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franchasofficia:
My brother, the op have a good point, let single men learn from her write up instead of getting worked up.



There is a difference between our forefathers and father's time and our present time.


During our forefathers' or father's time, the population of the world was very small, in fact sizable and opportunities were enough for willing men ready to exploit them unlike now that overpopulation is fast depleting available opportunities and making things highly competitive.


Some decades ago, Europe had so many opportunities such that once you find your way and enter Europe, your life will become better but the case is different today.


US DV lottery existed for Nigerians and many countries some years back which helped a lot of Nigerian families to escape generational poverty, is that opportunity available today again?


There were several scholarships for intelligent students in Nigeria back then, today such scholarships are highly competitive.


In our forefathers' time, women were mostly housewives and helped their husbands in the farm, but today we have even more educated and qualified women than men who have taken up jobs that men once had exclusively.


Where do I even start and stop?



So don't expect the dynamics of marriage to remain the same brother, marriage must change, husbands and wives must change as life and situation changes too. We are humans born to adapt to changes in order to survive

Please, go read the ops point of view again... You are equally aligning with my point

For every action, there must be a proportional reason.

Now ask, as a lady, why do I want a relationship? Is the relationship because I want a man who will feed and take care of me?

If your problem is money, then, you don't need a man. All you need as a lady is job

The lady said, she can never marry a guy who's trying to make it or a struggling guy. She can only date guys that can take care of her needs.
So, you think the made guys don't have histories? They don't have ladies that gave them values? So, you'll just come from nowhere, without significance, and start dating and eventually, marriage. The ops must have watched too much Nollywood movies about luck

To every action, there's a corresponding equal and opposite reaction

franchasofficia:
My brother, the op have a good point, let single men learn from her write up instead of getting worked up.



There is a difference between our forefathers and father's time and our present time.


During our forefathers' or father's time, the population of the world was very small, in fact sizable and opportunities were enough for willing men ready to exploit them unlike now that overpopulation is fast depleting available opportunities and making things highly competitive.


Some decades ago, Europe had so many opportunities such that once you find your way and enter Europe, your life will become better but the case is different today.


US DV lottery existed for Nigerians and many countries some years back which helped a lot of Nigerian families to escape generational poverty, is that opportunity available today again?


There were several scholarships for intelligent students in Nigeria back then, today such scholarships are highly competitive.


In our forefathers' time, women were mostly housewives and helped their husbands in the farm, but today we have even more educated and qualified women than men who have taken up jobs that men once had exclusively.


Where do I even start and stop?



So don't expect the dynamics of marriage to remain the same brother, marriage must change, husbands and wives must change as life and situation changes too. We are humans born to adapt to changes in order to survive

Please, go read the ops point of view again... You are equally aligning with my point

For every action, there must be a proportional reason.

Now ask, as a lady, why do I want a relationship? Is the relationship because I want a man who will feed and take care of me?

If your problem is money, then, you don't need a man. All you need as a lady is job

The lady said, she can never marry a guy who's trying to make it or a struggling guy. She can only date guys that can take care of her needs.
So, you think the made guys don't have histories? They don't have ladies that gave them values? So, you'll just come from nowhere, without significance, and start dating and eventually, marriage. The ops must have watched too much Nollywood movies about luck

franchasofficia:
My brother, the op have a good point, let single men learn from her write up instead of getting worked up.



There is a difference between our forefathers and father's time and our present time.


During our forefathers' or father's time, the population of the world was very small, in fact sizable and opportunities were enough for willing men ready to exploit them unlike now that overpopulation is fast depleting available opportunities and making things highly competitive.


Some decades ago, Europe had so many opportunities such that once you find your way and enter Europe, your life will become better but the case is different today.


US DV lottery existed for Nigerians and many countries some years back which helped a lot of Nigerian families to escape generational poverty, is that opportunity available today again?


There were several scholarships for intelligent students in Nigeria back then, today such scholarships are highly competitive.


In our forefathers' time, women were mostly housewives and helped their husbands in the farm, but today we have even more educated and qualified women than men who have taken up jobs that men once had exclusively.


Where do I even start and stop?



So don't expect the dynamics of marriage to remain the same brother, marriage must change, husbands and wives must change as life and situation changes too. We are humans born to adapt to changes in order to survive

Please, go read the ops point of view again... You are equally aligning with my point

For every action, there must be a proportional reason.

Now ask, as a lady, why do I want a relationship? Is the relationship because I want a man who will feed and take care of me?

If your problem is money, then, you don't need a man. All you need as a lady is job

EriMma1:
You're missing the point and that is why a lot of you men have become so complacent and have refused to rise up to your duties as a man; expecting what a woman will bring to the table to feed you.

Go back to ancient landmarks our forefathers set.

What happened to our forefathers? We had Dorcas in the Bible, we had Abigail... There was a woman who stood and led war...

