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Timbuktou:
TV01, chai. I can almost touch the love you've got for that cutie. She's so cute I want to carry her. Good one there. But I'm still scared of having a daugter.

I'm slowly getting to grips with it - diva'ish behaviours manifest already She is being raised with the one aim in mind - to be highly accomplished and marry a man of requisite status! And God be glorified, I do have a male heir .


TV

shaybebaby:
Hot and bothered? More like cold and clammy.
You have to understand that with all your talk of having intellect, that was the last thing anyone would expect from a so called "intellectual" and Christian.

And stop lying, Mindy said no such thing about that any pic.

I really trample on all your insecurities don't l . All those lame excuses and rationalisations you tender for your circumstances and the fantasies you weave around your situation. Dented by the reality of TV01. We understand the hate Pele tie

@ bold
https://www.nairaland.com/3218607/why-married-women-addressed-mrs/14#47814080
https://www.nairaland.com/3218607/why-married-women-addressed-mrs/14#47814294 - quoted, so don't bother to edit


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5minsmadness:
Pls..... Pls... I can't breathe... Tears coming outta my eyes


Cute baby u got there!

TV that u man?


You guys have made my day aswear!

Of course it's me - along with my youngest. My face is not hidden on NL

TV

^{...in fact,having a daughter has blunted my edge somewhat...I'm not giving the errant women on here as hard a time as usual}

5minsmadness:
Oh am getting there
Started from page 14 then went back to the beginning. Currently on page 4.


The only down side is that I missed the pictures

Otherwise it's been hilarious so far

Glad you are enjoying it bro' .

No worries about the piccies, I will be back to continue the spamming spree - re-runs included . I'm sure people are interested in knowing what got Mindfulness/SisetsFiesta so hot and bothered, and left Shaybebaby so traumatised, that both of them have been running around the forum for days going on & on about it. Methinks the ladies doth protest too much

TV

^{...this was the one Mindfulness said made her puke...I don talk am, she never born}

Kimoni:
Thanks Thorpido. My next question would be: how much of these anatomical and chemical differences account for gender differences vs the role of cultural and historical factors. If you call it a thesis question, I'll agree with you perfectly

Hi Kim, I would think most of the difference is due to the anatomy, physiology, endocrinal and hormonal differences. It's stamped into every cell of the body, and the differences start to become apparent as early as 4 months old - noting that kids do very littler before then anyway .

It influences mood, perception, response everything, even if the difference is subtle or nuanced. Left alone men and women would naturally fall into general specifications. Indeed, even when fully liberated and given the choice, they still tend to. Ask Timbuktou, he's done the research .

I believe cultural and historical (social) factors tend to re-inforce the biological imperatives. There will be outliers, and there will always be exceptions, but generally speaking we act out norms, and true to types. I am raising a boy and a girl and the difference is clear. Even with what I always understood, I still found it quite startling.

it I would add, that in a way, that's the whole point. Human beings are sexually dimorphous for a reason. Naturally, men and women come together to bond and form families. The differences are perfectly complimentary. "Male and female made He them".

How far?

TV

njokusboy:
@ TV01, you are a smart fella, lovely family, beautiful wife, beUtiful child....


However, I am of the opinion that you are wasting your intelligence on those ladies up there....
They aint worth it.....

Thanks bro', for the compliments and the advice. You are actually spot on, I just hope others can see the points made like you can. Having said that, I will discomfort them both a little more before "pegging" them. Time will see if they are able to rise above it .

Mutaino7:
As in i had to step over corpses along the way from page 1 to 17... Nah now we know who go school and who learn something.. Some people get first class but cannot defend the G.P

It can be quite painful can't it


TV

5minsmadness:
This issue of married women keeping male friends is one of deep concern to me. Since the advent of smartphones, facebook, whatsapp etc, the number of married women that engage in intimate conversations with men that are not thier husbands is alarming.

Sometimes it might just be innocent fun, the woman might just be looking for a little benign excitement, but we all know how women are and how they can be moved by words and material things. How can this be curbed? Should it be curbed?

