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Stupid advise from a major beneficiary of the rot! Youths should contest at ALL levels!
Infact Bukola should be telling the elders not to contest so that they don’t corrupt the youths.
The adulterated fulani blood in this idiot isn’t making him think well.

valentineuwakwe:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/10/05/2023-this-is-not-time-for-you-to-win-election-dont-contest-saraki-tells-nigerian-youths/

You sound like a weak man.
God exposed her for a reason. Man up & get rid of the lying b*tch.
In one breath she said the guy broke up with her & wants her back, yet you read a message where she professes her never dying love to the guy.
Isn’t it obvious where her heart & p*ssy is? I bet the guy is regularly f*cking the shit out of her in the state where they reside, while you stupidly decided not to eat or sleep because of a wh*re. She is just using you to meet her financial needs, while the stud is meeting her sexual & emotional needs.
You honestly sound like you & BBN Saga are twins!

All these years that the parasitic north had been ganging up against the south, who talked?
The lazy parasitic north still thinks they can continue to milk the south forever?
They should know even slaves demand freedom at a point in their lives!

Great move from the South South.
Although Nigerian politicians cannot be trusted, but I will give them the benefit of the doubt this time.
I hope the SW governors yet to join the suit do so ASAP!

Marriage isn’t a financial burden on the man alone. As long as the wives are not deadbeat & the man earns an average living, polygamy is not a bad choice. It is not for everybody tho, but if the right people meet, it works better than the deceitful monogamy we created that couples cheat serially.
Why marriage looks so expensive is because we have created a culture of extravagance & living beyond our means. Nobody grows organically anymore. We all want to fertilize our journey through life.
Trust me, there are matured women out there who don’t mind being 2nd wives. They are not as many, but they exist.

deltateam:
You have to be rich to consider polygamy besides I don't think rich men get that lousy attitude from their wives as that's the only thing or close to it she can offer so she serves it well.

Oga, since you claim the woman was offended by the man, the man ought to apologize 1st before attempting to claim his right to the woman’s body.
If after you apologize for your admitted wrongdoing & you let her know the consequences of denying you the privileges, but she still denies you your rights, please go & get a side chic.
Our forefathers cured the madness of their wives by marrying a junior wife. Sadly we think the monogamy western life forced on us is good, while men suffer in silence. Monogamy has never made men happier, it only made women more secure & entitled.

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

Of course I still know the line of argument.
BBN as a mega popular show in itself distracts Nigerians from the realilties of a failed Nigeria (this is just an opinion as I don’t have data to support this).
The anger for me is that Nigerians can’t even see the fraud in the selection of housemates and continuous manipulations throughout the show. Isn’t this reminiscent of the fraud in the selection of our leaders & the manipulations & propaganda throughout their tenure?
I hope the BBN people do a better job in their selection process next season. They need to focus more on letting random everyday people into the show. They also need to prevent sponsored candidates who may artificially manipulate popularity for their housemate.
The show needs to stay original. Nigerians are battling with too many fake things to add a manipulated BBN to their lives.
By the way I agree with you that BBN is not the reason Nigeria is failed, it only reflect some of our failures.

uniquelyspecial:
I hope you still remember what the argument is?
My conclusion: any guy watching BBN is not the reason Nigeria is not moving forward. Period!
Be entitled to your opinion.

You deliberately left out REALITY in the narrative of what the show is.
It is a REALITY TV show. But like Nigerian political governance, BBN activities & housemates are now clearly doctored, manipulated, ‘GODFATHERED’, sponsored, etc.
This is why the corruption in the political space was correlated to BBN.
As someone who loves reading & analysing human nature & relationships, I used to love the REALITY show, as a way to view RANDOM everyday people in an unadulterated & unpretentious psycho-social environment. But this is not what BBN is any longer

uniquelyspecial:
I'm happy you called it a show, and it remains a TV show. Not watching it wouldn't make your country any better.

Governance is one of Nigeria's major problems and not BBN.

I hope you know BBN is to entertainment just as Champions league is to entertainment?. That one interests you does not rule out the other.

I'm pleased to let you know that BBN has tasks that promote national unity, and that viewers can learn from...... Yes, I watch the show alot

So, why did we submit the monopoly of violence to GMB?
Isn’t he supposed to go after the ‘bad politicians’ on our behalf? If he isn’t doing this PRIMARY job of the president, he is the PRIMARY PROBLEM!
Why are Nigerians & their polticians this stupid when excusing failure?!

uniquelyspecial:
What a mentality!

How is he wrong? So, you don’t see the fraud in the show? And ain’t therr bigger issues in Nigeria than devoting so much attention to such a fraudulent show?!

