₦airaland Forum

Mr halfwit ‘ignorant bee’ please stay in your low IQ box and keep commending a defective system.
Do you even know how a progressive and functional systems work, for you to say Osun elections was commended? Commended by who?
You don’t even know my position on Obi, Atiku or Tinubu, yet the ignoramus in you cannot but hastily generalize that I am an Obi supporter who should ‘live with’ him losing the election. Grow up cretin!

OGHENAOGIE:
don't bee ignorant... That's how it was done in Osun that many of u commended... By the way Obi and labour isn't winning so get used to it

Rubbish electoral act that still gives room to human factors!!!
Rubbish Nation, populated by mostly rubbish people and governed by rubbish laws!

This is unimpressive. I expected aerial drone photos. This is a thousand man not million man match na.
Just compare Kwankwaso’s crowd for measure.

Good luck to y’all!

majamajic:
Vote your APC in peace bro
We are taking NIGERIA back by force

Thank God he knows most of his supporters are psychotic morons!
As sellable as he was amongst the three, his crazy followers just made me give up on him!
A mob of crazy tyrannical followers is worse than anything evil Buhari, gluttonous Atiku and corrupt Tinubu can ever do to Nigeria & sane Nigerians.

Just the way your lying government threatened to expose the sponsors of Boko Haram for year without doing so?!

Stability Of Chad In NORTHERN Nigeria’s Interest!

Is the sharia law superior to the 1999 constitution?!
If the Nigerian constitution gives
1. freedom of speech
2. Right to life
3. Secular state
4. No punishment for blasphemy
CAN THE SHARIA LAW TAKE AWAY THE RIGHTS THE NIGERIAN CONSTITUTION GIVES?!

You don’t deserve her! You are too weak!

Don’t beat yourself up because of a mistake!
What has been done cannot be undone.
1. DON’T MAKE THE ETERNAL MISTAKE OF MARRYING THE GIRL THAT WANTS TO USE PREGNANCY TO ENTRAP YOU!
2. Come clean to your fiancée. If she can, she will stay. If not, move on with your life. Everything has consequences. Man up and accept whatever the consequences of your mistake is.
3. Let the pregnant girl and her mother know that you will only take responsibility of the child ONLY after a DNA test is carried out in a reputable lab.
4 . If the child is yours, accept it, take care of it, BUT NEVER MARRY THE MOTHER WHO TRIED TO ENTRAP YOU.

JudgeNotHi:
I need help. Could she be saying the truth or she's trying to hook.

I'm in a very stable relationship and as a matter fact, I'll be getting married to the love of my world, the one whom my heart continuously long for daily in next month.

Nevertheless, there's this lady whom happened to be an old friend for about 2 years now. We've been very close chat buddies and virtually could discuss anything online to each other (I mean anything). On one occasion, she suggested we meet up at my place to watch a movie Twilight together. Well, since I wasn't doing anything in particular for the weekend and my fiance wasn't in town, why not? (Trust me, my intents was pure and genuine).

The Saturday came, and we did have a lovely time together until the devil struck. One thing led to another and we both ended up kissing and eventually had sex. I wasn't careless not to have not used a protection but I could remember the condom coming off at a Point and was quickly replaced with another new one. Trust me guyz, we both felt bad immediately after the incident and both apologized to one another and that was it.

Fast forward to the present, I got a call from her for the first time after that incident (I had to cut off all communication with her after what happened) and she broke the news to me that she was feeling a little different which prompted her to go do a test, and to my greatest shock, she said it came out positive, SHE IS PREGNANT!!!

How is this even possible? We made our precisely on the 30th of July and the test results shows she's about 2weeks pregnant (Note: the test results shows it was carried out on the 12th of August. Moreover, I never even released when the condom came off into her and we had to remove it. How is it possible?

Now, the mother called and even asked to see me in person that, the daughter already explained all that ensued between us, and I should come and let's discuss our next move, that no daughter of hers gives birth outside wedlock.

In all these, I am so confused. The honest truth is, I never told the lady in particular I was getting married in the month of September. My wife to be does know her as just a friend and that's all but kept my wedding plans away from the lady despite how opened we were to each other.