Even we as men have a lot of attention we receive from female folk online. Even when we tell them we are engaged or even married, the attention and sometimes sexual innuendos keep pouring in. But for us guys we might feel it's all right. We are men and it takes a lot for us to fall in love which is the danger we forsee in women. But as men we get tempted too and start to indulge in the attention we get from our online vixens and ours often lead to the point where before you know it nude pictures and vulgar jokes are exchanged. Should we feel vindicated because it's a man's world? If you @op feel bad that someone is calling your wife so frequently, can u imagine how she feels if someone is doing same with you? What will she find if she looks through your phone, your whatsapp? Is it fair on her?


Inasmuch as you should take action concerning this matter, try and make sure you yourself are clean.

Cc tv01, pls I'd like your input cos am having a similar issue though I believe I have resolved it the best way I know how.
*hides shovel*

If you are talking about the OP', if the backstory as revealed by keepingmum is true, there may be deeper issues. Based on the OP only, the 2 options are to "have it out", or to monitor some more in the first instance. But at some point it will have to be addressed.

If it's about comms with people - particularly of the opposite sex - I would simply say mostly don't do it. Any interaction should be circumspect and very public, if it must be offline, there has to be a very good reason. I'd give known single-mums, divorcees etc. short shrift, but be more receptive to married women I knew were committed to their homes

Having said that, it's probably a slightly different protocol if both are unmarried. Either way though, you have a point, I think women have a greater tendency to romanticise interactions, although this can be driven by an individuals situation as well.

Personally I don't. I wouldn't anyway, and especially not with the new crop of NLanders. I've physically met two people from NL and due to NL in my over 10 years here. One a male I met up with when I visited Lagos, and the other a female who I met with her husband when they came to London on honeymoon.

A few people have tried to contact me offline. I only felt comfortable entering into dialogue with 2. One, female, was about very specific marital advice, which ended when I had said my piece. The other, male, was more ongoing but patchy, and has been dormant for a while. I've also made a few coaching contacts, which for me is professional interaction.


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shaybebaby:
is that your wife?
I'm sure she has a beautiful soul, so very sure.

Your surety is not required. A man of understanding marries with high expectations

SiestaFiesta:
Clap for yourself.

...off to clap this....g'night

TV

shaybebaby:
The beauty about having Mindy's mindset is that she neither cares nor needs my cheerleading nor validation from anyone else. Same here, what is being done is acknowledging excellence on my part and I can, it neither enhances my wellbeing nor diminishes it, same with her, same with anyone else who is in touch with their inner selves.

...no cheerleading during play. Are you a learner .


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SiestaFiesta:
Because you say so?

What kind of mo.ron exposes his family like this?

One that married with a pure heart, heartfelt commitment and sacrificial love. Come, the husband you purloined during the night, se you can't reveal him during the day?

See bride...chei!


TV

shaybebaby:
Cry baby made spanish omelette, thank you very much..

...quit frontin' girl , we all know what you really crave is Nigerian bush meat


TV

SiestaFiesta:
A happily married man trying to impress strangers online.

...don't hate show us your "blended" family na

Wifey and daughter...shik and side shik


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SiestaFiesta:
And that's why you actually took your time and made the effort to type it for us. It makes perfect sense.

I recommend some brain workout.

...Nephew, niece, niece-in law...as a rascist I must be having a terribly difficult time at family gatherings

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SiestaFiesta:
https://67.media.tumblr.com/0dfc3878b1467cb8fba65b653c0f97d1/tumblr_n4robsdeUN1ssvjtqo1_400.gif

...you know, you are right, I am soooo slow. You want to see more pics abi? . I'm coming, superimposing my reality on yours must be kinda therapeutic .


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SiestaFiesta:
Are you TV's lawyer now?

He doesn't have to be. He simply knows me well enough to appreciate I would never seek recourse to the mods. I respond, I refrain, or I retire. And what is your own anyway? After all, you have a self-declared cheerleader, who is only serving to make you look bad .

SiestaFiesta:
Don't tell me you actually read it all?

