Romance › Re: I Miss Nigeria...I Regret Leaving It For America, Am I Wrong? by UDUJ(m): 8:05am On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: I Miss Nigeria...I Regret Leaving It For America, Am I Wrong? by UDUJ(m): 12:44am On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Marijuana: Ilorin Youths Protest High Cost by UDUJ(m): 7:03pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
And we wonder why these old ancestors wouldn't continue ruling us when our youths are preoccupied with the market value of weed. Smh  |
Crime › Re: Two Birds Fought To Death In My Compound Early This Morning, PHOTO by UDUJ(m): 6:51pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
ozoneymcm: This birds aren't nocturnal. They can't be active at 3am. Next super story please Exactly. Pigeons are asleep at that time. I was shocked to see 2 pigeons where the birds the story referenced fighting at 3am in the dead of night |
Romance › Re: White German Man Looking For Black Ladies To Make Mixed Babies by UDUJ(m): 4:31pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
The op just created this account today. Looks like a scam. Sisters don't fall for this scam  |
Family › Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by UDUJ(m): 4:27pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Poseidon000: Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction. This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express. As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road. But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this? I took the time to read through and I must say I am impressed. I hold a similar line of thought that frowns at how young men are pushed into marriages they never wanted in the first place just because they want to succumb to societal dictates. Sadly it's so prevalent in this part of the world. |
Politics › Re: Nkeiruka Onyejeocha Commissions Road In Abia State (photos) by UDUJ(m): 4:16pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
ThiagoKid: Chaiii
What are they celebrating bayiii On top una money.? Do you blame them? Nigerians don't know their rights. They don't know that these are things that should normally be provided by a government once you pay your taxes like in a normal world. We celebrate mediocrity too much in this country. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 774,000 Jobs: Disregard Messages To Go To NDE Offices To Register - Keyamo by UDUJ(m): 3:21pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
semyman: Almost all African pastors are fraudulent, especially the Nigerian jet flying ones. Thanks to the large number of modern day slaves under their manipulation Bro how did Pastors come about in this 774,000 jobs story?  Please let's stick to the points and not deviate or cause mayhem. Cheers |
Politics › Re: Olanipekun, Four SANS Lead Cases Seeking To Disqualify Obaseki And Saibu by UDUJ(m): 2:35pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Bunch of two faced idiots  Can the assholes in the APC party come out and tell me they never knew he had certificate issues when he was their party's flag bearer before becoming the governor? Old men with no iota of shame  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye: "I'm Talking To My Children Not You" by UDUJ(m): 1:57pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye: "I'm Talking To My Children Not You" by UDUJ(m): 1:53pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Oworonshoki: The Lagos Slum Where Hushpuppi Bought Food On Credit & Washed Cars by UDUJ(m): 1:04pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
StagethemTVee: As evident in this article, the problem Nigerians have with corruption and stealing is that the loot has not gotten to them? Many of Hushpuppi's neighbours have no issues with the source of his wealth, they are upset he was not generous with it. Very sensible comment. I am impressed |
Politics › Re: Who Is Afraid Of Prof Yemi Osinbajo? By ETIM ETIM by UDUJ(m): 12:18pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
AntiFeminist: ursullalinda is right jare. Nairaland isn't a formal forum oga. Consigned is the word that we have been using on this forum. you can type it in the search option and see it for yourself. stop claiming right grammars cos you ain't awarded for it Ok |
Celebrities › Re: Kate Henshaw Celebrates Her 49th Birthday Today by UDUJ(m): 10:14am On Jul 19, 2020 |
She has got excellent genes. She ages well. I have seen her countless times at the gym. No surprises here, take good care of your body ladies. Instead of eating junk foods and end up looking like a whale  |
Politics › Re: Who Is Afraid Of Prof Yemi Osinbajo? By ETIM ETIM by UDUJ(m): 9:20am On Jul 19, 2020 |
ursullalinda: Hmmmm........people get time oh.......OP you actually rememberd all the accusations levelled against the VP and by whom.........haaa.......pls are you his spokesman or just a consigned citizen ? It baffles me when I see people rush to make comments on posts without checking their spellings first. What is consigned citizen?  The correct word is concerned. |
