels much better than the bottom. But it's not a paradise 100%. As for being ugly and poor, all I have to say is, try make money and cover your ugliness. But if money cant erase the ugliness, all I can say is that may God have mercy grin
I feel relieved, with all your right up on this thread! You've done something great for me
FamilyRe: Lagos Couple Seek Help After Losing Four Children In A Fire by truthhurts2: 7:39am On Aug 12, 2022
sagitariusbaby:
They ought to have dropped their account details so we can at least drop something their individually no matter how small. May God help and comfort them.

I feel so sad and sorry for them���
seconded
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 9:55am On Apr 10, 2022
baby124:
It’s psychological. I guess this is your first pregnancy as a couple, congratulations. You are just afraid of harming your baby through sex, or the thought of cumming on your child’s head is a turn off for you grin. Relax, it’s normal for you to be afraid of this. You should follow her to antenatal or go and see an OBGYN to discuss sex with a pregnant woman. Baby is not any where close to all the sexual activity. So you are fine. Plus baby can sense when dad and mum are not vibing like they should, so, it can add stress to the baby in the womb. When mum and dad are happy, baby is happy.
Could that be the determining factor?
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op):
flokii:
@OP How was the first and second encounter with your wife like? if sex isn't interesting with a partner from the start, there is a high chance that one or both parties will lose interest in sex afterwards.
They might need to re-configure your system outside.. just kidding grin
Our courtship days was a hit, I/we do enjoy sex anytime any day. In d room, inside the bathroom grin, kitchen, anywhere... grin grin grin, It was after our marriage that things changed, but I think I'm beginning to sense something....


Modified : the first 2 weeks after our wedding was all about sëx, it was during her ovulation period that she didn't want that period to pass-by to the extent that I was tired of it, sëx becomes irritating to me and I told her but she wasn't please with what I complained.
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 9:34pm On Apr 09, 2022
frozen70:
Honestly it will, good luck
Thanks @frozen
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 9:33pm On Apr 09, 2022
Beninwitch:
You will have to do something cos your wife needs it now more than ever. In fact, many pregnant women are known to have increased libido. So, pls find a way to excite your self and satisfy that woman.
I know, and I will... Just looking for a better and fast way to
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 9:32pm On Apr 09, 2022
Beninwitch:
You will have to do something cos your wife needs it now more than ever. In fact, many pregnant women are known to have increased libido. So, pls find a way to excite your self and satisfy that woman.
I know and I will... Just looking for a better and fast way to
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 8:19pm On Apr 09, 2022
socialmediaman:
Bros dig deep now, there’s something there. Is it that you’re spending too much money, or doing more domestic work, or her mood changed a lot, or she’s no longer active or attractive to you with the pregnancy, that is causing the thing not to rise again, or what?
I'm having erection anytime any day, 7 times a week 3 times on Friday
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 7:49pm On Apr 09, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Or you could do some serious self examination to figure out where exactly the problem lies. undecided

* Fear of pregnancy?
* fears surrounding the health of the fetus?
* Fear of fatherhood?
* Fear you might not be able to carry the weight?
....

What is it? You need to identify what it is that is behind it and tackle it now, not later. ..

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.fatherly.com/love-money/men-not-sexually-attracted-pregnant-wife/amp/
Hmmm....

Not the last nor the second, and I've never been afraid of the third, but that your first...

I can remembered years back of having a mentality of how I can't sleep or be sleeping with a pregnant lady, but, that shouldn't includes my wife. I'm lost
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 7:38pm On Apr 09, 2022
socialmediaman:
@truthhurts2

What’s causing that decline in your interest? It’s like saying you don’t want to go to work anymore. There’s a reason for it, like maybe your boss or coworkers are toxic, you’re feeling like a fraud for hyping your skills and not measuring up etc.

What’s causing your interest decline?
If I knew Sir I won't be here... I tried to think of the cause but I can't pinpoint anything
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 7:34pm On Apr 09, 2022
Foodqueen:
Hmmmm.....

Very soon you wouldn't find her attractive anymore.