Nairalanders, I am so confused. I have cried, begged her, pleaded with her to come clean with me, but she insists I was the only one she meet within that time frame. Even in the presence of her mother, she kept asking her, are you sure? She kept insisting I was the only one she had sex with last month.

My world is presently on pause mode as I don't know what to thing anymore. But I am 99.9% sure I am not responsible for the pregnancy. I even requested she used my hospital for a second test and it still came out positive.

I am currently, planning on telling my wife to be the whole truth and before then, involve our counselling pastor. I can't bring myself to tell my family despite the fact her mother keep insisting she comes to see my mother.

My inner most being tells me I am been set up, because I remember vividly on that night, she kept insisting I remove the condom that it was hurting her but I insisted.

Could the pregnancy be truly mine? Do I come clean to my babe? Do I just runaway? So many questions and I am deeply depressed and sad on how I got myself into the terrible mess. At this moment, I deserve whatever insults is thrown at me. I truly deserve them, BUT I NEVER FOR ONCE DOUBT my love for my wife to be, I truly love her...

I honestly think Buhari is the worst leader Nigeria ever suffered the self-inflicted misfortune of getting.
Just like Buhari, I think the long lasting desperation of Atiku and the ACUTE desperation of Tinubu will result is the same failure Buhari has dished out to Nigerians.

Clowns! Going on strike for services they refused to provide in the 1st place?

I stopped reading the rubbish you wrote when you claimed your wife cheated on you serially, yet you stay married to her.
How are you even sure the kids are yours SIMP?!
Good luck to you on your foolishness, I don’t even know how to pity you! You better go and do DNA test for any child she has for you.

1. Are you saying your ex’s sister as a fellow woman deliberately brought you to the slaughter? She accepted to host you with your ex present in the same house without informing you while still on your way to her house??
2. Never tell your husband you cheated on him unless you are ready for drastic change in your marriage or divorce.
3. How could you have taken the risk when you saw your ex in his sister’s house. You can use a cab hailing service to get you to the nearest hotel. Or insist you should be driven by your host to the hotel. As a fellow woman she should understand.
4. Can you swear that you haven’t cheated on your hubby again with another man or woman in the last 10years?

daylay7:
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.

I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).

A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!

The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.

When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.

This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....

cc: Relationship matters

Sick country ruled by a sick president!

Rubbish civil servants. They are the real problem of Nigeria. The politicians are just accomplices.

If you don’t realize that both bad leadership & the 1999 constitution are responsible for holding Nigeria down, then you are CLUELESS about the foundation of the problem & solutions to it.

Only a mad man beats his wife. It’s better to divorce her.
You also already judged the man without hearing from him. Women cook up stories to attract sympathy. Verify her claims before you emotionally get involved with her and become her victim too, if she is the bad one.
I know you are still ‘nursing’ your earlier agenda to f*ck her you devil!

What is wrong with diversifying?
Can’t you mine Zamfara and Osun GOLD?
What is wrong with earning federal revenue from TOPAZ, BITUMEN, LATARITE, LITHIUM, URANIUM and other minerals that are abundant and in large quantities all around Nigeria?!
Kenya relies largely on tea and flowers for revenue, but Mambila tea in Taraba is said to be far better than Kenyan tea. Why can’t we export tea from Taraba & Flowers from Plateau?
Why can’t Nigerians think and ACT?!

Yes you are normal. You are not ready for expressive love yet. Don’t rush it. When you are ready, nobody will tell you.
Love is also not for everyone. Some people never really require mushy love throughout their lives. Unfortunately, it is the expressive partner that suffers, so be empathetic. Don’t waste the time of the loving partner, grow to love back or let them go find someone suitable.

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

Rubbish! Were we there when you decided foolishly to send nude pictures ( especially with your face showing)?
What was the circumstances that led to you sending the nude? How do we know you are not deliberately chasing clout? You young idiots these days can do anything for money & fame!