Incase y’all know but ignore OR are just the typical dumb Nigerian, ‘The Nigerian factor’ has been introduced to BBN.
From the conversations of the housemates, smart Nigerians would’ve confirmed the following
1. Some of the housemate know one another outside the house and there is a CABAL that sponsors them all.
2. Some housemates clearly claimed they PAID to get in the house.
3. There is a clique of very rich Nigerians who bet & commit resources for their housemates to win, so popularity is not the key, but MONEY your sponsors have to get votes
4. They all have teams, brand makers, influencers, bankrollers etc who are behind the housemates. Some housemates even know the sponsors PERSONALLY!

Sadly this was not how the original Big Brother franchise was created. Everyday folks should stand a chance, but just like Nigerian elections , Big Brother Nigeria has excluded the average Nigerian from standing any chance of winning. Only stupid Nigerians believe in the rubbish the show has become!

Thanks for this intelligent response to a stupid statement.

Kamanuozuzu:
The same way Hisbah handed over our Beer to Kano State government.

This political prostitute again?!

You say something to excuse possible infidelity, then you claim you ‘don’t support infidelity’?! What kind of confusion is this?
Just ask the mother to explain the situation before playing the devil’s advocate for Pete’s sake!
It’s like catching a bank robber & you say, ‘maybe he was hungry & needed money for food’.

FutureIsFemale:
Maybe he was swapped at birth.

I'm stating the possible outcome. Remember in my previous thread I stated clearly that I don't support infidelity.

Good move! It is important to be on the right side of history.

These politicians are so selfish! The activities of these people are coming too close to home & all of a sudden they wake up?!

So the woman who f*cked around & didn’t have the sense to honorably bear the consequences of her infidelity alone didn’t think about the effects of her decisions on the child abi?
I pray the brothers & sons of women who think like you should be given bastards by their wives.
Men like this dude are like simpleton Samson who succumbed to the intrigues & manipulations of women like Delilah … such men don’t last long.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

Nation of hypocrites!
Olosho gang international.
Even confused olosho bobrisky dey represent!

Mourning him is useless!
Your silence was too loud when your voice could have initiated the required change.

If it doesn't itch or smell, it is most likely skin sensitivity to close shaves.

Avoid shaving or do not shave too close to the skin next time.

I am a professional barber of that region, if you need assistance sha

Ode! You who sent your wife to get f*cked for fame & money?
Oga, you will be in the shadow of Tega for a long time.
Weaklings that call themselves men.

When did the North become the voice of ALL of Nigeria?! No wonder they kept your insane a** in custody indefinately.
You get zero pity from me henceforth Mr.
Instead of you to say 'majority of (parasitic) northern Nigerians want Islamic rule' , you foolishly generalized and included Southern progressive Nigeria in your foolish narrative Zakzaky .
Your lunatic movement deserve what they got!

What a sad loss.
SE people should not underestimate the anger and willingness to spill blood by those doing these killings.
To all decent and sensible SEners, please stay safe o!

Joe is a senseless Nigerian.
Why do we refuse to build intitutions? Instead we create and idolize personalities/demi-gods.
It will be a shame on NPF if Kyari is the ONLY one that can do a 'good job' fighting our unique type of crime in Nigeria.

No be corrupt Nigerian civil service go handle this your directive? It will only be expensive not impossible to obtain those documents without NIN.
Instead of strengthening the infrastructural backbone of the country to guarantee e-voting & electronic transmission of results, this NCC is devoting so much energy into bullying Nigerians with NIN that looks useless to me (just like other data collection in the past) .

The most stupid question of the millennium.

I keep saying it, Nigerian factor don enter BBN.

Even MumuSaga leaked that he paid to enter the house.

The show has lost its authenticity as a REALITY show!

Peace081:
The broke guys will be frustrated n start wailing at her

Who will speak on behalf of broke babes now?!

Rephrased: He has to be rich because you are a lazy and entitled bimbo who thinks her talent cannot make her as rich as any man out there.
There are too many stupid women out there! If you ever get any of the almost extinct smart women, be wise to hold on tight to her! Marry her as 2nd wife if need be, but NEVER loose her because they are rarer than the rarest gem Painite!

Awon eru fulani gang!

Open up or STFU. I am so tired of these unintelligent & predictable mind games these politicians keep playing on foolish Nigerians!

The repercussions of any region leaving Nigeria is an unknown. You fear the unknown, that is why you want the status quo which has continuously, progressively and relentlessly failed you to continue. Why not try something different?! Regardless of the outcome. People and countries that have succeeded took such risks & it paid off!

Bookhub:
This your comment no dey straight forward,you are not sincerely ready to let Igbos leave,i am Yoruba too like you if we let Igbos go we are Doomed not that we won't survive but it will take decades for Lagos and ogun to recover economically.