₦airaland Forum

Tvegas:
You've advised yourself nothing more can be added just move on and look for wife elsewhere. Obviously you are not matured enough to handle her past.

This is why I don't believe girls should tell it all some guys can't handle it.

You said it all. The Op is not matured enough to handle her past.

I don't bother asking any lady I want to date about her past because I know I can't handle those thoughts as well.

tutormichael20:
Good evening.am a poor private school teacher that is dying of hunger.at least for the sake of my little daughter, help me...0218 87 6562. Gtb

This begging format wouldn't work. And this is a new account as well. It just screams SCAM SCAM SCAM

wisper2jah:
I reserve my comment till it gets to the front page

It has gotten to the front page now.

Oya we need your comments

stanliwise:
Men in the house please lets discuss.

For me No, reason is if she does cheat on me,
As much as all things being equal, I wouldn't want to give her a second chance.

Well speaking for myself I think we do. Not trying to justify cheating but most times when we guys get Hot we are just looking for the next available pussy to dump our load on and ease that sexual tension at that period, majority of the times emotions are not involved. We still love our wife or girlfriend and the sex we just had does not diminish that love. It's just that when it gets to that state as they say our brain stops working and our penis does the thinking.

The take home message here is that majority of times emotions are not involved when we cheat. Speaking from a guys perspective

pDudd:
Gosh! You Nairaland people are very mean

The guy is asking a legit question because he is scared and wants to know. So far nobody has answered his questions. What do you gain from mocking him?

Well the most I can deduce from his explanation is that he is shit scared about the ashewo episode for 2 main reasons: 1. She seized his used condom and did not allow him leave with it which looks sinister to me as well and 2. She had on a waist chain or bead which most people say is a fetish sign

I really don't know what to tell the guy to ease his anxiety because I have never had this experience. The most I can say is he should not be worried and fear no fetish repercussions and make sure this is the last time he visits a brothel

As for the lady washing her pussy after the sex I will just go with what the other ladies above said that it's just a normal hygiene thing

onlyson16:
but i make use of condom. Am thinking if its not juju. This girl wore one kind chain in her waiste. Am just scare

So she didn't allow you take away your used condom? What reason did she give you for keeping it? Makes no sense

Johntemmy:
On top the matter can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you?

Please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

I think this your post is something personal to you and it hits home so I understand where you are coming from.

But to be honest with you- no amount of advice you get here will change how you really feel because of what happened. You have to decide for yourself if you can live with it and you need to be matured about it. Cheers

chlowi:
lol it is now called entanglement

Lmao

Truth be told I lost my respect for Will Smith after watching that video. I always looked at him as someone macho from his movies, but the reality was just meh

buygala:
I pray she is found..




Girl looks older than me wey don pass 30 sef

TheGiftedOne:
Hope it's not the recurring scenario of cohabitation with an online stranger. Children of these days are just too daring, exploratory and adventurous.



May She return alive in one piece.

FamousMonk:
Led astray by preeq.
Her parents shouldn't worry too much,she's probably in a boyfriend's house.

McGg:
She MAY have gone hibernating

Sultty:
She could be on fucck appointment. All these small small gehs of now their eyes don tear so is their punna

dejavuh0007:
Hopefully, she'll be found in a boy's house or a hotel and not dead�.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
E be like she dn go north for hustling

Like all those Akwa-Ibom galz wey full Warri dey hustle....country hard

NaijaOlosho:
Skull may have been mined

But may God help her and reliever her from the evil hands of ritualists in that side

NaijaRoyalty:
This same lagos men dey mine skulls anyhow

I pray she returns alive and well

bigpicture001:
Sh go fvck.... Sh go later return jare

bigpicture001:
Sh go fvck.... Sh go later return jare

I pray some of you get some sense soon and start using your brains. It's not by force to comment on a post.

Mentions will be ignored.

Charmingrascal:
Is Ambode Oshiomole's initial? Because Idon't understand what Ambode is doing here.

