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The white paper is a wholly government endeavor. I wonder how they will not do any watering down of the findings.
I strongly believe the report watered down the figures & grim features of the real findings. The direct & indirect pressure to change the narrative is a sure indication that they had to make the report as mild as possible.
They were even forced to add booby traps with names, victims & figures!
All efforts to discredit CNN, BBC , Amnesty International and the pro women group is still being sustained.
I watched a funny character on TVCs Journalist Hangout yesterday trying to poke holes in the report. Don’t forget LCC tollgate is linked to the owner of TVC. And LCC seems culpable in doctoring CCTV evidence & putting out the lights to enable the massacre!

Birds of the same feather!

I put it on record that Adeleke doesn’t have what it takes to lift Osun state out of the doldrums.

What kind misleading topic is this?!!!
According to the write up, funding the state on IGR is still work on progress!
Even the 2022 budget will still be funded majorly by allocation for Pete’s sake!
Is it in 2023 which is an election year that Kaduna will be able to fund the state primarily by IGR?!!!!!!!

If I make stupid decisions about dating & investment, such as this, I will take responsibility for my greed & stupidity. I will not try to justify such low IQ thinkinglike you have done.
Continue encouraging these scammers, armed robbers, kidnappers & potential ritualists that you ladies date because of easy money.
But don’t come and disturb us with your well deserved punishment from your shallow thinking na?!
Some of us have a fair idea of what is right & wrong tho.

OdefaGirl:
Angel Gabriel, can you actually pass your judgement as you judge yourself. Holy nweje

You deserve what you got.
You tried to enable a criminal/scammer! Why are you shocked a scammer scammed you?!
Are you that unintelligent? I pity any good man who ends up marrying you.

My brother you talk like a REAL MAN!
Very few men exist in that rubbish country!
Just be a bit patient with her. She did wrong by not appreciating your efforts even if she thinks it’s not sufficient.
She is also very selfish for not trying to cut her expenses to accommodate the challenges of Buhari era. Lastly, a woman who will not support you with her money in your temporary trying times is a Jezebel.
In summary, you either try to point her flaw with the hope that she will change her ways OR leave that marriage before she kills you (if she refuses to change).
Sadly you married a BAD WOMAN!

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.

Awoof dey run belle o!!!
Trust me freebies like this don’t end well, especially if you decide not to marry the girl.
Hell hath no fury like such a woman if she is scorned!

Znation:
Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?

@christistruth01 If nothing untoward happened at Lekki tollgate on the night of 20-10-2020 , may NO harm befall you and ALL that is yours. May God's blessings multiply in your life from generation to generation.
BUT, if any death or maiming happened, may all the curses and evil in the Holy Bible and Holy Quran befall you and all that is yours. May the Almighty God encompass you with his wrath and may your heart be too hardened to enjoy the mercies of the most high God.

christistruth01:
This Fake Lekki Panel report has just Scored a Spectacular Own Goal

On page 304 it lists the 14 Petitions received from Lekki Toll Gate incident and their Compensations only Abuta Solomon was listed as dead at Lekki and his Brother Nathaniel Solomon was Paid N25 Million as Compensation

Truth is just too Powerful for its haters to handle !!!!!!!!!

Sanwo Olu has won my heart on this one. To allow this report to see the light of day takes courage beyond imagination!

The Binis wanted a king, so they asked for one from Ife monarchy (Yorubaland). Thus, the 1st king in Benin was from Oduduwa's bloodline. Thereafter, the Binis adopted a lot of Yoruba culture.
Many years later, the Itsekiri (Warri) wanted monarchy too. They requested from the Benin monarchy a king. A king with Oduduwas bloodline was also sent to the Itsekiris. They also started to adopt a lot a Yoruba culture as the Binis did before them.

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Itsekiri
https://www.britannica.com/place/Benin-historical-kingdom-West-Africa

Gate050:
Please someone should tell me tbe relationships between these people and Yoruba. Olori should belong to only Yoruba how come

That man is about to marry an evil woman!
You DON’T love him as you claimed. If you love him, you will not hide such a sensitive information that can mess him up mentally & destroy TRUST he may have for you or other women.
You are very selfish for thinking loosing him was more important than speaking the TRUTH! You don’t deserve that man.

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

I smell a rat! Too many holes in this story!

Good for you. Thank God you have learnt a good lesson early in your life.
You better don't go back to betting when you start working full time.

Dear Soludo,
You have started lying now now?! You wanted to be governor and you did not become governor in your 30s!