Actually, that would impress even me. Not sure how I ever expected comprehension as well, let alone a cogent response

SiestaFiesta:
For the first time for what feels like a century, you have managed to have a good idea.
This is what we should actually do some day.
[img]http:///media/10-26-2015/moI3Sd.gif[/img]

My understanding is to enter a talent show actually demands some talent. You can watch me from home

TV

SiestaFiesta:
You are very slow, very very very very very slow.

You still have not noticed that I have stopped reading your epistles if they are longer than 5 lines. I have limited my attention span to ignorance to five lines. Who knows? It may be damaging to the brightest of brains.

Having said that, let us see what nonsense you have fabricated in your write-up - or shall I say the first paragraph?

@bold

And what made you think that I care how "we will never see you beyond what you contribute here"?
You have not yet noticed that how 'we' see me is as important as a fart released in Indonesia yesterday.

While Crybaby is making the pasta, why don't you prepare the sauce - trying to overcome your natural limitations must be a strain. .

If you can respond cogently to just point 1. above, and not resort to any of your 3 strategems, I will de-activate this night grin

TV

shaybebaby:
This. I don't want excerpts of the Quran, rather scholarly opinion which isn't lead by religious fervour, wholly objective discourse about Islam.

That is my scholarly opinion . Nothing religious about it, it's a simple stating of facts. Or have the attacks from 9/11 onward escaped your attention. Did you miss the wide-scale sex enslavement of girls from barely pubescent age in Yorkshire? Are you unaware of the sharia courts operating in parallel with the judicial system here? Or ignorant of vigilante activity by men imposing sharia on in some British areas? Perhaps you are really in Agege , in which case Boko Haram may resonate. Or perhaps Al-Shabab if you are studiously pan-African.

We know the form discourse takes here, and no one demands "academic opinion" or scholarly citations". Indeed none are generally required. Anything can be fact checked or challenged, and we bring what we know to bear. It's how I caught your oga magicking numbers from thin air

Anyway, I've listed an number of your strategems previously. Devoid of any insight or real understanding and bereft of anything but canned answers, you can never really muster a cogent response to anything that even resembles a searching question. You have absoutely nothing. See your pathetic attempts to justify reneging on vows. Abeg, return to cheerleading and kneading the dough for your home made pasta. .


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shaybebaby:
Sauce please
Now we are all aware of your stance, again I'm asking you to back up your arguments with well referenced sources. Abi you no go School? If you did, you must have failed. This is poor.

Like l said, no expectations, l knew you wouldn't disappoint. l expect no better from your oga. Was there anything specific you needed cited?

[b]1.
Islam as a socio-political & religious creed is totalitarian, expansionist, racist and supremacist. Any other creed, ideology or, mode of governance which does not readily submit will ultimately be warred against.

Islam demands an imposition of sharia law and fealty to the recognised caliphate. All muslims do not have to be fanatics. The creed itself is fanatical. A few simply have to follow it to it's logical course - via it's scriptures or historical trajectory. Any muslim who does not deep down ascribe and desire sharia is actually an apostate. Ask your friends amongst them .

We've seen that in the West. In NY, London, Paris, Brussels, Orlando. It's real in Nigeria, Kenya, and other African countries with no hint of Western involvement.

We see it in open terrorist acts, sexual enslavement of young non-moslem women, infiltrating the educational system and the imposition of a parallel court systems, and vigilante activity on our streets. Be blind to all of this if you choose and concern yourself with Islamophobia. Has one person been harmed - in the West at least - as a result of any of this?[/b]

2.
Women are not as emotionally capable, or as well equipped as men when it comes to leadership - especially leadership under stress. It's down to basic biology and wiring. I can't offer you any succour if that reality does not sit easily with you cheesy. Take a straw poll of men the majority will agree. Indeed, most in relationships will experience all the time Likewise women. Indeed, most women secretly dread or hate having female bosses. And they hate being with men who cannot lead. And I don't mena in choosing soft furnishings 0 !

Does that mean women should not be given opportunity? Or that a some may be able to make the breakthrough? No. Men are just naturally and relatively better, and better equippped. No vex huh .