It just goes to show the level of maturity of their brains. I get shocked when I see Ambode's name keep popping up on anything to do with the Edo elections.

They should allow the guy retire in peace. His own case was different because he faced stiffer opposition in Lagos and he did the only wise thing to do, if they call that cowardice then so be it.

Nonsense show that adds no single positive value to the society.

Very dull set of individuals. All you people do is abuse each others tribe and ethnicity on a daily basis. I have never seen a more tribalistic set of individuals like we have in this forum.

You guys wonder why we are not progressing as a nation and why we keep getting bad leadership? Look at your tribalistic selves, you guys are the problem we have in this country.

I spit on all of you. Rubbish

chatinent:
I was a Catholic. Let's take this by bits. Think about this: why did Adam and Eve (the original sinners) not go to hell fire? Clearly, they just returned to dust (a state of non-existence) as God foretold they would. (Eccl. 9:5, 10). When we die, we quit to exist (Psalm 146:4). Even Jesus knew this hence his wept Lazarus his friend died. (John 11:11, 13, 14). We inherited sin from our first parents and sin begot death.
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Sth to think about, when Lazarus, Jesus' friend died, if he went to heaven (where people deem as eternal bliss), doesn't it mean that Jesus' resurrecting him would be unfair for him to come and suffer on Earth again? Did you also notice Jesus said 'Lazarus had died' and not he transformed to another place? He even likened death to sleep!

This makes a lot of sense. I will study further. Much appreciated and have a lovely Sunday

DexterousOne:
Whatever you do

Please please and pls

Do not
I repeat
Do not part with your money with anyone here in this forum

Keep your money saved for some time
While you figure things out....
Impulsive decisions always end in tears

Best comment so far.

To the OP: Be warned. So many scammers in this forum. Cheers

AbamOnyerubi:
Thanks for your input Sir.

Meanwhile, the list there is just normal registration centres, I did find a centre close to me but what I want to know is if registration is currently on.

Or registration is only open when there's a general election, which is in every 4 years.

Once again, thank you.

Registration is presently on. Just visit the center closest to you. Cheers

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright


Obaseki’s simple plan is to arraign Oshiomhole for a probe that has been revealed as nothing but a targeted political witch-hunt and then deny him bail on eve of election to paralyze the APC.”

That is my nigggarrrrrrrrrrrr
That is how real niggarrrs do anyday anytime twice on the eve of election
Obaseki is a real niggarrr
Ambode is a pussy asss niggarrr

Edo is not Lagos

You guys should allow Ambode rest and enjoy his retirement in peace na

It seems Ambode is now the national symbol for cowardice in this country, lmao

AbamOnyerubi:
INEC Offices Open For A New Voter's Card Registration?

I really need a voter's card, can I process a new voter's card at any INEC office branch? I am in Abuja btw.

Thanks

Visit the link below and select your location (FCT), then you will see the centers open for your registration

https://www.inecnigeria.org/resources/registration-area-centres-nationwide/

NaijaOlosho:
Nigerian men seen singing and chanting Odeshi while testing their Odeshi Bullet Proof Charms With Their Awka Made Guns.

See Video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KsGfup9yOPw


>> https://grovenaija360.com/nigerian-men-test-their-odeshi-bullet-proof-charms-with-their-awka-made-guns/

Will this odeshi work on a proper pump action gun, jokers

Janosky:
What happened to Adam when he died?
Genesis 3:19, Romans 6:23 Did Yahweh torture him in hellfire?

John 5:28-29 , 2 These 1:7-9 is the Bible's answer to your questions.
Shalom

Hello Janosky. Please don't mind my questions, I am a naturally inquisitive person and I love learning new things.

I went to John 5: 28-29 like you recommended (see image below).

Now my question from what I pasted below: the condemned where will they go to? Since you don't believe in hell fire?

Janosky:
What happened to Adam when he died?
Genesis 3:19, Romans 6:23 Did Yahweh torture him in hellfire?