Politics › Re: Obaseki, Ize-Iyamu, Oshiomhole In Last Fight For Edo by UDUJ(m): 9:00am On Jul 19, 2020 |
simplyesther: Its truly a last fight. Regardless of who wins, this is the last time they will have to face each other in an Edo election. Fight of a lifetime. For neutrals like us, Its going to be an interesting watch I keep telling people this Edo election is presently the talk of the country because this election will show the path the future presidential and legislative elections will be in this country. It's a tug of war of superiority between the 2 biggest political parties in the country. The election itself is bigger than Edo state. We all need to see the bigger picture |
Crime › Re: Man Strips Naked, Fights An FRSC Officer In Benin (Photos, Video) by UDUJ(m): 8:44am On Jul 19, 2020*. Modified: 9:36am On Jul 19, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Child Dedication Of My Son Today - Photos by UDUJ(m): 7:11pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
Congratulations bro |
Culture › Re: We Summoned The Spirit Of Ooni Aderemi From His Tomb - Ooni Of Ife by UDUJ(m): 6:51pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
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Family › Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by UDUJ(m): 3:43pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
I really don't like reading these type of stories. You see the problem with Nigerian marriages. When you marry a woman she now brings her family members to live with you. I blame the brother that allowed it in the first place. Some men are so lily livered. I will never allow such. Maybe because I have lived in the west and seen too much western marriages but I believe a marriage should be just you and your wife and your kids. Even the brother should not be living there. Anyway what do I know sef  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Oyedepo: If You Don’t Pay Your Tithe You Are Under A Financial Curse by UDUJ(m): 10:20pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Scammed By A Lady. Any Chance Of Getting My Money Back? by UDUJ(m): 10:18pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Shame no catch a full grown man like you to post this rubbish about being scammed of 11k on pussy matters  So what do you want us to do now?  Guy move on and take this as lessons learned. |
Crime › Re: Man Beheads Colleague After Seeing His N13m Account Balance by UDUJ(m): 8:38pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
You killed a fellow human being for 13 million naira. Nothing surprises me anymore.
Keep your successes to yourself because you can never know those who are really happy for you or envious and waiting for your downfall. |
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Events › Re: 9 Unrivaled Christmas Experiences In The 90s by UDUJ(m): 4:51pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Heineken: God go bless you boss. I respect you man... 07062516. 574 Done bro. Have a lovely weekend  |
Celebrities › Re: Meet Rolanda Rochelle, Liz Benson Lookalike (Photos) by UDUJ(m): 4:47pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
This is a perfect MILF  |
Crime › Re: Dead Babies Found In Refuse Dump In Calabar (Disturbing Photos) by UDUJ(m): 4:45pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Events › Re: 9 Unrivaled Christmas Experiences In The 90s by UDUJ(m): 4:44pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Heineken: Uduj baba I hail bro. How's today sir? Bro if you don't mind you fit help your boy also with mtn o. I'm down and my data is crying... Thanks boss Heineken baba I greet thee. What's the MTN mobile number? |
Sports › Re: Nneka Ede Buys Lusitano Ginasio Football Clube For An Undisclosed Fee by UDUJ(m): 3:58pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
sKeetz: 5th dividion football club  Where did you read 5th division football club? Some of you just jump to make comments without reading the post
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Family › Re: 3 Nice Girls. What Do I Do? by UDUJ(m): 2:52pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
And this made front page. Na wah  |
Politics › Re: Joy Nunieh Testifies Before House Of Representatives Committee by UDUJ(m): 2:50pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
ajl: Wasn't she married to four different men? Were these men paupers? It's worth investigating though. If only you guys know the kind of contracts and kickbacks that originates from the NDDC, then a mere mansion will not be the topic of discussion. We are talking billions and small contracts running into hundreds of millions of naira. The NDDC was created to alleviate the sufferings of the people from the Niger Delta region where this oil is gotten from but the opposite is the case. It's just an avenue for corrupt individuals to become super rich with nothing to show for it apart from useless projects like doing water boreholes or furnishing dilapidated primary and secondary schools |