3.
Racism. The bible, nor I, see men as anything other than descendants of Adam. One blood - Acts 7. I never post or posit based on the construct called race. Personally, I was nannied with a white family soon after birth, I have had more relationships with non-blacks, and I have a number - i.e. many white relatives - by marriage and by blood. Anyway, you have but 3 strategems, lies, ad-hominem, or diversion. And atimes you artfully meld 2 or more. We see you wink

4.
That's your gig - every question challenging gender dynamics, morality, religion, events, or politics in Europe is met by your stock response, no light in Nigeria, ergo whatever obtains in the West is better grin. Your self-loathing (of your black heritage), and clumsy efforts to distance yourself, or outrightly reject it are legendary. It's why you find such a ready ally in Crybaby .


There are many of you on this board - jonzing for validation & medals . Claiming fine, educated, exposed, enlightened. Usually claiming educated when they are not fine , or enlightened when they've made a hash of their personal lives.

TV

shaybebaby:
TV01, come back nah. This was just getting really interesting.

Back. I've posted here. Error posting which took a while to correct in-between chores. I have no expectations of a cogent response from either you or your hero

https://www.nairaland.com/3218607/why-married-women-addressed-mrs/14#47820720



TV

SiestaFiesta
Shaybebaby
Mindfulness

SiestaFiesta:
I was and I have had the pleasure to live in several countries; quality education and exposure combined.

Bolade005, come and see another "jonzer" 0. No matter what, or how you style you've educational background or achievements, we will never see you beyond what you contribute here. And too be honest, it's mostly low-grade canned ideology, with a mish-mash religiosity which basically says "do whatever makes you feel happy".

You've been repeatedly exposed as an inveterate liar, amoral and singularly devoid of an original thought or ability to think tangentially. In fact, revealing more of the "real you" off NL will only confirm what I've written, hence your being so tight-lipped, and hateful of those who are happy to present their reality

SiestaFiesta:
They should thank me for sharing it with them instead they come here to embarrass themselves through their lack of knowledge and their over-simplified thinking in categories such as black and white. Are their brains not capable of processing complex realities?

Lack of knowledge , complex realities . Right;
Like Germany welcoming millions of refugees whose religion and culture are at best inimical to their host' culture and traditions
Like the dream of anyone being able to settle anywhere, at anytime and do anything is not absurdly reductionist?
Like actualising that will not require jihadi-type action - like Hillary Clinton' as previously posted - to achieve?

SiestaFiesta:
All Muslims are fanatics. All women are emotionally incapable. All whites are racist. All Africans are poor.

1.
Islam as a socio-political & religious creed is totalitarian, expansionist and supremacist. Any other creed, ideology or, mode of governance which does not readily submit will ultimately be warred against.

Islam demands an imposition of sharia law and fealty to the recognised caliphate. All muslims do not have to be fanatics. The creed itself is fanatical. A few simply have to follow it to it's logical course - via it's scriptures or historical trajectory. Any muslim who does not deep down ascribe and desire sharia is actually an apostate. Ask your friends amongst them .

We've seen that in the West. In NY, London, Paris, Brussels, Orlando. It's real in Nigeria, Kenya, and other African countries with no hint of Western involvement.

We see it in open terrorist acts, sexual enslavement of young non-moslem women, infiltrating the educational system and the imposition of a parallel court systems, and vigilante activity on our streets. Be blind to all of this if you choose and concern yourself with Islamophobia. Has one person been harmed - in the West at least - as a result of any of this?

2.
Women are not as emotionally capable, or as well equipped as men when it comes to leadership - especially leadership under stress. It's down to basic biology and wiring. I can't offer you any succour if that reality does not sit easily with you . Take a straw poll of men the majority will agree. Indeed, most in relationships will experience all the time Likewise women. Indeed, most women secretly dread or hate having female bosses. And they hate being with men who cannot lead. And IO donlt mena in choosing soft furnishings 0 !