John 5:28-29 , 2 These 1:7-9 is the Bible's answer to your questions.
Shalom

Thanks. I'll go check those scriptures you just quoted.

chatinent:
It's clear you are a catholic. No one told you there is no heaven nor hell. You were only told we don't believe in hell fire.

You are right I was born into a Catholic family. How did you decode that ? That was pretty smart of you

So if I may ask, since you don't believe in hell fire, what happens to us after we die?

hopefulLandlord:
Sell the Lacoste hood on you, add some cash, buy the Heineken cartons and send them. remember you only promised cartons so the drinks aren't necessary.

You are right, getting empty cartons will be far cheaper

I admire your sense of humour. Have a great Sunday Chief

hopefulLandlord:
Or you're too broke to send them

Maybe

TheManOfTheYear:
All of you saying "Get a girlfriend" are just modafucking hypocrites (permit me to sound vulgar). You condemn masturbation and justify fornication, can you listen to yourselves.

Also, for those saying "Go and marry", not everyone is in a position to get married, some are not financially stable, some are still young and just starting life, some are students. Konji is not a respecter of anybody.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not justifying masturbation, but I just feel it is foolish to condemn Peter and praise Paul, furthermore, marriage is not a remedy for sexual immorality, married people still masturbate, married people still cheat and etc.

The thing is simple, if you want to abstain simply occupy your mindset with things to keep you busy, doing it once in a while has no repercussions (health-wise).

It only takes the grace of the Holy Spirit for one to be sexually pure. Y'all take a seat.

Lots of sense in this post. I would have sent you some cartons of Heineken but I will not just because of the vulgar language you used in addressing us

Nice one

Masturbation is one of the most difficult things to quit same thing with watching porn. All thanks to the massive proliferation of various porn websites like xvideos, pornhub, xnxx, youporn etc etc with free videos and the availability of cheap data as well

My advise for you: I know you've downloaded tonnes of these videos in your computer hard drive , start with deleting them. Then try engaging your mind with other things, people masturbate once the mind is empty

I know this because I am talking from experience , it wasn't easy for me to quit. I had over 100 gigabytes of porn videos in my laptops and tablets while I was overseas. I just woke up one day and decided to delete everything, that was the first start. Then I got extra busy with my studies. Whenever I get Hot I call my girlfriend to ease the tension.

I quit mine with willpower ( I am not the churchy type) and I understand not everyone has the same willpower as I do but believe me when I say its doable. Cheers

Agugbadin:
They are not Christians.

They are Christians but their doctrines are kind of different from those of catholics, pentecostal and other orthodox churches.

I still remember how they tried convincing me that there is no life after death and that there is nothing like heaven or hell. That after death we go back to the ground as dust that we came from and await the end time for the resurrection. It just did not make any sense to me

But I used to love reading their colourful pamphlets when I was a kid sha

Just imagine the anarchy this forthcoming election is causing my home state

I hope the youths will use their heads this time around and not die like cockroaches for politicians that do not care about their existence.

I miss Benin city sha, left there many many many years ago after graduation. My uniben days - oh those were wonderful times

Alexgman1:
Am in a relationship with the only child & daughter of a traditionalist(herbalist). We are no more attracted to each other & she knows it. We are both fed up of the 3years old relationship. How do i break-up with her without hurting her or incurring the wrath of her dad?

Don't be a coward. Nothing will happen. Did you promise her marriage? If you didn't then stop bothering yourself.

LuQuLuQu:
Husband and wife bond is a mystery. Sometimes once one dies, the other follows shortly...


I have seen it countless times..

It only happens to those who were really in love with each other. There is a permanent void that can never be filled resulting in depression and acute anxiety, thus weakening the body's immune system and they start having debilitating illnesses or their body just succumbs to various ailments that on a good day they would have gotten better.

But such marriages are rare these days. All we have now are fake marriages

This covid-19 has turned every one to a NINJA