You speak out of your experience and ignorance... You clearly don't understand when the Bible talks about "HELP MEET". Please, check the meaning of help meet as it relates to a lady in a relationship. You're actually looking for a helper and not a companion

Then back to Nigeria, we had Margaret Ekpo, we had Dora, the NAFDAC DG, today, we're talking about Okonji Iweaka. A woman has been a president in Africa country, many of them are prime ministers all over the continent

You talk about the olden days where women are limited and not given equal opportunities, but today, women attends same school, same courses, even gets lucrative jobs more than the men, yet, you want the man to be responsible for all your needs while doing nothing

Let me say, you're confused, lazy and timid. I'm a guy of vision, so, when I see a woman of vision, I know one. I'm still single, but in a relationship, my girl is a BM already at age 26.... We compliment each other

Peace

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caution001:
She didn't believe that before but now she is depressed

She will be depressed and realities of life will start setting in until the love become vague

It take two matured mind overtime to fall in love

I've past through this genotype phase as an AS carrier, so, I quite understand

caution001:
Dear nairalanders,
Help me, I'm actually seeking advice for someone because the person is at a point she has allowed her past to dictate the recent trouble she brought upon herself. Anyway the person is my sister. She had several abortions years back. In year 2020, she is in her early 30s when she met a guy and they both agreed to do introduction, of which they did but the guy is not aware of her past. But it was quite unfortunate to discover the both of them has AS genotype at the time they were preparing for their traditional marriage and the parents of the bride disagreed, my parents. Later, the groom parents also disagreed considering the implications of two AS marrying each other. I personally pleaded with my sister that she should let the guy go but she wouldn't listen. Fast forward to this year. She told me she is pregnant for the same guy they are both incompatible as regards to the genotype. My parents are not yet aware but if they know they will disown her with immediate effect.
What can she do please? Because she's seeking my opinion but I personally don't know what she can do because I have warned her several times.


Please advice.

How many months pregnancy? They can actually do a test to know the genotype of the child, though, very expensive and risky. Risky in the sense, it can affect the child. If the child is SS, I'm afraid, they can just flush the child

I'm AS and I've passed through this situation before. Never allow emotions to overtake you in choosing a life partner. In the face of reality, emotions will disappear.

Best advice, is for them to see a medical practitioner

Fintiri:
No b lie na

Ruling Lagos as a proxy for baba cocaine

He's BAT's spokesman and forget he is the governor of Lagos State. He was busy following him upandan and quick to defend him even in matters that ought not to be defended

Fujiyama:
^^^

They cannot even take care of some of the basics - the really low hanging fruit.

Traffic management is one area where an immediate impact could have been made - and sustained without too much effort. Instead of getting to work, Sanwo olu went to sleep and handed over the roads to NURTW goons.

Sanwo olu deserves to lose. But Nigerians/Lagosians have notoriously short memories and they usually vote against their interests. Perhaps Lagosians still don't believe they have suffered enough - and they still want to continue wasting away their lives in endless traffic on bad roads.

Saturday isn't long now.

God bless you. I love involving with guys speaking from a well informed mind. See, by all standards, Sanwolu has failed. How Ambode reduced the traffic of Lagos is magical and needs to be studied. Funny enough, he didn't even borrow a dime to execute his project all through the four(4) years as a governor. Meaning, the over #1tr foreign debt of Lagos State as we speak was borrowed by two(2) ex governors and a sitting governor. Yet, Ambode was booted out

If we vote another party and they fail within four(4) years, we change them, with this, we will get there gradually, and not voting along tribal, religious and emotional sentiments

Fintiri:
Baba you know say sanwo been

Commissioner for Economic
Planning and Budget

Commissioner for
Commerce and Industry

Commissioner for Establishments
Training and Pensions

Served under TINUBU FASHOLA AMBODE

No single thing to show just to point finger

You're very wicked

HausaIgboYoruba:
intelligent, my foot! Third class in philosophy. No wonder u guys can believe anything from the Albino in the zoo including Jibrin from Sudan

Your problem is between ignorance and illiteracy. Since you have data, a simple Google search will make you speak intelligently

Obi is the most educated among the aspirants. He's an alumni in Oxford, Cambridge, Kellogg even Havard. Name one of the aspirant who has graced these schools

I advice you always seem knowledge and be well informed

Faber:
Obi is the first governor in Nigeria from the courts...
He will also be the frist president from the courts...

All these their electoral SANs etc, were sleeping, when Obi defeated Obj and PDP governors in Anambra, he went to court 3 times and won.
Obi himself is a court master...

Very smart... An average politician isn't smart like a technocrat

Obi is changing the narratives already

In the mind and eyes of the cabals, Sanwolu deserves second term

We Lagosians deserves better...
Let's try another party, if they also fail, we vote them out too. This way, we'll move forward

ORIENTATION101:
These names will make any judge shiver😁.

Obi and Atiku rookie SANs would be pissing in pants by now😂😂

I know you don't know the first man to challenge governorship election and got the mandate. You also don't know who challenged the interpretation of the tenure of governors after winning court cases.... Listen to Fayose interview, you will understand how smart and intelligent Obi is

Even Sanwolu hasn't been able to tell us visible, human felt projects, atleast, 5 in numbers in the last 4yrs as a state governor

Lagos generates over 700B annually and are still owing over #1tr. What did they use these monies for?