Does that mean women should not be given opportunity? Or that a some may be able to make the breakthrough? No. Men are just naturally and relatively better, and better equippped. No vex huh .

3.
Racism. The bible, nor I, see men as anything other than descendants of Adam. One blood - Acts 7. I never post or posit based on the construct called race. Personally, I was nannied with a white family soon after birth, I have had more relationships with non-blacks, and I have a number - i.e. many white relatives - by marriage and by blood. Anyway, you have but 3 strategems, lies, ad-hominem, or diversion. And atimes you artfully meld 2 or more. We see you

4.
That's your gig - every question challenging gender dynamics, morality, religion, events, or politics in Europe is met by your stock response, no light in Nigeria, ergo whatever obtains in the West is better . Your self-loathing (of your black heritage), and clumsy efforts to distance yourself, or outrightly reject it are legendary. It's why you find such a ready ally in Crybaby .


There are many of you on this board - jonzing for medals . Claiming fine, educated, exposed, enlightened. Usually claiming educated when they are not fine , or enlightened when they've made a hash of their personal lives.

Your response - as I've noted quite frequently - lack real nuance, and often don't even directly address questions. A subscription to Bild and watching the late night news doesn't make you a political analyst or foreign affairs expert. The less said about your grasp of scripture the better .


If you can respond cogently to just point 1. above, and not resort to any of your 3 strategems, I will de-activate this night


Ma ruggedies, ekú weekend. We'll speak during the week if not before


TV

SiestaFiesta:
They have just taken in millions of destitute war refugees.

Matthew 25:35-40

35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

And they did this because the bible said so, or due to their population deficit .
Or was it due to their failure to fulfill the first commandment "go forth and multiply", or because they are an ageing nation

SiestaFiesta:
Have you watched CNN or BBC tonight?

The people in Munich opened their doors to people who got stranded after the KILLING SPREE - not a Muslim terrorist attack - because streets were locked up and public transport stopped working even though the police at that time were still thinking that there was more than one perpetrator.

Could you do it at the risk that one of these perpetrators would enter your home?

Of course not, you would be directed by fear and not by faith. Hypocrite!

You know not what I can do, or have done. Fish away
And the 84+ in Nice? And those axe-attacked by the Afghan (housed by a German family)?


TV

SiestaFiesta:
No, it doesn't.

""Be subject for the Lord's sake to every human institution, whether it be to the emperor as supreme, or to governors as sent by him to punish those who do evil and to praise those who do good."

TV01:
I already told you, I am non-partisan and don't really care who rules politically. But that doesn't mean I willfully break duly constituted laws or refuse to recognise whoever is elected.

TV

SiestaFiesta:


So there is mention of politics in the Bible after all?

And Christians all over the world have for centuries been seeking political power?

And we do have Christian Democratic Parties all over Europe?



You are quite delusional. You should see a doctor.

Now hit the ban button again.



Take down the picture. It makes me wanna puke.

And the bible mentioning politics means it prescribes politics?
And some people who are, or who claim to be christians chasing political power makes it biblically correct?

I'm spamming you with marital bliss. Choke
And needless to say, I had nothing to do with your ban. What did you write? Abeg, retype. I quite enjoy you exposing your ignorance upandan


TV

SiestaFiesta:
"Religion played a key role in Angela Merkel's migration to East Germany. Her father was born a Catholic, but the Kasner family eventually converted to Lutheranism,[24] and he studied Lutheran theology in Heidelberg and afterwards in Hamburg. In 1954, Angela's father received a pastorate at the church in Quitzow (a quarter of Perleberg in Brandenburg), which was then in East Germany, and so the family moved to Templin. Merkel thus grew up in the countryside 80 km (50 mi) north of East Berlin."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angela_Merkel#Early_life_and_education



Merkel is a Christian and her father was a pastor.


"The CDU applying the principles of Christian democracy and emphasising the "Christian understanding of humans and their responsibility toward God."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_Democratic_Union_of_Germany#Party_platform

Yawn! Which laws based on Biblical doctrine has Angela Merkel and/or the CDU enacted?


