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I am sorry to say this but here it goes: your girlfriend is a serial debtor and you cannot change her. The sooner you realise this the better for you before she puts you into insolvency.

It is in some people's DNA to owe. They buy everything without thinking about it. They already have outstanding debt but don't hesitate to owe someone else.

You can't change such people. You can continue the relationship if you like but just know that bankruptcy will soon move in and be your co-tenant.

Well I have no pity to waste on the woman.

All for social media clout and likes, smh

ursullalinda:
HBD to him.......the wife should always be mindful of her tongue to avoid stories that touch the heart.

I was scratching my head to understand why you made that statement, then I looked at the guy's physical size compared to that of his dimunitive wife then I understood what you meant

Las las she is still a woman like you, one day her mouth must still run once disagreement comes . The guy looks cool headed so she is safe

Mcslize and Otuamaka you guys should get a room, haba

I thank God I did not marry that girl.

I dodged a bullet

I could not concentrate on the video because of the buckets of delux paint she put on her face in the form of make up

tuwayz:
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Come on, don't tell me this letter is real

Damn

That is the height of irresponsibility.

Even if you are cheating, never ever take your side chic to your matrimonial home. No matter how bad you might feel your wife is. Never disrespect her that way.

It's stupid men that do that

punisha:
Long story short... Go out there and find love.
Then if u need oloshooo (man/woman) just ask around...there must be somebody who knows somebody that knows somebody that is an oloshooo.

Lmao at there must be somebody who knows somebody that knows somebody that is an olosho

Funny but true

Scammers everywhere, smh

This forum has gone to the dogs

donstan18:
Will heaven fall if you decline her request while you keep working for your boss?

Where do you both always meet that she keep requesting for sex? Do you chat with her?

I just don't get it, how about avoiding her?

It's either you don't have responsibilities to take care of which made you resign or you have slept with her and she's blackmailing you with it.

There's nothing like loyalty here.

Dman you are talking as if you don't know our Nigerian women.

As long as that guy keeps working there and at the same time keep refusing the woman's advances he is just playing with fire. A scorned woman can go as her as lying against the guy to her husband saying he raped her or made sexual advances to her. I have seen such happen and the innocent dude was locked up just because he rebuffed the woman's advances.

Fear women bro.

Twinkletwin17:
What is your email address sir

Just click send an email from my profile

Twinkletwin17:
I got banned from my old account that is why I created this one. I was reported and banned for no reason while seeking for help

I have gone through your previous posts in your former account. I hope you are no more suicidal? Life might be rough but you need to stay strong. Suicide is never the answer.

Do you have any qualifications? You can tell me in an email. No need to post it here. Send me an email with your account number. Cheers

Twinkletwin17:
I don't know if anyone can relate with this seriously not everyone are equal
Depression and suicidal thoughts and some illness doesn't show in your appearance sometimes.
Help those in need if you have you don't know how far a slight help or kindness you show to someone can save him.
I really need your help urgently.
I need assistance am dying inside. . Help can never be useful to a dead person please show love and care while you can still save someone.

So what is causing your depression? Is it financial or emotional?

And this is a new account

I have a problem believing anything coming from new accounts. They all scream SCAM SCAM SCAM

Go ahead and say what's causing your depression and let's see how we can be of help

I support jungle justice for armed robbers.

Those of you saying it's barbaric, wait till you experience the act of these armed robbers, that's if you even live to tell the tale.

Good riddance to rubbish

You guys even have the time to go through your girl's phones. It never ends well. I don't even bother.

I only consider a girl mine when she is in my house. Once she leaves my house I just zero my mind (she could be with anyone for all I care), after all I am not ready for marriage. Saves you all the heartache.

There are better things to worry yourself about. If you carry girlfriend matter for head you will just kill yourself for nothing.

EngineerBode:
Dating a lagos babe now is scary. Many of them are Oloshos with mental issues

That is how I carried one olosho girl. When we wanted to do the main thing, she was telling me she loves head. I was like "you want me to give you head". She said yes that she loves it so much. I said I would give her head on the condition that she returns the N15k I paid her for day break. Mad girls

Mgtowmonk:
them never born the olosho wey go ask me for head!!
Imagine the insult!

Skyfornia:
Engineer you fall my hand...15k for olosho?? When you can drive around yaba in the evening and get a neat babe to even spend weekend with you. Use 10k for entertainment during the weekend...besides, na both of you go enjoy the 10k. Believe me the babe go like come again next weekend.

Palema007:
Yea... I noticed. How are you doing? And the wedding? I read that somewhere sometime ago.

I got tired of it, this will be a temporary account too. Looking forward to overcoming Nl addiction and quitting for good.

At the boldfaced, wedding plans has to be halted. Not ready to make that lifelong commitment yet.

As for quitting nairaland , that's an addiction that's kinda difficult to do. I tried doing it so many times but keep opening the website involuntarily from time to time

Palema007:
So you are back. Thought you were G.odpunishUna.

How have you been?, this is RuthDaniels.

Hello Ruth. Yeah I am back. Took some time off from nairaland

So what happened to Ariza?

Just to be on a safe side the husband should carry out a DNA test.

Nobody should send me mentions, I am not feeling fine today

valemtech:
This Happened to me too bro women are bastards

I am so sorry to hear this. So what did you do once you found out?

Marriage is fast becoming uninteresting to bachelors like us these days with news like this

obasi101:
In d West (Lagos, ogun, Oyo, etc) you must match bread with beans... Making it a contemporary commodities for both



Btw... I still wonder why most nairalanders are too quick to use Emojis or irrelevant alphabets to rush and comment just to book space... Why pls??

At the boldfaced, they all want to be on the first page and get more likes and shares. It seems Seun gives them money for the most likes and shares. Just kidding , the act of booking space is just childish

NeduLuiZ:
Good day nairalanders,I guess this maybe the best section to post this,since this is where I visit most.
The pandemic has granted me an ironic freedom,so I decided to embark on a fitness challenge... It's to run for 60days and today been day 20 I've decided to carry my nairaland family along,who knows I might be inspiring others.


Constructive criticism is allowed!


Below is a picture for day1

Nice work on your upper body but you seem to forget LEG DAY

Nothing surprises me anymore

My brother Righteousness89 over to you

I am totally fed up with things going on in this cursed country

The illiterate youths are to be blamed. Imagine them exalting mediocrity

Cajoling a known thief and ex convict to go for presidency. There really was a country, smh

proclinician:
Next thing you'll see now these guys will call more men to come and push it back into the waters but here, the idiots will go get machetes. Are black people under a perpetual curse bikonu?

Even when the fish carcass is rotting and decaying they will still get their knives, cutlass and buckets to slice the rotting mass for cooking

Mo3891:




Why not weigh the Economic Benefits?

Fashola a Lagos man as a Minister of Works smartly deployed Federal resources to fully overhaul and repair 3rd Mainland bridge before 2023 this people are still complaining

What makes anyone so certain if we miss this opportunity through Fashola , a Fulani or Ibo next Minister of works would give a fvck about the bridge


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Your points are very valid. Sadly majority of Nigerians hardly think and just keep wailing on a daily basis

KaBabs1:
I bet it smells terribly too. I hate the smell of dead fish man, choi. That shi traumatizes me and reminds me of my past horrible sexcapades I'd long forgotten.

You just had to link the rotten fish smell with some of your past horrible sexcapades

Those must have been tough lessons learnt

oladikenie:
It's been quite sometime i read something funny and confusing around here. And i can't help but notice she's been off. Ilamina we miss you o

She is still very much around and very active. She even created another wonderful thread yesterday