A state without no domestic airport of its own, no good stadium for a state of more than 15m population. Sport is one of the ways to create jobs and meaningful engagement of the youths

APC government is purely evil...
Vote for GRV

americanigga:
You are talking about structure, did Obi fall from the sky? Was he not a member of the PDP. He was built by the PDP. He is a structure of the PDP and APGA. Since he has lost the presidential election it's time Obidients join the winning team in their several states which is APC.

Please, Obi was a governor under APGA. PDP didn't build him. Obi gave PDP voted over 5m as a running mate to Atiku in 2019. He's not a babbbyyyyyyy in the game

Furthermore, this whole movement is barely a year. Won about 6 Senate seats and 36 House of Reps already and still counting

Please, remind me who had won more States now in this reviews of IREV result portal?

DSC7:
Every structure of Godfatherism and criminality in Lagos state must be dismantled🔥🔥🔥🔥


Labour Party all the way!!!


Obi is Coming!!!

Replace Lagos with NIGERIA. We are sanitizing the whole system... They've all failed

A new NIGERIA is possible

Seriously, we the electorate failed seriously... We've seen the report cards of our leaders, yet, time to do the needful and change them, we bring in religious and tribal sentiments, then, top it with nepotism

The moment we're serious, our leaders will be serious by default

Ezeama400:
List Of States Tinubu was given 25% and above where he scored less than that ..

INEC LIST Vs Actual score

Adamawa 25% Actual score 19%

Akwa Ibom 29% Actual score list 18%

Bayelsa 26% Actual score 15%

Cross River 31% Actual score 18%

Edo 26% Actual score 16%

Gombe 29% Actual score 24%

Kaduna 29% Actual score 21%

Nasarawa 32% Actual score 22

Platue 28% Actual score 20%

Taraba 27% Actual score 18%

Mod help me, I can't upload pictures..

The tsunami is about to happen...

DenreleDave:
Ordinarily, the vote apc got from NW and NE, labour didn't get 1/10th of it

Watch how PDP and NNPP will drag those numbers down. NNPP with the recent upload already has 2 states and counting...

FuckDModz:
And you think Tinubu did well in the north?

Especially when NNPP has won 2 states already in the reviews. Those places APC got high votes behind other parties will be reviewed too. This is why NNPP and PDP are serious about it

shantti:
Osun state should be reviewed too
As much as pdp won d state, APC got way less than what was announced and lp got more than what was announced

Of course, every parties should be interested in the review. But, some parties will frown against it because it favors them. Every results should be reviewed. You can even see Ekiti State where people where protesting that their PU results are different from the one uploaded

Faber:
And 1.2 million votes in Plateau. Plateau State voted Obi with all their hearts.

The difference between the APC and LP ordinarily isn't even much... In Lagos alone, LP had over 900k votes, meaning, APC didn't get 25%. Rivers, Akwa Ibom, Pleateau, FCT, Delta, Edo and other states will be reviewed too, even Ogun State cos what was uploaded was different from what we had in my own polling unit

Felabrity:
I just gave you 2 states, majority of the votes INEC stole from him were given to APC in those two states

I didn't mention Plateau, FCT, Lagos, kaduna, Oyo etc

He can cover the margin, the only problem will be the spread

You can add Delta State.

We also noticed that LP is fighting for the review of all the results, reasons being that those places LP won, APC followed closely, exception to the east. Ordinarily, states LP won, APC was never close. So, those counts and results will also be reviewed

dustmalik:
OP, we dash LP all the APC votes in Rivers and Lagos, LP still won't catch up. So what's the point?

Obi could never have won this election, no matter how you look at it. Take a second look at his numbers in the core north, he did very poorly.

Obi will be wasting his time and money going to court.

You just lack proper Mathematical knowledge. So, you don't know that after these votes are sorted, the APC won't even get the 25% in the 24 states. You also didn't know that the more the real results comes out, the numbers allotted to APC will be reducing. Like in Lagos, there's a document that shows that APC didn't even get upto 25%. As we speak, NNPP has won 2 states already. It's not only LP that is dragging the results, PDP and NNPP are also interested in the results and are fighting for theirs

Look at the recent upload from Benue State, you could see that APC will struggle to even get the 25%

I thought they said the Obidient movement has no structure

Epistasis:
Tsunami ko, Konami ni...even if he contest 10 times, he won't win. Ibo can't be a president in Nigeria, never. In Biafra, may be!

I don't engage in tribal or political bigotry.

Good luck with your Yoruba sentiment and see whether you can use it to buy things in the market

You need education

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Epistasis:
Tsunami ko, Konami ni...even if he contest 10 times, he won't win. Ibo can't be a president in Nigeria, never. In Biafra, may be!

I don't engage in tribal or political bigotry.

Good luck with your Yoruba sentiment and see whether you can use it to buy things in the market

You need education

If it's not mandatory, how come INEC never communicated via a memo to the political parties other than the electronic transmission of results the INEC chairman was always seen talking?

If it's not mandatory, how come INEC never communicated via a memo to the political parties other than the electronic transmission of results the INEC chairman was always seen talking

wumi2017:
I never see my soulmate

I dey here na