TV

I always advise you to steer well clear of the bible. Your lumpen-handed use is quite painful to behold. All it does is expose how intellectually bereft you really are. Anyway, I'm in a charitable mood

SiestaFiesta:
TV01

Deuteronomy 17:14-15

“When you come to the land that the Lord your God is giving you, and you possess it and dwell in it and then say, ‘I will set a king over me, like all the nations that are around me,’ you may indeed set a king over you whom the Lord your God will choose. One from among your brothers you shall set as king over you. You may not put a foreigner over you, who is not your brother."

A monarchy is not a political system, is it?

And the OT is prescriptive for Christians?
And even the OT reveals that Gods will was to be among them with no need for political leaders.
The scenario above was God permitting them in their weakness. It will not be so in the fullness .
And in politics, God chooses the leader abi

SiestaFiesta:
1 Peter 2:13-17

"Be subject for the Lord's sake to every human institution, whether it be to the emperor as supreme, or to governors as sent by him to punish those who do evil and to praise those who do good. For this is the will of God, that by doing good you should put to silence the ignorance of foolish people. Live as people who are free, not using your freedom as a cover-up for evil, but living as servants of God. Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor."

No politics in the Christian Bible?

Do you even know what politics are?

So because the bible mentions politics, it is prescribing politics? And war, and polygamy, and animal sacrifice Please, stop embarrassing yourself.

I already told you, I am non-partisan and don't really care who rules politically. But that doesn't mean I willfully break duly constituted laws or refuse to recognise whoever is elected.

You are making this tedious. Make I go park, go flex


TV

SiestaFiesta:
So Christians do seek political power and have been seeking earthly kingdoms after all?

Is Angela Merkel a christian? And earthly kingdoms are given by? Whatever you think of your own intellect, you can never see more than the purely physical at best.

TV


Matthew 4:8-9: Again, the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to Him, “All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.

Luke 4:5-7 (is the comparative passage):5 Then the devil, taking Him up on a high mountain, showed Him[d] all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time. And the devil said to Him, “All this authority I will give You, and their glory; for this has been delivered to me, and I give it to whomever I wish. Therefore, if You will worship before me, all will be Yours.”

SiestaFiesta:
The funniest statement ever coming from someone who is a self-proclaimed expert of Christianity and who pretends that he understands politics.

Christian Democratic Parties:


Greece: The Christian Democratic Party of the Overthrow (Greek: Χριστιανοδημοκρατικό Κόμμα Ανατροπής)
Italy: Christian Democracy (Italian: Democrazia Cristiana, DC)
Austria: The Austrian People's Party (German: Österreichische Volkspartei, ÖVP)
Sweden: The Christian Democrats (Swedish: Kristdemokraterna, KD)
Portugal: The CDS – People's Party (Portuguese: CDS – Partido Popular, derived from Centro Democrático e Social – Partido Popular, CDS-PP)
Netherlands: The Christian Democratic Appeal (Dutch: Christen-Democratisch Appèl)


And the best at the end:

Germany, Angela Merkel's party

The Christian Democratic Union of Germany (German: Christlich Demokratische Union Deutschlands, CDU)


Ban me, I will come back and post it over and over again. I have copied and pasted it. It's just a few clicks.

Incorporating Christianity into a title is something anyone can do. Britney Spears and Beyonce all portrayed themselves as "Christian" at the beginning of their careers. There are even self-styled "christian porn" and christian swingers clubs"

Politically these entities would have been attempting to appeal to the historical "Christian values" of the country, not necessarily the "Christian faith". They would not have campaigned to introduce Christian doctrine as law.

- Which biblical principles are any of these parties committed to passing into law?
- Which biblical principles have they made into laws?

Is Angela Merkel of the CDU a practicing Christian? Was OBJ a self-proclaimed Christian, Christian in his rule of Nigeria?

I repeat, there is no scriptural writ for Christians to chase after political power or control in the world today. If you truly understand the scriptures you will appreciate that even if they "seemingly" successfully do so, it avails them (as Christians), nor the Kingdom of heaven anything.