Bitter man, I can imagine how uncouth and uncultured characters like you will become if Nigeria ever suffers the misfortune of Obi winning the elections. Only in Biafra will Obi ever be president! So that you jokers can keep insulting him and your elders.
FYI, at no point did some state universities join the strike initiated by ASUU based on their grouse with the FG. So it isn’t ONLY Anambra State Uni that didn’t join the strike. PETER OBI lies and cooks up data.
There are 2 major reasons why I stopped my support for Obi.
1. Clowns like you who support him & bitterly/hatefully insult everyone who has a different opinion from yours.
2. Peter Obi is a bare-faced liar and conman who has decided to use cooked up data and fake facts to make him look more intelligent than he is.

Picardor2:
Unless u be for Tinubu. Then I ask why una brain be like fowl own. When was this video don. Around February how many schools were on strike. Sometimes una dey talk like ppl wey no get sense. We knw this is coming from Tinubu and maybe u are paid too. I will not vote for a sick man to lead this country. Not just sick buh person wey dey piss for em cloth. Talking about lies, WHAT IS BATS age bro. Which school Bat go abeg. The lies are much. If u don't stop peddling this lies God will punish u severely. Below is ur agenda. The first one no work and surely the second no go work.

All na scam!!!

This Obi na scam o.
Alas! Nigerians have thrown up rubbish candidates again in the 3 mainstream parties.
If you vote in any of ATIKU, TINUBU or OBI, you are in for another 4yrs of lies, propaganda, corruption and monumental fraud.
The 3rd force is not here yet!

Good for you. Since you cannot cook ordinary peppersoup!

These Igbo people are so excellent at being confused politically.
This guy is just a meddlesome interloper. How do you sue when the parties involved have not toyed with legal redress?

Oga, your fear is justified. Don’t let Nigeria AND NIGERIANS happen to you.
If they have financial transactions to hide from you, there is more than meets the eye!
RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE!!!
There are too many women to risk so much on an apparent wh*re!

Osama2478:
Nairalanders,

Please I need you to help me have a third eye into a personal matter. Although, I have taken a position, I just wanted to be sure I never overreacted.

I am a guy based in Europe and my wife is in Nigeria. I have only been away for a year.

There was a day I was calling my wife on phone and her other phone was ringing which I asked her to pick up but she never did only to say that it was my friend calling her. I was surprised and asked her immediately how did my friend get know her other number. She gave some not-so-convincing explanation but I let it slide.

Curiously, when I returned to Nigeria, I discovered that this friend sent money to her and she never told me about it. The so called friend also didn't tell me anything. In fact, he has always acted as if he wasn't having any contact with my wife.

When I saw the transaction, my wife wanted to manipulate the situation to make it look like I was invading her privacy. I stood my ground to know what purpose the money was meant for but no reasonable explanation.

I called the friend too to know what the money was meant for but only retorted if he couldn't give my wife money as a friend. He couldn't offer any reasonable explanation. With high sense of modesty, this is a guy that would wish to be in my position economic wise and I have always been very generous to my wife when it comes to money. Therefore, financial lack could not be an excuse.

After this experience, I severe my friendship with the guy and rein in on my wife too. I felt that was not the kind of friendship any reasonable person should keep because I felt betrayed by his actions and inactions in relating with my wife behind me. I also see both of them (friend and wife) to be dangerous to my well-being.

Please I will like to know if I overreacted.

Thank you.

MOD please take it to front page for wider views and opinions

He should have taken a Northerner. He shouldn’t be seen as a Southern champion alone. Only the South can’t make him a winner. He needs to starts tending to the North.

Was he always like that before marriage! If so, The truth is that some people are not just into sex.
The tragedy here is that you are both not compatible sexually.
However, you can help him improve his libido slightly by feeding him potassium rich foods.
But, note that your efforts may just improve his libido slightly. You cannot give what you don’t have. You may not be able to make a Madingo out of him, but you can help him boost his sex drive a bit.
This is so sad!

LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

So this party that is giving criminals and looters ticket is what Obituary supporters want sane people to vote for?

Oga you are either GAY or possessed with witchcraft.
Men compete with financial or career success, not the BITCH-LIKE evil you have permitted in your life!

Those who betrayed Wike were
1. Tambuwal
2. Anambra Delegates
3. Imo Delegates
How South Easterners will leave a Wike & vote an Atiku still baffles me til today!