What kind of rubbish is this?
You should be in jail for RAPING that woman!!!
1. A relationship is give and take.
2. A relationship is not by force (do or die)!
If all you want from her is sex and she is not giving it, ask yourself if you are giving her what she wants from you too.
If both of you cannot reconcile your individual & collective needs & how you can satisfy each other, YOU ARE BOTH IN BONDAGE AND NOT A RELATIONSHIP.
Talk to her, she may want you to wife her before you get unrestricted access to her body.
She probably also met someone better than you. That person is most likely satisfying her sexual needs. She was just waiting for the right time to leave!
You better find happiness elsewhere if she no longer has the capacity to fulfill your requirements for happiness.

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I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

There are more than enough men to go round!
Only those who ascribe to the one man, one wife lie imposed by Rome & enforced by Christian West face the crisis you describe. God has permited polygamy to nullify this risk.

Antoeni:
This must have contributed to the high number of Mad Men we see on the road these days.
The worst is that the number of men in the world is not equivalent to the number of women, so if some of the men we have now run mad or probably becomes impotent as a result of this, how is procreation going to be possible?

May God specially punish this MF after he serves his term! His kind made Nigeria such an evil country. Yet they pray religiously 5times a day!!!

The TRUTH shall set you free!

Madam, you are an arrogant, lazy and careless woman. You derserve what you got!
1. Just thank God it is not your husband that is responsible for the pregnancy. You didn't pay attention to your home. Instead you needed a nanny who was smart enough to see a great opportunity.
2. Is she not a human being? Does being a nanny initially make her undeserving of a better life?
3. You better call her aunty o. Regardless of her previous status, she is now your senior in that family! As your husband's step mum, you must give her the respect you give your father-in-law!
4. Don't forget that her husband is the owner of the house you live, so she can kick your arrogant as* out of the house. I am sure it is the way you treated her as your nanny that is haunting you now.

Prostitution has become a legitimate hussle for most Nigerian women. Sad !

Only insane Nigerians will believe she acquired it with her money & not her p*ssy.

So easterners appointed a known sympathizer of terrorists & islamic extremism as a prof?
Moslem Igbos must be responsible for this!

She is the ONLY one you love?
Anyway, Delilah was the ONLY one Samson loved too, but see where it led him?
If you are convinced about your faith, it should be a no brainer.

The governor who helped Abacha steal Nigeria blind. People like this should be in jail, not governing a state. Nigeria is strangely evil!

I pray most times. Sometimes, I just drink & f*ck.

Although this boy has sympathies for PDP who is just as guilty as APC as a destroyer of Nigeria.
All the same, I respect his courage in the face of mindless tyrants.

This is the type of girl that makes men see most women as senseless. You jumped at a twerking competition without thinking about the consequences.
So you didn't think about your family and father when you were shaking your yansh in public like the wh*re you most likely are?
How many times do women see men swinging their d*cks sexually in public? Why have most women made public unclothedness and sexualization the best way to show feminity, yet they do not want to be called names? To earn the respect women deserve and demand, they MUST change the way they present their gender to men.

None. Court wedding and monogamy only benefits the woman & ameliorates her insecurities.

If there is no infection OR your wife is not circumcised, the major cause of pain is usually POOR LUBRICATION and low libido.
Please devote a lot of time to pre-intimacy with her . And most importantly, buy a warming lubricant. You MUST be patient with her too.
1. Ensure to discover where she loves to be touched sensually and sexually. Spend time caressing those areas until she is very turned on.
2 Buy a 'warming' lubricant. Don't just buy any type of lube as it may be cold and irritating. The best lube I have seen is FIESTA INTIM WARM GEL. It is sold for 1.5K-2K. Use generously to allow smooth entry and a warm comfortable feel for her. I have attached a picture of the lube which you can buy online or in pharmacies.

MR HELPER!

dheilaw1:
What I do na? No be fight ke.... I just want to help

Exactly my point. If you can afford to spend several millions and even billions to buy land and start building, why can’t you devote a portion of that money for something as important as investigating the engineering & legal requirements for the construction?!!!!
If the builders are allowed to engage science & the right findings and the proper building procedures and materials are used, the soil can NEVER collapse a building.
I am not a professional o but I am convinced that it is negligence (criminal negligence) that collapses such buildings.
Even in earthquake prone zones, builders now install dampers, in flood prone zones, they make floating foundations, in loose soil, they use deep piling, in salt prone areas, they use specially treated steel & concrete, etc
The science to build safely and securely exists, it is when we cut corners that disasters like this happen.

brandsoncharlie:
Sinking alone isn't a guarantee that the soil is responsible, there are so many Geotechnical investigation on the soil that needs to be conducted before coming into conclusion.
I have seen Some areas in west African countries which are seismic zone, getting collapse which is due to the failure of the soil engineer to give Geotechnical reports on such soil which does not sink but it is due to the soil.
Some soils due to the closeness to the sea contains high alkalinity of salt content which needs to be treated before construction of any structure, some different foundations are recommended by the Geotechnical engineers.
Stop misinforming the public.