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flexyrule:
Follow religiously the teachings and concepts in the Miseducation of Ubunja and you'll never put up this type of topic.

No woman is worth dying for except your mother.
If you don't know who to give your heart to, please give it to Jesus!

Elamin21:
yea something like u, I get itchy.

Elamin21:
Good day naira landers. Every time, I get itchy when I see ants. My whole body will be itching me. Has anybody here experienced it? and what could be the cause and cure?
Thanks pls it's is really serious.





cc: Lalasticlala Sissy3 Dominique.

Quinalexa:
How rare

crownmeohGod:
I decided to create a new moniker and post this here because i believe those who are here are matured.

Please your advices would be so much needed because as of now i dont understand what is going on.

I have a lady in which we are supposed to get married next year january and one way or the other as a man u would want to test run some things.

I met my woman as a virgin and when i deflowered her,weeks after i develop some kinda stuff on my JT,i was confused..i went to the hospital to do HIV test,it was negative..i got my self treated which it left and i also adviced her to get same drugs which she took..After she was done with the drugs she missed her period and due to the fact that i believe she should be okay after the drugs,we ended up having raw again..after some weeks again.same reaction appeared on my di*k but this time..on the glans of it and itching.
I quickly got some drugs and used it on the infection.

Due to too much prolonged used of antibiotics,i got tired of everything..even my love for her reduced and i was so annoyed that i stopped caring about her but deep inside of me i still love her so much. Just that i dont have the strenght to express it anymore.

The relationship is cold now,she is going to be my wife...we are still in d middle of misunderatanding..she apologised about the use of different unidealy used of toilet .

I dont want to cheat on but its my decision and i am strict with that..
So is it possible for a virgin lady to have some infection without even knowing about this?

Quinalexa:
I'm young and I know

On the 21st of October, and I my boyfriend got intimate, so he touched my vjay with his d*ck for few seconds, and I think it had precum on it, I'm meant to see my period on the 3rd of November but then it came out on the 28 of October, it filled 2 to 3 pads, now I want to know if it's implantation bleeding, or can I get pregnant and by the way I'm still a virgin

Please no harsh comment

dominique:
So much infidelity going on in marriages, I'm starting to wonder why people bother exchanging vows

crackhaus:
Lol.. brother, the most you can do is to get married to the best woman you can find, do your part well and leave the rest in the hands of whichever God you serve.
Just don't go about believing you are too perfect, or that the wife you married is too good to cheat on you...so If it does happen, your psychological & emotional cushion is already up to handle the distress.

Married women these days will cheat on their husbands using the most stupid excuse available - if you hear some of these excuses, even you will wonder if it's a gownup talking or a baby

crackhaus:
My only issue here is that you were surprised when she confessed to you.
As in, husbands still get surprised when they find out their wives have cheated on them once or twice before?

If only you know wetin we don use awa eyez see wey mouth no fit talk, you won't spend one second being worried about infidelity.

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nairalandposter:
Ok

So leyin odi is when the boundaries are removed.

nairalandposter:
True, very interesting proverb/s.

I took the key words to translate the conceptual meaning, the literal one is what you described.

Abike: treasured child

Odi: opposite, tragedy, bad, negative, taboo

Oruko: name , identity, culture, tradition, roots

nairalandposter:
Translation:


The treasured child migrated to a distant place and left her roots, after a tragedy a child or family member is no longer bound by tradition.

sassysure:
So esan people are very wicked be that na.

More than half of esan people who commented had one bad experience or the other with their people.

They are still very diabolical.
Believe so much in spiritual stuffs.

Any wonder there is no development in edo state.

Useless traditional believes that does not move the people forward but retrogressive.

From what I gathered, If u are a married woman and commit adultery, u will die.
What about their married men?
Or the said tradition exempt them?

There are so many nonsense like this littered in igboland but the people came together and said enough is enough.
Although few towns are still into things like this but they too will abandon the nonsense.
Any traditional believe that rules out equality and progress is rubbish.

johnmattew:
just go and perform some traditional rite.. otherwise,u or ur kids could be affected.

there is a reason why mercy Johnson isn't acting romantic movies anymore...thats because she is married to an esan man.


if a man woo or toast the wife of an esan man,she is supposed to let her husband know

my mother lost his cousin some years back...the man and his son had a quarrel and his son told his dad that he isn't his father and also hauled insults at him.fews weeks after,he had an accident with no injuries.doctors did scan on him and nothing was wrong,yet he was sick..few days after he died.not up to a month after his demise,his son became sick..his mother later confessed how his son and his father had a brawl.


just last year,my mother lost his elder sister.she slept and never woke up.we all thought she died as a result of HBP....few months after her burial,a man told her son how his mother went to eat at a party in his ex-husband's home( which is forbidden)


another dangerous one is when a woman insults her husband or draw his peni.s during a fight... consequently,they could lose their kids

no matter how powerful u are ,even if u are a pastor..esan tradition doesn't respect anybody.. sometimes,I keep wondering the enforcers of this traditional laws

Muscholes:
. This is so true. Am from Uromi,we were also neglected by my family after the death of my dad but thanks to my mum, during my wedding we had to go back looking for my dad's family cos we were told that there will be no wedding without them.

Mrpsly247:
then perhaps u are better of just doing a court wedding.. I'm from Uromi and can categorically tell u that there's no way u can supposedly say u gave away ur sister without her father's people backing... the whole family clan and village network of a thing is a biggie in my place.. I see no absolute way u can escape the family and u better start looking 4 dem now and also start looking 4 money cos those elders are very cunning

AssistntBoyfrnd:
Dear Uromite/Esan people,

I will be giving out my half sister in marriage. She's uromi while I am yoruba. Same mother but different dad. We both orphans left to fend for ourselves since we were little. No family and we want to stay far away from them cuz they didn't care to take care of us.

I would appreciate if uromi/esan people can give advice on how to go about marriage rites in esan land. Traditional wedding list and the likes.

Thank you all.

Baddestguyp:
smh...And there's so many both YouTubers and people I know already tired of COD in just about a week after release...smh...
COD is nowhere near pubg maybe we should give it time...but at the moment the two games are world's apart

femi4:
oh, you're referring to part 2

femi4:
Bimbo wasn't at fault

nairalandposter:
No, there is no father of sin, only sin.

I know you're trying to say God is the father of sin, not so.

Satan is not the inventor of sin, that would imply [b]he has a choice [/b]of what to invent, whether sin or righteousness, which is another gbagaun from you.

Sin is satan and satan is sin. Se finis.

nairalandposter:
Satan is sin, meaning any sin has it's origin in satan.

Simple.

Think of tree bearing fruit, the tree is not the fruit but the fruit is from the tree.


If they tell you folks to read your bible, you protest, but then you don't even know what you're saying a lot of the time.

nairalandposter:
Satan is sin.

Man of sin= sin, not father of sin.

I'm not going into an exposition on obedience versus disobedience here because nlers obsess over it too much ad infinitum.