It's men like u that will start body shaming her after delivery.
I don't even know what to say to you, and is not that I don't know what to say I just don't want to be offensive... but I will rather keep quiet
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 4:55pm On Apr 09, 2022
frozen70:
It will if you program your mind towards sex and fantasizss on it
I'm thinking of maybe going on a short vacation with her and a little shopping, even though not in my budget at all, maybe that would revive it(me)
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 4:48pm On Apr 09, 2022
yuping:
undecided try to listen to her, just in case, women mind work differently, she might not be complaining but might user against you afterwards.
Of course, she's complaining, I'm just using the early stage of the preg as an excuse but mind you, the early stage will soon gone and I will be left with nothing
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 3:40pm On Apr 09, 2022
ibechris:
Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal.

When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had.

The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy.

Stopping thinking and start admiring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken.

Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before.





Good luck to u.
She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 3:38pm On Apr 09, 2022
ibechris:
Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal.

When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had.

The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy.

Stopping thinking and start admiring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken.

Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before.

She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up



Good luck to u.
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 3:33pm On Apr 09, 2022
frozen70:
I think there is nothing wrong with you

So far you do get errection but no sex urge, just relax it will come up

At times it's like that especially once you gets above 30yrs, it gets dropping due to stress and state of mind
Of course, I do get erection. I pray it change soon...
FamilyRe: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 3:28pm On Apr 09, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this
Smile...

She offers a lot more than sex to the extent that I count myself lucky to have her.
FamilyPls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2(op): 4:10pm On Apr 08, 2022
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?
EducationRe: List Five Pairs Of Confusing Words And Their Meaning by truthhurts2: 9:02pm On Feb 16, 2022
seunny4lif:
grin
OGUN/ OGUN
Ogun (drugs)
Ogun (properties)
Ogun (war)
Ogun (an ancient orisa �)
Ogun (state)
EducationRe: List Five Pairs Of Confusing Words And Their Meaning by truthhurts2: 8:52pm On Feb 16, 2022
OmoOshodi:
grin

Zah Zuh Zeh --- meaning ( otun ti Zeh)

Igba( 200)
Igba (season)
Igba (calabash)
Igba (garden egg)
Igba (rope for climbing palm trees)
InvestmentBest Bank For Fix Deposit by truthhurts2(op): 6:43am On Jan 24, 2022
I don't know if this is the right section to post this....

Pls nairalanders, which Bank is best for fix deposit?

I want to know this before I embark on it, thanks.
CrimeRe: Sarah Williams: Missing Nigerian Lady (Photo) by truthhurts2: 11:33pm On Nov 01, 2021
Olarewaju89:
She will return back home safely when she is through undecided
Eran
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by truthhurts2: 10:13pm On Oct 25, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Please, can you DM me on whatsapp? Pls do... 08065742633

I will be expecting please
HealthRe: Help: Coughing For Over 3 Weeks, What Is The Problem & Possible Solution by truthhurts2: 10:06pm On Oct 13, 2021
joshuaudom:
Please Fellow nairalanders, they just called me that a cousin of mine have been coughing for the past 3 weeks even after taking two bottles of cough serup and many other prescribed dosages of tablets, the cough is still persisting.

What could be the problem and possible solutions. I would like experts in thee house to advice for both local and english remidies.

this could also profer help to other people suffering from same illness.

Admin pls. Push to front page for more solutions.

Thank u and God bless.
Pls, tell him or her to go for TB test, failure to do so, the cough will continue, eyes will look pale, body becomes lean, then later moved to coughing out blood(DR TB), and if care is not taking it leads to death. Most important... It is highly contagious.

It was a testing time for me, took drugs every day for complete 6months. That was 4 years ago
HealthRe: I Don't Last Long In Bed, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 12:36pm On Oct 12, 2021
Smartb0y:
The key cause is masturbation,if you find yourself in that zone,now might be a good time to quit.
focus your mind on things that aren't sexual in nature,it goes a long way.
when you gotta perform,might wanna do lot of pre-intimacy stuff.
Don't just go all guns blazing.
sex is about connecting with your partner not wrestlemania.
lastly,don't do drugs.
I love this...
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Says He Can Use His Parents For Money Ritual (Video) by truthhurts2: 5:28pm On Oct 05, 2021
endtime son...
RomanceRe: I Am Not Happy In My Marriage, Please I Need Advise. by truthhurts2: 5:25pm On Oct 05, 2021
Hmmm!... The people's IN wanted OUT, and, the OUTER ones wants IN...This life no just balance, the local man is tired, he cannot can anymore
TravelRe: How Can I Process A Visa? by truthhurts2(op): 1:42pm On Aug 31, 2021
Rachele:
You have to first pick a country
US is kind of pure for me

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 (of 24 pages)