Christianity is not in the labeling. Happy to provide further scriptural insight .


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Mindfulness:

Response so dumb the spambot rejected it !

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5minsmadness:
Cc crackhaus, tv01. Me, I'm on sabbatical. And where the hell is pickabeau1? Hope he's still up and running?

I need a stiff drink.


Op sorry, the answer I have for u does not tally with my religious beliefs so I have nothing to say.

Sup' Sir? Tricky one huh?

The person described in the OP seemingly has a number of issues;

1. A bad character,including lying, deceit, nagging and unforgiving
2. A spousal abuser, who is suspicious and has questionable self-worth
3. Stark religious difference
4. He is also piss-poor

The couple is also living apart. Even if he had super-swimmers, becoming pregnant would still require a miracle of sorts. Sort out all the underlying personal issues, and then, or at once get help for the relatively minor health problems.

To restore this union you need to re-set the foundations. You'll need a sincere and committed heart and everything at your disposal - personal qualities, family and faith. I sincerely hope you have the God of the Bible as your Buckler. All the very best.

Wannaweds, if you have any understanding, you'll go into courtship with high expectations and a clear vision, then ensure you are there, or very close ahead of marriage. Anything less is to court disaster If you are really smart you'll go with God.

Marriage is best avoided by mis-informed people,ill-informed minds or de-formed characters.

So sad.


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Mindfulness:
And you want us to believe that you were educated in Europe?

In part . Globally educated, student of life, versed in the scriptures

Mindfulness:
The terror in Irland wasn't political.

You are confused. Yes there was a sectarian divide, but the troubles were not about religion or desire to impose bible-based political ideals.

Mindfulness:
The Crusades were not about Christians seeking political power.

Nope. The crusades were a defensive reaction to Islamic aggression There was no plan, or desire, to make the land, or the people Christians, just to protect Christian pilgrims and passage.

Typical recourse of blind ideologues. People are being slaughtered in the streets right now by Jihadists, but lets mention the crusades from almost a 1'000 years ago as a diversionary tactic. Incredibly lame . What is the root cause of the current problem, what is the solution? According to your idol AM, it's open arms and coquettish selfies

Mindfulness:
Preaching that divorce laws should be done on the basis of the Bible is not about political power.

Doubly wrong; firstly, the bible does not sanction divorce of consummated marriages, secondly, I preach what the scriptures say about divorce for Christians, and thirdly, a religiously informed position is just as valid as an ideological based one in the public square, and subject to scrutiny.

Mindfulness:
Hit the library!

You should hit the people who keep re-inforcing the impression that you have the minutest of clues. Have you no friends?

Do you have a coherent response for Timbuktou, or are you going to scurry off looking for more diversionary ploys and ad hominem


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Timbuktou:
Mindfulness, how far? What's going on in Germany? Enlighten us backward folk.

RIP to the fallen - and I say fallen because it's - even to the ideologically confused - starting to look like the war it really is.

According to Mindfulness, what's going on is this;

Mindfulness:
is not able to come to terms with development and progress.

Mindfulness:
The goal is to make THE WORLD safer as a whole since it has shrunk as a result of the globalization processes and eras.

Mindfulness:
I have a vision of a world without borders where everyone can move freely. I hope I will come to see it before I die. One world, one human race!

But I doubt she'll be back to respond; she's busy on the "Mindfulness NL Geo-political World Tour" . Updating people on world events and charting status on the path to utopia - yet can't fathom what's going on right under her nose .

I repeat people without a sound grasp of history, understanding of cultural heritage, real breathing stake in the future, and a scrotum , should not be allowed anywhere near the reigns of power in an existential crises. This is one.

Does anyone have the songsheet to Kumbaya?


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Mindfulness:
All this for me?

Who are you trying to convince? Me or yourself? Either way, you failed.


TV, how painful is it that a 'barren woman' has more power than you will ever have?

Pained invective didn't work, nor will your bogus humour . Or unthinking assertions. Christians do not seek political power or earthly kingdoms.

And my procreative power is still intact - do any of you 3 have one the power to create anything so beautiful?


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